Number one you’re engaged your NOT the stepmother…number two if you WERE and he had full custody what choice would you have ?? What happens if you have another child 
you REALLY think that they’re not gonna get sick and make the other kids sick 
Take care of them all that’s what a parent does !!!
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One why don’t you or her FATHER take her to the doctor or med point? This is just my opinion but he doesn’t get to stop being a dad because she is sick or anyone else in your house is sick. My ex tried pulling one on me saying he was sick. Guess what when I’m sick nobody fills in for me
You are in for a real surprise when your son starts school
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This is something your just going to have to deal with. I have my step childeren show up sick all the time even after having my babies. It is what it is. Kids get sick. U cant stop that from happening. Step down a little bit. That is still a child within your care.
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So, you expect him to just write off his other child because she’s sick? She is his responsibility just as much as your child with him. Give me a break and get over yourself.
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Kids get sick. Just cause he shares parenting time doesn’t mean he can decide when he wants to have his child or not because she has a cold. She is his kid as well, he has responsibilities to that child as well. His time is his time whether the kid is sick or not. You don’t get to choose when he should have his child. He is responsible for her. What would you do if she lived with you all the time?
You’re a horrible person
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🤦 I understand that you have a new Baby but if it’s his Day to take his other child then you have to take her your Baby is gonna get sick at some point in its life why does the Bio Mom have to deal with the sickness of the child all the time can’t the father take her to the doctors
So because she is sick she isn’t allowed to see her dad? Is the mother the only one supposed to take care of the sick child? Keep the baby away from the 6 year old, use Lysol, and help co parent. It’s not fair to the mother of this child nor is it fair to the child that she doesn’t get time with her dad. I understand why you’re worried but procautions can be put in place. It’s part of co-parenting. Get used to it.
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With flu season and RSV going around she definitely should’ve taken the child to the Dr to be sure it was just a common cold. If it hadn’t been a cold, RSV or Flu instead can be deadly for a newborn so I understand your concern. If it’s a normal virus then I wouldn’t worry. Colds happen and aren’t going to kill your baby. But I still would’ve been more comfortable had the BM at least made sure with the Dr that it was nothing serious. I have 5 bios of my own, and one on the way with my husband. 35 weeks now. Also, a SS. My ex and I co parent fine and he also has two other children. If anyone gets sick we communicate and make sure it’s nothing serious before the kids go back to the other home. Just last week they stayed there for 3 extra days due to being sick so as not as likely to pass whatever it was around in our home as well. His idea. I agreed. But every situation is different. If it seems severe enough we keep the kids where they are so it’s not spreading. Its it’s a minor cold we don’t sweat it and they go.
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Step children are still YOUR children. You dont get to take a weekend off because they are sick. This post is disgusting. You need to give your head a shake. Those poor kids.
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I fully understand you didnt want your baby to get sick but what if you have another child 5 years down the line and your eldest gets Ill? Would you send either child elsewhere until the other is better? It’s awful to see a baby or any child unwell but it happens and as parents we deal with it! You cant wrap your baby in cotton wool and not expect him to get unwell.
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Sucks but yes she needs to go to a dr the flu is awful this year Dad needs to take her if mom won’t
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Yall are missing what she is saying! She isnt saying dont send the child if shes sick…what she is saying is that the child has been sick for a month and the mom is lying about taking her to the dr! The child needs to go to the DR! Whooping cough and RSV can be deadly to a 5 wk baby!
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He’s her father, have him take her, keep her away from the baby.
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This isn’t a family gathering where you can just tell someone not to come if it’s your step daughter it’s your responsibility to have her when scheduled and take care of her regardless. Moms don’t get a day off or exceptions if one of my kids is sick and one is not I can’t just like send one away, lol. Sometimes my kids will be fine then horribly sick the next day, it’s the time of year
Oooook. First of all, you shouldn’t care about what she thinks of your kid. What difference is her opinion going to make? Why do you care what she thinks?? Second, what if the daughter lived with you guys and she was sick? Would you ship her off to someone else until she was all better? Kids get sick. Figure out a way to separate the two kids if the one has been sick.
