Get a clue he is not going to marry you
Point blank sit down & communicate. If he can’t even talk to you about this, why would you want to marry him? Communication is fundamental in all relationships. If he’s not willing to communicate with you, he’s not worth the time.
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Why it’s just a piece of paper if you ate together it’s because you want to be x
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People sometimes agree to things that they can’t follow through with. It hurts and it sucks but it’s a thing. You know what you want. Can you tolerate it forever or should u leave? Cause do you really want him to Marry you because u fought him to. Seems counter-productive and like it would hurt all of you.
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Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
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You were upfront w him. Do what gives you peace. Maybe an ultimatum or just leave. He sounds immature.
Why do all u liars on this site brag how rich u made it…this is all a scam why dosent fb do something about all this bs I think it should be against their community standards…
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All these ppl saying marriage is just a piece of paper are prob miserable and settle that way. Marriage is beyond that.
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What you get by being married, in a yr your common law
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. We are not getting married. I don’t need a piece of paper to say that we are going to be together for the rest of our lives. We have 2 children together. Marriage is not for me. If he is not going to marry you and you are not happy about it, maybe you should move on and find someone who will marry you.
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Yes, you have a right to be upset & disappointed. Sounds like he’s getting the better end of the relationship where he doesn’t have to do his end. You need to have a conversation with him. Find out if he’s changed his mind about getting married, or what. Remind him of what you agreed to in the beginning of your relationship. If he wants to continue, he needs to marry you. If not, I’d say, buh-bye.
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I’m sorry sweetie. I’d look into leaving. You have clearly laid out your expectations & what is important to you & what you see for your future. He’s either on the same page or not.
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You are already a girlfreind doing wifely duties. WHY should he change.
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Lots to consider, you have a child. …Your invested in this relationship…you both seem to work, your still having sex, lol…if your he’ll bent on marriage bc its a commitment, you seem to have that…I’d be happy we love each other. Good luck either way
why marriage when he gets all these freebies
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Just ask him. My now husband and I were together 7 years before I asked him to marry me (he’s 12 years older) and he did and we’ve been married 11 years this December. It’s the 21 century! If you want him to be your husband go for it!
When people ask “do I have the right to feel this way? All I want to say is “NO. YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS TO HAVE FEELINGS. End of discussion.”
Am I overreacting? “YES. YOU ARE OVERREACTING. All of us strangers know how you are. Now go sit down”.
Am I a bad mom? “YES, A HORRIBLE MOTHER.”
Am I doing the right thing “NO. YOUR MAKING THE WORST DECISION”
how should I discipline my child/teenager? “WE KNOW YOU AND YOUR CHILD . Both of you deserve a time out”.
I bet most of these people asking for advice, don’t actually take the advice. They are just looking for someone to tell them they are doing the right thing or just want someone to agree with them to make themselves feel better 
. If you or someone you know has actually taken advice from this group … I think we would all love to hear how it made your situation better or worse.
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Why buy the cow if the milk is free 
I have been married 41 yrs and if he isnt ready for marriage now he now will be
He never will marry you as hard as it sounds I would be thinking of moving on. Marriage is respect ing each others wishes and can see he is not respecting yours if you are. So bothered about. Being his wife I would. Give him a ultamaton quickly
Why is being married so important. I feel there shouldn’t be a deadline on it