No! You are not being unfair!!! This is your son’s safety and we’ll being your talking about. I wouldn’t let him go back until I had proof that he had his act and his head on straight!!!
I think first thing is first have a chat with him and get him to agree with having your son stay with you while giving him supervised visitation that way your not keeping your son away from his father. Secondly he’s depressed so get a cleaning crew together or something n help the guy out. At least he’s taking the first step and admitting he’s depressed.
You answered it yourself. Have him go to neutral territory no more overnighter if he doesn’t like it switch to supervised
You know what the answer is ! Give your husband time (at least a year )to get his self better then start again with your son ,you have to put him first .
I believe the Father needs to seek intense counsel and therapy before he can see his Son again as he appears to be a danger to himself and can be towards his Son as his mental state is awry. Put your Son first always. Many Mothers wish they could turn back the hands of time from the tragic deaths of their kids by very unstable Fathers…sending timbers for the Holy Spirit to hover over your deep and bring you comfort, peace and protection…
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Do not I repeat do not leave your son with him anymore …get him help right away my god …I would never send my kid knowing this info …EVER I DONT CARE … get him help until them keep your son away from him …could none last time you see him …
Your being more than fair…
Your first job on this earth is to protect your son, no matter the consequences. Sounds like dad needs to get a grip on his life before he cares for others.
Above everything your son’s safety is the top priority. He is only a child and never should be put in thus unsafe not to even say unsanitary place with a very sick man. Wake up honey. Your son comes first. You must protect him from this very sick man. He may have given you his sperm but he is no dad. God bless you and your dear boy.