The mom said she was fine, you said she seemed fine until the next day so it doesn’t seem like the mom lied. If she’s been sick for a month and the mom had decided to keep her home that whole time would y’all be complaining that you weren’t getting to see the little girl? You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Figure out a way to control things at your household without involving the mom. And to answer your question, she probably doesn’t care about your kid.
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You all are being so rude to her. First off she is obviously a first time mom. That’s nerve racking enough and the fact that if the little girl is sick with something minor for her it could potentially put that infant in the hospital. Depending on what my step kids are sick with I’ll tell their mom she has to keep them, same if one of mine have something I’ll let her know so the other kids don’t have to risk being miserable with it. If the germs don’t have to be spread that’s how it should be.
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If she’d been yours you’d just try to contain her or isolate them, not tell a 6 year old to leave her dad’s house. It’s an overreaction imho
Dad can take the little one in to see the doc too , express your concerns to the doc, don’t keep the children apart just cause she’s sick, she isn’t purposely getting him sick, just let her know that when someone is sick you want them to wash often and not touch the baby. And practice sneezing and coughing into the elbow or a tissue, Sorry but it’s something you have to deal with whether you would like to or not babies will get sick just like the other children and it’s sappose to help build and immune system so they can fight off bugs;)
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What if your own child got sick? Would you send them away so they didnt get a sibling sick?
If it was your bio child and and she was sick she would be around the baby. Being a parent is a full time job sick or not. You can’t pick and choose based on the child’s health when you want her to see her dad.
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Mom should have kept the child with her while sick. If anyone in my house gets sick, seriously sick, they have to be isolated in their room. They cant leave without a mask, anyone going in has to have a mask and gloves. And I dont even have a baby. This is how illnesses spread so fast between family members and in communities. You absolutely were right for being upset.
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You are 110% WRONG.
Visitation doesn’t stop because a kid gets sick. WTF would you even think that??!!
Sorry but he has TWO daughters. That he is obgilated to equally.
All you are doing is starting baby momma drama. If you give 9 shits about either kid, you will STOP
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I was a child of a split home and this was how I was treated. Visits cancelled if I was sick because it wouldn’t have been acceptable for me to get the other children sick. However, whenever one of them didn’t feel well I was still expected to keep the visit and that child was not removed from the home. So, if you want to make SD feel like she doesn’t belong or is less important than the new sibling, by all means, keep up this kind of behavior.
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Thats how it works. Kids get sick no matter how young or old they are. My daughter got a cold when she was 3 weeks old. Don’t overreact. Its your SO’s daughter too. If hes that worried he needs to take her to the doctor. When i was sick i had a bad cough for 3 weeks. Just chill out. Thats not gonna be the only time your baby gets sick.
Wow! I honestly feel bad for your “step daughter” she will never feel accepted by you or part of the family if you continue to treat her like this. You’re going to ruin your relationship with her father if you don’t change.
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That’s his child too and he is responsible for the care of the child regardless of whether she is sick or not.
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Just think about if the father had her full time, would you kick her out because she’s sick? It sucks that your son got sick BUT she is now your daughter as well
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No its ur hubbys kid! Going to emergency room isnt full of other serious germs??? As a nurse let me tell ya crazyyyy…n if u had a 6yr old with a newborn that was sick wat wld u do send to grandparents?
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And what would you have done if his daughter came to move in with you? Are you gonna ship her away to somebody else’s house every time she’s sick? You knew she was sick previously, and you can’t trust the BM. Why on earth didn’t you take your own precautions if you’re as concerned as you say you are.
