Wake up and make sure he pays child support
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How is this a question? Know your worth. Clearly he lived her first and you were a rebound. Now he wants her back and u. He wamts his cake and to eat it toom hell to the no.
Unless your comfortable in a poly relationship , and can agree on boundaries , then it could work . But from how you’ve put it , he’s never gotten over her … and feels obligated to you due to the children you share . I’d honestly get out of that situation , and move on . He can be a good day and y’all can coparent efficiently without being together …
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Question is would you be ok with opening your relationship up to another woman? If the answer is no tell him or move on. If the answer is yes then good luck cuz jealousy is a bitch.
Honestly he sounds like he’s playing you and her kept going back and forth f**k his breaks walk away for your own self worth and respect mentally damaging you deserve better leave the gronk there’s no love there just lust and how’s that going to affect your kids
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Drop his ass like a hot potato. Never become an option to anyone
Year in a relationship and already one child and second on the way. Way to go, girl.
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Laugh long and hard right in his face and then run don’t walk out that door with a good head of steam and find yourself a real man a confident man, a man who will for real love you and your child or children depending. They are out there
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Girl nothing but red flags 
LEAVE NOW
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Call Discovery Channel. Maybe get on sister wives.
If you’re not into sharing your bf … stand your ground and be treated as you want to be treated. Those babies shouldn’t have to deal with this situation.
Um no. Leave. Definitely don’t try a polygamist relationship with someone who things its okay to spring it on you like that after all that time and never having discussed/agreed to it. Hes not trustworthy it seems. I personally would leave him.
If you’re gunna be dumb you gotta be tough. 
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Ask him if you can also invite an additional male to live with y’all, too
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Why would you have a child and maybe one on the way, with a man who had to take breaks with you to get over another woman??? If this man as the balls to tell you that, after you have given him the only precious that a woman can give him, which would be a slap in the face for me. Then it’s time for him and her to hit the road, and if she is already willing to move in, then he has already been messing around with her again. Put in for child support and RUN!!!
This page has become a massive joke
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Leave him his no good
Tell him you’ll agree as long as you can have another male love you while he his spending time with his other woman. Tell him you require and deserve to be loved 24 hrs a day 7 days week.
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Do you really want to share,you’ll be in a triangle relationship,think wisely,this not only effects you now,but your children,always think what’s best for your children,and if your writing and asking others,you already know,it’s not for you!!
Girl, no. Send that silly excuse of a man in his moer.
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Personally he wants both worlds he sounds like he going to use both of you girls up and u have a child involved wht are u going tell him/her why is daddy sleeping with this other girl and not you mummy your children we’ll think it’s ok it’s not right. I bet he wouldn’t let u have some other guy living with u. Your bf sounds like he’s messed up I would run u and your child/ren deserve better
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If thats what ur into do u…poly isnt easy
Sorry, but I don’t share my toys. And dont think anyone should in a “Committed” relationship. Cut yout losses and ties and move
Cut your losses and move on!
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Depends if you’re genuinely interested to have a poly relationship? If you’re only considering it out of desperation to keep him, it will not work!
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no mam… do you really want to watch while he kisses all over the real person he loves since he hasn’t been able to let go of her? you have been together a year (and not even the entire year since he needed a break for his ex) and are on baby 2… seriously? wth…
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Why did you even get involved with him if you knew he wasn’t over her?
Unless you are ok with a monogamous relationship, an don’t wish to leave, then go luck.
My friend tried doing that, even with boundaries set in place, her bf continued to cheat. By breaking the rules, that all the parties set.
I, myself have been in a relationship like that, an we were broken up, cause the other girl got jealous.
Imo, from experience, it’s best you just be single. Co parent with him, cause his not going to stop cheating.
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I would leave. A relationship is supposed to be between 2 people not 3 or 10. He wants his cake and eat it too. He’s definitely not worth staying. Look to God for the answer.
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If you don’t want a relationship with another female an him then leave.
No one can force you to stay but yourself, obviously he still had love for her this entire year an those breaks he was running back to her. So I would say leave
Really? Get the man gone! 
Are you crazy…kick him to the curb
No way! End things now!
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He used you to fill the void of her being gone until she returned. This will be a never ending cycle. Leave asap!
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Pack his crap, change the locks, get a lawyer and make him take care of the babies he willingly made.
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Dump him naw. Hr is not right in head
If it was me, I’d be like no way
Tell him you have a guy and you want the same thing.
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If a guy couldn’t choose between me and another girl, i wouldn’t have gone back to him the first time he “took a break” from me. She could have taken him at that point. I certainly wouldn’t have gotten pregnant with his children but it’s too late for that now.
Honestly I would kick him to the curb. He wants to love both of you equally? That wouldn’t happen. (unless you live that lifestyle, to which thats fine because all parties would agree to it.)
But no, it’s clear that he will choose the other girl everytime over what you want so there is no “loving equally” you’ve always been second place.
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Not for you, kick him out!
Why not give it a try…
If your all responsible adults…
And like & respect each other…
Not sure if I could maybe maybe not…
But I’d definitely take it into consideration…
I’d rather have child support than his extra girlfriend.
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Tell him to hit the road Jack and don’t bother coming back
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If he can’t choose between you or her, let him have her. The right man will only love you. Tell him it’s time for him to move out
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No way fuck that leave his ass
Lord this page is WILD. This is some Jerry Springer stuff. Tell him HELL NO and to hit the road. After a year if he doesn’t know if he wants you or the other girl then make the choice for him, you deserve better than this.
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Y’all are so quick to say leave. You should look in to polyamory. If it’s not for you, then that’s fine. But it can be a rewarding relationship from what I hear.
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Tell him he can move in with her and start paper work on him, plain and simple. If you don’t then he will cheat on you with her.
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Hell no! He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Tell him to hit the road.
Why is this even a question ? LEAVE THE GUY. IF U AND YOUR CHILD ARE NOT ENOUGH ! His a loss
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Find a real man and leave the loser.
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Ummm, is his name Nick Cannon? How many Baby Mamas does he want.
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Does she have money?? Take a room for you and they can do their thing.
Get out or put him out. Isn’t that every twisted man’s dream though!
Tell him to get bent.
Set your boundaries. Committed polyamorous relationships are not for everyone
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Your straight up crazy unless your into that stuff . But I can only see BAD THINGS 
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Leave. U leave. Wth.
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Run as fast as you can
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If you’re not comfortable with it then don’t compromise yourself to make him happy…. It’s not worth it… in the end it’s much better to lose someone else than yourself.
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Don’t fall for this. There is someone out there who will love you and just you. No need to share.
Why do you have to ask that ???
Bye bitch you made your choice