The grass only looks greener because it’s fertilized with B.S.
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Will I be happier if I leave my relationship for someone else?
Honestly, if you’re even tempted to leave your current relationship for another one; it’s time to end your current relationship regardless.
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Me. He is the love of my life! If you aren’t happy, be mature & care enough for you & the other person to find their soulmate. You both deserve to be happy. Let them go.
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While I am a huge advocate for making the choices you know will make you happy. If you choose to leave PLEASE PLEASE do it as delicate and graceful as possible.
I know someone who is going through this and I promise you, it isn’t easy.
Leave your situation with as much love as possibly can. Be kind towards the other persons hurt and anger and most importantly, show respect to how they choose to heal.
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Me. I was in a relationship for a couple years and i guess i was never truly in love, and did meet someone else that i felt like i wanted to keep talking too. So i ended it with my boyfriend, and he took it very hard and that was awful to hurt him. It didn’t work out with the other guy because he ended up moving away but i was happy with him. So if you ever have feelings for someone else, you need to end it with the other one to just be fair to them
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I was with my son’s dad for two years. We decided on a baby very fresh into our relationship. Afterwards I realized his priorities were elsewhere. Good father, not a good dad kinda thing? Anyway, I left for the sake of myself. I learned myself and did things that made me feel happier. I watched my son grow.
Then one day, boom the man who loves me FOUND ME. It took me by surprise but we’re going on two years on the 10th and I feel free with him.
The point here is leave for yourself and not anyone else. Focus and if something happens it happens
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If you’re so unhappy where you are then get out. It doesn’t matter what life would be like anywhere else. Obviously you’re not happy"enough" where you are …the grass is not always greener on the other side.
I believe you need to be happy with yourself first. So find who you are and how you want life to be from here on out and leave others out of it until you do.
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Trust me on this one. The grass in not always greener on the other side. If your husband is good to you I would take the known over the unknown every time.
Whether you chose the other person or not who cares but you should absolutely let the person your with go, they deserve happiness and respect, they don’t deserve to be treated as a safety net until you find some one new.
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Humans always want what they don’t have.
Don’t trade trust and comfort for a flash in the dark
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If you’re in a relationship with someone whilst talking to someone else, you shouldn’t be in a relationship. It’s a form of cheating. If you’re not happy, just leave, don’t look for someone else before you do.
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It’s not fair to your partner to be emotionally cheating, the best thing to do is break it off because no one deserves to be in the dark not knowing what their partner is doing behind their back, it may not be physical cheating, but it’s still cheating and just as damaging. To me, it sounds like you need time to heal and love yourself, there’s nothing wrong with being single so you can find who you are and love yourself. We change through life from 16-30’s and on. But what i will say is, i have seen this happen, and said person tried to come back later on when they realized no one else could fulfill the void they thought they had but the damage was done and that bridge was long gone. Now if you really do not love your partner like you thought you did, gently break it off, but the truth always comes out so it’s best to tell them that you have been seeking emotional connection from someone else (otherwise it will get to the other person via word of mouth or your ex will find out and tell them etc). The main point is, don’t ever cheat, it hurts you and everyone involved, spend some time for you and reflect on needing the emotional satisfaction from an outside party, so the same situation doesn’t happen again and hopefully nothing bad happens i.e. angry partner, rumors etc.
People can’t make you happy,you have to choose that yourself.people aren’t perfect,although some things shouldn’t be looked over like disrespect.Maybe you should try being alone and meditation 
You are asking for a fortune teller! First of all end your present relationship. It’s not fair to the other person for you to even be asking for such childish advice! It’s obvious you are just using the person you’re with as a safety net. A relationship should be 2 caring and honest with each other people! Grow up!
I have and it saved me and my kids from any more abuse
It’s really unhealthy to jump from man to man. Break up, give yourself a little time to heal before jumping into a new relationship.
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Relationships ebb and flow. Sometimes you have to work through the low points to get to the highs. Never leave for someone else. Leave because the relationship you’re in isn’t true.
Grass isnt always greener on the other side…know someone who did something like that. Now shes unhappy and beaten. Too scared to leave. Its a sad situation.
Just tred careful. You may be leaving heaven for hell.
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If u make the move grass is not always greener on the othe side
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. My ex left for another woman but after he married her he was more unhappy then he was before we divorced. If you have a good relationship and there is no abuse you best stay with what you have.
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Personally I think it’s unhealthy to go from guy to guy. If you’re not happy in your relationship separate and give yourself some space and time to grow as an individual and then look for a spouse
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You’re just jumping from bed to bed 
… Sounds like u don’t know what u want !
The grass is always greener on the other side when you don’t water and take care of your own.
Our baggage from one relationship tends to follow us and dbl with each attempt to “be happier”.
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You will never be happy with anyone until you learn how to love yourself. Trying to put the power of your happiness in someone’s else’s hands is the reason you won’t ever stay happy.
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You’ve gotten into the relationship lull, and don’t feel the butterflies. Now is the next stage in your relationship and you are either scared to move forward or you just chase the butterfly feeling. Figure out what you want to do as in just jump into new relationships because you want the butterflies or a relationship that both work together on.
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I did and the other guy turned out to be abusive trash and i had knowen him since we were kids and never knew he was capable of that so just be careful and always watch.
From experience, I thought the grass was greener on the other side, turns out it was painted to look that way. I’m still trying to figure my way out of this mess I got myself into. Be careful. You never really know someone.
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Beware of destinational happiness. If you aren’t happy in your current relationship, you probably won’t be happy in the next one.
The grass is greener where its watered.
The grass is only green where you water it. Sorry.
How did someone grab your attention like this if you’re in a relationship? That sits funny with me, if my SO did that, it would be cheating. So technically, you’re cheating. Let your SO go, explain what happened, and maybe work on yourSelf for a little.
If you’re not happy with your spouse, then LEAVE. Doesnt matter if you’re leaving to be with someone else or to be alone. Do yourself and your spouse the favor and breakup.
Only in my dreams 
The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Water your own grass and watch it grow. Best advice i can give.
If you love the man you’re with now but find happiness elsewhere you have to ask yourself if you really love your current companion and you need something he isn’t giving you (and that can be worked on) or if you’re not in love with him and need to move on. Regardless, you don’t need to entertain another while still with one. End it or water your grass but do not have both at the same time. You also have to think that maybe the draw (to your new man) is the fact that you’re something he isn’t supposed to have. Will his demeanor change once you’re single? Will he want to pursue more serious with you? Will he still give you that happiness he gives you now?