Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?

Totally rude , no excuse!

He’s rude AND selfish. Tell him I said so!

That’s just selfish and rude!!!

Maybe he is just a asshole

He’s just plain rude

That’s very rude & selfish!!

No, that’s inconsiderate. :100:

I would kick his ass eat in front of us no way

Thats not right. Selfish

He’s rude and disrespectful!

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He’s selfish…he needs to be set straight

Inconsiderate bastard

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He is EXTREMELY rude

He is a rude ass… I mean he is letting his family starve! Only thinking of himself… Yuck

What a selfish little pig of a man.

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Rude and extremely insensitive!

He’s a selfish prick !

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Just clueless…give him one!

Have you asked him to

Yeah he’s a prick period.

Very thoughtless and selfish.

Have you mentioned this to him!?

You should help yourself ,love

That is selfish and f…ING rude

It’s rude. I’d be pissed​:woman_shrugging::rage:

Yes that is very rude.

Just rude and inconsiderate…

Naw girl that ain’t ok!

Your husband is a rude. Self centered scumbag

He is being rude and unaware

He is jerk and tell him so

Men are selfish jerks . All of them

Rude and.inconsiderate

It’s very selfish and rude.

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It’s inconsiderate and rude!!

Just rude to say the least

Nah, he’s rude and selfish as hell.

Messed up right there.
Selfish

Sorry to say this but I think your husband is a self centered asshole and so rude!

Your husband is selfish and very inconsiderate!

So selfish and rude.

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Say something to him!!!

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Tell him what you want!

WOW…thats a man for ya

Talk to him!!! How RUDE!!!

He is selfish and rude…

Selfish, should text or call

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Rude , seems selfish ,

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When there is a husband and a wife team it is normal for the male to see to the needs of his loved ones, not to just fed himself in front of them. I am quite surprised to hear all these comments from spouses that put up with this treatment whats wrong with you people?

This happened to one of my Aunts years ago.
She and my uncle went out to get something to eat - unfortunately he only got something for himself. When they started to drive, she got the bag and threw it out the window. Her response, if U cannot think about your unborn baby or myself - maybe U would be better off alone!
The next day, and the day after that - he would bring her something to eat. Although it was harsh, he learned.

I think that’s terrible. It’s selfish and inconsiderate. You should try to find a nice way to tell him. If that doesn’t work I would tell him what a jerk he is.

Get a plate and take some of his food so you and your son can eat

Yea I would say something to him for sure😘

He is rude cheap ass

I’d say, Hey! Where’s mine? Did you forget me?

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I mean, firstly, why not just ask him? “Hey, if you stop and get food, could you grab us something, too?”

Secondly, if he works nights, when does he get home? My husband works nights and usually eats before getting home at, like, 6:16 am every morning. Sometimes he brings it home. We’re not up during the summer but during school, he still doesn’t bring us anything bc by the time he gets home with it, my daughter has already eaten. Maybe, if it’s very late, he’s thinking y’all have already eaten dinner, or that you aren’t up yet or, honestly, the possibilities are endless. Which is why you should say something to him. Just ask. I get wanting him to be thoughtful, but none of us are perfect. He’s getting off work and coming home, and maybe he’s just not thinking about it.

Good luck!

I don’t want to sound mean but you say he works nights right? Do you cook dinner and put food to the side for him for when he gets home? Maybe just text him and say hey can u bring us something. This is ridiculous I’m sorry.

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No thats messed up get rid of him

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That’s fucked up. I wouldnt do this to anyone, let alone my family!

I would grab the food out his hand and slap it around his face if that was me! Whe I was pregnant even though I couldent eat I would still be livid if he never brought me food home! Xxx

Getting some advice on social media will not help you.
You need to tell him that his behavior is not right and he needs to think it over.
Has he always been like that? If so you are responsible for the situation too. Just get him at the table and ask him how he would feel if it was the other way around.

Honestly I wouldn’t take it to heart I have been with my husband going on 7 years now and he literally forgets to order for me even when I’m in the car.
Men do weird things but we love them anyway.

When it’s time for you and your son to eat other meals. I’d cook just enough for the two of you. When he asks…where’s mine? I’d say….You eat in front of us and never ask if we’re hungry or if we’d like some. So, from now on we’re going to treat you, the same way you treat us. Hopefully, he’ll catch on fast. But, he sounds pretty dumb. LOL
I personally would’ve told him the very first time he did this, to call and ask if we’d like something too. Then it wouldn’t have become a issue.

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When you cook, cook for yourself and you child and eat in front of him :tipping_hand_woman:t2:let’s see if he likes that :rofl:

Ignorant thoughtless

Holly f#$%! Get real fighting for nothing, talk to each other this is soooooooo stupid! Life is beautiful no time to waist on nonsens start enjoying each other with respect. Tell him thats it thats all if things does not change he will always be selfish and not change. Move on bye bye :woman_facepalming: Be happy dont stay with someone that makes you miserable :woman_shrugging:

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So disrespectful and inconsiderate smh. I’m sorry :disappointed:

Nah he’s being reallyyy rude

Wow some of these comments are so extreme… just ask him to bring you something next time he stops

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Need more info before I rant. He must come home late if he works nights. What time does he get home? Do you have dinner with your son?

