If this was a year ago and this is still bugging you maybe you should talk to your husband . You’ll get all kinds of answers here . I think if you are holding onto something from a year ago that clearly you need to talk to him about it
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Hell no put her ass in check if he keeps it up he’ll be paying out the butt for child support
He probably in joys the attention could be more could not be but if your gut tells you there is more tell her to back TF up off your man
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There is definitely something going on especially if she didnt know who you were…
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Take her swimming. Be sure to pack a cinder block or 2, and some rope.
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The second he didn’t acknowledge you in front of the kids I would have been done
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Not overreacting at all. I’d think something also. They are both the problem. I’d leave him. I mean why didn’t she know who you were? Sounds like a cheater to me
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No ur not shes a hoe amd so is he
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Time to get a lawyer
You husband is outta pocket and so is his 
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One thing I am opinionated n would’ve told her point blank I’m his wife of —years n these are our children together ! Then I’d ask him in front of her if you’re ashamed to introduce me you’ve got an issue darling n I’d walked off!! Screw that oh hiding crap or well I figured they know I’m married lmao ! Either be proud of what ya got or be single no straddling the fence DUDE!! 35 yrs married yes divorced counseling n remarried same man 2 kids 30-21 now 3 grandkids !! Speak up hunny or you’ll be 2 place all your marriage
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Go to his workplace and confront her. Call her out and make her feel awkward. How dare he allow this woman to treat you this way.
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Ma’am your going to have to cut him. That is all.
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Talk. To. Your. Husband!
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Unfortunately this seems shady to me u walk up to the table no introduction she rudely asks u who r u?? I mean really, if your gut feeling r telling u things just dont add up. You can try and talk to your husband but I’ve been thru all of this myself it’s a catch 20.situation his answer will be shes just.a women I work with, what’s your problem?? Your not the problem. He is. So follow your mind not your heart I wish all the best hun
Don’t ever let another women make you feel like that.
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No, you are number 1 at all times and that never stops! She knows exactly who you are when she was rude to you so I’d observe very careful and watch out for the signs
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Nope not over reacting at all he should have introduced you as his wife from the get go.
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No, you’re not overreacting. Fuck him and fuck that.
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Sounds like typical cheater moves so far
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This would not sit well with me. Having female colleagues is unavoidable and normal - this alone shouldn’t be an issue, however these particular circumstances make me feel uneasy for you. Your husband should be your biggest advocate and any avoidance of honesty/communication in relation to another woman is unacceptable. She should know who you are, or if she didn’t, why did she think she had a right to question a female approaching your husband? I’d be having a very calm but blunt conversation with your husband, and pay attention to his eyes, body language, and his energy - they will tell you more than any words he uses.
Good luck x
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the point is all these things have bothered you, so you need to raise them, and from now on raise them straight away
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He needs to get his head out of his ass.
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If he’s doing something that he KNOWS would make you upset he shouldn’t be doing it. Period. I don’t care if that makes you sound “insecure” or “possessive”. Couples need to respect each other’s boundaries, no matter how ridiculous one may seem to another. If it’s so ridiculous and he NEEDS to keep that relationship that makes you uncomfortable drop his ass.
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From the time she asked who you were you should have said who. Him not believing when I spoke to him would be another topic.
You need to have a full on convo with him
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No your not …your husband should put her in her place he’s being disrespectful to you talk to him about how you feel…if you have no trust you have no relationship…I’d stop wasting my time and move forward with your kids
You are not overreacting. You are not even reacting.
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Your hubby is the one in the wrong. Let him know he has disrespected you and that he needs to introduce you to this woman.
She may not know you exist
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He is digging himself a hole.
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Girl u shoulda checked him at the hug and told her her place then… If u let him do whatever he wants you’re a doormat.
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I was in a scarily similar situation. He claimed nothing was going on. 7 years later we are divorced at they are together. But my life is much better now. I figure she can have him. He can make her life miserable.
If he isn’t messing, he wants to.
