You are gonna have to have an open and honest conversation with him. Explain that it’s not over till both parties are sexually satisfied and if he can’t comply the relationship won’t work because you are left dissatisfied.
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Find someone else there so many men that love going down on a women I mean thet love it so tell him if a man can go down on you and he can watch at least that won’t be cheating just make him watch
This is not a complete relationship. You don’t need to cheat, but at least you can stop being with someone who doesn’t cherish you 
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No licky lick… then no sucky suck! 2 way street. Tell him going down on him aint your thing. 2 can play that game.
You deserve to be treated like the queen you are! Do better for yourself mama and move on. Much love to you!
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Yeah its wrong to expect him to do something he doesnt want to. Just as much as it would be vice versa if the male was pushing the female to go down. Same sane there.
But to not care how you feel in the bedroom is a tad upsetting. You’re a team everywhere, even under the covers. He should at least be considerate of the fact that you arent enjoying that intimacy together.
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I would tell him either he can learn to please me or I’m done. Don’t waste anymore time in a relationship with someone so selfish
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Just don’t have sex with him anymore. Tell him it’s “not your thing!” If he can’t do his job… he doesn’t deserve anything either.
I’d get a toy, the next time he ask you to go down on him, I’d tell not until you take care of me first.
When he pulls his"I’m not into that" stunt I’d explain that I’m no longer in to that shit either. And then I’d pull my toy out of the drawer, take care of my own self and then roll over and go to sleep.
My ex-husband was the same way, he didn’t like it, blah blah blah, I stopped going down on him and eventually we divorced bc I wasn’t gonna be the only one giving me orgasms forever. I also have stopped going down on my current bf bc he hasn’t recripocated on quite a while. It’s a 2 way street, if I don’t get I don’t give anymore. Point…blank… period
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keep your dirt to yourseif
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It can be very difficult to make a change with a new born. You’re probably tired from caring for baby and that makes everything even harder. It sounds like he is completely unaware of his sexual selfishness. Even if you’ve told him, he doesn’t get it. He is not going to change. You need to make the change when you can. Find someplace to go so you can start over. Two years seems like a long time now, but it shouldn’t be even longer if you are unhappy.
Better tell him or live with it
That is selfish of him, period… He cant go down on you bc its not his thing??? But EXPECTS you to do it for him…fu*k that !!! And only wants to reach climax for himself and when he does thats it, done? Hell no smh. Dont feel bad for pleasing yourself either girl since he cant or dont want to. Its not selfish at all. Nobody else is gonna do it
Stop going down on him until he does some serious licky lick
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I feel like a REAL MAN, wants to please his lover! A REAL MAN, who actually cares for his significant other, wants to make her happy, especially in the bedroom! My husband and I have been together for 22 years, we have 4 children, and have never once been intimate without me being satisfied sexually, either before, during, or after! I think the problem is you don’t have yourself a REAL MAN!
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I think he should. Please you,as you are pleasing him,fair is fair…it doesn’t have to be same each time, but he should find something that pleases you as much…as that does him…
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Stop doing it if he won’t do it for you 
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You can’t force anyone to do something they don’t wanna do. Let alone be forced to do sexual act that they don’t like or aren’t comfortable with. He is no less of a man for that either.
If it’s such a big problem then talk to him about him and if he still doesn’t want to then just leave, and find someone who can please you in the area.
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Do you not have any respect for yourself. This is NOT the time or place. Just saying…
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None of this “I did it so he should aswell” no. He already expressed that he didn’t like it, so why keep pushing
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Some you need to learn what Sexual coercion and what forced content is. These comments show disgusting behaviour
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Seriously? Shouldn’t you be saving this for a therapist
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If you’re not happy leave. Simple. 
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman wanting her man to please her. She said she isn’t satisfied at all. She never said she was going to force him to go down on her.
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Y’all, I’d like to remind you the name of this group is Mama’s Uncut… that means you should expect some raw, uncensored posts now and then…
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Ask him to put in effort in other ways for you, that he is comfortable with🤷🏻♀️
If he’s not willing to compromise, then just leave and find someone on your level; you’ll resent him for your dissatisfaction eventually.
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You can’t make him go down on you if he doesn’t like it. But, he she definitely be pleasing you in other ways.
I’d tell him either he does or you don’t!!
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No more slobby Knobby’s for his @ss!!!
He told you he doesn’t like it so instead of accepting it or moving on you’ve deceived to stay…bond him with a child then complain when he told you he doesn’t like it?
Get some toys and have your own foreplay. Let him take care of himself. AND/OR before he finishes, get up & act like you’re done & let him lay there high & dry. Be more selfish than him!
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Damn, she is venting/asking for advice. If you do not have anything helpful to say. Just keep scrolling.
