Nope you’re not selfish! Go for it!
hell no protect yourself and your children
No not selfish…protect yourself…keep a separate account from him.
No under the circumstances you are probably doing the right thing.
No, I think it is a wise decision!
Absolutely NOT I suggest also a living trust
No! Stand firm or you may end up on the street
My husband’s name is not on my house.
No. It if you live in a community state he will get half. Consult a lawyer for loophokes
Depends on the state you live in. Regardless it could be half his depending on the laws
Not a thing wrong with your idea
No, I think you did the right thing.
I think you are making the best decision.
Keep it in your name only.
NO. Apparently he needs a Mother not a wife. Move on.
No, not all all selfish.
Not at all you did the work !
Nope! Guy is a freeloader.
No…he is obviously selfish and self centered. It seems that he is a bed and dinner companion…I think a real husband would have enough pride in himself and for his wife to provide a decent home. Don’t even move him in because sometimes the law will declare this as community property.
No. You bought it without his help!
No marriage is 50 50
You are not being selfish
Okay, guess I’ll be that guy then… For starters, definitely don’t want his name on the house. But also begs the question: how the hell did you not know he was like that from the start? I’m assuming you had to have been to his house on a few occasions before tying the knot. Did you not notice the condition of the house then? Talk to him about it, after you noticed that he wasn’t making any effort? Or did you just think “oh he’ll change after we’re married”?
Sounds like he’s lazy and very irresponsible and expects you to pay for everything while he gets to do what he wants. You’re going to have to make some serious decisions on if the marriage is worth it or not, cause I can tell you now, he’s very likely not going to change his behavior.
No absolutely not! You only get what you earn in life!
Not selfish, should divorced the slugger though
This sounds like a terrible partnership not a marriage.
No, I think you are very smart.
I don’t know why you married him!! LOL!
No. I think you need to dump him and get a good responsible man. Thee are a few of us still out there!!
Selfish?, not at all!
Not selfish at all. Do not put his name on the house. You will regret it if you do.
I thought a prenup only was for the things you had before the marriage? All else was considered both of yours if married and split anyhow? Why marry someone you don’t trust?
What are you even doing with this loser??? You can find somebody better than that.
Just follow your heart .
I think you are right!
I think you’re right.
I think you’re smart
Hell no. You get what you earn.
Your absolutely right