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If he works nights why are you and your son still awake and expecting to eat so late is my question? I don’t understand this.:woman_shrugging:t4:

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The thing that irks me is she is pregnant and he eats right in front of her. Have you tried explaining to him it bothers you?

Dear Hungry,Kick his ASS!

I mean did he just start doing this while you were pregnant or has he always been an inconsiderate imbecile? Surely there were red flags. :flushed:

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Don’t expect people to read minds . Ask . A little rude of him yesssss. It is but not worth the throwing his food in the trash going off on him getting rid of him etc haha haha unless there’s more to the story .

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It’s rude. Yes. Thoughtless

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Communication. Just tell him that it seems rude, hurts your feelings and he needs to be aware. Your son comes first, him second. Ask him to call if he plans to stop. Sometimes they don’t’ realize how insensitive they are. Once he has knowledge and continues, then you go off on him.

Inconsiderate knot head !! He should call and ask her if they would like something.

Well it’s just rude not to ask in the dam first place :rage:

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Oh hell no he can sit his dumb ass in the car and eat. I will tell him if he has a cell phone he can call ahead either make dinner or food for everyone or he brings home food for everyone at our house at all or nothing

I don’t think he is trying to be a jerk, his thought might be that he doesn’t want to burden his prego wife with making his food for him? Just ask him to let you know when he’s getting food on his way home because you might want some.
Communicate try it.

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My ex husband was like that. Never even asked if I wanted anything or if my boys wanted someone. Fast forward and my bf asks me anytime he stops for food and asks my now adult son who lives with us if he wants anything. There’s a huge difference in a man’s character when he chooses to care for the people around him and not be a narcissistic asshole. You’re right in feeling the way you do!

That is rude but have you talked to him about it. If you haven’t then your silence to him could be a indication you are ok with it and didn’t want anything.
Tell him you are hungry to and would like.if he called in the future to see of you want anything.

Wow. He’s a very mean and insensitive person. Why do you put up with that?

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Is he broke and can only afford to buy one meal?

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My husband gets food sometimes when he gets out of work but he always brings for me and my 4 kids without even asking.
Maybe he assumes yall ate without him, so just sit and talk with him. Its the little things that count.

I would’ve been broke up with his ass for some shit like this :unamused:

He’s rude and I would say something. I’m sure it hurts your sons feelings too. I would tell him in private " Honey it really hurts out feelings that you don’t ask if we would like something to eat too , it would really be appreciated. " remind him your carrying his child your hungry too. Your son is a growing boy I have 3 grown boys they were always hungry. AND IT’S JUST PLAIN RUDE AND MEAN !!!

He ain’t just being rude he’s being an ass to come sit down and eat fast food in front of you but more so in front of his child knowing the child is going to Want some

If he works nights, I’m thinking he’s picking up breakfast on his way home. Depending on what time he’s coming home, he may not want to call you so as not to wake you up, or he may think you already had breakfast at that time.
You should definitely let him know BEFORE he leaves to work that you and your son would like him to also bring you fast food when he comes home.
If he doesn’t, he’s a jerk!

Honey, he’s a jerk! You should have upset. Have you called him on his bad behavior?

I’d be bothered too lol. But maybe he’s just being dumb and totally doesn’t see it like that or even think of it. Tell him!

My question is has she told him how she feels? If she has then yes it’s rude if he continues to do it. If she hasn’t said anything then who knows if he is doing this so she won’t have to cook for one more person. :woman_shrugging:t4: never know if you don’t speak your mind. Communicate! Yes she’s prego and yes she has a child but if I stay home I feed myself and don’t wait for my working husband to bring me food. :woman_shrugging:t4:

Call him out…he should at least text and ask if you’d like anything before returning home. This is not your first pregnancy and should know the drill by now!! No argument over it…it stands to order pregnant woman need extra tender loving care. He should be grateful and not so selfish thinking.:raised_hands::muscle::pray:

Well…has he done this before you were pregnant? If didn’t bother you then, & now it does…then Yes! Hormones!

Ummmm…so you are waiting for him to figure it out? Soooo you can’t just…ask him…or remind him? If its nights…is he assuming you and your child have eaten…and may be sleep? Maybe in his mind…he’s preventing you from having to make him something to eat when he gets home. Either way…where’s the communication? Advice from complete strangers won’t change a thing in your household.

That is one of the simplest gestures some one can do to show they care. He clearly doesn’t.

You’re PREGNANT! He should be taking care of you, not eating in front of you all the time :roll_eyes:

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That is rude to me i would never get food with out offering it to everyone in the home

That’s rude. I don’t let my boyfriend eat without me lol!