You have the right to feel however you want but you need to address why you feel that way. He is your ex he can do whatever he wants without your permission
You did say ex right?! If so than you can be mad but you canât be outwardly upset with him or her.
Heâs your ex. He is allowed to move on with his life. Youâre allowed to feel however you want but youâre not allowed to chastise him for moving on or drive a wedge between your daughter and her dad over it.
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Do you have a RIGHT !?! FUCK NO, grow the fuck up !
Um⌠please tell me your joking. Lmao what would make you have the right determine how your EX lives his life
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A right?? No, I donât see how.
No, you are not together therefore you have no right to what happens in his life.
This has got to be a joke.
Grow up and move on.
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Okay, unpopular opinion, but youâre allowed to feel however you feel, but I would not put those feelings on anyone else. Iâm sure you feel hurt and upset, but thatâs for you to work through on your own. Obviously he will move on, and what he does has nothing to do with you. Be happy for your daughter, it is her brother after all.
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Why should you be mad? Heâs an ex
Nope he obviously moved on and started another family. You have to get closure within yourself
I hope you donât project your feelings onto your kid! You can feel how you want about it but the bottom line is heâs not with you anymore and itâs hot like he owes you anything. I donât have any 100% siblings. Mine are all half from different dads but I donât think of them like that. Donât you make your daughter feel like this baby isnât going to be her âreal sibling.â You may have unresolved emotions but let your daughter be excited that she will be a big sister. Go to the store with her and let her pick out a stuffed animal for her new brother or sister.
Did he knock her up while you were together?
Huh. If itâs your ex what makes you think you have a right to be upset?? If itâs your ex that mean you exit your way out of his business. đ¤ˇđ¤ˇđ¤ˇ
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Why? Itâs really non of your business 
No you have no right to be upset. Itâs none of your business when itâs due or how they handled it with your child. You need to be supportive and lend an ear when your kiddo needs to talk about it. Be there in case the baby comes when your child is with them. And donât hold it over his head. Just go with the flow just because it didnât work out with him doesnât mean you need to be mad at every decision he makes with someone else
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Ask yourself how being upset is gonna change it? Then understand itâs not and weed your own flower garden.
No, you donât have a right to be upset. Iâm not sure why you would be⌠Is it youâre upset or jealous?
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Umm no. Wtf.
Well. You being upset only means thereâs some jealousy stirring inside you. The truth and reality of him moving on from you, while you still sorta, kinda care hurts. But thatâs ok. Work on you. Donât become the crazy baby momma.
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You can feel hurt but keep it to yourself. Donât give him the satisfaction seeing it bothers you.
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No you have no right. Thatâs not your place or your life or your man. Heâs moved on so do the same. His life is none of your business . Your business has to do with the child you both created and thatâs it. All else there are boundaries so donât cross them.
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Upset because yâall arenât together and his new girl is pregnant?? No you donât have the right to be upset. Donât you dare project that onto those children either. They are siblings so donât be petty.
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That baby is nothing to you
Zero rightsâŚsounds like you should follow his example and move on with your life
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Thats not on you thats on your ex. Dont worry about it or let it bother you.
Why would you be upset. Hes moved on and so should u !!
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No. Thatâs your ex. He moved on.
EX is the key word here. Not ur life Not ur business. Move on he obviously did.
No you guys arenât together anymore bye. You can either get on the band wagon or watch from sidelines bitter why be mad lol
No itâs not your baby. It has zero relation to you. It has relation to your daughter. Thatâs it. His life is not your life anymore.
No. Youâre not with him anymore so why does it matter?
I think I was more excited than my daughter was when her dad had his last three kids. We picked out a gift to take to the hospital and was there for the birth of one of them. Wasnât in the room but me and his mom was outside the door and got to hear the first cry and everything. The other one there was a bit of jealousy and hurt but that wasnât my place to step into that bc it was just my feelings and we werenât together anymore. Now I just hate him bc he has 5 kids and doesnât take care of any but two of them which is only bc his 4th baby mama/fiancĂŠ live with him. More like he lives with them considering he donât work and she pays all the bills. And he has done nothing but make my life a living hell for the last year but I wouldnât dare take any of it out on those kids, they did nothing wrong
Somebody needs to move on in life!
