Run run as fast as u can i dealt with that and he cant seem to stay away from her
You shut that shit down now !!! That’s way innapropriate. Tell him if he don’t quit hes losing it all going owe a ton of child support !
Definitely need to have a talk and have him tell you exactly what’s going on or fallow him whatever it takes to bring you piece of mind
No, you are not wrong. I have seen some rude, condescending replies on this post. Try not to take offense to them. I wish I had better advice. I’m sory you’re going thru this. Remember to put your child first and know it is hard for your child to thrive with an unhappy mother. Best of luck to you.
You’re not wrong at all. If he was unfaithful before you were married it usually doesn’t get any better.
You got it right girl. Any woman who would not feel the same way in this situation she be questioning her self
Also if this guy had any genuine respect and love for you he would introduce you to this young girl bring her around so you can see her and meet her and also to let this young girl know that’s single that he’s a happily married man with you but if that’s not happening then maybe you got problems like narcissistic problems or he’s blaming it on you that you’re insecure that you don’t trust him or you know what no I don’t trust you dude you f***** me before
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Womens intuition girl…trust it!!!
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I would leave, hes playing you, hes sounds like a narcissist
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Get the hell out and take the kids . Trust your gut
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Trust your gut girl, no way would that happen, that’s just nuts
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Go with ur gut sister its Trying get to tell you something
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How did u find out about it?
Did he tell you? If so then there’s nothing to worry about if he isnt hideing it then he dont see her that way (it is possible to just be friends)
Now if he didnt tell u him self shut it down if he feels he needs to hide it then something is up.
Now as for him cheating in the past you can’t keep holding that over him if you decided to stay after then u need to find a way to move past it. You cant have a healthy relationship with out trust. And its not healthy to make him constantly regret something u supposedly forgave him for (u choose to forgive him when u stayed with him)
But also suggest u doimg it woth him or even go watch him (just show up nd dont even tell him u planned to show up. U look like the loving wife that cared enough to surprise him while getting a chance to see how they act around each other)
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You have caught him being unfaithful in the past. You are questioning their motives or agendas. You have your answer. Tell you husband how you feel and inform him that you will be accompanying the both of them.
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He’s still being unfaithful.
Yep. Be concerned sweet cheeks. 
Current behavior is predicted by past behavior.
Hell no, I’d say nope, not happening!
Tell him paranoid or not…nope.
Always trust your gut feeling, its NEVER wrong.
Ugh. How many times do ladies have to hear it before they finally understand it! IF YOU’RE GUT IS TELLING YOU SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT THEN LISTEN TO IT!!!
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Trust your gut instinct
Once a cheat always a cheat.
You already know that answer
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Listen to your intuition
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Once a cheater always a cheater
Please get out while you have time to rebuild your life. I gave the 2nd and 3rd chances. Leopards never change there spots…
He’s blaming You… for Him cheating more or less…He’s a narcissist…it’s your chance to run… Sorry…but leave him before he burns you again.
No you are not wrong looks like to me he’s got something to hide because of his past we wouldn’t get so angry and why does it have to be a female why can’t it be you this time
Your hisband has nothing to do with another woman…period…
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Tell him you want to participate. As well and would live to come along and meet this friend you have been wanting to do this type of eventi since you weren’t able to last time. I understand your concern because you have been burnt ib the past. Have you told him that you are weary of him going because of his past behaviour or do you want till you have had your fill and blow up getting angry. Men are simple creatures stupid at times. Just tell him flat out tell him don’t hint around it just come out and tell him tell him your concerns like a man would not a woman and if he can’t understand or appreciate your feelings then there is bigger problems. And if you allow it it will happen so speak frankly openly and don’t yell and try not too get to emotional or it will not go well. Hope everything works out for you and you can find a solution