Your wrong. You don’t get to control everything. He gets to live and react too
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I would definitely be upset. Pregnancy is nothing to joke about.
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You really can’t get upset if you didn’t tell him you wanted to keep it a secret he can’t read your mind.
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Youre overreacting…and your daughter shouldn’t dictate your happiness or not about being pregnant or not… you obviously could have had the same scare the past 10yrs. So I really don’t think your daughter should have any reason to be upset. 
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You could have put it in your purse before walking into the house 
or snuck it under your shirt. Neither of you are in the right or in the wrong
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Why do people come on here to complain about stuff. It’s just ridiculous anymore. You’re piss because your husband throw a pregnancy test on the counter. Get over it. There are more things to be pissed off about in this world.
You had sex and doing that and not safe you will get pregnant. What do you need to process?? You are married and not being a hoe. You should’ve just kept your mouth shut and did the test all by yourself then said something or not. If your daughter is upset she will get over it.
Overreacting if you didn’t want anyone to see it should of stuck it in your purse before going in the house. Idk about your household but umm when I come home with groceries my kid runs over to help empty the bags. Also your kid is 10 she has no reason to dictate what your husband does she is a child. Also how does your child even know what a pregnancy test is to begin with. Last time I had a test my kid said ohh no mom doing a covid test.
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Men are generally pretty clueless about a lot of things.
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Well, how about an update? What did the test say, are congratulations in order or was it a false alarm?
Overreacting, you could have disgusted that with your husband prior and told him you didn’t want your daughter to know. At least your husband wasn’t upset that you might be pregnant and supported you. Seriously pick your battleship MEN are not mind readers and don’t get upset or think like women do. Chill out.
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Yeah you are pregnant!!! Congratulations…if not relax and have a drink geesh
Hormones are screaaaaminggggg pregnant 
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Drama drama drama, sounds like your pmsing… expect relief soon.
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Tell ur daughter her dad thought it would be funny.
Wtf your daughter is 10 and your upset that she moght learn that babies come from a man or woman are you ashamed to have sex with your husband or do you have questions that your husband is looking for answers too. Your acting childish.
You are overreacting imo.
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first of all, why does you daughter get to be MAD at her grown ass mother for having sex and possibly being pregnant… that bratty behavior is what needs addressing, not your husband for unpacking a bag…
Yes. Definitely overreacting.
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Uh yes, the answer is yes.
wow just wow is all I can say
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U are definitely over reacting. Ur daughter is 10 she is old enough to understand u could possibly be pregnant. I mean ur husband can’t read ur mind u should have took the test n put it up since u didn’t tell him u didn’t want anyone to know yet.
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You need to learn to take care of your business on your own time. Your husband didn’t do anything wrong. Your a grown ass woman, act like one.
Definitely over reacting
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I can’t even get past the first sentence… 
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Definitely overreacting. Ur daughter is 10 she is old enough to understand that oops happen
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He was definitely wrong.
Definitely, A LOT!!! Smh thank god ur not lol
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Get him a vasectomy. Problem solved.
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Hormones makes one sensitive or angry…it was teasing to his girls not meant to be mean. Move on
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You’re overreacting and he was wrong.
Talk to your husband.
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You have a right to be upset but you’re also overreacting about the situation. He did apologize and hopefully he meant it. But your daughter also can get over it too. She is overreacting as well.
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You’re not overreacting at all. Telling your kids should be discussed between the 2 of you. Not done as a joke. But your daughter sure tf overreacted and you need to nip that shitty behavior in the bud
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Good lord. Did your husband know you wanted this kept secret so you could decide if you’d kill it or keep it? Some of y’all look for things to get worked up about I swear.
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Lol you can’t be serious, save the fights for the real stuff like we he forgets to put the milk up 
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Overreacting a little, guys don’t think like us, they don’t process the different outcomes of situations, but if u didn’t tell him you wanted it kept between just you two, how was he ment to know? But I understand how frustrating it can be that he don’t think about things like 'maybe we should see the result before getting kid involved ect
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Men rarely see when they are in the wrong and think everything they do is okay and not hurtful. I would have been pissed too but I would have let him have it right there in the kitchen. He deserves to feel like an a**hat. 
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You’re overreacting may need to see medical attention
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It was definitely wrong of him to do that. But you are over-reacting too. I understand your hurt. But 2 wrongs, never make a right. Let this go.
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I think u are overreacting
You definitely have a right to be upset. Maybe he was hoping it was going to be positive. Your daughter didn’t need to see it. Hubby needs to grow up.
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THIS IS DEF OVER REACTING LIKE CHILL OUT!! if you don’t want a child get on BC… you’re old enough to def know about protection!! Gheez I swear some ppl look for little things to argue enjoy life and stop B*tching about the small crap!! Best wishes to that husband if she’s gonna be mad over this
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You’re over-reacting. Calm down. He was joking with you. Explain why you’re upset and move on.
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Most of these comments are so dismissive. You had every right to be angry. You wanted time to process this. I can’t believe these comments honestly. Not everyone loves being pregnant. For some of us it can be torture and life threatening. Until you have spent the majority of your pregnancy just trying to stay alive sit down. Pregnancy definitely isn’t always fun nor beautiful. It can absolutely suck. Some people just don’t like being pregnant that’s also valid.
