I feel like if you she is struggling buying 1 pair of super expensive shoes wpuldnt be the best option, I would get packs of nappies, wipes, clothes do a bundle of gifts if your willing to spend a bit i feel like it would be much more appreciated although the shoes may be super cute they outgrow shoes within a few weeks and then they would be sitting there gaining dust being a waste x
Just ask her . Say I found some cute shoes your kid might like what do you think? Worse she can say is no
Personally i would return the shoes and do a gift basket for mom and baby. Something mom could use to relax when she has the time. Candle, coffee, wine, etc. Through in diapers, wipes, book and toy for baby. Add a card offering supportive shoulder to lean on. Show her youâre thinking of them, there to help and make sure sheâs not feeling overwhelmed.
Listen to your husband. You may well be able to afford the shoes but mom is going through emotionally and financially. Your intentions may be sincere but if Iâm trying to keep my child fed those shoes would only serve to remind me what I canât do for my childâŠOn the practical side I think purchases like this for children are ridiculous. In 2 months he will out grow them and if she sells them you gone have an attitude. If you want to help start buying savings bonds for his future.
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If sheâs going through a very expensive divorce, she needs financial help. I would personally get a gift card so she can use it towards things she actually needs. Like Walmart for example.
One year old will grow out of those shoes in 1 month. Itâs a waste.
If you can afford Gucci toddler shoes that wont fit I several months itâs a waste of your money. Take that money and spend it on the sister. She will remember your kindness toward her during this difficult time. Ten years from now itâs not going to matter how much you spent on a pari of rando shoes.
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Best way around any hurt feelings. It shouldnât bother you then, gift them to the mom, let her be the one to give them to her little boy. Never tell anyone they were from you. 
Oh dear. Take whatever money you were going to spend on shoes not needed because a baby canât walk and buy lots of diapers, baby food, wipes, etc. Any mom that canât afford Gucci shoes would greatly appreciate the necessities.
I would just appreciate them đ€· but some people are weird. Kid isnât even old enough to know they are expensive or who paid for them. Also though with that being said 1 year olds feet grow really fast so maybe a bit of a waste
Sure gift her the shoes then she can return the for money and other thingâs she needâs
Itâs a great idea, return the shoes tell her you bought the shoes but then you changed your mind and thought it would be better to buy tickets to a Zoo or somethiñg age appropriate in your Ă rea so the three or four (if you can get your husband to go) of you can go and she can have a break from all the headaches you guys can take pictures and make great memories. The baby will outgrow the shoes in a month but the pictures will last a lifetime
You said expensive divorce. See needs all the money she can get.
If you wonât give her money, her son in those shoes may make her helper feel she has more than enough.
Donât get a 1yr old Gucci shoes no matter how well off someone is. Kids either A. Grow so fast heâll be Changing sizes soon or B. Kids get things dirty and ruin your âwhatever priceâ Gucci shoes. Get simple memorable things. He doesnât know what Gucci is.
Give him diapers instead. He would get more use out of them. How many babies do you see wearing expensive shoes. They would be more comfortable with no shoes,
TAKE him for an over nighter and give her a breather. She might appreciate that more. I think your just being nice but If its your husbands sister he knows her best and you should probably follow his lead. Plus The husband my use it against her if they are that expensive.
I wouldnât care if someone was getting my kids something I couldnât afford
Potentially piss the parents off for shoes the kid will be able to wear for 3 weeks How about a toy he can use more than once?
Buying any 1 year old Gucci shoes is a complete waste of money.
What a stupidly expensive gift for a 1 year old. Take that money and start a college fund so you arenât pissing your money away.
No need for Gucci shoes !! Put that money into a bank acct that he can use for college !!
What lil kid needs Gucci shoes?! Seriously. Get them something useful. Not BS gucci
Thatâs why is called a gift, expensive or not itâs the thought that counts- do what makes your heart happy - 
I think itâs perfectly fine and very thoughtful
Check with mom!!! If your even half sure, check with mom.
Just a simple pair of cute shoes would be better
what the hell would a one year old do with gucci shoes ridiculous
Itâs ok to buy them if you can afford them.
Even though you can afford it this is just plain stupid for anyone to get a child. Children donât give a fuck about brands until their parents do. That one year old doesnât need Gucci anything. No child does. You wanna help offer to help financially or take her out for a girlâs day and take her mind off shit.
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