My ex was like that but he was the one cheating for 8 years
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Honey, there is something seriously wrong with this man. You need to run as fast as you can and never look back.
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My concern for you is when is this going to turn physically violent. What happens the first time you donāt give him your phone or you donāt make it home at a certain time. This is not about you it is about him and complete control of ever situation. Trust and respect in a relationship is very important and you are receiving neither. Do you really want your children to live in this situation and see him treat you that way. Break the cycle now before your children grow up and treat another this way or allow someone to treat them this way because mom did. He needs helpā:+1:
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No itās not healthy. He goes and gets help or you leave.
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Heās cheatingā¦ thatās why
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If he doesnāt already, he will get physical. You already know this isnāt normal or healthy. Leave or donāt.
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Itās either a mental illness that had delusions (bipolar disorder for example) or heās cheating
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To put it simply heās a raving nut case. Run!
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Heās the one cheating!
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You need to get away before you end up on I.D channelā¦that possessive ,controling behavior often leads to your family having to plan a funeral. It doesnt matter the āwhyā of his behaviorā¦get out
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Heās not going to change! He wants control & itās only going to get worse! Get out while u can!
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Heās prob cheating on you
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Holy shit hiding under the bedš® you better get out, thatās shit you hear on true crime stories
Is he cheating ? Guilty conscience?
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That would drive me mad! He has something to hide.
The accusers are usually the guilty ones, I would be checking his phone and packing his crap
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More than likely he is the one cheating. If heās already doing these things then it will only get worse from here, most likely will turn violent. Gaslighting, controlling, manipulating are all the major red flags. My advice would be to leave asap. Whether you take anyoneās advice is up to you though.
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You know this isnāt right!!!
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I would recommend trying to get him in therapy maybe start with couples therapy.
You donāt look under the bed unless youāve been there.
That is so not normal and very creepy
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He is the one cheating. So he is paranoid that you are doing the same
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Maybe hes the one cheatingā¦ Js blamin u to feel better bout himselfā¦ Been there. Happened
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No.
Thatās not healthy.
You should run.
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He behaves like that cos he probably cheating on youā¦
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This is not healthy at all. Usually when someone acts like this, itās because theyāre the guilty ones. Even if he isnāt doing anything, this is incredibly invasive and controlling behavior. I would not personally be with someone like this.
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Run. Grab your kids and run.
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All of a sudden??? Ppl judge by their own standards. Iād keep an eye on him myself.
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Heās cheating dude. Usually first signs is them being overly insecure and assuming youāre doing things your not
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That is not normal! Who tf hides under a bed to see what someone is doing?!!! That sounds like a fxkn stalker!
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Not healthy at all. Not only he needs to get intense therapy. But for your own good you should do it too. .
Your a nut case for staying with
Seems like he is pointing fingersā¦ he might be the one cheating
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Sweetie run like hell get out n dont look bak first of all the cheater does wat he thinks ur doing . N as for creepingvin my ex used to do the same to me n he got violent with me whick i was the one home n he used to b out all hrs of the early morn.
That is absolutely not healthy at all. Usually the one doing the accusing, and him going to that extent, is the one thatās cheating.
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that is fucking weird dude 
Hiding under the bed? That fool is crazy
Not nirmal at allā¦run girl!!!
This is terrifying actually. Super stalkerish. His mental health isnāt okay at all. I would start making a plan to get away and take the kids personally. I doubt he is willing go get help.
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Woahhhh thatās creepy af
No thatās not normal. Not in the slightest. Thatās narcissistic behavior, and youāre going to get hurt by him. Find a way to get away from him IMMEDIATELY. the accusing you of cheating could be that heās cheating and blaming you so he doesnāt get caughtā¦ but the sneaking back into the house and hiding in the house to listen in on you is creepy as HELL.
Chelsey Hawkins-Woltz ew lol
All of that is a hard nope for me. Heās projecting his insecurities onto you. The stalker-ish behavior is a mega red flag. Find a way to get the hell out of that house. This is not a safe situation at all.
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You need him gone heās not normal
Toxic when you donāt have trust you have nothing leave.
Heās a narcissist. Usually the ones accusing, is the ones cheating.
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Not healthy at all. All ted flags and weird . Get out of there his behavior is way beyond trust issues and normal its going get worse
My kids Dad used to put a tape recorder under my seat. When I had to drop kids off at school and go to work. He never found anything cause I was 100% loyal. Turns out he was the cheater & really abusive to me. I threw him out & filed for divorce. What a psycho
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Have you cheated before?
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He needs help. Majorly. That isnāt normal. I know someone who has major trust issues and he donāt do this. He just accuses and gets pissed.
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Usually a sign of a guilty conscience. Was for us in my last marriage ā¦. He was being real shady but pouring through my phone and Facebook.