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I mean parents of more than one kid have to be with and take care of their children, regardless if they are sick or there is an infant or other children, thats just being a parent with multiple children. The father could have taken her to the drs as well…if shes sick he is still responsible to be a parent and take care of his child. Wtf…I seriously dont get the mentality of some people.
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Get your partner to contact her Gp. Shared custody you’re allowed to find out medical details. If she’s telling the truth then no one is at fault so calm you mammaries. If she’s lying then your partner take her to the Gp in the meanwhile try your best to prevent the spread of infection to the newborn. You can’t stop the child from seeing her father but you can arrange something where the child doesn’t have prolonged co tact with the infant 
. Poorly child probably wants her daddy and if the mother has been truthful she probably needs a break. Get al the Information before you take action.
My son is in 2nd grade and he’s been sick for a week with a stuffy nose and loose cough, but no fever, all running clear so he’s not technically considered sick. Between pre k and about 3rd grade kids are constantly sick. I’m guessing you are new to this parenting thing.
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As a mom of two and two bonus sickness is going to happen and you shouldn’t want to stop it completely. Take a step back and don’t be so over protective. Sickness helps with the immune system. I know it’s your first and your being protective but take a steps back and enjoy your step kids.
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Would you sent your own sick kid away because of a new baby or other siblings?? I don’t think so! I have 4 bio kids one with special needs and for that her immune system little but weak but when one of her siblings get sick I just have to make sure they don’t be face to face and wash hands, sanitizer everywhere and Lysol, also when is our time with our stepson he still comes sick or not! He is here and if he sick I do the same stuff to prevent the other kids from getting sick just like I do when he ain’t here
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Is this for real?
If this is the attitude towards your fiance’ kid then I feel so bad for her because you’re already treating her likes she’s not part of the family.
Not even a legit step-mother and already treating that poor baby like a red-headed step child. Sad.
Oh, it may be “your” son but your fiance’ has two kids and he shouldn’t be kept from either one of them because of your dramatics.
Good Luck to your fiance’ daughter.
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Seriously??? Kids get sick. You say this has been going on for over a month so is her dad supposed to just abandon her for over a month because he has a new baby? Those are both his kids. If she lived with you would you send her away since she was sick so she doesn’t get the baby sick? It she was yours would you not allow her at you house because she might get her brother sick? You need to just get over it. You’re being ridiculous…
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Ummm, do you expect him to not be a parent to y’all’s baby when he’s sick?? My stepdaughter is here when she’s supposed to be whether she’s sick or not… Because this is HER HOME as well, and HER DADDY… I can’t even with some of this… Unless you’ve got an immunocompromised infant, or she’s actively vomiting so much she can’t leave… There’s no reason to not take her because she’s sick… Come on…
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Well. First off. I get it. Been there. Exactly where you are with the exact same opinion.
But i was wrong.
That’s his child too. What would you do if he had full custody? You couldn’t send her off. You couldn’t just not take her. She’s a real flesh and blood child. Not an appointment. She’s his child. Its his visitation. This isn’t a playdate or a job you can call in to.
Second. The mom is probably being honest. These massive weather shifts are causing everyone’s allergies and sinuses to go haywire. Both of my kids and myself have had this crud off and on. All the drainage caused an ear infection for the youngest but that’s not contagious. Aside from antibiotics for him for the ears. All we can do for the rest of it is give him benadryl until it clears up. And it feels like it never will.
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Dad needs to take care of his daughter even when she’s sick. That’s part of parenting. An unfortunately part of siblings is they are going to.give each other viruses back an fourth. It sucks but that’s what happens.
If mom is not taking her to the doctor your husband needs to when yall have her.
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Yes u are over reacting. The older child doesn’t get treated differently just because their is a new baby. If she was yours biologically u wouldn’t send her away u would do everything u could to keep baby safe in the presence of the older child. There should not be differences made
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Just take her to the doc yourself and get it handled!
