Am I in the wrong?

My kids father and I are separeted but hes living under the same roof until he finds a house. One of the main issues I had with him was laziness… Tonight he asked if I had seen any of his jockeys around… I said no… but really its because I went on strike from doing HIS washing… if he isnt gonna help out with the washing or get grumpy when I ask him to do things… he can start doing em for himself… (he will probably find them with the mountain of only his clothes in the laundry that has been growing day by day… His whole wardrobe is nearly in there now… Am I just being petty… or is this fair? Im not a housemaid!!!)