If you broke up longer than 9 months ago. Then no.
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No, it doesnāt even matter how you found out because its not your business or obligation. As long as your daughter is being treated right by them, thatās all that matters. Their lives are not your business š¤·š»
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Why would you be upset? Iām guessing youāre not over him and you are jealous? Other than that I canāt see what the issue is.
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No U have no right to be upset u should be excited for you daughter to be a big sister! Put ur feelings aside and let ur child be excited. Shit take her out and let her pick out a couple gifts that will make her life exciting and happy and if u donāt life for ur child to be happy and excited then u shouldnāt have custody of ur child
No you donāt have the right or any reason to be mad. He is your ex and has moved on in life. You should move on as well and do your thing.
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While youāre allowed to feel whatever emotion youāre feeling about it, your ex is allowed to make decisions without your input about his life as long as it doesnāt harm your child. He did nothing wrong and your daughter will be absolutely fine.
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No heās AN EX let the man be happy,
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Nope. Why do you care?
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Uhh, why would you be upset? Unless you guys just broke up or something, I donāt see the issue?
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Why would you be upset? Heās your ex.
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I bet your daughter over the moon about it, donāt ruin that for her being jealous. 
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You have no right to be upset at all yāall are long and done with yāall relationship heās your EX and the father to your baby thatās all !!
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Did you just break up?
Huh? Thats none of your businessā¦ he doesnāt have to give you details about his personal lifeā¦
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No, he is not yours, he is your ex. And your daughter will probably be thrilled to be a big sister. It is a little concerning that the baby mama is a girlfriend and not a wife, because wives are usually a bit more permanent.
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Why would you be upset YOUR EX is having a baby with someone else? Did you really think his life would stop at the breakup?! You have 
ABSOLUTELY ZERO RIGHT.
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Nah. You donāt. Thatās tour daughterās brother/sister
Nothing to do with you as ugly as that sounds
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Iām so confused. Why would you be upset if you all arenāt together anymore? I mean, unless he cheated. But even then youāre not with him anymore
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Feel like half of you are saying the opposite of what you mean.
Youāre allowed to hurt girl. But you canāt be mad
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If he dumped you and you never got over it, you can be upset. If you dumped him and youāre jealous, you gotta move one because thatās not fair
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Feel however but just a waste of emotion. Youāre the past.
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Are you really asking the people on facebook this question???
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Heās an ex lol meaning heās no longer yours so why be mad at him ? You mustāve not got over him if youāre upset still. Move on because itās clear he has. I mean how would you like it if the shoe was on the other foot ?
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You do have a right to be upset but itās a waste of time.He is your ex
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From what I experienced, I was upset. I have a right to feel what I want to feel. Obviously more to the situation but I didnāt really know the female. She turned out great with my daughter, however my ex and her were in an abusive relationship behind closed doorsā¦ I never once ruined my daughterās excitement for a sister, but I did voice my concerns to my daughters dad about how I would like to get to know her more. Now they split (bad terms) my daughter doesnāt get to see her sister as much. When she does though, I try to express good things. Both are to blame for being toxic together. Itās all a journey and youāre allowed to have feelings about things not everyone can pretend itās fine. I always say whatās bothering me and I did. It didnāt turn out bad for me expressing concerns and me being upset about things. So donāt beat yourself up! Gives yourself time to process and then work on trying to be positive for your child, but voice your concern to her dad if there is anyā¦ donāt hold stuff in!
No wouldnt care less. And of hes your ex why should youā¦unlessā¦she was pregnant when you were togetherā¦then id be upset with her
Hey would u be upset ? Heās an ex he can move on with his life ā¦ā¦
No itās none of your business
Theyre exes for a reason, as long as he treats your children well as a father should i wouldnāt worry about it just creates more stress. Obviously if he has been seeing both of you at the same time then emotions run high, but i wouldnāt be upset and want him back if hes capable of thatā¦trust meā¦xx
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Unless youāre still madly in love, or youāre still sleeping with each other on the side, noā¦ you have no right to be upset. I donāt understand 
heās moved on. You need to do the same. Your daughter also has a right to be excited about having a new sibling, donāt take that from her !
Why would you be upset? Set the best example for your daughter, show her itās exciting & special to be a big sister!
My ex husband & I have 3 sons. I wanted a daughter SO bad, but got my tubes tied after boy #3. He and his fiance just had their 2nd daughter and although it is a teeny bit bittersweet, I am delighted that my boys got the sisters they always wanted. And I love those girls, too.
Be happy, for yourself and most of all for your child. Itās better than being bitter, I promise.