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I’m not being mean but you need to get over … kids get sick and it spreads. It’s the way of the world
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Yes, you’re wrong. Would you feel differently if dad had full custody and she was still sick? If not, it’s not a problem w the baby mama, it’s a problem w you. Kids get sick. It isn’t the end of the world. Yes, a 5 week old being sick is scary but it will be okay.
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Sorry but you are 
wrong. That child is your husbands child too. That comes with responsibility. Visitation doesn’t stop when kids are sick. I have 4 kids. One is sick each week in the winter and…visitation keeps up and their father takes care of them when it’s his day/weekend. He doesn’t even ever question me and I’ve never had an issue bc he is a PARENT. I feel horrible for your stepdaughter.
Are you going to send your son to another house when he gets sick to protect your stepdaughter? You are overreacting .
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Would you send your daughter away because she is sick???
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Yes you are wrong.
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I would not want you as a step mom. Yikes! I feel bad for your step daughter.
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Well you fucking suck. That’s still his child, you can’t expect your SO not to be a parent because his child is sick? What if she lived with you full time?? You gonna send her somewhere else because she’s sick?? Gross asf. This whole status. Glad you submitted it anon honestly.
Can her dad not take her to the Dr?
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Maybe she was fine leading up to the weekend. You don’t know. Kids get sick at the drop of a hat. If you had your SO’s child week on/week off or even full custody, are you going to send her to her mom’s when she gets sick? Get real. Either love her like your own or leave. She doesn’t need your negative attitude.
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My daughter had RSV when my baby was 3 weeks old. We kept them separated. We all had a stomach virus and my daughter ended up with meningitis from it not being able to be contained to her GI tract.
Shit happens. You’re her step-mother but still her MOTHER. Act like it. But the bio-Mom should have told you guys. I’m sorry your little dude is sickly.
I am sorry, but it’s your life too. It maybe only weekends but it’s your life too.
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You sound like my child’s fathers girlfriend he canceled his time with her because she’s sick & his girlfriend doesn’t want to catch what our daughter has 
I have a newborn and 2 year old at home as well. Don’t be like his girlfriend lol I understand you don’t want your newborn sick but if that was your biological child, you wouldn’t have a choice
#dontbeajessie 
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To answer your 1st question, YES
Wow. I feel bad for the kid. That is still HIS kid whether you like it or not. He can deal with herr being sick. And like you said the baby is okay so why are you bitching? You should be ashamed.
Ok I don’t have a blended family or step kids or anything like that but isn’t the dad’s time the dad’s time? Like you don’t call out sick from seeing either parent? I have a 3 year old on preschool who I swear since day one of starting school has had a runny nose, I also just had a baby 3 weeks ago. Should I quarantine my toddler away? Lmao like there’s only so much you can do. Yes my newborn daughter is congested, yes it freaks me out and we did take her to her doctor yesterday while my son was at school. She’s fine, I’m just doing the same thing, nasal drops and sucking her nose and we have the humidifier on 24/7. I just have to accept she’s going to be exposed to things from her brother and ya know life in general. All we can do is watch them, watch for signs and take them to the docs when we feel it’s needed. Kids get sick. I don’t think it’s fair to punish the your step child and make it so she doesn’t get the time with her dad because she is sick. Like I said I have no experience in this but that’s crazy to me. Are you breast feeding? That will help your baby build up immunities to anything he is exposed to. If you are breast feeding just nurse nurse nurse away so he gets those antobidies. And take the step daughter to the doctors if you need reassurance. But she should be able to spend her time with her dad even if she’s sick. It’s mean of you to think she should be kept away or not welcomed in HER DADS house because she is sick. That’s like crazy. Like put your hormones away… They’re drunk.
