Definitely overreacting. He clearly was excited about the possibility of another baby even though your youngest is 10. He at least still seemed to be happy with the possibility and didn’t want to hide it from your daughter. Stop being so overly sensitive about it. There’s nothing wrong with it.
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You aren’t. It was a private thing you were worried about. If you thought you had cancer and he threw out the C word to her before you had a real answer, it’s the same logic. You need time to process, it’s not up to someone else to take that away from you. It’s your body and you get to decide what to share with others, not him. Period.
All the people saying you’re overreacting have something that matters to them that others might not care about and they need to think about that thing when they’re responding to strangers on the internet.
Even my most laid back friends and family have a trigger and you shouldn’t pull it and expect people to pretend it doesn’t hurt. Especially the person who you chose and chose you to spend the rest of your life with.
He was thoughtless and he may have apologized but you did not overreact. He needs to respect your boundaries.
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You sure you’re not actually pregnant? You sound like me when I first found out I was pregnant with my second. I went into the school I work at and cried openly to my principal about how my first daughter shouldnt be in a split class because she was too little. Though I had a point about where she should go, and there was a reasonable reason for me to want her in another class, I was mostly over emotional due to being pregnant. I would never un a million years go and cry in front of a male principal now.
I think your for sure over reacting and if my child said that to me I’d straight up tell them to mind their little kid business that this is adult business if or when there’s something that the child needs to know they will be TOLD! A child has a right to their feelings on this but at no point do they get to have a say or voice in there parents sexual or reproductive decisions. Which include your need to take a test I refuse to have to hide something like that from my child ever planned or not it just simply isn’t their choice nor does there opinion in that type of situation matter.It’s a between you and your husband. With that said yes they for sure have a right to have feelings about it and I’d help them work through those feelings but by no means do they have a right to make you feel like you have to hide something in your own house such as a pregnancy test! 
Remember your the adult NOT her!
I didnt see where you talked to him about keeping it between the two of you as an adult before it happened so Im going to say that was a BIG overreaction. He cant just read your mind. Now if yall had talked before hand and he had done so then I would say you had a minor overreaction because in the end it really doesnt matter if your daughter knew. I mean yall are a family.
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Yep a total over reaction
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You are not over reacting. Adults generally don’t tell their kids till they know it’s safe too (around the 12 week mark) because having to explain miscarriages to kids is something that could take time for them to process.
Also the risk of them telling other family members without knowing that it’s something private, is also a risk.
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Men can be a holes at times. Forgive and move on.
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I would probably be more worried about the fact your 10yr old daughter was distraught about you possibly being pregnant. That being said if you didn’t discuss it first and tell him to keep it on the down low, then probably over reacting
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Over reacting majorly
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Maybe you were and maybe you weren’t overreacting. Either way, it doesn’t change the fact you were hurt. Men and women don’t think the same and, I’m sure, it didn’t occur to your husband you would be upset. He was probably genuinely trying to be funny, not trying to upset you. However, if he genuinely apologized after telling him how you felt, let it go. He doesn’t need to understand, just to respect your feelings. You don’t understand everything about him either.
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I definitely don’t think your over reacting my friend
Even though you felt that way, you know it sounds like he was kind of happy with a new bundle, maybe. Maybe the joke could have been left on yall dresser or bed, it sounds like your daughter was upset.
Your TEN year old daughter has NO SAY as to you needing a pregnancy test or not. It’s not her call. Husband was just being a Ass. Most men are. Let it go.
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Definitely over reacting
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You were not overreacting. Your husband should not have put that on the counter where your daughter could see it. She reacted as any 10 year-old would have.
She didn’t need to know anything until you knew for sure that you were pregnant. Shame on him!
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Definitely overreacting. Unless u told him not to let it be known then you need to let it go. As for your daughter, you need to talk to her and see why it upset her so bad and let her know that she needs to realize your the adult and do not have to have her permission to expand your family if you so choose to.
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I think ur pregnant and it was a false postive ur emotional 
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Absolutely over reacting 
Get a second test done…
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U know what, it’s a teachable moment. Why do u need it, because there is a chance I r pregnant due to unprotected sex etc. she is 10 and old enough to comprehend and it may also help for future conversations about her own reproductive health etc.
My response would have been ask your father it’s his. I would accept the apology and also apologize to him.
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He apologized, that is more than most may do in this situation. I think you are slightly overreacting. Guys don’t see pregnancy as much as a private ordeal as us women so he is probably quite surprised by your reaction.
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I think yeah you were overreacting a bit. If my daughter had seen it I simply would have explained that I may be pregnant but I’m not sure yet until I take the test in a few days (that way you could take it when she went to bed and had process time) and then left it at that. She’s 10. She’d have understood if you sat down with her and talked to her instead of freaking out on your hubby who probably shouldn’t have done it, but was messing around. He probably saw nothing wrong with doing it and your reaction was overboard.
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I’m more concerned why your daughter freaked out… you should have taken the time to speak with her instead of freaking out on your husband in front of her. And then let your husband know that he shouldn’t have done that and explain why (in private) after you put the fire out with your daughter.