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Don’t let him make you feel like you’re wrong sis!! He’s way outta line!!
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Nope you’re definitely not over reacting. He sounds like a cheater. You diserve to be happy!!! 
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If that had been my husband she would have known who I was before she ever met me as he talks about me all the time. It sounds like your husband has something he is hiding if she didn’t know who you were.
Hellllll!! No. You are not overreacting! If it were my husband we would be in divorce court now!
That realy hurts his narcissistic 
Either he’s cheating or likes the extra attention. Knowing he sees her 8 hours everyday would definitely bother me. I’d confront him on it.
If she would of asked me who I was I’d of said I’m his wife who the hell are you? And why is my husband acting all thirsty around you? 
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That’s his work bae 
She’s his work wife. Introduced yourself, quickly.
He’s dreaming. Dodgy
You are not overreacting. It feels wrong!it’s wrong. I definitely feel you😥.He is checking her!
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No. Definitely something going on
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Something sounds fishy. I’d ask him, he could lie, but try.
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Nope. This happened to me. Totally homewrecking work friend.
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This would definitely bother me, too. I think you need to speak with him about how you are feeling.
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Mhm ya thats sus. She tryina fk ya man and he isn’t setting boundaries or making it known ur his wife and the one hes supposed to love.
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Him not stepping up and introducing you is pathetic.
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Nope! Something is definitely going on.
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Something just doesnt right
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I mean, if you’re insecure in your marriage (which it sounds like you are), there are reasons beyond this woman. If a woman hugged my husband, it would not bother me. If my husband got a woman a coffee, it would not bother me. Context is everything! I’d start by having a level headed talk with your husband.
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Definitely fishy! Go with your gut for sure
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Girl, that reaks of foul play
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Not over reacting at all. Something is going on!
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Steve Harvey said something on a show once that sounds about right in this situation. “Don’t go around collecting red flags.” My personal opinion…something’s going on.
You’re not overreacting.
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Yeah something isn’t right there.
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Something is going on. He obviously isn’t making it known he’s taken
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No you’re not overreacting. If you have a feeling that something is going on, most likely it’s your intuition and either something has already happened or it’s about to… sorry 
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No.he is cheating for sure
No you are not over reacting
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Since he didn’t introduce you and it bothers you I think you should definitely talk to him. It could be nothing or it could be more but its worth a discussion. If he is unwilling to validate your feelings and do something to help how you feel or he gets angry or won’t talk about it then I’d think there is more to it and he needs to tell you whats going on.
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I had someone do that to me … ask who r u ?! When I went to the table and my answer was… his wife get out my seat !!! Lol
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How would he feel if it was the other way around?
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Sounds like there is some insecurity going on in your marriage on your part. It also sounds like your husband is dismissing your feelings a bit which may be something he doesn’t realize he’s doing, may he because nothing is going on so he doesn’t think you should feel the way you feel, or many other reasons. Either way, your both grown adults who are married so you need to act like it and have a civil discussion where you both share how your feeling about the situation so you can come to a resolution that leaves both parties happy.
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I always want to know the follow up because any situation that comes up everyone says to ditch him. I always wanna know if they actually were haha
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The red flags are there girl. You just listed every one of them that you know instinctively they shouldn’t be ignored. Him not introducing you first of all, is really all you needed for evidence something is going on… Full body hug? Like jumped in his arms, wrapping her legs too? There’s more to it dear. I’m sorry.
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Not overreacting! Full discloser and boundaries!!!
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Ehh unpopular opinion, but I think you are 
You had an issue with this girl the moment you saw her so, you’ve already planted the seed for distrust. You don’t know her at all and you’ve already decided from that moment she was an enemy.
I’m overly nice sometimes. Sometimes, my husband mistakes that for flirting. It’s not. I’m just a nice person and enjoy being friendly and courteous. I spoil my husbands friends sometimes I’m just nice.
