If your going to be ungrateful do it yourself next time.
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Then next time get off your @$$ and do it yourself. All you see anymore is females thatâs not appreciative. Did your m@m@ teach you anything?
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I would not want to dress my daughter as a Trex either. However, I have always done the costume planning myself. I wouldnt be mad about it if you didnât discuss it. He prob thought it was cool.
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Reading these comments looks like you didnât get the answers you wanted.
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You kind of sound like a spoiled brat. A T-Rex costume is absolutely adorable for a little baby to begin with if you wanted something different than you should have gotten it instead of relying on someone else and then having a problem with the costume that they picked out
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Maybe you should have given him some suggestions on what to get.
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How is a T-Rex inappropriate? One of my kids was a T-rex a few years ago⌠seemed appropriate to me. And the kid was warm and happy!
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My 1.5 year old daughter went to the Halloween store and was told to pick out any costume she wanted. Out of everything she chose a dinosaur. Kids donât care!
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Why is a t rex not appropriate? Maybe he thought it was super cute or maybe baby costumes were slim pickings being so close to Halloween and it was her size.
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Men are dumb period, and no your little girl shouldnât be t Rexđ
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Nothing wrong with a T Rex, it is Halloween costumes are fun not gender specific
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My 4 yo loves dinosaurs. For her birthday she wanted an animatronic t-rex toy that she picked out while walking up and down all the toy isles. She even plays a game at home called âfancy dinosaurâ Youâre a dinosaur, but fancy. She colors little âtutusâ on paper for each dinosaur and asks me to cut them out and tape them together for her to invite to lunch 
Sheâs also started to request I make them for her brothers monster trucks as well so she can play fancy monster truck too âbecause her fancy dinosaurs need something fancy to drive to lunch inâ
Last minute literally with almost nothing left to choose from, he grabbed the best thing probably there so his kid could be happy and you couldnât even give him or her that moment it had to be about you and your wants ?
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Maybe you shouldâve specified what kind of costume. Sheâs a baby. Dress her in cute Halloween pajamas. 
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Whys it not appropriate?
Look I hate to break it to you but not everyone has the same idea of what a good costume is.
When your child is to young to say what they want to be, then itâs at the parents discretion.
In this case you left the choice to dad who thought a Trex costume was a good idea. Youâre upset because you donât agree.
Next time do it yourself or tell him before hand what youâd like him to try to get rather than being offended he didnât think like you.
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Wow! I like the old saying. âItâs the thought that countsâ
At least he came thru and brought her a costume.
Donât leave the dad in charge to get a costume 
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Moms wonder why dads arenât more involved, but never notice how they only accept the dad if he parents exactly like them. That is not just your baby sheâs his baby too, and if you undermine his decisions and try to control how he parents and what he picks out for his daughter youâre going to cause a lot of strife that will effect your daughter in the long run. Let that man make decisions about his child. You sound controlling, I feel sorry for dads who have to deal with moms like this, I use to be one of those moms until I seen how it hurt my son and then I had to humble myself. She is not just your baby, she is his too. If he doesnât agree with your costume choice he probably wouldnât say anything about it at all because itâs your baby too. You better not take that costume back!
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Be grateful he actually got something I not inappropriate for a girl to be a T-Rex if you wanted her to be something else you shouldâve told him what kind of costume or got it your self to begin with
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My daughter is a dinausore (Yoshi) this year for Halloween 
donât have to be a princess or something for a girl to be appropriate
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That sounds like an AMAZING costume. If you wanted a witch or pumpkin the you needed to say so. He also had to work this weekend so you couldâve got it yourself. Dress her up as a creepy doll insteadâŚ
Most kids love dinosaurs, so I donât see the problem .
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You should have said something beforehand. Sheâs still so young so if you-wanted something specific then you should have said so. Maybe he actually thought it would be a good costume for herâŚâŚMy daughter loves dinosaurs so she would like that. Dad came through here, he just didnât get what you wanted. As your kiddo gets older I would recommend just letting her pick.