Men don’t understand nor do the comprehend their impulsive decisions regarding how it could make a woman feel until we explain to them that what they did was inappropriate, immature and we explain our reasoning.
But, he apologized… as you probably should do the same in regards to your emotional reaction…
If you haven’t started your monthly in another week or so, you may want to follow up with another test. I recommend a dollar store test! Cheap and very accurate! 
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Over reacting, he was obviously happy u might b
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Definitely over reacting. It is a 10 year old child. Your the mum. You and your husband have a loving relationship. That’s beautiful. You sound like a teenager that got caught.
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If you felt pissed, then yes- you had a right to be upset. No one can tell you how to feel. It wasn’t clear what actions may have come out of this as “overreacting”? You felt that way and YOU understand why it made you upset. Unfortunately, it seems the person who’s action upset you may not fully understand and it can’t be undone. The best you can do is talk to your family to let them know why this upset you. Sounds like there’s good mommy daughter lessons here too. Good luck!
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Definitely an over reaction
Its no different to putting a box of pads or tampons on a counter
When unpacking the shopping
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1 well placed knee to the balls could take care of both issues. Knee him hard enough, bonus, maybe he is sterilized by the damage!!!
Overreacting for sure. I’m seeing control issues possibly.
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They’re all little boys. Their just boys. Lol.
Yes definitely overreacting
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Yikes. Maybe menopause? Bless your poor husband. Getting upset over this is the only thing that seems childish. It isn’t “your news”. It takes 2 people to make a baby…
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You’d have 9 months to process it lol , I think a little of over reacting,… But if you really didn’t want your daughter to see it, should have told the husband how u felt before getting back to the house with said test lol.
If that’s all your husband does wrong, i’d say you’re lucky.
Unless there was a very high possibility you’d terminate if positive and your husband knows that, then you’re over reacting.
I dont think you were ober reacting… You didnt want your daughter to kno unless there was something to kno… And even if the test was positive, there is a right time to tell her and it wouldnt be right away. Being pregnant is not really something to joke about… But in my opinion, no i dont think you were over reacting…you have every right to feel the way you do about it. I dont think it was funny of him to do that, smh
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Then carry it in yourself…tfget over yourself
You blew up bcuz you’re irrational. Get over it. It’s not that big a deal. She’s TEN. Does she not know where babies come from? Does she not know y’all are married?
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All three of you overreacted.
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Why didn’t you tell your husband you didn’t want to tell your daughter about it before you got in the house? If your going to be mad at someone be mad at yourself for not communicating with your husband first. You absolutely overreacted, grow up.
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You are a grown married woman and she is 10yrs old… Yes it’s an overreaction in my opinion.
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Yout husband needs to come hang out with me for awhile you’ll forget all about that simple little mistake my poor wife can’t keep up lol
It’s a lesson for her. Grown ups have sex. A consequence of that is, pregnancy. If your 10yr old was that upset, that’s not your fault.
Being upset, if that’s how you feel, ok. Calmly explain how you felt and why. Yelling and screaming won’t get you anywhere. As for your 10yr old, they’d have gotten over it. At the end if the day, if you want to have another child, it’s up to you.
Oh good grief… not trying to conceive… But having unprotected sex…
A ten yr old is old enough to know what a pregnancy test is for. Just tell them.
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Plain and simple yes you were
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You guys I bet that is not the answer she was looking for:rofl:
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I would have been upset too. I would have wanted to keep it private but I would have made sure my husband knew that too, before we arrived home. And if he did know that’s what you wanted and still proceeds to pull it out, that’s just immature and rude.
Yep over reacting. Your daughter is ten years old. Old enough to know that she might have a brother or little sister.
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Seems like your husband wants another child, that’s what you should be discussing as why did he bother to get a test if that wasn’t crossing his mind. Your daughter sounds like she needs a sibling.
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So you are upset because you and your husband still have sex, and your daughter now nows about it?
It think you were. Pregnant or not in your daughter. Communication is key, for a well rounded and happy family.
You overreacted… your daughter needs to know that’s something that happens. Your fine, she’s fine and your husband is funny. Get over it.
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hes your husband why hide that you guys have intercourse lol definitely overreacting
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No you are not over reacting. Your husband needs to be more sensitive to your needs. Notice how all the blame falls on the woman” Mom, why do you need one of these?” Instead of “Dad, leave mom alone!”
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She’s 10 chances are she knows parents have sex by now, hate to break it to you.
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No. Just understand men can only think with half of their brain and most only think of themselves at any given time. Let it go so the bitterness doesn’t cause issues for you.
She’s a kid I’d be like “none of ya damn business child”.
Off this post, I think you are pregnant… Do you usually overreact over stuff like that small??? It’s a simple combo with your daughter.
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I think you are overreacting… I truly don’t think he was doing it to upset you. If it was something you didn’t want anyone to know about… I think you guys should had discussed it. Your daughter shouldn’t be upset… these things can happen. My girls were 10 and 8 when I got pregnant with my 3rd. I was not TTC but once I found out I took a test and explained to them what was happening and showed them the test. They were exicted even though none of us was expecting it.