Quick question mamas Would you be mad if your bff didn’t invite you to her birthday party ?
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Absolutely !! If other friends were invited. If it was just family etc nah that’s her thing
If other friends were invited but not me then i would really reconsider our friendship, but if was a family thing or maybe someone invited her out then nah shes good haha.
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My mama always said “You don’t go where you’re not invited.” Take it for what it is and move accordingly.
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It might depend on who is organising the party.
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That’s happened to me. But her family hates me so they chose not to invite me
Yes …I would… we suppose to be best friends!!! If it’s just an intimate family get together… I wouldn’t bother… but if it’s other friends and not me… Then I’m angry… & time to realise she might be my bff…but I sure ain’t hers…
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I always invite myself to my birthday 
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If you was not invited to the party then, clearly you are not her BEST friend. Just saying. Move on
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That ain’t your friend girl
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Maybe give the whole story.
There is clearly a reason you haven’t been invited.
The fact you’re crying about it to strangers rather than talking to her is childish.
If you’re that worried, speak to her. If not, get over it
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There’s a lot you left out. Is this a party she’s throwing herself or is s family member or friend who doesn’t like you throwing it? Is it a family thing or an actual party? If she’s throwing it, deciding the guest list what’s the reason you weren’t invited? Did you recently have a fight or something?
If she didn’t decide the guest list then you can’t hold it against her. For example if she’s in an abusive relationship he will exclude you because dividing victims from their support while still acting like devoted SO is what abusers do.
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All these people saying it depends, um no! If we best friends then we like family so I better be invited. But me and my bf been friends for over 20 years now so we always invited to each others things, like no invite. “Im having a party” “what time you want me there?” no your invited, bish im coming lol
Not at all , because I would be the one looking after her kids so she can go and have a great time…
And if she doesn’t have kids than it’s time to let go of a one sided relationship
I don’t bff’s I have bffs that I’ve known since childhood but we don’t hang out together much….
There’s not enough context here.
*Did she plan it and do the inviting or did someone else?
*Is it an actual party with friends or is it a family ‘party’?
Can we get a little context?
We’re you the ONLY person not invited? Like did they invite all their family and friends, except you? Or was it family only?
Of course I’d be mad! And I would definitely say the friendship is over since she doesn’t value me as a friend.
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Maybe, she just automatically thought you knew you were invited?
If she didn’t invite you chances are you guys aren’t on the same level of friendship.
I don’t think that’s your bff, well maybe she’s yours but you’re definitely not hers. If you’re throwing a party you’re going to make sure your bff is there. All these people saying it depends on the situation, I don’t think it matters if she threw the party or someone threw it for her, if someone threw her the party they would be someone close enough to her that obviously knew her well enough to know who her bff is, so there was no reason to leave you out if you are in fact her bff. Unfortunately, sometimes it turns out that way, it sucks but at least now you know where you stand.
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Obviously, you are not her best friend…I would reevaluate where you stand in her life. It’s clear you aren’t important.
As you grow older you’ll learn that having friends as a adult is overrated.
I learned that this yr at age 26
Yes lol 
obviously not a best friend if you didn’t get invited
It depends on the situation. If kids weren’t allowed and it wasn’t appropriate for them then no I wouldn’t be mad. If it was a family oriented party then absolutely.
I didn’t get invited once. She claimed it was because with my kids she figured I wouldn’t be able to make it and she didn’t want me to feel bad or left out because of them.