Very much cheating. And lying.
If he isnt cheating id be more shocked then pigs flying. Good luck but sounds like yall may need to end this
Be smart about it. You know he’s doing something he shouldn’t be. Before fully confronting him go talk to a lawyer and have everything setup and lined out. Then hit him where it hurts. Of course he’s cheating and not going to admit it. Good luck.
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He’s cheating.
How much more evidence do you need
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Whatever he’s doing it sounds like he has checked out. You should be his priority if he married you and you shouldn’t accept anything less. Especially if you have any children together.
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Ummmm yeahhhh u might wana follow his ass one night or two. Just saying. That would be a hell no in my house
Too many red flags my dear,
Hate these posts, why put up with that shit…
Kick him to the curb
I would jus ask to go with if he is gonna go out. Then you can determine if he really is or not.
He’s cheating. You already know it. Always go with that gut feeling
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Cheating and lieing pack and leave and don’t leave a note.
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Sorry but you just described my ex to a T!
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Buulllshit hes defo fuckin around
Is the things his doing make you unhappy?
Girl you shouldn’t be unhappy.
Kick him out hes def playing about lie say u saw him or someone saw him or something but do not stand for it u shouldnt have to leave make him leave u will be fime without him
I read it to my husband, he said at the beginning it sounded like he just wanted to get away from you, but after the wedding ring part he said he’s definitely cheating for a while, most likely 10+ girls in by now…
You already knew the answer. Get his things out of the house. Change the locks and move on. He already has.
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He’s probably banging your sister he’s got snake written all over him
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Trust your gut. It’s usually 99.9% right… 
While no solid proof, the behavior is something I would not tolerate cheating or no. You wouldn’t be here asking if you weren’t concerned and unhappy with the scenario, not sure if kids are involved, but I would consider moving on or if you think a chance, see if you can communicate and he responds positively to spend time with you… you need to be happy (more so then not at least) for this relatuinship to be worth your energy
Cheating or not, staying out that late with a family at home, NOPE!!! What you allow will continue. Tell him to get his sh*t together and act like a grown man or he can go live with his friends. I’m sorry you are having to deal with this momma. Only you can stop it or you can continue to live with it.
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To the curb with him.
He’s cheating…if nothing else he’s cheating you out of respect
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Bullshit. He’s cheating 100%
he’s def cheating … try to get his snap info and log in and that’s how you’ll really know …
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Start doing the same things back to him. Get dressed up and go out. Leave the wedding ring at home. If that doesn’t change the behavior then it’s time to leave
I think he’s cheating
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Hes guilty. If he has nothing to hide then why all of this. Hes guilty. Go check on him one nite.
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No judgment but he is definitely doing something he shouldn’t
First of all he has no business going out all the time without you not if he’s going out that much you try it and see how he likes it he sounds like a jerk
You need to have a talk with him and tell him it’s not acceptable that he’s running out all the time he’s a married man
He’s definitely cheating
Cheating 
I’m sorry girl. We believe what we want to believe though.
I say trust your gut. Seems like all the signs are there
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He’s not worth your time either way. YOU are the main character in YOUR story!
Hes cheating 
im sorry
If it walks like a duck…
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Sorry but classic cheating signs …… he’s not worth the worry, you’re worth more !!!
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Not sure where you live exactly but most of the “bars” have been shut down for months… however with everything else you’re saying ya it seems that he is likely cheating on you … doesn’t necessarily mean he’s having sex with others but he is having casual encounters with other women (secretly adding and chatting with them on social networks, going out with them) finding excuses to not wear his wedding ring… either way the red flags are there and if he’s not having sex with other women then it seems like he’s at least half way there .
I would have left the 1st week.
Take cheating off the table for a second. What you do know is his behaviors the past few weeks are something you’re not ok with. The fact that he doesn’t want to listen to this alone and respect your feelings is a red flag. I can’t say if he’s cheating or not but I can say I see why you feel he is.
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He is cheating. You need to go see it for yourself. Then leave his sorry ass!
Go with ur gut and if he has Facebook go to locations and see where he has been going it tells u when they r on the move and everything
Why aren’t you invited? He is cheating!
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go with one of the times he goes to a friend’s or the bar, but don’t let him know ahead of time just when he is about to leave say I’m coming with and see how he responds
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He could be working second job.
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Honey bars close at the 2 AM!
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I’m sorry but I see nothing but everywhere
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I don’t know where you live. But in Florida the bars close at 2am. Only thing open after that is legs… JS
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You have two options leave him or investigate him
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It’s Your Life
What do you think
You know him
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Slap yourself for Bern so stupid …now gtf out
Ask to meet his friends and ask where they hang out at .tell him to take you with him if he says no l would think maybe he is cheating
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If you’re first instinct was that he’s cheating then trust that instinct
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You know he is! Catch him in the act…go where he’s supposed to be. When you see it with your own eyes you will be able to leave.
Cheating…pack his shit and tell him to leave