I think it is being very rude of him.He could at least offer once in awhile.
Trust me it will get worse!!! Starts off like this, then eventually he will be buying stuff he wants (multiples of whatever) and if you ask him to bring somepop for you and the kids he will but it will be One for all of you and a dozen for him!
“Are you getting food on your way home?”
Yes
“Great! Can you get something for me and the baby?”
It really is that easy.
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Well, let’s reverse roles here. What if you were working the night shift, and your husband was at home, with the kids, when you stop to breakfast, would you only buy for yourself, or would you would you also buy for your family at home too? I know, I would buy for my family at home too! Most men, are very self centered, and want everything for themselves.
Not enough info here ,but he works why does he have to bring food home ,you dont cook ?
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There is a rule that I have always lived by …we need neveR eat in front of others…you offer what you have to them and share
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Yeah, I feel like he should ask you as well. It is rude to bring food home for once self but for no one else
Show him the door as soon as you can !! Will never change if you are sitting back and doing nothing and letting him do it !! Understand you are pregnant , but don’t let him do this to you !! 
Oh hell no. I invented a game. What’s his all time favorite food? That fast food really must be getting old. Before he gets home prepare his favorite meal. Have table set, fresh flowers and a place setting for yourself and your son. Make him a plate however put in the oven out of sight. Don’t wait for him to get home go ahead and eat. When he asks where’s his food.? I’d reply. You know what , I’ve been wondering the same thing every time you bring a bag in. You seem to take care of YOU. So you wrote the rules. I’m just playing the game. I’m feeding my boy and myself. SMILE GOODNIGHT.
Bring it up to him and make him aware of it . Let him know that it bothers you and let him know that it would be nice just to bring your son home something as well. If it happens a 2nd time after that go on strike and only cook for you and your son tell him oh I thought you were bringing your one food home like you usually do! That’s just plain rude!
Maybe he thinks you’re sleeping you should be. cuz you will not get any sleep in another 4 weeks. Your child needs his sleep too, they get cranky when they’re tired. Good luck!
Tell him the next time he comes into that house without food for you and the rest of the family … he’ll have to fight the family dog to get it back because you will grab it and toss it to the dog … good luck …then tell him you like your Hamburgers “all The Way “” lots of onions… … so they’re won’t be a desert tonight .
Ask him why he didn’t bring you and your son something or why he didn’t call and ask if you wanted anything. True he can’t read your mind but he should think about you occasionally, enough to see if you want what he is stopping for. But since he isn’t asking on his own, let him know you would like him to ask once in a while.
Tell him he needs to feed your belly! And his sons too when he brings home food!
It’s rude to sit down in front of someone and eat and not offer other people something
Why not just ask him why he never brings you and your son anything? He may not realize he’s being disgustingly selfish! Or, he may just be totally insensitive to anyone’s needs but his own, but if you ask him about it, he may start thinking of you when he buys his food!
Good luck to you though!!! Congrats on the new baby too!!!
I am having trouble processing how a person could bring food home and not offer to share at the very least—not to mention eating in front of family members . . . I’d take a long, hard look at his other behaviors and maybe start putting money aside for my not-too-far-in-the-future divorce.
Oh he’s rude. Self centered, too. Next few times you fix nice meals, only make enough for you and your son . Dare him to say something
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When you make dinner only make food for you and your kid… eat it in front of him. See how much he likes it
He’s probably on drugs,l would not cook him a dam thing.lf l were in your shoes he would be eating out 3 times a day.
No he is being selfish not hard to send a quick message asking if you want anything is it. 9 times out of 10 you don’t but the thought is the important thing
Oh No He would never eat in front of my children an He would be wareing that food out side .
You need to tell him or ring him when you know he is finishing work and tell him what you want him to order. Thank you darling for your consideration.
I was raised to keep house and cook and feed my children, not wait for my husband to work all night and expect him to bring food home to feed us. When he cones home, my husband will find a plate of left overs from our meal. My children will be asleep as well as I. If he gets home in the morning when we are up, then I will fix his breakfast as I will my child. You have the wrong idea of what a home and marriage are.
Why don’t you just ask him to at least ask you if you two would like anything. Simple. Am sure that being at home he moors likely already ate.
He is very rude you don’t do that to anybody you know people at home you ask them specially your son and you being pregnant
Hes rude n unthoughtful. Especially bc you are pregos. Send him a text the next day n say " since u never ask if we want food " yes we would like food today.
