Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?

That why he brings food home. She s not cooking. Surprise darling

No, it’s at the least rude, at the most insulting. If you address this with him and he still does it, its insulting.

That’s rude as shit! If anything he should be bringing you food first!

A lil of both, my mom used to say, close mouths don’t get fed, just ask?

May I ask “ Why don’t you have a meal ready for him?” But then again Im old fashioned. I’ve been told. Maybe he’s proving a point.

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Lady was he like that before you married him??? Some things we as gals have too look over. Or you just tell him to bring you some food home every night. Tell him. Ps. He may still think he s single. And lady when the wife is pregnant the man goes through things tooooo.he s pregnant too. You just dont see the TUMMY. Mama

Mine like that with things men don’t think

He probably just figures that you have already eaten but I think he should ask.

Why would you want fast food early in the morning.

Yes you have a right to be upset, he is being rude and thoughtless.

You married him gees. Extremely sensitive you are. Pregnant and moody gees.

My husband and I were at a friend’s cottage and he went to the bar with the guys promised to bring me a pizza 5 hrs later come back shitfaced and no pizza I locked his ass outside. Make me wait and no pizza.He still talks about it 21 years later lol.

If you can’t sit and talk to him about this but post it on social media then maybe you should of thought about being with him before you got pregnant?

It’s effing rude whether you’re pregnant or not. Tell him how you feel. He’ll probably get really defensive. Tell him next time you make a meal you’ll only be making enough for yourself and then do it. It probably won’t change things though.
Any man who would even do that in the first place will probably not learn.

He should at least be considerate enough to ask if you want something.

Maybe since he works nights he is assuming you have already ate and fed your son?

Have you said anything about it? He may feel like you have already eaten… Talk to him because he can’t read your mind and sadly, he hasn’t a clue…

Maybe he just assumes you’ve eaten. Tell him how you feel and please call and ask if you’d like something. Or do it to him and see what he says.

I know you’re not extra that’s a rude I wouldn’t do anything for him

Your husband’s behavior is rude, thoughtless and quite frankly, disgusting.

Ask him to bring you and your son food when he’s stopping by for his.
I mean, have you ASKED him to?

Ask him to,and he probably figures you and son has had breakfast already

My parents akwats taught us 2 share. They led by example. Always a bite 2 eat & place 2 lay your head.

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think he is being totally rude…

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Maybe he doesn’t know you want any. Maybe he can’t afford to always buy it for everybody. Be glad he doesn’t expect you to get up and cook his breakfast.

He sounds like the rudest man…worse than that…he doesn’t care about you.

It’s rude…but have you asked him to stop doing it?

I think it’s rude & selfish. The least he could do is ask if you two want anything.

Nope inconsiderate. But have you told him. Be upfront. Don’t have to be confronting. Just tell him how you feel.

Rude!! My hubby texts me about 11:20 PM M-F are you still up? Do you want anything to eat or a strawberry shake? He’s always been this way. After 37 years, I’ll keep him :heart:

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Just ask him to bring stuff for you and son.

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He should be teaching his son to share . Not to be selfish . And that’s what his actions are teaching . Think only of yourself.

My husband would never do that, first he just wouldn’t second he knows if he did I probably just take it lol

If my husband did that hed be wearing it!

Maybe he figures you will have already eaten???

Your pregnant! Use your cravings…call him requesting he bring home food for you😊. Always speak up people are not mind readers.

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Tell him it upsets you and you would appreciate in the future if he would call and ask if you and your son want something.

I can’t even imagine this happening. The first time would have been the last time.

Did you tell him this bothers you and is rude?

He’s being very rude and selfish.Call him out on this and how can he do that to his son too.
Tell him you both would enjoy food too.What kind of man is he??

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He is selfish not only with you an the child but with the baby you are carriing

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Never heard of this type of “ man” which planet?

He should always ask

Why be upset? Make your own food

This should be referred to as your ex-husband

??? Why would you tolerate this?

My huby would never bring home food and eat it in front of me or kids :flushed: he will always bring us home something

He’s a man! You have to explain it to him.

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Oh he should at least as you if you’d like something. Not good

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FUCK THAT!!! Bullshit. I think I would walk over… grab the sandwich… split it half…give half to your son and eat the other…

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Wow very selfish so sad yes tell him how you feel he probably don’t have common sense

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He is rude…he should offer for sure!

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Oh he is SO being inconsiderate! Let him.know how you feel,communication is key in a relationship

He is eating more than the fast food. I would cook him a bolonga samich

I would lose my shit pregnant or not. That is rude

You need a social media discussion board for someone to tell you whether or not you should ask your husband for a damn burger?? My God. Do better ladies… do better.

:rofl:…I’m just hungry, okay. LOL :rofl:. No, you’re not being overly sensitive and your husband is rude and inconsiderate. Maybe you need to say something to him about how you feel.
#HerSay

RUDE…ask him to divide it 3 ways…bet he remembers to bring enough home next time :grinning:

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Babyyy listen. I AINT pregnant and if my husband ever did that, I’d knock all his food over. Lol.

My husband would NEVER :bangbang:

I would be more upset he did it in front of his son. Shit for brains!

Yeah that’s just plain rude and selfish. Good luck on that one.

not nice !
so you need to say a kind word to ask him to remember you and whomever is in the home :woman_facepalming:t3:

Oh, it’s very weird. He behaves like is just a roommate.

Let him have it! Blame the hormones!

Rude! Call him to bring you something. Some men have to be told.

Just talk to him about it in get it out your mind in see how it goes better then nothing

I’d be fuckin pissed men are like that tho . I

Thats just wrong, completely out of order

That’s very rude and ill mannered. Was he raised in a cave.

It’s called selfish, thoughtless and just plain stupid.

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Tell him to eat in the car if he wants to eat alone.

Maybe just ask him to bring you some food .

Very selfish. At least think of the kid

He’s terribly wrong and rude.

He is rude to do that to you and your son.

I had a husband do this, I divorced him.

How rude!!!
No words…… you should tell him to move out…….

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Not nice…you might consider that you deserve better.:sweat:

Tell him maybe he thinks you ate already talk him you could see we want something communicating

I’d go with rude & insensitive!!

If not already someone needs to reimburse harry n meghan.

If you loved him you would have dinner ready and waiting for him, stop being a drama queen!!!

He is being very RUDE !!! :rage::rage::rage:

It’s rude and self centered

That is very rude ,should never happen

I’m absolutely stunned at your husband’s thoughtless selfish behaviour

I’d say he’s Rude,Inconsiderate and Down Right Uncaring!!!

No you have very right to be upset. Thats so unthoughtful of him.

Rude. Don’t blame it on hormones it’s him being rude

Maybe he needs some medical attention!

He sounds rude and insensitive.

He is rude take it away from him and see if he don’t bring some

You two are due for a long talk!!

Communicate. Say " hey if u stop on ur way home, will u please grab us something?" He’s not physic.

Seriously??? Selfish, would not work for me ever.

He’s seriously selfish!! He should provide food for his family first,then take his meal. This isn’t going to change,this is who he is?! Try therapy, or mention to him your son n you deserve to have food as well. Is it a money thing? It just doesn’t sound natural for him to not think he should bring food for his family.??:disappointed:

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Obviously he comes first. So very sad

Most all do that… Only think of themselves

He’s rude and selfish . Just thinking of his own guts

Totally rude!!! He should be offering atleast.