Your husband is her dad too so I’d say if you don’t like it keep them separate. What do you think moms and dads who live together and have multiple children do lol
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The sister is just as important and as you said she’s fine then she isn’t it is unfortunate but these things happen maybe try and get along with the ex it’s better for the children
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yes you are an idiot. would you get mad at your own child for coming home sick?? pathectic!! people like you make me sick
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My son goes to his dads house sick, I tell him prior to his weekends that he has a cold or he this or that. If he is constantly throwing up puking, I’m not sending him because that’s not fair to either of them. But when he’s sick with a cold/cough. I tell his dad and he 99.9% of the time takes him. They also have another child.
If she was yours 100% of the time you can’t kick her out when she’s sick because you’re afraid of the baby getting sick, you just try to avoid contact with them both and sanitize like crazy.
Is this because she’s not your bio child? She has the right to see her dad and sibling. You can’t treat her any differently than you are treating your own bio children.
And she may have been perfectly fine at her moms house.
My son has a respiratory flu right now that’s been going on for 2 weeks. He is fine some days, not even a runny nose and the next day he’s hacking up his lungs. You can’t say her mom lied because she may have honestly thought she’s fine.
It seems like your just trying to pick a fight.
I also have my own kids at home, I don’t call his dad and say hey come get him because he’s sick and I don’t want my newborn to catch it. I isolate him to his room, and sanitize myself anytime I go to check on him, help him, or if he comes downstairs. I also clean my house daily so the others MIGHT not catch it. It’s life. It happens. Quit freaking out and let her see her dad.
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What would you do if the BM wasn’t in the picture and you and your SO were raising the little girl alone? She would still be at your house. I don’t know that picking and choosing when it’s convenient for you is going to be very helpful. I get you didn’t want your little one to get sick, but it’s going to happen. Unless everyone in your house is quarantined and nobody is going to the store or work. 
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I don’t send my son to his dads when he’s sick🤷♀️ but I wouldn’t stop my step daughter from coming up if she’s sick.
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You never know with kids & that’s his kid too you can’t expect things to be different you treat her like you would your own kid that you have 100% of the time.
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I would’ve been pissed. I HATE when people come over knowing they or someone else in the house have been sick and then my daughter gets it. Whether she gets along with you or not, she shouldn’t put your newborn in that situation at all.
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I would not want a sick child around a NEWBORN.
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Step child. …if your taken on that responsibility then its NOT a step but no deal with it it’s part of being a parent
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it’s his child, sick or not he still needs to parent during his time… I dont send away one of my children to live at grandma’s because his brother might catch whatever he has… if you took the baby to the er you should’ve had them look her over while you were there
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Child just isn’t the mothers responsibility. It’s dads too. What if she lived with you? I’d hate to find out what you’d do. Maybe you should clean your house with stuff that will kill germs and not blame the girls mother. Maybe you should step back a realize that his daughter comes before you. Kids will get sick I hate to say it but it’s also your responsibility to clean your house to make sure it doesn’t spread.
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Wow. So when your baby gets sick, you just gonna tell him he can’t be at your house? Jesus. I get the whole no one wants the baby to get sick. Wash hands, don’t let her have super close contact with the baby. But that’s his child, and you should treat her like she is your child.
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I would NEVER tell my step sons mother that he couldn’t come to our house when he is sick. It’s HIS HOME as well. This post is beyond ridiculous. When you move in with a person with children you take on the responsibility of parenting those children and loving them as your own. If you did not want than then you should not have had a child with this man. Parents with multiple children have to accommodate sick children all the time. We do as well especially since my step son is special needs with a weakened immune system. It’s part of parenting. Get used to it!
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Would you not let your kid come home if she were sick? Your home is your step childs home.
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So your going to prevent her father from seeing her because you only care about yourself and baby? Facts of life children get sick.
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Kids get sick. That is part of being a parent. You are kind of overreacting about the situation. Plus if you and the father are so concerned you all should’ve taken his daughter to the doctor/urgent care. I totally understand your concern probably being a first time mom yourself. Good luck momma.
