This is where you have to hold it together act the same as you have been the whole time and the first chance you have a couple hrs you know he’s gone you run, pack a small unnoticeable bag keep it somewhere safe and go don’t worry about your belongings you’d be surprised how quick that will all come back to you , but your self worth and everything he will take takes a long to come back if at all. Next wk he’ll say something horrible and test the waters of “accidently” pushing you and it is just a down hill life of mental, physical, possibly even sexual abuse from there till you are nothing but a shell of your former self convinced its not so bad and that you Need him, if you were just better he wouldnt have to… Sounds drastic but I speak from experience and have spent over 20 yrs fighting to get myself back , in 2 paragraphs you described all the signs and steps these men take. Get out get back to your supports , don’t contact for any reason and be thankful you don’t have children w this man. You deserve so very much more.
Yes go home and run!!! And I’m sure if you call your old job they will rehire you especially if you were a great worker. You deserve better not to be treated like this
get out as soon as you can, he will knock your confidence you will become a doormat…take your losses, shame on him but shame on you if you let it happen again…go…he,s a control freak.
Leave now…go back home…you need your support team and he’s not it.
He moved you away from your support system and is abusing you. You must leave because no matter what you do, it will never get better.
Cut your losses and go back home. He is a jerk. Maybe your job will take you back and if not find another job and another guy.
Your answer is in your question. You have no family or support group there. Now he can treat you like he wants to unless you stand up for yourself or leave and go back home. Don’t let him tear you down. Stay strong.
The advise I would give you is to leave and move back where you came from.
leave him, by the sound of it your not settled in yet!-but before u do go back to where u came from- i’m sure that u will be much happier there and just may find happiness there
Leave! He will only get worse!
Leave now, He is an abuser and a taker.
Get the first bus outta there sweetheart. He’s using you, so shut the purse and go to some place nice and start over.
Get out. He’s a control freak and it will only get worse because he has you away from your support of family & friends
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Bugger off as quickly as you can sounds horrible person you deserve better also you sound kind and generous
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Yes move back home without him.
Get out now he is toxic
Dump him. Go home. See if you can get your old job back ( if you liked it). Or get a better job. Go back to school. And whatever you do don’t listen to his b…s…!
He’s a user and an abuser. Don’t waste any more of your precious time on him.
Simple answer, DUMP THE JERK
Get out as soon as you can
Go home to your parents or family now! Psyco’s isolated you from your family to gain control. Check your local women’s refugee. Call your family and all for a bus ticket home. Call your old work and see if you can get your job back. Get out before it’s too late, things won’t change until you do
Did he act this way before the move? Was there red flags you were refusing to see? The fact that he has lost respect for you because you are bending over backwards and jumping through hoops for him says it all. Do you realize your worth? Do you realize if it weren’t for you he wouldn’t have been able to move to maintain said job.? Are you aware that you are more valuable than you realize? Simply because you love him isn’t enough to stay in this type of situation where you are not a priority or even appreciated let alone valued. Know your worth! know that if it wasn’t for you he wouldn’t be there nor have first months rent. Stop valuing him over your self. Stop allowing him to trample all over your worth. You’re a QUEEN and I believe YOU FORGOT THAT! Reclaim your worth, your value and know what you deserve, rise up and either let him know he needs to respect you and be in the relationship 110% or get the F out and you do you. Whether its headed back home alone or staying there alone looking for a job or if he wises up with him understanding and knowing your worth with the clarity he needs to shape up or go. You are strong rise up and be the strong QUEEN we all know you are. Don’t allow anyone to lessen your worth. No matter how much you love them, you need to love yourself more.
Go back home- it’s only Gina get worse!!!
So why move across country… go back home he is clearly not worth it
I would talk to him about this. He needs to be a better communicater as to what his problem is. He either is super stressed and taking it out on you or didn’t want you to move out there with him. Either way his behaviors are completely unacceptable. Your not useless or lazy, and if so that sure didn’t stop him from taking your help did it? He needs to man up and talk to you in a respectable truthful manner. Don’t let anyone treat you this way. If he’s doing this now and won’t communicate then it’s won’t get better. Sit down and talk to him. Sometimes traveling and moving can bring out the worst in people. Good luck to you. Wishing you the best!!!
Run while u still can
If he was like that prior to you moving, did you not think that maybe he didn’t really want you to move with him?
You have 3 options
1 Stay with the prick who is probably going to keep treating you badly and will no doubt get worse.
2. Return home to your family.
3. Find a job, move out as soon as you can. ( once you have a job, you’ll meet people and make friends) never know you may even meet a real man that will treat you like you deserve
Get out give him the receipt for the tires & get your money back give him a taste of his own medicine be mean & hateful to him. So sorry your going thru this BS with this jerk go home!!!
When you move in with someone, that’s when you see their true colors. Sounds like this is who he was all along and you just didn’t know it. Abuse starts verbally, and just escalates from there. Leave before it escalates. Set up your own things in secret. Call your old job and be honest and ask if you can get it back. Be honest with your family and friends. Although it is across the country, I would go around the world to save someone I love from abuse. They can come get you. And never talk to this man again.
Leave him but before you do grab a pan and knock some sense into the guy and tell him stop being a b!#@h to you. Tell him f#@k you
Move back home and forget his ass. You deserve better
Agree with all of these… it will NOT get better. As women, it is in our nature to want to fix things or figure out what WE do wrong when in fact sometimes is ISNT us. It’s THEM. And it takes some people many many years to come to terms with that and… if necessary walk away.
