That is so rude! That hurts me at my core! He has to die now!
I seriously don’t get how it’s rude for him to eat food after he gets off of work late. You said it’s only sometimes…
Are you skipping dinner to wait for him? If so, had yall even agreed to wait?
You’re pregnant, you’re not useless.
I assume you also have a phone with which to order food. Maybe use it?
Also, maybe just tell him to bring you something if he goes for fast food next time.
Growing up, I never expected people to bring me food when they went out for it. I dont even get how yall could be conditioned to expect something like that.
Seriously? I have read some of these comments and I can’t believe some of them. You and your son are at home where there is food? Why would he stop and pick you up food? But I agree with Roxanne Vierra Carman, try communicating with him!! If you want him to pick you and your son food up in his way home ask him to!! There needs to be communication in order to get what you need!!
Yeah thats pretty selfish , especially if he knows you guys are awake and haven’t eaten yet, I would just mention it to him , don’t be rude about it just say sometimes you wish he would surprise you with food. Men aren’t mind readers and sometimes need a little help. Don’t be to upset he probably is just really hungry and thinks you guys ate
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He’s probably exhausted and just wants to get food and sleep. Especially because a lot of night shifters don’t eat on their lunch breaks because most places are closed. I don’t think he’s doing it on purpose and I definitely don’t think he’s doing it to be rude or selfish…
Honestly guys dont always think when they do things…especiallyafter working a shift and being tired…say something perhaps he doesnt even realize how rude he is being
I would be upset about that too. Start sending him txts like,
Hi honey, I like breakfast from Hardee’s tomorrow. Can you bring me the sausage biscuit and bring Hunter (son) the pancakes? Hahahha.
All the negativity on here about throwing him out to pasture probably comes from their divorces and pain…First ask him why he hasn’t thought of you and your child and go from there…COMMUNICATE!
- Ask him to pick you/son up something next time.
- If he does, congrats…
- If he doesnt, he sleeps in doghouse for remainder of your pregnancy
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You have every right to say something especially that theres a a child involved…you NEVER EVER EVER eat food in front of a child and not offer him/her any…thats fucken childish in his part…GROW UP HUBBY its not about you it’s about your family…tired or not you provide for your family…
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That’s grounds for seperation 
rude af
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Does he come home AFTER dinner time? Is he presuming you have already eaten AND fed your child? Hes not a mind reader if you want a cheeseburger tell him.
My man always calls me to see if I want anything if he stops on the way home. That is definitely rude af
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If a hubby doesn’t bring nuggies, tacos or a burger, fries and gravy home- is he really your hubby?
But seriously- ask him why he does that if it really bugs you.
Its rude and disrespectful
I’ve worked nights and you are a walking zombie…
I aways send a group family message…
Anyone Wants anything for dinner? Its usually get something for yourself… or the usual…I want a smoothie…
Damn just tell him u want food to sometimes. You can also have some food ready for him wen he gets home sometimes
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It’s called being selfish. You’re married to a child.
He’s very rude but just wondering, do you sometimes cook for him so he has a decent meal when he gets home?
He shouldn’t bring food home and not bring something for you and the child but he also shouldn’t have to get takeout food all the time. Maybe you could suggest he brings home breakfast for all of you on M-W-F and you will cook breakfast the other 4 days a week.
He is being impolite, rude and inconsiderate. And I’m sad for you.
Hell to the fucking no… my ex did this ONE time when he was “trying to find a place to stay” had a whole bag of food and offered me one taco. He was out the next day. 
Teams take care of each other, js.
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TEXT HIM. . .Every. Single…Night
With your order
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He should ask. Period. I bet you ask.
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First thing do you offer to have food for him when he gets home? It would be cheaper and better for him. Depending on the time he gets home but offer to have his breakfast ready for him and you and your child. Problem solved. Or write him a tax and asked him to get u and his child what you want then you can eat together
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Please don’t whine— just write down what you want and give it to him!
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Have you asked him why?
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We don’t know what time he gets off the nite shift… So why she gotta cook for him if it’s 630 or 34 weeks pregnant… It’s the thought that counts here and he doesn’t think of his wife or thier son!!!