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Honestly the only way I would be upset is if the dad wasnāt involved in the in his childās life 
Also Iād wish them a safe delivery and a healthy babyā¦ petty isnāt pretty 
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You said āExā right? MOVE ON let the man live his lifešš¤¦
Heās your ex, that means his life will go on without you
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How do you have a right to be upset. He not only is your ex but you expect for him to stay single and not ever have more kids because yāall arenāt together. Girl byeš
No? Heās your ex. You need to be planning how youāre going to work together to make sure the babies know and love each other.
Your allowed to have your feelings, but your feelings are your feelings and not his problem. You two are separated, he is allowed to carry on his life and does not need to disclose any personal information to you.
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Why the hell are you with him
Well, the way Iām reading it when she says the gf is far enough along to know itās a boy, is he cheated with the gf on her and itās a recent breakupā¦ so, she is wanting to know if she has a right to be upset. Me personallyā¦ I would be but it would also remind me that the best decision was made. Stand strong hon and worry about your child and be the example for your daughter. Take care 
No. Unless heās still having relations with you while being with her. Then all of you need to sit down and have a conversation. If he is indeed an ex, you donāt have any right. What Iām getting from this is you have some kind of feelings for him still, but you still have no say over who he has a relationship or another baby with. Iām sorry but voicing those feelings to him will only disrupt the relationship further. You can feel those feelings, but keep them to yourself. You guys are no longer together so your feelings are void in his current and future relationships.
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This is just a ridiculous question
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Sometimes we canāt help how we feel. Just donāt be one of those women who try to use their child to hurt their ex. Remember Karma might get you when you find someone new. You might still have feeling for him if thatās the way you feel. You need to move on, he already has.
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You are literally a weirdo gtfo
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Depends what it is yr upset about
Not really unless he stepped out of the relationship and made a baby
No, no right. You are no longer together so He is free to do what he wants including start a new relationship.
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This gotta be a troll 
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No you cannot pack a sad cause yer ex has moved on. You should do the same
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Nope. Not your business.
No you donāt because your an EX
So your just mad because he moved onā¦He is an ex for a reason. So just keep that in mind. Its time for you to let the bullshit go. Coparent. And move on yourself.
Heās your ex get over it
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Why would you be upset? I donāt understand, am I missing a part of the story?
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I guess that depends on how recent the break-up isā¦ Like recent last two weeks or I guess even in the last 20 hell yeah. Ultrasound determines baby sex usually around 20 weeks
Jealous maybe but upset nope!!!
Is the child heās having now come from if he cheated on you when you were together? Does he not take care of his child with you? Hes your ex, he has a right to go on with his life. Why be upset when he moves on?
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U need to be more specific r u upset because sheās so far along that url were together at the time of her conception or because they kept it a secret an u havenāt had time to prepare ur daughter for the change thatās going to happen or r u just upset that he made someone else pregnant
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No because heās your āEXā!
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Upset about what? Heās your ex right? Lol
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I donāt understand why you are upset. Yes it would have been nice if they told you, maybe to prepare your child that sheās going to be a big sister but apart from that NO.
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I mean itās really none of your concern because it has nothing to do with you, like?They moved on and so should you 
your child be will be an older sibling hopefully they get along
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Why be upset? Unless heās not paying your childās support. Be glad youāre rid of him. Move on.
Try being in my 
. Then youād have āmoreā of a right to be upset; at least in my opinion. When our first was 4 months old he got me pregnant again. We split and were going thru a nasty custody battle when I found out. When I hit 5 months along in the pregnancy I found out he had another on the way. Basically the rebound got pregnant as soon as they got together. The man went from believing he couldnāt have children as the males in his family do have a history of male factor infertility to 3 pregnancies in just over a year. Iām due in 9 weeks and sheās finding out what sheās having any day this coming week. My heart is totally shattered. I donāt know why any woman would EVER want to put herself in a position like this and shame on him also.
Even if I werenāt pregnant again I would still be hurt tho; I think part of it is just in our nature to feel some type of way especially as women with children by someone. I donāt know how to explain it but it does hurt, unfortunately it changes nothing so I urge you to greive and move on. Good luck. 
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Upset about what, exactly? Your ex is allowed to move on, they owe you nothing in that respect.
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Youāre jealous and that upsets you. Itās pretty normal and youāll get over it.
Heās your ex no reason to be upset when heās having a baby with a different person heās been with. I mean your daughter is gonna be a big sister you should be happy about that not upset about it. Unless you still have feelings for him only reason I could think why your upset.
