I see a lot of comments that he’s rude, selfish, uncaring…but I think we are missing half of the story. Have you asked him to bring you food before? And if so, did you turn it down?
Because he could think that you don’t want any based off that. Also, being that it’s late at night, he might have thought you already ate. This is where the act of communication comes in…talk to him, instead of blast this on here.
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I’d be fuming if my other half didn’t ever offer!!!
Your husband!!! I am praying for you. I have a few choice words about that dude, but take care of you, the baby and your son.
Because I can be petty, I would cook a meal for me and my son and eat it in front of dude! 
But if you can’t be on your feet that long I understand. Just try not to let dude get to you, the baby is almost here. 
Pretty rude. Maybe you should let him know that this is bothering you
This is the same as cooking a meal at home just for you and not your family. I dont understand it.
So if your husband works nights and he brings fast food home for breakfast , is that what you’d like to have for breakfast for your pregnant self and son ? I don’t understand don’t you want to eat healthy instead of grease ?
Depending on what time he gets off he probably thinks yall done ate .I would ask or if you want something call him tell him .
Agree not ok. Maybe next time say something like” hmmm well I guess I’ll make myself and our little something to eat since your all aok@…
Maybe she needs to tell him! Did she work at night too?
That’s wrong of him period.
Personally for me bringing home take out or any kind of food then eating it in front of my family would be rude. But there is just many questions here! First you say he works nights…is he bringing home breakfast in the morning?? Because if he is, then he’s really rude! His kid must love him…he has to eat cereal or toast & Dad gets Sausage McMuffin!!
Next…when did you guys stop talking??? Gees Louise, text him…honey if you’re stopping at McD’s can you bring home…? You’ve set yourself up to put up with this selfish dude!!! Your problem is a simple fix it problem. Start talking!!! Tell him…if he continues to do it then you’ve got yourself a loser.
Ooh girl I would blame the hormones and commit murder 
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Uhmm. Totally rude!! I’m not even pregnant anymore and I’d probably be super upset if my S.O. didn’t at least offer.
Just “tell” him to make sure he checks in with you before he orders food to find out what you and your son want to eat. Just be matter of fact - don’t get emotional or act like it has bothered you in the past. Then see how that goes for you. 
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What a complete arse that’s so wrong
Could be because you are pregnant and always hungry. I know I would have cut my BD hand off if he even attempted to touch my waffle 
cone 
Haagen-Dazs when I was pregnant 
But I would tell him hey do you mind calling me when you are on the way home getting food so I can tell you what Me and … want. 
. If he refuses THEN,we would have a problem 
When you are a parent and a partner, the only time you need to worry about feeding only yourself is for your meal at work. Other than that, how do you just forget that the other ppl in your home may be hungry as well…NOT JUST YOU.
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RUDE AF and SELFISH!!
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This did make me giggle 
the question and the the ending “ I’m just hungry okay “ on a serious note it is rude even if you don’t want anything he should still ask if you and your son wanted something bet you don’t make dinner for you and your son eat it in front of him and not even think to cook for him lol
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He’s rude as fuck! Even if he thinks you’ve eaten, he should be asking you. Especially if you’ve told him before that it makes you sad when he comes home with food and none of it is for you or your kid.
That’s selfish on his part. Also, if he’s spending money every day on fast food then it’s not fair that you don’t get any.
Just start ordering his favourite food for dinner when he’s at work and send him a picture
Totally rude, especially because your pregnant.
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Super rude and selfish.
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Have you ever sasked him to bring something home for you??
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Nope, has nothing to do with yr hormones. He’s an inconsiderate jerk. Who does that😢
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You have every right to be upset. Like most men they don’t THINK. So in a round about way mention it and just say it I wish I could have had you bring us something we are hungry to. See what his reaction is. I am guessing he just does not think about it.
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He’s rude and inconsiderate! It doesn’t matter if you’re pregnant or not. He should ALWAYS offer to pick up food for you and your son when he’s stopping for himself. My husband doesn’t bring home a cup of coffee without texting to see if I want something from the coffee shop!