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Is it possible he’s under the impression that the two of you have already had dinner? Would you usually have already eaten by the time he gets home? If he’s getting himself food every night it seems he’s not expecting there to be anything for him to eat at home. Have you spoken with him about this at all?
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I didn’t even read the entire post. I am pissed just reading this. EVERYONE SHOULD GET FOOD
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Absolutely I feel that it is selfish and possibly maybe you are hungry too, it’s a combination of it all. So gently ask him hey could you possibly bring home breakfast for us tomorrow and we could all eat together? Make it sound like there is a benefit to him. Yes some men want to be catered to and at times it’s nice when they cater to us a bit. Approach it nicely and I bet he will see the error in his ways, if not go Savage on him and blame it on the hormones…lol
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Natalie James Katie Bunce yep id be fuming and im not even pregnant 
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I was glad when i was pregnant , i would just suggest something & he would go bring it hime to me.
So he never offers to bring you or your son anything? This clearly has happened on several occasions, have you asked for anything knowing that he stops at fast food places after work? Have you said how you felt to him?
On another note if your at home, you have access to make food for yourself and child (I’d hope) so maybe he is assuming that you prepared a meal for yourself and child, and you already ate?
Also, have you thought why he’s stopping for fast food? Is he under the impression that there was nothing prepared at home?
It sounds like this can easily be worked out with communication.
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Nah that literally would b a deal breaker for me I’d b livid not wen it comes to food lol
yes that is kind of a dick move it would not be too much effort to call or mssg to see what you want from wherever he is going
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I’d ask him for half n let him know you’re hungry ??
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Nope your not overreacting or being hormonal! That’s extremely rude AF! He could at least text or call you and see if you’d like anything! I’d never do that to my SO that’s just plain inconsiderate!
nah that shit hella rude
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Daaaaamme!!! I would me mad as hell!!! Stop doing things for him,let him feel what it’s like:rage:
he need to grow tf up!!!
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Honey your pregnant, not dieing. The blokes just knocked off night shift. If you haven’t done it before you have no idea. Get off ya ass and get some yourself or kindy text him and ask 
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Nope! Rude and selfish! Pregnant or not! Pure Selfish!
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I will smash his face. Lmfao 
I would hella mad. So inconsiderate.
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Elena Kaipalexis bro I would be so
Maddddd
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Consider it a good thing, its not healthy for you guys anyway! Eat better meals than he does at home! Lol…saves money too!
I’d say yes you have the right to be upset. But i have questions. Like have you talked to him about how this action of his upsets you? If your answer is yes than you have to decide how important this is to you and what you are going to do next. If your answer is no than it’s up to you to have a conversation with him and inform him of your feelings. No one reads minds. Next question, is it important to your husband/marriage the he works full time and you be the housewife and have dinner on the table and keep the house clean? If that’s important than he may be upset that he isn’t coming home to a home cooked meal. If that’s not important than that is not a factor. In my relationship, eating fast food is something we do so having a home cooked meal isn’t a huge deal to us. Each relationship is different and there may be other factors that I’m not aware of. But that’s my opinion.
All about him… run!!!
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Lolol. You just hungry. Just tell him to bring you something too if he is gonna grab some food. Nothing to be mad about. He was probably hungry and thought you guys might of ate already at home. Don’t get mad about small things. Shouldn’t be stressed out during this time.
Gone days when man comes home cooked meal
He has worked all day, time sit down talk together about problem—many f.b will not help
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My husband knows better. 
He’s rude he could at least ring and ask if you would like anything
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get rid - selfish and inconsiderate
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He is rude and thoughtless!
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Josh Fenton ruuuuude. Imagine if you did this
It would be really weird if I get food and not get for wife and kids
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Rude. Hubby always brings home everyone a meal . Hell he will even msg us what we feel like eating. Just do the same back lol
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I’d definitely have a word with him but if he continues to do it after you have spoken to him I’d consider that extremely rude
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He should call you when enroute to get food and ask if you both want anything. Its rude
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Why don’t you just ask him to then
I think it’s goes rude if he don’t want to share he should eat it before he gets home I think that’s just rude but you should ask him about it ask him why he doesn’t know why you doesn’t do it whatever
I’d defo eat his and tell him his is in the oven
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Maybe he sees nothing wrong with it…cause he is even eating in front of yall,why don’t you ask him to bring you some and see if he is gonna refuse.Some of the things we get upset about,our partners aren’t aware because you never told him.Imagine if you saw empty packages everyday 
Definitely not an emotional pregnant woman issue, I’d be pissed off and would have him up about it. Your growing a human and looking after your son, he’s just being rude and self centered
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Does he assume you’ve already eaten?