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No not at all heâs your ex
No. Heâs your ex for a reason and he has obviously moved on and found happiness and going to be a father again and thatâs his right.
No. Heâs your x. Keep it that way. This is more common than expected. Just worry about you and your child.
The key word is âexâ,donât make an issue when thereâs no need to.When children are involved as long as they are safe itâs best that adults be grown up
Why are you upset tho 
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I would be happy he had another with someone rather than me
What is going on here??? Heâs your ex,why would you be upset?!
Itâs normal to feel hurt. I remember crying when my ex told me he had a baby on the way because I always thought weâd work things out and life didnât happen that way.
He told me of his other children too and I didnât cry anymore and I wasnât bitter or mad at the children. Thatâs life but the hurt is normal.
Girl you crazy?nooooo
Well you have the right to feel upset but donât have the right to let that affect anything to do with your ex and your daughter.
I didnât find out my ex was having a baby until after the child was born, this was only 6 months after I left the 10 years of abuse.
It sounds like you dodged a bullet.
Are you upset that they didnât tell you, or that itâs happening at all?
theyâve moved on, if youâre upset, you havenât. no need to be upset with someone for fulfilling their own lives
No you have NO right to be upset⌠He has moved on wanting to make a family with his new love⌠As long as he is supporting ur child⌠Let him live his life⌠And you.go live yours⌠Move on exâs become exâs for a reason.
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I mean youâre entitled to your feelings but they have no bearing on their lives.
Ummmmm no you donât⌠Youâre not with him anymore she is, therefore no you have no right to be upset by the fact she is pregnant, and if it does bother you, then clearly you are a very jealous person.
Need to get out of that
Heâs an ex! He can do whatever he wants.
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If sheâs to the point sheâs almost due⌠I feel like thatâs plenty of time for you to have moved on. Not to mention how much time was prior to her even getting pregnant and etc. Their lives outside of your daughter is none of your business anymore.
No. Iâd be excited for my daughters dad and his new wife to be expecting. Id even take my daughter to the hospital when she deliversâŚ
What the fuck is happening to people these days? God forbid your EX even farts and yall are upset 
What the hell! Heâs an ex for a reason people move on ya know. Grow up and get over it!
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No. In fact you sound jealous, not upset. Good for him. Hopefully the new siblings mother is a positive female roll model so your daughter has someone to look up to that wonât teach her to be ridiculous.
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Your feelings are valid, but no, you donât have a right to be upset at him for moving on, even if itâs hard on you.
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Are you saying itâs possible he cheated? Iâm so confused by this post
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Iâd be upset if they didnât let my daughter know that she was going to have a sibling if thatâs what you mean but I personally wouldnât be upset about it. But Iâd leave it up to them when they wanted to explode the news.
If this is coming from a place of sadness for your daughterâs lack of involvement in becoming a big sister I can understand the hurt. But other than that you shouldnât be upset. Your daughter will learn how her father is excluding her as she gets older and she will make her own mind up about the situation, just stay out of it. And be as kind as you can if she asks why she wasnât told/included.
damm girl you sound jealous as hellđ yall are not tohether amymore, he can have a baby with his sister if he wants tooâŚits not your concern
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I understand feeling hurt if he broke your heart and left you for no good reason, but the fact is, the baby is already conceived and on its way, so thereâs nothing that can be done. Youâve just got to deal with your own emotions towards the situation in a mature manner and understand that thereâs nothing you can do about it.
I mean, I was upset at first but hey, you know what, I got over it. I adore his little girl and I adore his girlfriend toođ¤ˇââď¸
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Why would you be upset? Heâs your Ex.
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Well your ex is having a baby with his girlfriend, thats good news for them. It sounds likes youâre jealous when you should be happy that your daughter will have a brother.
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Itâs an ex, so what he does now is up to him as long as it doesnât concern your child together it doesnât concern you at all anymoreâŚ
Well you have every right to feel what you feel. But that doesnât mean itâs okay.