That’s just so selfish!!
That is rude… does he not even realise when he’s home and you’re looking at him?? Have a word with him!
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He’s selfish and inconsiderate
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He us being rude. Ask him nicely to bring home food for you and your son. Be kind but
Firm. If he does it make a thing
About what a cool dude he is.
It might wirk.
Wow. I’d be mad to idbe like fine imma get my own food
Even if I’ve had an argument with my fiancé I’ll text and ask if the he wanted something to eat or vice versa. I couldn’t come home with food and not ask if he wanted something.
My ex used to do this, its extremely faulty
Wow, yes he’s very inconsiderate, whether your pregnant or not. A husband and wife should care for each other. Forgive him, but ask him why he forgets you & your son? Would you do that too him? Probably not? Jesus wouldn’t do that?
You already have a child with this guy, who is rude to you and your child in this way? And you chose to have another child with him, shame on you
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I have a selfish ex like this. This is a MaJoR ReD fLaG!!! Leave.
Selfish unless it’s real later at night.
So rude! I would say something
Cynthia Cruz this is the posts I was telling u about in the morning
Sounds like a jerk to me
This is so not cool… like for anyone to do it to anyone! People that do it are so selfish and self centred
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Very inconsiderate! I would’ve ended the relationship the 1st tome he done that!! 
xX
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He’s rude. He knows full well…
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A selfish inconsiderate
A—HOLE!
My husband calls me everyday on his way home and asks if we need anything. So it isn’t the hormones. It is just shitty.
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He’s inconsiderate! He should be making sure you got all the snacks all the time TF?
My fiance works nights and always brings home food if he is getting some or at least asks if our boys and I want something. We are a team so it’s both of our jobs to make sure our kids are fed and taken care of. I would definitely be upset if you and your son weren’t considered of like you should be…it’s just common courtesy but especially when you’re pregnant and you have a kid and then he just eats it in front of you So rude!
He dose not have to but if he loves you he should not have to be told to get something for you or even ask if you want something.
That is rude ASF!!! Girl, I’d be pissed. I’m all about food. If my husband ever did that to me he’d never eat from my hands ever again. I’d never cook, prepare, or buy food for him/to share with him ever again. I would make big elaborate meals and eat it right in front of him. OR when he gets home with fast food I would take my kid somewhere and get something BETTER. Steak or something. And I’d eat it right there and not say a damn thing other than asking my son if it’s good and if he’s full. F*ck him.
He’s a dick leave him
Have you mentioned to him it bothers you? Maybe he just thinks that you will have sorted yourself and your son out for food by the time he gets back?
I know that if Mt partner was at home with our son and I was to come back from work at 6ish I wouldn’t think of them cos I would assume he’s already taken care of dinner for themselves sort of thing… it could just be a genuine misunderstanding… unless you’ve mentioned to him it bothers you then he isn’t any the wiser and wouldn’t know you want food x
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He eats in front of you?
Hm.
Have you asked him about it?
Omg get a grip. And just ask him. Maybe you’re not cooking for him.
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Maybe at lunch or supper go pickup food for you and your son and eat it in front of him. See what his reaction is.
Its the hormones… Just tell him “hey, get me somthing to”
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It’s rude and inconsiderate. I was taught you don’t bring fast food home unless you have enough for everyone, unless of course you’ve asked and they didn’t want any.
Um no. He’s hungry and tired. You’re stressed from pregnancy. Relax. Coming from a fellow night worker.
Anytime my husband makes a pit stop at the convenience store before coming home he picks up icecream for the kids and a frappuccino for me, the only time I do call him and ask for him to pick up something is if I’m in the middle of making dinner and I’m out of milk or something.
Or when you don’t feel well but could eat and they say don’t worry about me I’ll just go get me something! Never asking if you would like something.
