Some good advice here you should pay attention to and take action.
I would neverrrrr in my life act like that towards a co worker who was strictly JUST a co worker. Most of the time I donāt even like my co workers lol. There is 100% something going on between them two.
Move on-and do not forget child support-contact a lawyer
Trust your gut. You are not overreacting.
Wowā¦that man is definitely cheating on youā¦Been thereā¦He is showing all the signs of a cheaterā¦I am 
sorryā¦
She caught him in her web but heās liking it there. Adios.
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You shouldnāt be reacting to her, you should be reacting to him. 
He has made his choice
Sheās working on him.
Walk your fine ass out the door!
He knows what the hell heās doing. You donāt have a relationship with her, so he needs to grow TF up and show some respect .
Please just leave his phone alone. Yaz if you go asking for trouble, itās trouble you will get
Get you and your son each a bugout bag packed and ready, somewhere your cheating boyfriend wonāt see them. You may want or need to leave before you are fully ready. Even if your man isnāt physical with her (which I suspect isnāt the case), heās cheating emotionally. You wonāt be liable to ever trust him again, either way. Honest, I think heās cheating. Get ready, and be all about your money. If you share a bank account, start a separate one. And keep it, even if things work out. A woman should always have some private money. Mom tried to tell me, and I didnāt listen, and I lived to regret it.
He doesnt respect your relationship at all smhā¦
I am so sorry but time to leave or kick him out .
You are being gaslighted. He doesnāt respect you so leave his ass
Get rid of him find you a man who wants you .life is to short to put up with that crap.
Find a hobby to keep yourself busy
Your gonna have to leave because if he can do this now more likely he has done this before
How naive and gullible are you ? More than this or is that the extend of it?
Leave him, he already said he wouldnāt talk to her and he is. She ruined another marriage congrats
he has a work wife & not an actual one ~
If you trust him stop worrying and get over ir, if not leave
Tell him to hit the front door and donāt let it hit him in the ass walking out!
You ended the story talking about someone you canāt trust but, you already didnāt trust him when you told him to not talk to her as much as possible. This isnāt really about a woman who is an alleged homewrecker as it is about how you donāt trust your bfā¦cheating takes 2 ppl and if he was trust worthy, you wouldnt be having this issue.
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Put your ducks in a row. Stash some money away and make a plan. Talk to an attorney before you move out. If possible, make him move out. If you leave, he might say you abandoned the relationship. I donāt know what the laws are in your state but if you purchased the home together then half belongs to you, regardless of your marital status. But talk to a lawyer and find out what your rights are. I talked to 5 different attorneys before I found the right one for my divorce. Most will give you a free consult. Good luck. <3
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I texted a bitch back saying you want his moody ass take it but bitch be certain Iāll still be getting his paycheck and dick when I want. 
I had fun with it husband saw I was like go me and the kids will be ok. You know sheās not gonna want you like that everyday.
Sounds like he might have erased some messages in those few days he was stalling. The fact that heās dismissing her feelings is not a good sign.
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If you donāt trust him, he has to have given you a good reason for those feelings,tight? If nothing is going on he should be ok with you seeing his phone. She is also a real scummy POS for sending a married guy a bikini pic!
Well you said it. You cannot be with someone you cannot trust. And he is doing nothing to strengthen that trust. He is defensive sneaky, lies, and now sheās driving by. That is 100% get out and stay out to him. You will find a way to get rid. You know if you throw him out he will be straight round to hers. I think the affair has already started. Her honking as she drove by is a call to you that sheās messing with your man. And to be fair let her keep him. You deserve better
He steps away from cheating DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND LEAVE. Or tell the girl to fall tf back. Really your only options besides sit back and wait
You already know whatās going on. So now decide if staying is worth it. Or stop making excuses and leave
You already know the answer. Do what your gut tells you, itās never wrong
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Well he lied , a couple of times ā¦ sooo I wld say he lied cuz he is hiding shit ! Leave !
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Hell no dude tell him to pack his shit to move in with the home wrecking hoebag
Kick him to the curb and you need to get think about you and your baby
Kick him to the curb,get you a better man
Leave and put him on child support. Case closed
What does your gut say
follow your Gut Instint. .
Time to get out of there
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Break up with the jerk
Get ready to be on your own.
Nahhhh, thatās sketch
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Heās cheating. Leave.
Listen to your gut your not wrong
Lying get get rid of him
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Why cant you leave right now?
Women canāt be homewreckers unless your man allows it. Why blame the woman?
Sheās a slut, and so is your guy. MOVE ON!
Get rid love, you deserve a lot better 
Leave or stay, but shut the fuck up. Nobody cares. The emergence of the christian feminist has doomed us all.
Iād be more worried about his lack of commitment. A 3 year old and still not married???