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You canât control his life. He has a right to be happy and have a family
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No, sounds like you need a hobbyâŚ
Uh why? Your ex is allowed to move on and be happy, just as you should
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I would be happy. But I also get along really well with my ex and his wife. 
If heâs your ex then no I donât think you should he upset, you should be happy and to welcome that baby in your life as a your daughterâs little brother, and learn how to co-parent and you guys can have a wonderful blended family⥠as long if he doesnât ignore the child he always have.
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Girl my ex got a chick pregnant in my house while I was at work. Move on sis. You gonna be just fine.
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Emotions are often irrational. But you donât have to indulge them. Your exâs new baby is not a threat to you and your daughter is getting a baby brother! Thatâs a wonderful thing. You need to address why you feel upset over it and figure out how to overcome it.
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Sounds like HE has moved on. Maybe you need to find some peace with yourself and let it go.
Allow your daughter to be a big sister and set a positive foundation for the blended relationship between your daughter, new sibling and the father.
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I donât understand what you would be upset with him about? Is he never allowed to have another kid?
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You can be but itâs really not valid. He is allowed to move on and have a family with who he wants.
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Why is it any of your business? He moved on. Why do you care?
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Why is any of this your business? Why do u think you have any right to be upset about your EX living his life? Get some business of your own and mind itâŚ.
No, not your business, is he not allowed to have more kids?
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Itâs your EX. He can be happy with his girl unless youâre jealous.
You have no right to be upset. Mind your business. Heâs not your man anymore.
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You have the right to feel however you want. Heâs clearly moved on. Donât let it affect how yâall co-parent the child you have together tho
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These people saying you shouldnât be upset donât understand. Of course you are upset.I think itâs a natural reaction. Just have to accept it though. As time moves on, you will get used to it. Keep focused on your own life and stay busy.
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If youâre upset that youâre just now finding out, yeah. Iâd want to know if my only was going to have a sibling. But thatâs the only reason to be at all upset
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I would just tell him that she is going to be a big sister that you would like him to share those things with her so that she can be involved.
You know now and in time to prepare your daughter for the new sibling.
Everyone is entitled to their feelings but I dont see anything to be upset aboutâŚas long as he can co-parent let them do them? I mean yea Iâd be upset not knowing bcuz my child would have a sibling but you cant control what they do or say⌠if they didnât tell you maybe they have their reasonsâŚ
Seems like you are too immature and still have feelings.
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Uh wtf. So because he isnât with you he canât have anymore children? Guess you canât either, better go tie your tubes
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No its not your business anymore.Why would you possibly think you have the right to be upset.Hes an ex and obviously he has moved on maybe you should as wellâŚya thinkâ:roll_eyes:đ¤Ś
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Honestly⌠no.
You guys are no longer together. He is with someone else and you should be happy that heâs doing well for himself. Being upset about it is selfish in my personal opinion.
Now if he got her pregnant while yall were together, I would understand. But if yall have been over for a while, you should really mind your own business and wish them well.
Also. PLEASE do not let your feelings jeopardize how your child feels about becoming a big sibling and PLEASE do not put things in her ear because of the way YOU feel. Because when you decide to have another one (if you do), she will feel the exact same way about your pregnancy as she does her fatherâs girlfriends. And that will cause nothing but hurt for everyone.
Be supportive and put your feelings on the back burner. It may suck, but itâs life. Its time to move on like he has.
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its got nothing to do with youâŚ
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If this upsets you I recommend therapy my dear! He is an EX and its none of your business!!!
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Itâs your ex why would you care
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What the hell NO. I canât believe you actually think you have a say? Stay in your lane!
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No, none of your business, make your self happyâŚ
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I mean, you can feel however you want, but it seems like a waste of energy. Heâs an ex, move on!
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No⌠heâs your ex! Move on!
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If you found out second hand, you may have a reason to be SLIGHTLY miffed. He should have told you so the 3 of you could share the news with your daughter. At the very least let you know he was telling her or told her on such and such a day.Other than the that no. Itâs an exciting thing for your daughter to be a big sister,donât ruin that for her.
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Youâre an EX! Like seriously, who do you think you are? Itâs sooooo none of your business. Did you expect him to never ever have a child with anyone else simply because he had one with you?
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