The point being they had zero time to process bc their husband took this from them.
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So if you are pregnant you don’t plan on telling the 10 year old?
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Yes you are. It’s just the pmsing getting to you. Laugh it off with him.
Yes over reacting. Wouldnt it have been his baby, if there was a baby, his to? And i would be questioning why a ten year old is getting upset over it anyway
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Yes you’re over reacting. What a drama queen.
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As a male mommy and daddy to my kids (single parent) I think this was an over reaction 1. He clearly meant it as a joke, 2. Why is it so hard to explain that oh its a precaution honey I missed my cycle by a few days and just checking to make sure I’m not pregnant, 3. A 10 year old can understand logic and should honestly be included on what’s happening regardless of if they’re gonna be a big sister or not, I’m not saying you shouldn’t be upset a little because your feelings are valid but airing his joking “dirty laundry” says there’s other relationship issues and this was just a straw that was breaking the camels back
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I see your side for sure but ultimately, it’s not fight worthy.
You’re over reacting and at 10 I’m sure your daughter knows exactly why you would need it and had it of been positive it would really have been none of her business and having a hissy fit over it wouldn’t change nothing.
bro. you overreacted
yes but your reason was good,
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Yes you are a bit overreacting but I do understand why you would not want your daughter to know just yet. It’s worth talking to him about but once you do move on its not worth fighting about.
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Definitely overreacting hun
Make sure he knows from now on to keep it under wraps!!
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You are simply over reacting 
good lord have mercy.
Not fight worthy imo
Yes, you over reacted. I want to know why your 10 yr old was upset about it? Was she really or were you upset that she knew and then if it was positive and you decided to abort you knew you’d have to explain it to her?
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You said he apologized, I’d say move on.
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Maybe a little bit, but I understand why you were, and I might have felt the same way. If your husband knew you didn’t want your daughter to know yet, he shouldn’t have set it right out for her to see! If it were me, I wouldn’t want her to know if I was pregnant until I knew for sure and was ready to tell her myself. Sometimes little girls are sensitive to this kind of thing, and don’t care to know what mom and dad do in private. It’s embarrassing to them, and I don’t think they quite understand. And in a lot of cases at this age, they haven’t had “the talk” yet. So she may not have wanted her to know for this reason, and I get it! She would rather sit her down and tell her all about pregnancy, and her body. That’s a lot better than learning by throwing a pregnancy test on the counter and making her confused. Some girls mature a lot faster than others, and maybe she didn’t think she was ready for that yet. Every case is different.
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Did you tell him you didn’t want your daughter to know? If not then yeah, you’re over reacting. Men aren’t mind readers.
If you did tell him, then he’s being an AH, even if he’s just messing around.
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Your daughter is 10 I’m sure she could understand why you needed it. No reason to make her into an over reacting drama queen. Your husband was joking for god sakes.
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So are you pregnant or not? That’s what I’m here to know
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Yes, you did. There is a seriously lack of communication going on in this family that your 10 year old would be upset at the thought that you might be pregnant. You need to sit down and figure out what your actual problem is because no matter the outcome, you should have a decent support structure built around your family.
Eh my fiance’ has done the same thing in front of my kids as well. Kids get upset. Just talk to her and go from there. You can’t keep kids happy 100% of the time. Eventually, she’s going to hate you for just breathing in the same room as she does lol. Just breathe and move on.
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Well it’s also your husband’s news. Good lord you didn’t make it by yourself and 2ndly you should have used some type of protection or birth control if you don’t wanna think about having a baby. It’s not rocket science. Also if something that simple upsets you so bad that you need to blast it on social media then the issues are far greater than what your husband done. Good grief
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“he said he was sorry and was just joking”…
And we’re still talking about this? It’s still an issue? And it’s negative? When do you think you will be done punishing him? I have so many questions…
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Your feelings are valid. But you need to forgive, he thought it was funny, you didn’t. He said he was sorry, move on. He didn’t intentionally upset you.
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at 10 your girl can be upset but hey it’s should be about time for the “talk” and she should know her parents are still loving each other. Maybe he was proud
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No In a way it was playing with the situation, And you had not decided what to do, keep it or not, but those should not be disclosed to a child effectively, and taken that choice which was yours to make, his way he was taking that choice away from you. In that how can you explain to maybe an excited ten year old why you might choose to abortion, than to keep it, as you might be into your career, and do not wish to be forced into nappies and exhaustion, or whatever but kids don’t need to know, this is adults stuff. I hope I explained best I could
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I feel like I need more to the story. Did you guys discuss not talking to you 10 year old about unless/until? If not, you can’t be mad he isn’t a mind reader. If so, then you have the right to be upset. However, he apologized. What’s done is done. Move on. You don’t need to drag this on, especially since it’s negative. As for your daughter, if she brings it up, talk to her. If not, leave it alone.
