I would pawn him off on another woman before I would pawn my stuff to pay his bills. 
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He can sell plasma. Itâs his payment! Not yours! Itâd be different if you where married, but youâre not. So fuck it. Why do you have to sell your items for him. What does he have that he can sell.
More importantly, why does he have a vehicle payment, if heâs getting so little money?
Tell him to man up, or leave.
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This. Is. Called. A. Red. FlagâŚ
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Let him pay his own bills
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He needs to grow up , literally everyone is hiring right now he needs to stick somewhere and pay his own bills and provide stability.
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he is a grown up , so he should look after his own affairs
How old is he? He has alot if growing up to do. I wouldnât be with someone who canât even hold a job let alone help take care of family
Not selfish. Sounds like heâs the selfish one
Donât let him pawn your stuff they will give you a small amount for it and he probably wonât be able to get it back so youâll end up loosing it
I think you need to find a new man lol Seriously, dude canât even hold down a job. Iâd get rid of him.
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Iâm just curious when do you have time to play switch with a 7 month old and all the house work SAHMâs have??? I hardly had time for a descent showerâŚ
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Why donât you go out and find a man and not a boy.
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You paid for the car cuz YOU need it? If you are the one always using it, then yes you should be paying for it no matter whose name itâs under.
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Not selfish, heâs using you
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If you pay it have him add your name
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He can donate plasma for so much a week
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Have him look into it
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Girl, give me your secrets lol
I have a 9, 8 and 6 year old. Theyâre all in school and yet I still donât have time for a proper showerâŚ.
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You will be better of on your own. By the sounds of him he is irresponsible. Let them take his car. Stop babing him. Your child comes first not him. For the love of God find a real man thatâs going to take care of you and your children because, the boy your with,well he ant no man still a child. He is a self Entiled shit face. Get rid of him.
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H*ll noâŚtell him to sell his own stuff.
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This is your bf not your husband
You donât need to sell SHIT for him
Seriously find a new man and for Godâs sake stop having kids with him
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Girl please.
Tell that boy bye, and fast!! You look out for you and that sweet baby!
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Donât give up your things! MEN SUCK NOWADAYS I swear 
let him cry about it but stand your ground! Tell him to go sell his ass and see how he likes that
Find a new man i dated one of those. My new man well not new been together for over a year but he never asks for money if he does its cause he needs something. Tell him sell his own stuff
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He should be selling his own shit he chose his car payment
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how old are you guys ?
switches ? pawning items to pay car stuff ? $103 pays ?? iâm so confused.
i think you both need to reevaluate your time and incomes, jobs , and life of this is where youâre both mentally at.
especially with a child in tow.
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Get rid of the guy instead of the switch 
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You need a new man hunni ⌠not a leach âŚ
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Maaaannnnn something I personally am learning⌠and fast. Is worry about yourself. Itâs hard and definitely makes you feel bad bc you want them to know they can rely on you but itâs different when theyâre taking advantage. Even if he gets mad hopefully it will help him grow up . Iâm 6 months pregnant with my second baby and have a 2 year old both to the same man and just recently decided to worry about myself and my baby and let me tell you from expierence itâs so much easier! And less stressful.
If he has nothing to sell maybe he could write out an iou and get it out asap when he gets paid. If it will keep his job and feed the family. Itâs what parents do. They sacrifice what they can to take care of the family. You can get it back as soon as he gets paid. Maybe you and he have jewelry or maybe pawn the tv. Whatâs more important to you ⌠playing or food and roof over your head. This is where you officially become an adult. Choose wisely. God bless.
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Get out while you can
Stop picking up his slack honestly you both sound young and irresponsible
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My husbands checks fluctuate every week. Even being a transmission tech and working at a dealership, we have gotten bad weeks of $150 after taxes and CS. But as much as $900 in a week. My biggest thing is this⌠if you pay this one payment, where will the next one come from? If he has gotten this far behind, will he do it again right after? Being responsible and paying bills is a must, as is paying for a child. But why is he asking you to specifically sell your things? It could be a mutual agreement to each part with something, but it shouldnât fall on one person. A relationship works equally, and it doesnât sound like this one is working atm. Maybe compromise?