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No, itās normal and itās not healthy. Hiding under someoneās bed to catch them cheating? Thatās not okay. If you arenāt giving him reasons to not trust you, then he needs to come to grips with his own insecurities. Most people are going to jump to the conclusion that heās acting out on a guilty conscious, This is not always the case. He may have had lovers in the past that cheated, he may have grown up in a home where mom or dad cheated-the possibilities are endless but they are causing a problem in your relationship now. Suggest marriage counseling to help him cope with his trust issues and if he needs to see a therapist on his own, so be it. If you are working on your relationship then you need to keep working to resolve it, together.
Because heās currently or did it before. Now he thinks if he hid it well, you must be doing it too.
He is guilty of something.
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Probably because he already is cheating!
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It will get worse. Control freak. It could turn into physical abuse
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No itās not healthy and honestly, I wouldnāt put up with it. Heās so dead set on you cheating heās gonna hide under your bed? Nah fam. Walk away.
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This is stalkingā¦ not healthy at allā¦ Iād be scared to sleep in same bed or house with misterā¦ that means he watches me while I sleepā¦ even tries to invade my dreams
This is toxicā¦ no trust means no relationshipā¦ Iād be uncomfortable around mister. Fraid to even breatheā¦
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Run run run. That guy is crazy. Who tf hides under a bed to see if youāre cheating? Tf?
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Counseling if you want it to work Trust is important in a relationship
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No mine was doing all that stuff after 22 years of me being faithful to him he got up went to work one day 5days later he was in a new relationship with a women on facebook watch your back
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Time to get out itās only going to get worse believe me. He will stalk you and may hurt you
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Sounds like heās got you so concerned over proving your not cheating that HE HAS PLENTY OF TIME TO CHEAT ! IF THERE IS NO TRUST , THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP!!
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Paranoia, I have a family member whoās been like this since kids 
therapy is a start , but itās a long road behind it
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He is definitely guilty. Go through his phone and things. See what you come up with. Then lose him cuz no one needs that toxicity.
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A man this insecure is a sign heās not a man. If I was you bail as soon as possible this activity always ends badly. Men (using this term lightly) who have this kind of delusional ideas that everyone his wife meets sheās sleeping with is only trying to justify his future actions. It also shows a total lack of self confidence mixed with narcissist ideas. Run or prepare to defend yourself. Please choose a action while you still have a choice but either way leave him in the rearview of life.
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Girl, runā:joy:
he has way done crossed the line hiding under the bed
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Hell no thatās not healthy he needs counseling and help with his insecurities which is not your job to fix
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the one accusing the other of cheating is usually the one doing the cheating.,
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Because he probably is.
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Maybe heās on drugs.?
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No that is not normal or healthy in anyway! Run 
dont walk away!
Noooo!!! This is not normal!!! That is the behavior you see on a murder mystery , when itās no longer a mystery.
Wow thats fucking CRAZY
You have seen the news about gabby petito donāt be the next victim
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You already know itās not healthy or acceptable. What is wrong with women these days. Maybe Iām just old fashioned
no, get the kids and go as far away as possible,he sounds very mentally unstable. Iām married 45 yrs, I wouldnāt put up with his crap. My parents had a toxic marriage and it wasnāt repeating with me
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Girl leave thatās how narcissistic people are run away from that dude before something happens itās only going to get worse!!!
Because he is insecure about losing you. Explain to him that the stuff heās doing is going to make you cheat if he doesnāt stop
He is cheating and he canāt believe heās getting away with it. He canāt believe you arenāt doing it too! He has to make sure you arenāt doing it too. If heās keeping tabs on youā¦ you might think itās sweet heās so worried about losing youā¦ when in fact heās worried about you catching him. Confront him. Throw all the possibilities out there and TALK about it. Because this is the kind of stress that only kills YOU in the end. God bless.
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Normally when a person acts like that itās because they are guilty of what they are accusing you of and no itās not healthy.
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There so many fish in the sea. The grass is only greener if you are. Work on yourself and kids. He needs therapy.
He or you cheated already. Thatās not normal behavior.
Not healthy at all. Seek counseling and try to get some understanding of whatās at the root of his trust issues.
Sorry to say heās the suspect.If heās checking your moves then you already know heās covering up his moves.
Sounds like projecting to me. Heās probably cheating on you.
Sounds like either severe paranoia or projection.
From personal experience, it starts just like this with the jealousy and turns physical. Get out now.
Did you cheat that made him this skeptical of your relationship? Obviously this man has serious issues.
A grown man hid under the bed 
how did you not piss yourself laughing. Joke man needs to get a grip
Nope not healthy, he needs therapy to work in trust issues
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Itās because someone that he loved alot hurt him by been unfaithful to him and he can not forget it
Gaslighting. He has been doing it but saying you are to deflect
He is probably cheating or thinking about it !
A dangerous situationā¦best to just leaveā¦these things never end well
Guilty conscience or insecure AF
Hes probably cheating and making you feel sorry for him by making out heās paranoid and mentally unstable. Typical guilty behaviour. Heās also controlling you so why would you let this fly over your head, you may have feelings for this man but this man is acting like a baby afraid of being caught with a sharpie.
I think you know this isnāt normal or healthy.
Time to see a lawyer.
Hiding under the bed. I mean wtaf!! X