Try rude. I would ask what he picked up for us as well. He has no manners or consideration. I would show him how it feels.
Oh my God. Just ask him to pick something up for you. don’t make a big deal out of it. Hormones can do a number on your head!
I think it’s rude of him to not bring you or your son anything or ask if you might want something. My husband would never have done anything like that. He knows he has the both of you at home and he does this! Not right.
Are you mute? No, then ask for what you want . If you don’t get it THEN be upset. Your husband is not a mind reader, nor a considerate person. Work with what you’ve got.
Men need to be TZ
OLD
MEN NEED TO BE TOLD ALL THE TIME. HE NEEDS TO BE TAUGHT TO GHI K IF HIS FAMILY IF HE HASNT DONE THIS ON HIS OWN
I WOULD BET HIS MOM NEVER TSUGHT HIM THOSE SKILLS
Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her.” 9. Genesis 2:24: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
Tell him nicely you want him to bring you food also. Maybe he will get the hint.
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Think He don t care. should think about u first and the child. where did he come from.sharing is the thing to do with a,yone fore sure love of your life. WIFE.
Yes his very rude how can he not ask you or your child if your hungry
Bring it to his attention.may be exhausted from work which knows unless YOU ASK.Dont let this escalate HANDLE IT NY COMMUNICATION.YOU GO GIRL.
Maybe you could fix meals for you husband, there’s an idea. And feed yourself and child while you’re at it
Honestly I think that is very rude of him. If you bring yourself something then bring everyone something. My husband would never do that.
Yes, he is rude.
I know this is a huge generalization, but IMHO, it is my observation that a lot of guys do not actively think and/or try to anticipate their significant other’s needs… not like women do! Believe me when I tell you that you will both be happier if you communicate with him and let him know how upsetting this is to you.
I spent our first 10 years expecting him to read my mind… I was a huge martyr about it (an increasingly angry martyr). Be very direct and blunt with your needs and wants… don’t drop hints that he may ignorantly not pick up on (I played that game too). Unless he’s a total jerk, things will move much faster and to your liking if you just lay it out for him… Maybe even make him a list of fast food places with what you want from each of them, so there’s no excuse that he didn’t know what you wanted. You can also tell him to call you if he is going to go to a fast food joint.
My husband was not a bad guy & he was actually a very considerate person, just young.
Tell him to bring you and your son something as well. Don’t assume he should know to ask . Guys dont always know unless we tell them.
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At least eat it before he gets home. Not in front of you. That’s crazy. Say something. Do it to him and see how he likes it.
I think because you are at home he probably thinks that you have already eaten and won’t be hungry when he gets home but nothing stops him from contacting you and asking you if he can get you something to eat or drink.
Your husband works nights, perhaps he thinks youve already eaten due to differing schedules?
Yes you do!, that is so wrong. Could be the way he was raised. He’s not thinking about anyone else
I would be ordering myself and my kids breakfast… and if he asks say well I didn’t think you wanted any 
It is rude. You should tell him what you and you son would want and if he stops to bring you breakfast.
Does he get upset when you only pick up food for you and your son? Or do you always pick him up something or call to see if he wants something?
Literally would make food and never fix him a plate again… naw you got 2 hands since you want to be careless and not think oh wait you are a human being too
Definitely not treating you or child right. You need to talk to him otherwise it will eat you up
Probably just another red flag 
. She’s probably ignored a lot of them along the way. This can’t be a surprise. People have a way of showing you who they are. If we choose not to 
…oh well.
Did you ever mention it to him that you guys want food too and idk I was raised differently but I was taught not to eat in front of anyone with out sharing or buying extra so I don’t but maybe he really figures you guys might ate or just not at all he is a man lol if it bothers you mention it to him and ask him if he gonna bring home food bring something for you guys…start there key is always communication if something bothers one or other person it needs to be discussed
Just tell him he’s being rude! He’s ur husband & if u can’t tell him plain & simple wot a selfish prick he’s being by not bringing u food or asking u then there’s something truly wrong with ur marriage.
That is very rude and inconsiderate. I would speak up and let him know how you feel.
When he gets home take the bag and say Thank you. While you proceed to eat it in front of him
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My husband always brings me and our kids food and I do the same.
I’d think that was quite rude myself too… It never hurts to call or send a text ‘hey I’m grabbing food y’all want something?’