Go home he shouldn’t treat you like that
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He’s either got another woman (or man) or he’s been using you. Get out now, and go back home. It may cost you money, but you need to be safe!
Go back home and don’t look back .
Stop taking the verbal abuse. Leave without him knowing. Go back home. Be safe
You made a mistake. He wanted your money and not you. Get out.
Maybe he took the job to get out of the relationship and start over on his own. I’d tell him to give back the money for whatever you foot the bill for so you go home where you’re not spoken to or treated the way he does to you. That’s verbal abuse and you don’t deserve it.
Leave him and move on
Run, run as fast as you! Don’t look back, things will not change! Come back home to your friends and family!!
Get out NOW!! He’s showing you who he is ! It won’t get better!! Wishing you the best❤️
Rent, tires and $1,000 and he´s like this !? Clearly, he is using you! He got what he wanted so he has no use for you anymore. He does not love you. Leave him!
Why? Why would you quit a job and move for this child? None of this was new stuff he was doing. He’s been rude and taking from you for long before you moved. What honestly made you think it was a good idea to still go?
Man. People really need to stop with that outlook “maybe it’ll get better after this”.
You could lose your life for holding onto that assumption & picking the wrong person.
Kick his ass to the curb
Go home he don’t love you. Please don’t let him treat you that way. I will pray for you.
Go back home leave him there and let him abuse his job that he made you move over there for
If this was a recently gone into relationship…never move this quick, this happened to a friend of mine she left a great job after 3 months of dating a guy and when they moved 3 hours away from her home and in together…he kicked her out about a month later left her home less with no transportation either…Take this is a learning example and never let a man get you in this kind of position again. Especially so soon.
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Run you’re being abused!!
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Get out of there. Now. It will not get better.
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Leave him! It will only get worse over time!
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Call your last job and see if your position is still open and ask for it back. You were used luv. Remove him from your life like the cancerous cell mass that he is. You are strong enough to do this!!
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Go back home by yourself.
Leave as soon as possible.
Coming from a girl that moved 15 hrs from family for a guy years ago Get Out Now! This is a major red flag. Moving alone is not but add in the nasty behavior towards you and it spells disaster. Please do not let anyone treat you like this. Get out before it gets worse. No one should ever treat another human like this.
That is not normal. Those are sign of strong rage and agression. Please get out now before you become attached and don’t want to leave.
Don’t walk but run as fast as you can away from this bum.
Call your family and see if what they can do to help get you back home and leave you boyfriend asap. No one deserves to be treated like this.
he probably moved to get rid of you and it didnt work so he is pissed. dump the a hole and make a better life for yourself
tell him you want the money back and say bye
Move where you have family and friends. His actions is not of love.
Go back home now. He got your away from everything and everyone so now he is in control and it will only get worse
Go home. Now. It won’t get any better.
Tell him tough lv aint working for u and if he dnt sort himself out u will move bk
Get out of there now!!!
Get out! Will only get worse.
Simple. Pack up and move home.
He is a mental, verbal and soon to be physical abuser. This is how they start. Isolate you from family and friends, criticize you constantly, tear down all self respect and esteem you have and believe me it is only going to get WORSE!!! Get out as soon as you can. You are in danger.
Get out of it before he becomes a real Dick
get out now before you get child involved
Those are small issues that he shouldnt be upset about. You need to RUN. Move out quickly and move on with your life. It will get much worse otherwise and damage who you are for a long time.
Get the fuck out and don’t look bacj
Leave. He’s a bully and if he’s doing this to.you your in for a very bad relationship. You deserve so much better.
Get a job save up and leave back home he’s toxic
I will be like deuces , know your Worth honey because this not it.
Why would you stay and take so much abuse get out run go back home to your family
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Get out walk away call someone from home and vanish and don’t look back the way he treating you are all red flags save yourself.
Run forest run!!! Control freak???!!
Besides the Elizabeth James crap going on in the background , not one of the 1.8k comments is telling you ’ Hey girl , sit your man down and talk it out " There’s a reason everyone is telling you to run like a bat from hell, YOU deserve better and not wait around and think things will get better. Doesn’t matter if you got no family or job right now , you need to trust and have faith that you will get through it on your own . All the best to you.
Sounds like you gave, he took and now that you have nothing else to give he’s making your life miserable. Is the rent in your name? If not then you might want to start making plans to leave. This is verbal abuse. You can try talking about it to him, but it sounds like you already have. If he was being nasty before you moved that was a warning that things were not going well. If you have family you that can help, might want to stay with them and have a cooling off period. Definitely do not get pregnant, it will only add to your problems. Best wishes
You need to gtfo. I would go down on you 24/7 if you did all that stuff for me. He’s a fuckin moron and deserves to be alone. Edit: Sorry for the “bluntness”.
Uh if he can’t be your support system when you uprooted your life to be with him, I’d be trying to make my way back home
Explain your on your own, he’s all you’ve got there and if he’s going to make you feel even more alone it isn’t good for your mental health and have to get back home. That’s abusive.
He is up to no good. Get rid of him. Give him no money so you will have cash to run back to where you were before. Be safe.
Run as fast as u can. This is emotional abuse it won’t get better and the faster u leave the better. No it is not normal.
Run like you have wings on your feet