Why is my boyfriend acting this way?

Move back and le him live his life and you live yours!! Bug bye Asshole🙋🏼‍♀️

No girl: this is not a good guy at all. That is not support. That is not a good boyfriend at all. If you have the means to I would move out. If you think he would turn violent or act out I would do it while he’s at work so he can’t interfere. This is not a good situation for anyone to be in at all. You’re in my thoughts :heart:

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Move back to where you were. It’s not going to change

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Go back home honey they don’t change. Been dealing with similar situation for 15 years. Run while you can.

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Was he like this before you moved ? :thinking: or did he just get this way with the move ? Sounds like I’d have a come to Jesus meeting with him , and if still being nasty , run !

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He is a user, a tosser. Alarm bells if he started at you prior to your moving in. I sure hope you can find anywhere out of there. I read this:"I paid for the rent for the first month I got him new tires for his truck and I gave him 1000 dollars before our trip for whatever he needed it for I can’t remember he got angry when I asked said he’s tried of explning… " It is not Normal it’s not healthy. Please leave and start a new life for yourself.

Um you need away from this guy asap!

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Run to the nearest shelter for abused as that is what it is. I had to do that and wish I had done it sooner. People and funds are available to help.

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Go.home quickly, he sounds like a complete wanker

Where are you ?? You need to go home back where you were now.do not give him any more chances no,no,no you need to leave. Where are you and where do you need to be.???

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Oh I am so very sorry. This will never get better. Go back home to your parents. Asap

Leave immediately before he hurts you physically. He has already hurt you emotionally so get out now because it will get worse.

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Its called narcissism, he took you away from your family and friends and now he wants to isolate you and make you feel like you are too useless and worthless to get a job or friends and that he is your only help. Take what you can and get the hell out of that abusive relationship

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First thing is you better pray hard ! Next thing is you better get out ! For real !

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Go back home. He won’t change they never do. It just gets worse until he finally loses it and becomes physical with you. Speaking from experience please get out before something bad happens.

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You need to move back, like NOW! This is not normal. It will only get worse! If you stay, next he will start getting physical. Praying for you!

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Find someone who will treat you with respect and GET MARRIED!

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Go back home that is not normal behavior he is mentally and verbally abusive and will lead to physical abuse

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Pack up your stuff and go back where you came from like a ball of fire is chasing you. Maybe your previous job will hire you back, if not you’ll get another one. He used you and he will find another woman who is willing to believe his line of crap!! GET OUT NOW !!!

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Time to move on no one should treat you like that

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Go back to your family as soon as you can. Call someone to come get you…get the hell out of that

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Just because he hasn’t hit you this is still very very much abuse I think you no the answer has hard as it is and that is to get the fuck out you deserve better but only you can do the next step …you got this you are strong so take the next step forward and you will find you have people behind you … good luck with your

Next step to a beautiful life ahead

Go home. Using U. :bangbang::bangbang:

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Are yiu kidding me girl? Call your parents n fet the next plane he! He’s an fingggggg lover! DO.NOT I REPEAT DO NOT PAY FORV1 MORE THING OMGGGGHH!

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He’s abusing you, even if he hasn’t put his hands on you - YET! Do what you can to get money so you can leave. Sell some of your stuff if you have to. Legitimately worried for you.
You are enough. You are loved. You are divine! Don’t let him tell you otherwise.

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There is no such thing as “tough” love. He either loves you or not and I have walked away from a couple of those. Don’t think that your love for him can change him, he is a grown man. Anyway, it is up to you but don’t say you were not warned. As my Dad said to me when I started dating, "pick a good one because ‘leopards don’t change their spots’. It took me a few false starts but I finally found him. All the best to you.

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Take the next bus home …
Run.run run

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Honestly move back to where you were try to get a job because if he started doing this as soon as you moved he’s thinking because you have no one he can treat you whatever way he wants now run and run fast

Run like your life depends on it! Because it will never, ever get better.

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Good advice, take it

Head for home. You don’t need that kind of abuse.

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Cut your losses go back to those who care about you!

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My heart goes out to you. Been where you are. It’s only going to get worse. Get out why you still can. In my thoughts and prayers.

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Why are you staying ??? It will NEVER get better. Repack everything and go home !!! Or anywhere else !!! Fleeeee!! Get away before he hurts you. Call the job you just left and ask for it back !!!

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Get out, call friends from the town you lived in before you move. Ask for help. Or call local police.

You have to leave him. He is mentally abusing you. This isn’t normal! No MAN should EVER talk to you like that!

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It will only get worse. Leave now!! That is not love. The few crumbs he throws once in awhile is not worth your time!
He will say he’s sorry but the behaviour will continue. He is USING YOU!!

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Dump him now go back home don’t be around him don’t walk run run fast

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Seems like he’s alienating/isolating you. Manipulating you into believing he’s all you have. Honestly, I would leave before it gets even worse. Definitely not “normal” for a
Man to act that way, No. You deserve better, get out while you
Can.

1st of all if his your BF. Go back to where ya from & get a job & you’ll have your friends. Never move with a BF. If he moved because of his job. He’ll always mistreat you & degrade you. You can do it on your own cause you sure dont need him. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t be taking to you that way. So pack up & leave. His a big head Ahole. He’ll eventually break up with you. Then where will you do or go? Try to get a job & save what you can to leave. Believe me, you need to RUN FAR AWAY FROM HIM. God Bless you. I’ll pray for you sweety. :pray:

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That’s verbal & mental abuse which will turn into physical abuse. Get out now! Go back home and don’t even tell him your leaving. Go when he is at work. That way you get out safely. If you tell him it could get violent very quickly or he could try to convince you that he is doing this for your own good. And turn everything around and you will become the guilty person. They never take the blame for anything!

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Run for your life. If you have done all that and he talked fo you that way. He’s a narcissistic

Catch a train back to where you came from. I prayed you’ll leave before it get worst

Dump the luggage. You deserve much better

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You really have to ask this question?

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It’s called emotional abuse. He got you away from your family now he is tearing you down. Don’t take it.

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He’s showing you how he really feels about you, go back home while you still can, don’t try talking it out first just go and if you need closure talk later.

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Go home before it’s to late and he alienates you from your family. He is a dominate and wants to tear you down. God loves you and does not want you to live this way. Bless you remember your prayers.

Leave him. He want. Change he don’t. Deserve agood lady like you

I would love to have agood. Woman like you . darling

Get rid of him.it won’t change .go to places to meet friends and even church.it maybe hard but u got to do it

It only gets worse! Go home!

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He’s going to continue to break you down more and more until you believe the things he’s saying to you it’s called a narcissist they don’t change he found his next victim (you) he’s going to work on your weakness you need to try to get back home it’s only gonna get worse :smiling_face_with_tear:

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Walk away……don’t look back…

Go home to your family. He’s showing you his true colors. It’ll only get worse.

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Uh. NO. Plus tuff love is for teenagers not your partner. He’s not your dad. Maybe he’s just a dick.

Get out and leave now. You deserve bettee

Leave him! You deserve much better than him. Tough love is not belittling someone. A good partner builds you up not tears you down. He will only get worse from here on out. Save yourself, and leave.

Sounds like he’s been using you to get what he wants. Pack your bag and go.