He CAN he just doesn’t care. Stop giving him what he won’t give you.
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If he isn’t giving you oral sex
He wouldn’t get it either ! HES being selfish, petty and absolutely ridiculous!
My husband doesn’t often go down on me and i don’t often go down on him. However my husband doesn’t just please himself and i get nothing.
Get yourself a toy and use it during. You’ll be finished before him then you’re done 
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If he hasn’t gone down on ya in 2 year’s why is there a problem now? Get a man that’ll do what pleases ya if you can’t compromise with likes and dislikes
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If you can’t see that he has no interest in your needs then see a sex therapist or leave him for someone less uncaring
Stop doing it for him…
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That’s just selfish. He wants everything to be about him and can’t even bother to make you feel good too?
Leave him. He’s so not worth it.
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How did this relationship even start, if he’s not even doing the bare minimum in bed?
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My baby daddy is the same, been together 4 years and have 6 kids between us, he has a thing with blow jobs and honestly I have a lot of things that get me going too but unless I verbalise or make a deal like a 2 year old I will always be left with my magic wand to climax on my own 
maybe some men are built different but I make it pretty clear by literally just sitting on his face at every perfect opportunity and my fat ass won’t get up till the job is done … if you want to live you better do some for me too 
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Lmao SAME. THIS IS SELFISH. see if he watches porn behind your back. Cause that’s what it seems like
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
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Make it plain that you expect him to take care of your needs first. If not through oral, then with a toy or hands or whatever you find pleasurable. If he isn’t going to ensure you are BOTH able to recieve gratification then he is not a good partner.
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Two words huni, ‘We vibe’ … the best play mate ever created, you can do you, tell him to do himself, trust me you’ll be having Waaaay more fun than him!!
Plus you can use it with him, tune it to music, he can even operate it from long distance.
Trust me, this erotic little beast will change your life & send you to a world of ecstasy!! 
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If it isn’t his thing accept it and don’t take it personal.
Guys are wired very different than women BUT he should maintain until you climax then he can … I know so, I was married 3 times (widowed twice) … and it as wonderful
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I wouldn’t do shit for him unless he starts returning favors 
Leave him hanging so to speak, That would be like you taking him out to dinner for the evening but expecting him not to eat while you enjoy your dinner. Straight up wrong of him, it goes with the old saying don’t ask someone else to do something you wouldn’t do yourself.
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I will never understand how you have been unhappy for two years and yet you got pregnant. I just don’t get how people can bring children into unhappy relationships…
Leave the bastard if you are unhappy. You are not married to him. Go find someone who will give you what you need and settle down with that person. Please…
He’s selfish. The gentleman thing to do is let you finish first.
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Stop going down on him. Tell him off it’s not his thing to do to you then it’s not your thing to do yo him! He is selfish!
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Time to break up with him and move on with your life
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You’re not a bank for him to make his deposit and leave! You’re a beautiful woman who deserves her Orgasm! If he isn’t willing to give it to you it’s time to move on to a real man.
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and you stayed with him and had a baby with him…??
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Are there any personal hygiene issues?
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Time for a new boyfriend
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I would definitely stop pleasing him and start being vocal that you’re not satisfied. But understand that you can’t make a person be giving and loving if they do not want to.
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F that! Been there done that for 13 years and if he’s not willing to do the same for you then find someone who is or he can live without!
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Do you own a … personal adult toy?? Time to get one. Either he uses it WITH you ( so awesome !!!) OR you use it after he’s done. Win Win.
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Why is everyone making oral sex sound like a self sacrifice. Either party should only participate in sexual acts that they enjoy. If he does not want to go down on you, that’s up to him, if you don’t want to do it to him then don’t. You can’t make people do what you want and you need to not do what you don’t want.
Talk to him… show him… start with out him. All very simple easy solutions and it let’s him know that you are sexually frustrated
I’d explain to him that going down on him just “isn’t your thing” if he doesn’t want to do the same for you. Sex isn’t about just one person. It’s about both of you.
Tell him to finger you or use a vibrator on you to make you cum first and then you’ll blow him or have sex with him. He doesn’t cum until you do first!
Time to move on.
You both settled.
Why?
This issue plus many others were there in the beginning, but y’all ignored them.
Time to put all the cards on the table and deal with what’s staring y’all in the face.
As it stands right now, it’s a one sided relationship leaving you lacking in many areas.
OR…
He’s fucckin someone else.
Not cool. Does he like men? Not trying to be rude but usually that’s totally a straight guys thing. That’s just crazy to me. 
My ex of 25yr was the same but for that on part going down he was great with that I was the one who couldn’t swollow I would gag and get sick thought of it would make me gag no clue why not for me.