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Unfortunately, all men behave like 10 year olds…(((((((HUGS)))))))
Your mad he threw a pregnancy test on the counter in front of your kid? How do you think he feels that you threw all yalls business out there on social media, to the “public”? Maybe want to think this over a little?
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I would divorce such a sensitive bitch. No eggshell marriage for me.
You’re overreacting. I mean I understand being annoyed with him but I wouldn’t dwell on it forever.
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Yes. You were overreacting. Unless you had already spoken with him about not wanting your daughter to know, in which case, I would be angry, as well.
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Jesus…way overreacting. Your daughter is 10 and you are married. It was a joke and I’m sure my husband would do the same to freak our kid’s out a little. Lol. Even with them knowing we are having one more kid in a couple of years. I could see if just started dating the guy and he tossed the test in front of your kid,but you acting like ashamed might be pregnant by your husband is ridiculous! As for the daughter…you and your husband having another baby is yall’s choice. She will have to learn to live and adjust to a sibling if that is what y’all want,so better to prepare her early anyway. Hiding things wont help if do get pregnant.
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Let it go! Let it go! …
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Yeah you over reacted a bit. But at the same time you need to have a talk with your family regarding stuff like this. And your husband already apologized. You could have saved yourself by also joking about it. Okay your daughter was passed? Why. Why would you being pregnant pics her off?
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Did you let him know you wanted this hushed until you knew for sure either way?
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Lmao!!! Get over it. It was a joke. My two sons would of laughed about it. Loosen up & have some fun in life. This was totally a joke. You sound like a very boring person
Acting like so you don’t need another baby … grow up
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Well, if that’s your only drama then I think y’all good
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I do think you are over reacting, especially if you didnt tell him ahead of time that you didnt want anyone to know that there might be a possibility.
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I don’t think he was doing it to “go behind your back”. Unless you said don’t take it out it probably wasn’t malicious.
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You’re definitely over reacting, your daughter is 10 so I hope you plan on having the talk with her soon. Also you’re a married woman and your husband wasn’t mad that you might be pregnant. So what’s the problem? What exactly is so embarrassing? That you might be pregnant by your husband and your 10 year old knows you took a test to see if you are. What is embarrassing about that? You don’t think she might deal with the same kind of situation one day? In my opinion it’s a life lesson for her.
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Really?? It was in front of y’all’s child, come on. Sounds as if he’s excited and wanting to be a Father again🤷🏼♀️
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Definitely overreacting
AND your daughter overreacted too
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You are totally overreacting! Lighten up!
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You only overreacted Becuz ur daughter was being a noisy over opinionated brat! It’s literally not her place to say anything . If anything she should’ve been excited for you! Or anticipating and then being supportive with any result or just walked away as it’s not her biz to get involved in adult convo . She has been a only daughter for far too long and or it doesn’t show that she would be inclusive of life changes and pretty selfish.
Your husband probably wants another child and was a bit excited. U killed the mood.
If your not wanting more kids then u should prevent it and speak to ur hunny. The fact that u overreacting shows that u care more about what ur daughter thinks what everyone else thinks than what u want or hubby wants.
It’s negative yet u still have to justify.
High strung much?!
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You should have communicated to him about what you were planning on purchasing and that you want to keep it hush hush unless it’s positive. Yelling at him when he was probably just trying to make you laugh cause you were so nervous. He won’t know how to help if you don’t let him know how you are feeling.
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I think your husband was showing that he would be pleased if it had been positive !! I expect he thought your daughter would have been as well. Something new and exciting to look forward to. I think he may be feeling some grief that it is negative, so lighten up. Appreciate that he wants more children even if you are not sure that is your lifes ambition.
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If you not pregnant then something got you off balance cause you definitely tripping….it’s 2022 these kids are more advance than we are…. Your husband apologized…let it go …love love laugh
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In the nicest way to say it but Yes, and tbh so was your daughter. She is 10, there shouldn’t be a reason for her to get upset about it. It’s also a natural and normal thing for women to do so I don’t see why hiding that from your daughter is a thing, it just makes the whole thing more taboo for young girls. Your husband didn’t mean anything by it and especially didn’t intend to upset you, he’s apologised so accept it and move on, life is too short to get upset over little things.
Your daughter is clearly following in your dramatic shoes
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Overreaction. You’re married, your daughter is 10… you could have just laughed it off to her and told her they’re just good for married women to have around lol. If you make a big deal of it, so will kids.
To be honest, you’re lucky to have a husband so comfortable with it!
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Over reacting maybe a little being mad is fine like if you had told him you weren’t sure how you were feeling about it but I’d let it go maybe take some time for yourself tonight to cool down an process your feeling. We all get angry at times about things other people can let go easily
Yes very much over reacting
I feel like
You’re not overreacting
Because everyone has a right to their own privacy, and feelings
Even tho this is also his business — it’s a joint thing
He should have respected your request to not let your daughter know until you were ready.
1 it’s a privacy matter
2 if you were, you should always wait to announce anything like that to make sure nothing happens in the early stage.
But also,
If you were pregnant
You would have to tell her eventually, however like I said anything could happen in the early stage
But over all, I don’t think you’re overreacting.
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