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Whatâs wrong with trex? If your going to be so picky then you should have bought it yourself. FFS.
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Well maybe she thought he would have enough brains to get her something cute . Dinosaurs are not effin cute at all until the toddler stage .
I dont think she is wrong for wanting her daughter to be in a cute girl or what ever her preferences are for a baby them moments are important an should have took a little more than 5 min and should have thought about the feelings of the mother specifically if she respects him in such way .
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At least she has a father that showed up & attempted to do the right thing. Even if it wasnât up to your standards 
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Not a life or death situation. Get over it! Enjoy the day with your child.
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Seriously ? Get over it . He tried âŚ
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Are you being serious? I hope youâre not being serious.
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He kept hid word and did not let his daughter downâŚi bet she would have been the cutest trex not a lot if options when shopping last minute
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Thereâs no way I would take a baby out in this covid infested society for candy she cannot chew yet. Put what you want on her and save his outfit to give her when she is older as her first outfit from her dad.
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My daughter is 7 months old and sheâs going to be Simba for Halloween. Just because its a boys costume doesnât mean itâs inappropriate. I hope your not one of those parents who think Boys stuff is just for boys, and girls stuff is just for girls.
The dad got a costume, maybe you shouldnât have asked him to, itâs just a costume. Youâre just upset because he didnât get something youâd like.
You have every right to be upset. Thatâs your feelings, you should feel them. But, itâs not his fault youâre upset. And it certainly isnât his fault you asked him to get a costume the weekend of Halloween. Usually in my town, itâs slim to pick something in the exact size you want, and to pick a girl/boy costume.
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The costume isnât inappropriate its just not what u wanted. However, it sounds exactly like something a dad would like. And depending on your babies age maybe he though would look super cute crawling or walking around. I donât even think you should exchange. He took the time to pick it, put his child in it.
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No harm in a girl being a t rex⌠my son has a witch costume he absolutely adores. At least he got her something
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TREX is one of the most popular right now. But you also she have told him what you wanted. I think itâs fine and great that he got it. I bet she is super cute
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If you wanted approve the costume then maybe you should have picked it out to start with. Iâm that kinda mom. So only I pick out my kids costume.
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Depending on when he bought it it couldâve been the only thing he could find. My neighbors kid needed a costume so I went to look and there was nothing left.
Lol damn cry baby. Be thankful he gave instead of being a gitchâŚgrow the hell up
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My kids would love to be a trex any day !! My son breathes dinosaurs !!
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I can see why youâre disappointed but maybe try look at it from another angle. You get to spend Halloween with her. You get those early Halloween memories. Sheâs not going to care if sheâs trex and if it bothers you, put together a cute Halloween outfit for her.
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Why is a t-rex not appropriate? If I had a little girl, Iâd totally dress her as a t-Rex. Thereâs nothing wrong with it. Itâs just not what you wanted so you should have just asked for money to get a costume. No reason to get upset, and yes you are so very wrong.
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Uhm my little
Girl is a Dino
Whatâs the issue?
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Iâm over here like 
to all the women saying its not cute to be a dinosaur when my daughter has been a dinosaur every year until now 
she was Mario this year.
OP, its a preference with costumes. You can be disappointed that its not what you wanted but honestly, do it yourself 
if you wanted her to be in a cutesy outfit⌠thats a you responsibility if you didnât vocalize that to him.
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Common now a baby T. rex? Thatâs cute.
You are reaching at this point. He got her a costume.
Lots of people wish their baby daddyâs would do that. Be greatful
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What the hell Is wrong with getting her a dinosaur costumeâŚif you wanted something specific maybe you should have gotten one for her yourself, my husband doesnt even bother with Halloween we have literally skipped like 4 Halloweens because he doesnt give a shit about it as much as I do if I drove itd be another storyâŚyou should be grateful
WellâŚmy daughters father hasnt seen her or provided a dammm thing for her for 4 years now. Be blessed he tried.
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T rex would have been awesome! Baby dinos are cute!