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Uhm. That’s her dad as much as it’s your baby’s dad. She has just as much right to be with him as your baby and even more so than YOU. She’s six. Kids get sick. You’re not a daycare or a school… you’re a step PARENT. Comes with the territory. You can’t keep a kid away from their parent because of a cough.
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No, the mom should know better and that you have an infant, if she had decency she would know to keep her home so the infant does not get exposed to illness especially at such a young age, but not everyone gives a damn so, but seeing how she hasn’t been getting good enough care for the daughter I and the father would’ve took them both to be seen especially since it’s been going on for so long, I hope they all get well soon 
No offense but it’s not her job to care about your child. I have an ex who doesn’t want our son if he is sick and it is so unbelievably frustrating. You are both her parents as well, you should both be looking after her while she’s sick just like you would if she was biologically yours. It’s your job to keep the germs away as much as possible, and there’s no reason your fiance cannot take her to a doctor himself.
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Wow your selfish. I’d be so mad if my ex had a gf trying to say my son can’t go to his dads house and see his dad because he’s sick. I hope you took care of her. Gave her medicine. Made her feel loved and cared for. You can’t pick and choose when his daughter can come over just because you have another kid. Lots of people have multiple kids. Maybe she wouldn’t have gotten sicker if you gave her meds and took care of her. I’m about to have another kid and this is like me sending my son away when he’s sick so he doesn’t get his sister sick. That’s terrible.
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Sadly dealing with some BM is just going to be a nightmare. My husband and I brought our two day old son home from the hospital and his ex sent my stepsons over with strep throat. When I asked her to please let us know when they were sick before sending them over, she became outraged. It was ridiculous. The really annoying part is my in-laws lived in the same town, they could have had a grandparent’s weekend instead of sending them to our house with a newborn.
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I’m SO sick of this mindset.
You wanna marry that man then 
THAT IS YOUR CHILD NOW TOO !
You gonna have another kid and then banish your son to another house when he gets sick?
GTFOH!!
People. You can’t treat a step child the same way you’d treat a child that legit came outta you…then don’t get into a relationship with any man that has a kid.
This mindset is gross, and I don’t care if I come across as a major B. I remember being that kid before. It’s life-changing hurt!
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On the one hand I understand where you’re coming from with your newborn baby because there is this virus coronavirus going around plus it is croup RSV bronchitis and pneumonia season. All things not good for new born babies because they can’t can’t fight any feeling of really good right now because they’re still developing their immune system this little. To be honest you got in a relationship with someone who had a child therefore the child has to be as much your child as it is his aside from the baby mama in sickness and in health. Yes she is their child but you also took that responsibility on when accepting a band that had a child already. I think Dad should help take care of his daughter when she’s sick as well maybe you could have her use hand sanitizer every time she cleans her nose or covers her mouth to cough and if she’s sneezing and coughing you should get her some masks to put on especially if she’s around the baby. Dad has to be involved and see his child not just when she’s healthy. I wouldn’t talk to the baby mama if you’re not getting anywhere with her I would just take it upon yourselves or her dad to take her to the doctor and figure out what is going on with her and get her some medication so the poor child gets better soon then just inform the baby mama that you’re taking her to the doctor and what medication she needs to take and when. that’s all you can do it is unreal how many people don’t have consideration for other people especially when children are sick and there are newborns around are people with compromised immune systems. This winter season has been horrible for kids I know a lot of kids that have been sick for close to a month if not a month consistently my own kids have been sick now for 3 weeks and I have taken them to the doctor repeatedly and they are currently on medication. It happens when you have kids especially school-aged kids.
Us as mothers have ALL our kids while sick why should a father not?! That’s not fair on the child,the mother and good on him for being a dad and having his child. Sorry but it is selfish u should be proud of ur partner for being a dad because so many are not. Yes u have a baby u need to keep baby as germ free as possible but they’re siblings so that should void this hole “issue”.