I mean if he doesnāt take care of the child yāall have Iād be upset.
Noā¦ People move on with their livesā¦
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Didnāt you say heās your EX??
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Get over yourself. Got nothing to do with you
So long as your daughter together is respected and loved what he does with his new woman is t h eir business. Keep the communications open ! But donāt be hurt, remember how happy you were when you gave birth try not to make it difficult for them
The fuck are you upset about?
You expect your ex to be alone forever and miserable because you are?
No you donāt. For gosh sake he is your ex get over it
No you donāt have a right. This shit pisses me off. People are aloud to move on & have more children.
Only if heās not taking care of the child you have with him. Besides that itās not your business
I meanā¦You have every right to feel YOUR feelings. However it shouldnāt get in the way of day to day life. As long as they include your LO in every day thingsā¦why be upset
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UHHH NO! Yāall not together heās your ex
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You can be upset but his your ex and is allowed to move on with his life as long as your daughter is not neglected it has nothing to do with you sorry harsh but truth
Not knowing the circumstances of him being your ex. As to why you would be upset. You cant change the fact a baby on the way. So breathe just breathe. And let bitterness go. Thatās better for you and your daughters happiness
Nope not at all. He is your ex and has a completely different life than what you did together. What happens in his life now is absolutely none of your business. My sons dad has an ex wife like this and it injected so much negative into my pregnancy not only for me but for the child they share. The negative things she would hear from her made her mom like, āyouāre not enough for your dad so he is having another baby.ā Donāt you dare act like you have any foot in that because you do not.
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Why does their sex life concern you? Should he know if/when you have another baby? Yeah I didnāt think so.
Youre entitled to your feelings for sure but always stop and ask yourself why youāre feeling a certain type of way and if it makes sense.
No you dontā¦babies are a blessing and this one will add to your daughters village.
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What are you upset about ?
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No, heās your ex. He has moved on.
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Nothing to do with you
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No thatās why heās your ex he has a life and moved on from you
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I feel like your feelings are valid. If you still have some sort of feelings for him then I can understand feeling upset or sad that he is having a child with someone else. However feeling it and voicing it are two totally different things. I donāt think you have any place to say anything. What he does is his business. And if theyāre together and she is a decent humanā¦ at the end of the day, who cares. Time to move on.
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No mind your own business then you will be okay
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You have a right to your feelings, but need to find a way to move on.
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Why would you be upset? Are you upset because his gf is pregnant and heās not looking after the child that you have together? Are you upset because you havenāt moved on yet?
You need to hilite why youāre upset so people can give advice accordingly. If heās your ex he has a right to move on and be happy with whomever he pleases.
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Be happy for them and be reasonable. His your ex for a reason, as people have said his allowed to move on. Same as you are.
Be reasonable on expectations on what you both want for your daughter. As for the other child itās not his fault and should not be taken out on him for some bitterness that you may have. Congrats to your daughter for the big sister role when the time comes.
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Uhm no. No you donāt.
He is free to live his life. And it sounds like he is.
Be happy for the fact that your daughter is going to have a younger brother.
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No you donāt. Heās your ex not your husband or boyfriend
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Please explain what the hell it has got to do with you??? Itās your ex he has moved on get over it!!!
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Do you have the right to be upset? ABSOLUTELY, as you ARE entitled to your feelings. Do I think you should be upset? NO! I mean he IS YOUR EX. Even though you have personal feelings of him moving on and having a baby with someone else, you need to be level headed and keep your opinions and feels about the situation to yourself as you canāt control the situation and you arenāt entitled to his personal life like that (unless itās any situation where your child together is in danger.) Dont make your co parenting relationship difficult. And no need to create unnecessary drama between everyone. And for the love of god, please do not let your personal feelings or opinions about the situation affect your childās thoughts or feelings about the situation. You should be happy for her as sheās going to be a big sister!!! Encourage her to have a healthy relationship with her sibling. The children donāt need to be bright up in the mix of it all because of personal feelings.
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Nothing to do with you, no you do not
Not really. I mean we only told my ex husband cause my son is 8 and tells everyone everything
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Uhh no? Heās your exā¦ this has NOTHING to do with you at all.
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I believe Iāve met another version of you.
Get this- the universe doesnāt revolve around you buttercup! Thatās your ex. Heās moved on.
Donāt use your daughter as a pawn to your jealousy.
Focus on your kid and fostering her to feel happy about being a big sister.
Work on growing as a person so you can in turn be a better moma for your kid.
Donāt worry about whatās not your business.
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no a ex is a ex for a reason
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