Is it late?
Sooo many questions
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Completely selfish 
he should offer to bring back both you & your son something on a normal basis but even more so now your pregnant!!
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I would take the food and share it with myself and the kids… His clearly being super rude. He doesn’t want to share he should eat outside x
That’s just awful. Read why does he do that by lundy Bancroft for all the answers and solution you need
Of course it’s rude… he such at least ask no matter if he thinks, you’ve eaten , it’s too late… whatever!
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He’s a dick. A selfish dick.
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Why are u still with him
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No that’s just rude and your not over reacting. I bet you cook for him… tell him next time to either eat away from home or to think of his family. Xx
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He should ask regardless of whatever times he’s coming home. A bit mean eating his takeaway in front of u and not asking if u want any or even offering what he’s bought in
Yes, I would be livid x
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Omg I would kick off! He’s obviously very selfish.
Selfish greedy fucker in my opinion
He is a proper asshole
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Rude and not a good example for your little one. I would definitely tell him off and no you’re not over emotional. I would be livid if my partner would do that to me and my son.
Have you ever asked him why he doesn’t get you anything?
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He is rude, at least ask if you want some. Especially in your state. Good luck and God bless!
Thats very selfish of him.
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So he is coming home in the morning if he works nights it’s his dinner. He is not asking you to cook when it’s breakfast time
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Well perhaps you could ask him to bring you some or perhaps you’re not supposed to have it due to doctor’s orders or daughters or maybe a weight issue. And do you have food at home??
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Why. Dont. You. Ask. Him…when. He. Pick. Up.food to. Get. Some for. You. And byour. Son ?
He probably thinks you had your dinner already. He’s just grabbing food on way home from work. Saves you getting up to cook too. If you’re hungry, ring him and tell him to get you something too, then if he said no, I’d kill him
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I would be FUMING! Selfish and rude!
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Definitely rude and ignorant of him
Sorry right but you said he’s your husband not boyfriend? So Uno him pretty well , did he do this shit before you where married ? Cause I think you can tell early on if someone is selfish and stingey lol x
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Selfish, rude, uncaring a…hole!!!
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Hes rude and self centred. You def shud be bothered by it imo; its not hormones. You shud tell him straught up that its bloody rude not to include you and also to eat in front of you! And while u are pregnant? Cmon. Next time ubmake dinner, make just for you! See how he likes it.
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Put you and your son’s order in before he leaves for work. If he only brings food for himself then you have a problem.
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I bet u don’t get him or your son anything when u get those pregnancy muchies…which I heard were bs by the way. Just a way for a woman to get something by pity factor.
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Why don’t you just ask him? He’s coming back in the morning, nights are hard and sometimes you just want to grab your food get home and eat. If you ask beforehand he’d probably get some for you. At least he’s not demanding you make sure breakfast on the table for him 
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tbh men are different and abit clueless. they wouldnt know they have to do things unless they’re told to do it. so dont come at him harsh, jus ask him next time ‘can you get us food too on your way back’. hes hungry and just wants to eat and men dont think straight unless they’ve got something in their stomach. and he probably thinks you and child have already eaten?
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Ohhhh No Way You better tell that man text you on his way home hey babe I’m picking up some. Takeout would you guys like something! Or Dam by now he should know what y’all’s like and is SELFISH!!
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Communication is key problem solver here 
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He should at least call and make sure you have eaten and if you want anything. My fiance always calls me before coming home and asks me if their is anything I need while he is already out before he comes home.
He could phone you and ask if you or your son want anything before he buys food. He sounds selfish to me
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Do you not eat unless he buys you it ? Make up some good for him to take to work and heat it up etc then you eat at home he eats at work , saving money and everything happy 
Dont believe you are being overly sensitive. That’s just rude and unacceptable behaviour. Call him out on it
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