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âŚso what happens next car payment when thereâs nothing else to sell and he doesnât have the money again ? ⌠Your man needs to find a better job, or find a car he can actually afford. Until than⌠I wouldnât be selling my shit for no manâs payments⌠for the kids, of course. A fully capable man⌠no⌠especially when you know he wouldnât, and couldnât do the same in return. He better go ask mommy to pay for his car or prepare to have it repoâd lol buses still exist⌠too much pride to take a bus, but not sell to sell your stuff for your car payment ? âŚ
Nah love𼹠donât be doing wifey shit on a girlfriend wage lol. Thatâs his responsibility
I sacrificed my switch and my fiance sold one of his welders when he was out of work hurt and had no short term disability. You do what you have to for the kids and your family you have created. Things are just thatâŚthingsâŚthey can be bought and sold and bought again. A roof over your head or a vehicle to get you where you and the family needs to go is more important than monetary possessions. Does it suck? Yes! But you do what is necessary
I wouldnât sell your stuff and I wouldnât continue to date him.
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No keep it! Donât give up everything!
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Donât do it. Thatâs yours.
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Girl get rid of the guy & quit having kids. Job hopping will never stop. Before you know it heâll be your baby sitter & put you on the street to work. Isnât birth control free any more.
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Stop enabling him. Where is his paychecks going?
Tell him to go sell his ass on the corner 
. Jokes aside, if u r a couple with kids and u r also using his car to get around, then even though It is in his name, why not help him? A switch is nothing, cmon! U can get one again. On another note, once the switch is gone, what does he expect u to do? He needs to get on his feet, and hustle!
Wow! Just W O W!
Mind completely blown!
Did you proof read this before sending???
Id try to sell him before I sold my stuff 
Leave that boy. That is ridiculous!
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Sell his shit! Period. Or get a consistent job. He can FO with selling your stuff. Otherwise bye idiot.
Can you just move out please. He is not responsible and will never be. He doesnât have things to sell? And he is a boyfriend not even husbandâŚ
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I think yâall are both childish asf.
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Both of yâall sound immature.
He needs to get it together with his employment to help support the baby. It appears you are giving more than he is and itâs by HIS choice. Iâd have more respect for him if he did all he could to help.
I worked two jobs, went to school, and had a newborn when I sold some of my expensive favorite jewelry and etc.
I supported my childâs father in anyway I could. He did all he could with the situation. We both did. Things were pretty bad. Totally sucked, but itâs the sacrifices we make for having children. Thankfully I am not in that position anymore, but Iâd do it again. I know I made the right decision at the time as much as it sucked.
Iâd sell anything as long as they were okay.
Maybe thatâll get you thinking
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Yâall are all telling her to leave himâŚfor what? Getting behind on bills? Lord.
She keeps calling it âhis carâ but she paid that money because SHE needed the car. So Iâm assuming she doesnât have one. Therefore she uses HIS car(as she keeps calling it)
No maâam. Absolutely not, you should help with the car if youâre gonna use it too.
Iâm not gonna say you should sell your stuff, thatâs your stuff. But you need to weigh out importance here.
You said the âlastâ check from your job. Then Iâm also assuming heâs the only one working, he probably needs a car to get to work, so therefore if you want to keep income coming into your house, you might wanna sell something and help out with a car payment. 
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Heâs mooching off you girl stop paying his damn bills cs he canât keep a job
Sounds more like you have a teenage boy more than a boyfriend.
Iâd ditch his irresponsible ass and do for you and your babyâs.
Dump his ass he is a loser and is using you. Donât be stupid to give up everything.
Hell no dump that guy he is using you and needs to grow up
You are gonna have your hands full with two babies unless you ditch the big one first.
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You two have a baby to raise but are fighting over game consoles? Yikes
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Donât sell your stuff
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Umm you already put the car before the baby. No he absolutely needs to find another way. My husband wonât even let me pawn my stuff unless he has pawned every last thing of value of his, AND it benefits us both. I mean I do try to do my part obviously. He just tries his hardest is the point.
Now that said Iâm sure you use the car in some ways too ya? So in a way you should help him pay it so the baby has transportation. However yâall arenât even engaged so he does need to try to make it work before coming to you to pay it AGAIN.
Sell your switch⌠for you and your bills⌠not to pay for his car. Itâs the least of your worries.
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I think you need a new bf
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I think yâall need to go out and get better jobs and some side hustles.
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Why are you having a baby when you canât afford a car??
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Why do you women choose to be with such men and even make babies with them?. Being single is ok, you know! Everyday there is a post about loser partners itâs now annoying to read
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I donât think a game console
Is the question⌠Get your priorities in check for your kiddosđ
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Pawn the BF. Once you start selling your belongings for his ride, heâs gonna have a free ride and youâll have nothing to show for it. You arenât married, so whenever he wants to leave, the car is his even if you paid all the bills.
