Whose idea was this?!
Yayyy more Jerry Springer drama that has absolutely nothing to do with being a mom on a mom FB page
Find you a new man and donāt make the same mistake this time. You live n learn.
The issue is when you knew the people. It should all be impersonal. Speak to the girl directly if heās not being open with you. How do you know heās deleting things?
Which one of you suggested the threesomes initially?
Not to be the bearer of bad news (and this is absolutely not something I am proud of but hey, I was nearly a whole decade younger and dumber) I was the extra girl in a three some and ended up taking the guy and marrying him. Like I said, not proud of those things, but it does happen. And I have to addā¦he cheated on me after we were married - with the girl I took him from. Did I deserve the bad karma repay? Yes. Thankfully Iām way past that chapter in my life. But it does happen. Donāt let him get away with hanging out with her.
Yāall opened that door up.
Time to divorce him and give up on this life styleā¦
Hang out with the men an delete message from them an let it be knownā¦
See how he likes it,
What goes around comes around!!
Personally you both idiots you allowed it and participated in it so what are you complaining about
Go with the two men you previously did n go to them and have a 5some init
Stupid is as stupid does
STOP HAVING THREE SOMES and dump his ass
Shouldāve never done that to begin withā¦ Once you do that, you might as well get ready to sign divorce papers. Heās obviously into that other women still so go to counseling or walk away and never engage in that stuff again. Blows my mind that people do thatā¦ No way would I ever put my marriage on the line just because I wanted to have my cake and eat it too. Why get married at all if you wanna sleep with another man/woman?
Hmmm thatās what happens when you invite other people into your bedroom ā¦
How to lose a guy in less than 10 days.
He cheat . He like what she did in bed . So he going to go back for 2nd 3rd 4 ,5,6,7,8,9,10 . He will lie so much . You give dog are bone it will what more . My friend did this and her husband left her for the other woman. You made your bed this why I do not believe in do it .
You both started it, looks like you are going to pay a high price , hope it was worth it
You played with fire you are getting burned
2 different men??? Your husband is gay. Iām sorry but seriously lmao what man wants to be around other dicks with his wife unless he likes dick himself?!
Do whatever u want. He is
Go hang out with those dudes!!! Youāre not exactly letting him hang out with the chick but heās doing it sooooooo ā¦ whatās the issue. Whatās he going to do get mad? Youre mad and heās still do it.
Fuck it go be happy, fuck him lol
Either agree to an āopen marriageā or divorce.
Threesomes are the ultimate marriage killer!
Donāt invite negativity into your relationship like that.
giiirl, hes cheating. that can of worms was opened and now it will never be the same
Leave him. He wonāt learn and is a bigot and doesnāt care how you feel. All you can do is learn from your past and never do this again
Both of you are insane and urgently needs mental evaluation and immediate treatments.
If God would have given eve one apple and then said no more but the apple tree was still there everydayā¦ she would have eaten another. You canāt let your husband taste the forbidden fruit when the tree is in your yard. Of course heās going to want more. You play with fire and now you are getting burned. Accept your mistake, file for a divorce and hopefully learn from this for your next relationship. But Iām sorry your marriage is over. In my humble opinion.
Heās def still fucking her. And it sounds like you are more mad that he doesnāt allow you to hang out with the men than you are that heās hanging out with the femaleā¦Sit him down and explain to him
That you view it as cheating and it needs to stop or if he wants an open relationship itās going to be open on both sides and not just his.
A lot of you are sure as hell perfect arenāt ya? And why tell her, its her fault. It isnāt. Yes that dorr was open but it was open with both peoples consent. I know quite a few couples who do this and their relationship is great. So its not like its her fault, all.parties consented those times, now all parties are not consenting thats where the MAN is in the wrong. And for yall saying āThAtS wHy I wOuLd NeVeR bRiNg ThAt InTo My ReLaTiOnShIpā why? Donāt believe your significant is that faithful enough to you?
Reasons why you donāt invite others into your relationship even if itās just for sex.
You clearly never established any boundaries or had healthy communication before these threesomes. He took it as a free pass to keep doing it. Not many couples survive threesomes but it is possible
Iād almost guarantee heās been cheating on you before the threesomes. He just wanted the best of both worlds.
Play with fire and youāll surely get burnt. Invite a 3RD party to your bedroom is never a good idea. Looks like a total knock and you are the loser. Pack your bags and move on would be my advice.
Fuck the guys you fucked with him because heās probably fucking her.
Thatās why you have 3sums with people you donāt know when youāre on vacation and never get their numbers or social.
Doesnāt sound good, another person in a relationship leads to trouble.
So invite the 2 men overā¦whatās good for one should be for the other.
You reap what you sow.
Oh Yes. A tale as old as time hunny. Mmm mmm mmm! 3some rule number 1. Never ever ever ever pick people you know, socialize with or see in your daily lives. Gotta throw him out and start all over now. Lol sorry.
You should have never brought any person into your bedroom ā¦ male or female ā¦ if you needed help in spicing up your marriage!!! Read a book!!! Go to therapy!!ā¦ Marriage counseling!!! Youāre playing with fire just to have better sexual pleasure ā¦ The ones that are going to get burned are Kids if you have any or a marriage that canāt be repairedā¦. Wheather you realize it or not your not as open minded as you think you are if this is already going on ā¦Stop playing games with peoples lives no matter whoās they are ā¦ not judging ā¦seen the experience be cruel to good peopleā:cry:
Your marriage is in serious trouble, if not over. You have entertained and encouraged unfaithfulness, and it will be difficult to undo the damage. Intensive therapy may help, but this kind of damage will take lots of work and commitment. Iām sorry !