I see it this way, YOU automatically distrusted your husband and hates her from the get go. Everything they do from this point on, is wrong. He may just be nice. It’s okay to be nice to your coworkers. If this is all you have, you should trust your husband.
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Not acknowledging you was way wrong. Everything else was not that bad and seemed innocent but to say bothing!?!?
The second your gut screams out, you listen!
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Go with your instincts. it’s never wrong, question him about it. You are married to him. You are not overacting.
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So many red flags. I don’t know what a cup order is… but the fact that he didn’t believe you when she asked rudely who you were is what gets me. If I told my hubby that, he would have completely taken my word for it.
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He’s definitely cheating with her for her to think she had some sort of rank to ask who you were like that. If it was me she woulda been hit square in the mouth.
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you have to confront him in a way that is not aggressive, maybe he simply didn’t say anything because to him it isn’t a big deal, or maybe he didn’t want to hurt you, it’s a work relationship, he can’t just be shitty to her. i do not think you are over reacting, i think this may be miscommunication on both ends.
No you’re not crazy. If there was nothing to hide there’d be nothing to lie about and a cup is a really dumb thing to lie about.
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No you’re definitely not!
People treat you the way you let them.
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I’d honestly go with ur gut something doesn’t seem right
He should of told you who it was for. You are not overreacting at all.
Did you ever confront him about how he didn’t introduce you that time? Thats the only thing that would bother me. But if I was in your shoes I would have confronted him that night and been like wtf!
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Maybe something didn’t physically happen yet… But theirs definitely a work flirtation that your husband is fully aware … So aware he’s doing his best to avoid her to you.
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Why are you waiting for something to happen? If your husband doesn’t know what is acceptable & what isn’t then at least YOU should make it known what you are not comfortable with. That’s your man & he’s obviously enjoying this woman’s attention. Don’t let any woman feel like they’ve got room to disrespect your space. If you’re uncomfortable about it then you are UNCOMFORTABLE about it, whether people say, “Don’t be so insecure,” or not, why be concerned about whether you look insecure? If it feels disrespectful it probably is. Address it or it will keep happening & become something it shouldn’t have.
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When you can play flag football with the red flags being thrown, time to start calling fouls and get to the bottom of it. Go with your gut. Your feelings should never be dismissed. Have this discussion with your husband.
For her to of had to be CONVINCED that you were his wife, yeah, I wouldn’t of played that game.
You need to have a sit down/heart to heart with hubby. My husband and I have an agreement that noone is worth making our partner uncomfortable. It works for US.
It doesn’t matter if you’re overreacting or not. This bothers you, and he needs to acknowledge that and do what he can to make you feel safe about this situation.
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The second she asked who I was I would’ve put her in her place. That shit don’t fly with me and it shouldn’t with you either. Did she not know he was married orrrrr? Seems a little suspicious
Sorry but if your husband is not physically cheating with her he is emotionally cheating with her…He gives her his time attention .Trust me I know now divorced.
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Yes, I work very closely with men bc its a male dominated trade. Working close you become very close (platonic) but close with your co workers. They were like brothers, they respected me and would always bring me my drinks or whatever they knew I liked or needed when they saw me down . Let it go
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Sounds like his “work wife”. That’s how it is where I work. Where these morons have a whole other relationship at work
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No ur no tripping out, espsince he couldnt say thats my wife. Id call him out.
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You say when she rudely asked who you were that he said nothing but then said he didn’t know it until your daughter told him? I’m confused.
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Oh hell no, I’d have snapped and left.
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He’s definitely Sus!
No full body hugs not on thats crossing the line pull rank
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There’s something going on, and you’re being a whole lot calmer (nicer) about it than I would be.
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He has worked for the same company for over a year, taken you & his kids to multiple work events yet this woman has no clue who you are…weird! Has his introduced you to any of his other coworker’s??
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Absolutely not he is up to something.
Women’s intuition is very strong …you already know what’s going on …confirmation is not needed…respect you gut 
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Awww hell nah! Girl you’re not tripping!