Youâre being PETTY⌠If YOU wanted something specifically, you should have bought itâŚ
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I love dinosaurs so I would have been geeked I have a whole arm of dinosaur tattoos. Would have fit right in. It is a unisex costume and even with baby costume the options are limited this late into the season this year.
My 2 year old granddaughter is being a dinosaur!! She loves them and thatâs what she wanted to be.
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Why exactly is it not appropriate? You didnt explain this in your post? Is it cause it would typically be considered a âboysâ costume or another reason? If its the boy thing then that isnt a big deal since she is a baby. Put a bow on the trex and it can be a girl. My daughter who is a grown up now was scully from monsters ink when she was a baby. She loved that cartoon so i dressed her as her favorite character. It didnt make her turn into a boy, she was still a baby girl after Halloween got over with.
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Just be grateful that he put the effort in. Alot of dads do not.
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Ainât nothing wrong with T. rex.
Be upset when you have your kids money and dropped them off at the mall and come to you on Halloween they still donât have one I am off to the mall now
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Whatâs not appropriate? My cousine loved his dino costume and wore it all the time?
Why is a t-Rex not appropriate? My 3 yr old has a dinosaur costume she wears year round.
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This is some pointless, petty, young shit
Thatâs actually cute. If youâre going to be immature and petty then go get one yourself. He didnât have to do that, why didnât you in the first place since youâre being so picky? Next time you want to act like this over something, just do it yourself.
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Uh sheâd probably make a cute t Rex try it on her girls can be dinos too my son his first year went as a blue monster Friday I saw 4 other little girls in the same costume
Glue a pink bow 
on top of its head and go with it. You asked for a costume⌠if thereâs a problem with what he chose next time either specify what you want or get something yourself. You honestly donât know what amount of thought he put into it, if heâs anything like mine he stressed about if you would like it or not, and if you acted dissatisfied heâs less likely to try in the future.
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Imagine your only worry and problem right now is getting a t-Rex costume throwing a fit over it even though it isnât for you itâs for your baby LOL. If you knew what you wanted to dress your baby up as why didnât you go get her the costume instead? This poor man works a lot and at least got her a costume and youâre so upset itâs a dinosaur costume like what? Lmao you sound very ungrateful I feel for that man. This is just ridiculous. Should of gotten her the costume yourself then 
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Why isnât a t Rex appropriate?
Add a bow! That would be adorable
My 2 year old kiddo wouldâve been hella happy to be a dinosaur. Matter of fact the only reason she wasnât was because the costume was sold out in her size. Make the best of it momma. On the positive side he actually provided one.
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Whatâs wrong with a T Rex costume? My 3 year old granddaughter went as buzz light year last halloweâen . At least he bought her a costume xx
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T - rex is appropriate! Itâs a costume , right? Wasnât that the point? 
a costume. If you wanted what you wanted why didnât you go buy one? Dad sounds like he did a good job and your upset over ⌠What ?? But Iâm thinking itâs more than just the costume ⌠grow up at least dad tried. More than some do.
I definitely understand if your upset. What if she wanted a princess or her favorite cartoon character?
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It sounds like you were giving him the freedom to get whatever type of costume he wanted. If you wanted something specific maybe telling him exactly what you considered to be âappropriateâ would have been better.
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Yeah you are tripping. Maybe he did put in effort in and he thought it was cuteâŚ
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Maybe he thought it wouldâve been cute and is offended that you didnât like it but he just doesnât tell you that you shouldâve went and got it yourself if you wanted to be pickyâŚ. sounds super petty to me. At least she has a costumeâŚ.
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How is it no appropriate? Its just cuz u donât like it
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Well this is ur own fault u told that man to pick a costume and he did ur mad heâs not a mind reader and didnât pick what u would have. Thatâs some petty stuff right there man if u had something u wanted baby to be so bad u should have went out and got it urself instead u were being cheap expecting him to get what u wanted not what he wanted for baby.