My ex husband did this to me & our kids for 26 years and YES IT BOTHERED ME TOO . We are no longer together
Its rude now you fix something just for you and you son dont give your husband any and when he asks why tell him if you cant buy us food when you come home im not cooking you food. You should if already said something instead of crying about it on here
He’s a man not a mind reader. Tell him ahead of time. You’ve been told there are no differences too often . This is a total guy thing . Miscommunication causes misunderstandings.
Don’t be afraid to speak up and tell your husband that’s rude! And that you and your son should always be considered!! Teach him what you expect in your marriage.
It’s rude!!! Possibly has never had to consider anyone but himself. Time to heighten his awareness and ask him to change his ways to consider others!
He probably likes getting them babies but it don’t sounds like he wants to feed them Get out while you can
How rude! He wasn’t raised properly. He needs a good talking to. Your are not being overly sensitive.
You said sometimes? I am guessing he has a phone 
just send him a message and ask him if he could pick something up for you also .
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Yeah…. rude and selfish. If he’s gonna do that he needs to eat in the parking lot of the restaurant and come home with no trace.
Its rude, period. My husband does this too.
I think that is rude. I would talk to him about it. And ask him to next time bring u and your son something
I’m gonna put it this way. My ex was a covert narc, the real deal and he always brought me food if he got himself something. So there’s that to think on. Be open and upfront about how it’s making you feel and if it’s an expectation of yours that he bring for everyone then let him know. I wouldn’t be surprised if he deflects by claiming it’s to expensive though. I also wouldn’t be surprised if he just starts eating in the car. Selfish is selfish. Good luck mama.
Have you asked him to bring you home food. I know he sounds rude but he is not a mind reader. If you asked him to bring food home then he is a jerk if he doesn’t.
Well duh tell him your hungry and next time bring you some food! Maybe you have not because you ask not!
Yes he should at least call and ask if you or your children would like anything
You should express your feelings to him because he might be too tired to realize what he’s doing 
It’s rude. Ask his mother why she never taught him proper manners!
I think I’d order pizza to he delivered and return the favor. Then have an adult conversation about this situation.
Shame on him,don’t set a place for him when it’s dinner time. He will think next time
Your husband is very rude!! You need to set him straight.
Just ask him. Sometimes we all just have times when we don’t think💕
Being a man, he probably thinks he is “helping” by feeding himself. 
carma is needed here…next time you do laundry, be sure to leave his in the basket…when he complains, remind him of his not thinking about you and your child…and until he gets his act together, be sure you do not do his laundry or anything for him…cooking a meal for him,…not on your life…cook only for yourself and your child…this man married for one reason and one reason only…he wants to be taken care of, in every way…sex, housekeeping, meals cooked, but he is incapable of loving you the way you need to be loved…love and marriage is two sided
I always guilt trip my fiancé if he doesn’t get me something so he always does now 
He’s rude. Tell him it bothers you. If he doesn’t fix it, then make food for you and your kid with nothing left over for him so maybe he gets the point.
My husband would only do that once lol.
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I would be upset you shouldnt have to ask but ask him I bet he will feel horrible for not asking
I’ve discovered in nearly 30 years of marriage you MUST tell men what you want. Tell him “I want food, when you bring food home either text and ask if we want something or bring us something home.”
Plain and simple. Short and sweet. Man speak
Ya, that sucks but he may be totally clueless. You may have to tell him you want him to check with you to see if you want any food too.
That’s so rude of him to do! It’s one thing if he eats it on the way home but in front of you!? I’d say something
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Have you asked him,next time you bring home food could you get us some too?
I would be upset. My ex used to do the same.
Just ask him men don’t think like women if you want something you have to ask.
Wait until you have your baby and then . . .
On a high note, name your child a name from your side of the family! When he asks
“Why don’t I have any say?”
Tell him,
“Because your sorry ass stuffed your SORRY ASS face IN FRONT OF your family without asking if we wanted any food!!”
Have you mentioned to him that you would love it if he would ask you if you wanted something?
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No that would bother me too just ask next time you do that son and I would like some too
I do think he’s very rude and selfish. I my hubby stops for food he calls and ask me what we want.
He’s being rude by doing that! How dare he???
I highly doubt this is his first inconsiderate rude thing he’s done it isn’t like flipping a switch and it just starts he’s probably been like this for a long time and you’re just noticing
I’d say something maybe he doesn’t realize it bothers you. I personally think it’s not considering you or his child at all
Maybe he thought y’all already ate… have you said anything? If I didn’t get home until that late, I’d be coo coo for cocoa puffs
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You have every right to be upset so selfish rude thoughtless say something to him
Next time you put dinner on the table, leave his spot empty