Hell nah. I don’t trust anyone with my kids other than my sister and my mom. I don’t know you, also she might resent the kid and hurt the baby. I would never. He can go suck her 
, but that’s not ever happening. He needs to fork out half for a nice daycare with cameras on that you can watch your kid at all times.
Umm… so he’s been with his girlfriend for a year, but has a newborn with you?
That math ain’t mathing…
This is why you should always have a clause in your custody agreement that if the parent who has the kids needs daycare that the other parent gets first dibs to provide it.
If you don’t have that clause his time is his time- and he can have whoever he wants watch them and you can’t say anything
This sounds sloooopppppppy- distance yourself. Don’t worry about him, just worry about your child
Invite her to lunch and meet her to talk ask questions and remember most people like to talk to the current rather than the ex themselves the ex ex rather go through me then talk to him and we didn’t always see eye to eye I use to prefer to go through my ex rather than his current but now it don’t matter so I say meet her
Oh hell no. Methinks there needs to be a few more facts,
So he cheated on her and got you pregnant and now she’s watching the child?
Well to me you answered your own question you have never meet this woman? And your wanting to leave your baby with this person thats a negative for me i gotta know you for a very long time before i leave my baby child children with anyone 2 this is a new girl friend so your ex probably doesn’t know her either you never trust ppl with your children not like that too many children get hurt being left with the NEW GF OR BF.
You may not be comfortable with it, but it’s not your choice. You were comfortable enough to trust this man to have a kid with him. You are going to have to trust him again to know he will keep his and your baby safe. And he doesn’t have to introduce you to the new girlfriend, would it be better to meet her absolutely. Doesn’t mean that you will. Also, she must not be that bad of a person if she is willing to watch your child so you don’t have to pay for childcare. 
Nope! I would not trust anyone with my child who I have not met or sat down with. You know nothing about this person. Too many bad people in this world.
If you are going to work you need someone to watch your baby .
She will meet and spend time with your baby eventually , you like it or not.
Just meet her and ask to go see the place she will keep her .
I trusted my daughters father girl friend more than I trusted him . My daughter adores her to the point that she even told me that she wanted to moved with her and that she loved her more than she loved me ( and they were already not together) but we keep in touch becasue we both have daughters with him and wanted the girls to grow up together and have a relationship
That’s not really your decision unfortunately. When you split up with the father of your children he gets a saynin what happens when he has them. Him and this woman have been together a year, that’s pretty good and if he trust her and you have no reason not to trust her then deal with it.
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Meet her maybe spend some time together at urs or there home. You should see this as a blessing not many girlfriends would offer to watch so baby momma can work. My husbands baby momma Samantha Levine didn’t know me. There was never a question if I was to be trusted or not. When she needed me for our son and his siblings I was there. Today we are the best of friends and there for all our children it’s a blessing for us and the kids. My point is not everything is bad when it comes to the EXs girlfriend wanting to help you out there are good step-parents out there I like to say iam a amazing mom to our son. (Yes our son) it take a village sometime even if we try to think not we do . Give it a try you never 
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