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A costume is a costume. Make it work or get it yourself next time âŚcoming from a mom whoâs kids father does absolutely nothing !.. this irritates me. Just be thankful he tried, and provided a costume. Such a petty thing to be upset about.
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Throw a few bows on it itâll still be cute
Pick your battles a costume that she wonât remember isnât worth wasting your energy on being upset. At least he tried and he was busy working not just partying or hanging out with friends.
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Super petty. If you didnât give him ideas on what you wanted him to get then itâs on you. I always plan costumes but if dad was doing it, I would tell him what I wanted it to be.
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Sounds like he did what you asked him too I think that would be cute idk My daughter loves dinosaurs. I donât understand what the big deal is. If you wanted something specific maybe you shouldâve went yourself.
Youâre being super petty. If he told you he got a costume, why didnât you ask what it was if you had a specific idea of what you wanted her to be? He went out of his way to make Halloween special for his daughter, but YOUâRE disappointed because it wasnât what YOU wanted? I know plenty of dadâs that donât even call for Christmas. Stop being so spoiled and thank that man for getting the baby a costume when he didnât have to AND finding time to drop it off after working all weekend.
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Next time get it yourself. You are being petty, donât be upset crying next time you ask him to pick up something for your daughter and he says no.
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Iâm sorry, whatâs wrong with Trex? both my kids would of loved it.
If you wanted something specific, probly should have said so.
I hate last min plans and would of taken care of it at least a week ahead if he didnât.
You absolutely being petty. Dinosaurs are for boys and girls. And if you didnât tell him what the expectations were for her costume then thatâs all on you! At least he made an effort
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From what I am reading, you asked him to get a costume. He got a costume. Now youâre mad because he didnât read your mind on what YOU wanted her to be. Dinosaur is a bada** costume
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Iâm so confused on WHY youâre upset about it. If YOU wanted something in particular, ya should have bought it yourself.
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How is not appropriate?
Sheâs a girl & mom probably wanted a princess type outfit
Your daughter is still a babyâŚyou chose this guy to be her father. You have MANY years ahead of you to deal with him. If getting her a costume that you donât like is the worst thing you have to worry aboutâŚSTOPPP! Breathe. Go enjoy Halloween with your little T-Rex.
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The costume aint for you lady. Nemind yours⌠fuck watta sad chick
I always buy costumes a month or so early. Last min there is a very limited selection
My daughters gonna be a T. rex and sheâs gonna look hella cute 
You can complain itâs a costume, at least he took his time to go get one and bring you one. Might not be what you wanted but at least he got one for his daughter. I donât know why everybody complains about things thatâs unnecessary. Thatâs whatâs wrong with the world these days.
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Blah I would be happy if my kids father would fucking just drop off a damn birthday card when its her bday
Yes, you are wrong to be upset. You asked and he delivered. If you were not specific about what you wanted, then how was he supposed to know? Enjoy Halloween with your little one and stop looking for something to be upset about. Itâs petty things like this that make it difficult to coparent. You have your lip poked out about a costume that the child would probably be happy to wear!
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Whatâs wrong with a T Rex costume?
SoâŚ.he did what was expected and what was asked and youâre mad?
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Fridayâs too late anyway! T-rex is pick of the litter by then
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You can easily add a bow to the trex costume and have her be a girl trex. You can also just put the costumes on her and say that sheâs the girl trex from the good dinosaur movie . I feel like youâre crying over spilled milk on this one. I mean he came through with a costume
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There are bigger issues in the world than what your baby, who wonât even remember, wears as a Halloween costume. You asked Dad to get her a costume, he did. If you wanted something specific, you should have either gotten it yourself or specifically told him what costume to get her. I mean, a t-rex⌠Iâd think it would be adorable. Especially on a baby!
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Now the group will perform the piece âdragging the OPâ, in C minor
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He literally got her a costume⌠maybe next time tell him what you wantđ¤Śââď¸ my daughter is a T. rex as well. And she looks so freaking cute!
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You should have told him what you wanted him to get