Where can we find a third for our relationship?

My husband and I are looking for a third, where can we find people?
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Where can we find a third for our relationship?

Swingers bars, dating apps

Unicorn hunting… Yikes :grimacing: :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

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I feel like everyone should know the answer to this…… tinder! That’s all I could find on that app was couples🥴

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Wtf do this somewhere else

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You might find a third at an STD clinic, Goodluck :nauseated_face:

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Guessing hubs wants another girl

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Are you going to actually include them, as an equal, in your relationship? Or will they always be below y’all?
I’d really look into just swinging or having an open relationship if y’all just want a third for the sex.

Unicorn hunting is frowned upon

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Look for swingers groups on fb, kik, tinder, or just Google for your area… idk…

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Dating sites lol. They’re always messaging people looking for a 3rd. :roll_eyes:

Tinder, bumble, Facebook dating.

Good grief!!! Not trying to judge, but what does threesome hunting have to do with parenting. In my opinion this is not the place to ask this question.

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Don’t do it!!! Go get some sex toys and pretend it’s another person, you asking for a ruin relationship

Don’t yall think if it was SO inappropriate that the admins would not have approved it?? Yall judging someone for their personal choice but mean while you and/or your old man has a side piece.
Also as stated above everyone should know the answer to that is Tinder. :laughing::wink::woman_shrugging:t3:

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There is overwhelming statistical data that if you go through with this your relationship will be over in 2 years, so if the jungle drums are beating just split up now and shag someone new

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Sounds like you need God in this relationship!!!

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You go girl do you! If anything find girls that take to your hubby. Like if he has any girls that flirt with him message them together and say he’s got a girl but if she would be open to … best of luck

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Try the supermarket :upside_down_face:

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I don’t understand the hate on here about this question. There is nothing unhealthy or odd about this what century are some of you living in . No need for rudeness. From my experience depending on where u live swinger clubs can be scarce. Only in big cities. There are some fb groups worth looking into.

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I used to bartend for local swingers parties. They were private and by invite only, and they vetted the hell out of people, you couldn’t just get in to get party, they had all kinds of ways to make sure the person getting into there last was on the list, but anyways, look up swingers clubs and make sure they’re an actual swingers community. It’s not my taste, however these people were some of nicest, kindest individuals I’ve ever met. Just because you don’t agree with someone’s lifestyle, it doesn’t make them bad people. Good luck!! :grin:

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Pretty sure this isn’t the place to ask that

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sick sick get a life

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You mean your soon to be ex is looking for a 3rd.

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“Mama’s Uncut”… Here I was thinking this was a page for Mama’s to discuss parenting :sleeping:

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A lot of couples try dating apps. I know I’ve had more than a few message me before asking if I wanted to be third :sweat_smile: i personally never took them up on the offers, but ya know.

Why are you asking this question in a mom’s group :joy: Go make a damn TikTok like everyone else.

Probably in the trash where you belong

To each their own…if they want a threesome let them be!

Is this a mom’s page or a kinky swingers page.

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I know there are apps for it. My mom and her husband have tried a few of them

So, I was babysitting for a family before, they are swingers, and their app was open on their tv. Adult friend finder I believe the name was. Good luck :rofl:

Good luck with that! :joy:

It makes me sad how judgemental and rude some of these women are. If you aren’t into it, cool…who cares. She didn’t ask your your opinion on her and her husband’s sexual preferences…so if you can’t answer her question, why comment at all. So you can shame her based on your imaginary moral compass? It’s truly sad. No wonder so many kids are bullies, look at how their mothers behave.

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Ashley Rawls they need u :skull::skull::skull:

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Lol Craigslist ads :rofl::rofl:

Y’all are judgmental asf. Maybe they’re poly and wanting to expand their relationship. Just because y’all don’t have enough trust in your relationships doesn’t mean everyone else is the same

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I know ppl who have tried on dating sites, idk if they were successful or not

Why? I just don’t understand the poly life… I couldn’t even let that happen :no_good_woman::woman_shrugging:

Yuk, the Bible tells us one man and one woman. How simple is that.

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I would look on a dating sight! You’ll get judged to much here.

They should take the meaning to word Marriage out of the dictionary and replace it with Anything goes :joy:

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a great way to ruin a marriage

They have dating app for polyamorous people. My mom found her boyfriend on one but I’m not sure of the name. Also try a regular dating site and in the bio put poly in it.

What if your husband decides he likes your third better than you?