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Omg I canât. My momma taught me if I didnât have anything nice to say not to say anything at all!
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You really donât want to know what I think!!!
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By the sounds of it you have a 7 month old and about to have another baby to a man that will never put his family first. You also sound very young if xboxâs and Nintendo switch are part of your arguments or are even considered more important than a car. Please consider your priorities, your children 
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Sell it. The car benefits you both.
Wow how old are you SMH??? I think you need to get your priorities straight and ditch the bfâŚ
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He sounds like a piece of crap honestly.
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Sell his own shit. After all. Itâs His Name on the car
You need a man. You have a grown sized boy. Too many jobs are open right now for him not to be working. What purpose does he serve?
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Kelsey Simpson I donât think anyone plans on having another baby when theyâre current child is only 7months old
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You have a 7 month old, youâre pregnant, and your bf makes only about $100 a week? Oh good Lord and youâre worried about a video console.?
Pawn the boyfriend.
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Sounds like youâre dealing with a boy
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I think you might be too young to be pregnant.
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Tell your bf to wake the fuck up and pay for his own shit and hold down a stable job so he can afford his car
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I bet youâd get more money if you both sold ur games 
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Neither of you have a job, baby and another on the way and worried about video games 
sounds like you both need to grow up and find a job to support the babies you are making.
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Bruh u need a car for ur baby ur baby comes first sell it dumb game and take care of ur baby
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My 16 year old makes more than $100/weekâŚ
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Heâs a piece of 
wanting to sell your switch I would be telling him to get his priorities straight!!
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So he has 3 people to take care of and he only makes $100 owh wow
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Tell him pay his own bills and he needs to grow up. Idk how someone could only make $100 in a week. My teenage child makes more than that. Jobs are everywhere rn. You shouldnât be the only one that is willing to take care of your family. Your children and being able to take care of them should be his #1 priority.
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I think you need a new BF.
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You use his car as well
So itâs obvious you both need the car for transportation
Sell all the games because thatâs more important
You are both selfish you donât need a game system youâre a parent you need a car and a job and so does he you both need to grow up and handle business like adults good parents do what they gotta do to make sure shit is handled and taken care of point blank period no questions asked if I had to sale something of mine to pay a bill I would do that regardless. His or hers is out when you are in a relationship and you have kids that is OUR bill OUR car OUR responsibility. People now a days donât know how to be a partner to someone smh
Honey, youâre dating a scrub. Get rid of him and get you a man! Best Wishes!! 
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He needs more jobs. $100 a week is not near enough to raise a family.
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I was under the impression this was advise for adults. I was wrong.
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Hell no! Donât sell your stuff. Send his ASS packing! Hit the door Jack!
He needs to man up and pay for his own shit plus take care of the baby. He should go get another job. Do not make his payments!!! Your not selfish for refusing sell your stuff to pay for his bills. Been there done that. Learned a lesson. My baby daddy isnât worth a darn. Get your own damn care if you need one.
GirlâŚNever Pawn shit when a guy is involved⌠Save that shit for when you on your own.
You have a 7m old and another bub on the way , sell what you need too, to provide for your kids. If I didnât have repayment money to keep my car from being repoâd Id sell what I needed too, to make sure I have transport for my kids and myself.
Xbox and switches and video games are a privilege, bills and repayments are a priority.
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Nope⌠get him gone girlâŚ
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Honestly, the most important factor in all of that is: you have a child together! Itâs time to step up, and provide. In todayâs world, it is SO HARD to be a one income family. It sounds like he needs to reevaluate his employment situation, and maybe you do too. Find out how you guys can meet in the middle. Times are tough. Sacrifices have to be made sometimes, and it sucks. But that sweet baby deserves it. You both have to take care of each other!
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He doesnât seem stable at all. Also neither do you.
How are you guys going to pay to feed these children?
Pay for clothing? Medication? Power bill? Water? Etc?
Sounds like both of you need to get jobs, maybe even 2. And before you say itâs too hard while pregnantâŚ.during a global pandemic I worked my full time 40 hour a week job plus another 12-24 hours at my part time job (mine was to save money so I could have a longer maternity leave and pay a bit more down on bills) but still not too awful. Even now with OT at my job last week I worked 67 hours.
Time to be adults, especially since you are already parents to one child, getting ready to be 2
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No, youâre not being selfish. The car is in HIS name, so it is HIS responsibility to pay for it. Sounds like he needs a second job.