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I wouldn’t want sick kids around my newborn. BUT that’s his daughter. And so I think it’s different but the mom should let him take her to he dr
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Ok here is the thing. When you and your so got together you knew he had a child with someone else. So you knew this child would be in his life after all she is his child. I understand you don’t want your child sick but face facts sick or not this child will be there. So here is a little bit of making everyone safe. If child comes over sick dad takes her to the Dr. He can let the Dr know about the baby and what is needed if anything to keep baby safe. This child needs someone looking after her as well. If she has been this way for a month then it was apparent she needed seen again. You took the baby to ER but did not have the dad get the little girl looked at. I truly feel like this little girl is the one who is suffering here. Dad takes baby to ER for cough but neglects his other child who has been sick for a month. Shame on all adults involved.
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I’m sure at some point each of you lady’s ripping her a new one we’re first time Moms of a newborn. So stop. As well as at one point your newborn is going to pass along some type of germs to her as well and you will be sending her back home sick. Welcome to being a parent. Make the best of it crap happens.
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A child being sick is not a reason to cancel a visit. You can’t just always isolate kids when sick. Kids get sick and get each other sick, its part of having siblings. She was fine when mom dropped her off so why you so angry and assume mom lied. Also its not just up to mom when child is sick. My son left here last friday for his week with dad saturday woke up with a fever his DAD took him to urgent care he tested positive for strep, they kept him for his week even with having other children because thats what you do as a parent. Thank god his woman is nothing like this and welcomes our son sick or not!
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Deal with it, and get the hell over yourself.
If the 6 yr old was yours, you’d have no complaints. Nor would you have an alternative household to send the kid to.
Take the kid to the doctor yourself and step tf up, if you’re soooo pissed off about it. Don’t be surprised if you create animosity in your relationship by acting like you don’t have a responsibility to your step kid.
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no, not at all! sending a child sick anywhere can be dangerous and with a new baby you have to be super careful.
Also have your fiancé make her an appointment he shouldn’t need the EX’s permission, if he’s that worried about his daughters health.
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You gotta be kidding me lady.
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Isn’t your home also your step kids house? You are being very unreasonable. Take care of your step daughter if she’s sick, don’t just try to make her someone else’s responsibility
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Dad can just take stop putting it all on her why shouldn’t dad get the good with the bad 
50/50 love you new wat u was getting into be better for your kid in long run anyways to catch a few bugs ffs grow up
Um. Well I mean. If you have another kid your not gonna be able to send your oldest away when they are sick to keep away from the baby. So you shouldnt really do that to your step child either. What do you think people with 2+ kids do when one is sick? You cant just pick and choose when its convenient for you for your SO first kid to see her father.
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When u have 2 kids and one is sick, u keep them in separate rooms of the same house and disinfect. You don’t kick them out of the house…she isn’t a visitor.
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If you had multiple children would you make them leave if they were sick? Take care of the 6 year old little girl who doesn’t understand and just wants to see her dad. You are totally wrong to be upset. Just take her to and urgent care if it’s that big of an issue.
No you’re an idiot a complete idiot because it’s not like it’s some other kid from a daycare coming over to visit it’s your step child and you should see it no different than them being your actual child! That’s that child’s home too!
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So if you have another child and your oldest gets sick, are you going to send the oldest to the grandparents?
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Its gonna happen again if you two decide to have another baby ever? Depending in the severity of the kids cold, i would still send my daughter to her dads, hes going to be exposed to everything anyway
If dad had custody and she was sick would you make her leave because her little brother is there? That’s not very fair… I understand being upset that your baby is sick but it HAPPENS. Kids get sick and they pass the sickness back and forth… there’s not much that you can really do.
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I don’t even need to read the whole thing to tell you that is unacceptable. How on Earth can you tell that mother not to send the FATHER his child because she’s sick?? It is his responsibility whether she is sick or not. What if this was your biological child? You would have no choice but to take care of a sick child AND a five week old.
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