I would take it from him eat it in front of him then tell him ty
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Is he coming home after your normal meal times…Maybe he thinks yall should or have even if it’s late or super early. He should ask but communication is key and say next time you stop somewhere call me lol
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That’s extremely rude
I do agree that he could call to see if anyone wants something. And I agree that it shouldn’t be brought home and ate in front of the children if not offered. Have a talk with him about it.
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How rude crack him upside the head, didn’t your mama teach you better than that?
Prolly hormones makin you extra sensitive … but… im not pregnant and my man better not everrrrrrr even dare … 
… we don’t play bout food round me …
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If this happens regularly then just Go in front of him stare into his eyes take the food and eat it 
Never mess with a pregnant woman.
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I would be super upset! And pissed. My husband of 17 years won’t even eat if his girls and my self aren’t eating. That’s crazy! I would be angry. Even if he is picking something up and I say I am not hungry he will STILL bring something for us.
Inconsiderate absolutely
Rude……ask him why he never brings you and your son anything?
Maybe he assumed you ate already, but it would be nice of him to ask. But also he’s a dude and they think differently sometimes. Maybe just gently tell him that it would make you feel nice if he checked to see if you wanted something when he was ordering or if he surprised you with something once in a while. Sometimes guys really don’t think about things like that.
“hey, if you’re stopping somewhere on the way home would you mind bringing us something home too?”
One sentence, all you gotta do is ask.
I work in a restaurant, a lot of the time I bring home food for myself and no, I don’t bring home food for everybody. Why? Because by the time I’m coming home, everybody should have eaten dinner HOURS ago, I haven’t even had the chance to pee yet and I’m starving, I just wanna get home, eat real fast and chill.
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Sure, it’d be nice if he asked if you wanted something but it’s not the end of the world. As much as you’d like for him to do it without asking, expectation is a setup for disappointment. If you want something, just ask 
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Just have a talk with him about it and ask if he can bring you guys something, too!! Sometimes, all you have to do is ask! He is probably just tired and hungry from work and not being intentionally insensitive to you guys.
I guess to answer your question more directly…sure, you can be upset…youre human. Just don’t dwell on it, and find a solution to “problem”
I could never in a million year even THINK about eating in front of my ol lady and kids. I just can’t eat in front of other people and ESPECIALLY in front of kids
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If I’m hungry. And I want to eat out. And my bf brother is with us. I do ask him. We’re he wants to go. I let my bf brother chose. I don’t care were. As long as we have food.
You need to tell him before he does it again to ask you 1st do you can order also. It is rude.
It’s rude . Can’t he bring you home at least some Ben and Jerry’s 
Have you said anything to him about it? I’d start there
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Uh, no. That is so rude. You would never just sit and eat in front of a guest and not offer anything, right? Its just common courtesy and good manners. Pregnancy or not, he’s showing no regard for anyone else in the home. It’s rude and selfish.
How about telling him. Possibly he is unaware. Sorry you get upset. 
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As a fellow prego mama with 2 kids at home, I would be irritated. I get irritated over this stuff when not pregnant, even more so when I’m pregnant and starving. It’s thoughtless on his end. If you haven’t already voiced this to him, I certainly would now.
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Sounds like you need a new husband
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No you’re not over reacting if he gets food he should offer to get you and your son food xxx
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U not being extra and its not pregnancy moods either…hes being inconsiderate and selfish…and plain downright rude
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As soon as he gets home with the food. My pregnant ass would be like that’s my food now punk!
Definitely inconsiderate
Slap that cheeseburger right out of his hands!!
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Na I’d b ragin! Lol. Total inconsiderate of him!!! Get him told!
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That’s rude. My bf before he even became my bf always asked if me and my kid wanted something to eat if he was picking something up and coming over to see us. Like, how tf is it hard to be considerate especially to a woman carrying your child.
So is this his breakfast? And do you normally cook breakfast?
Otherwise ask him to eat it before he gets home or bring a snack for you and your son.
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He should eat it before he gets home. Normally when you are at work you don’t have access to food unless you are on lunch break. When you are at home you can eat at your leisure.
There is no such thing as a right to be upset. You can choose to or not to, both will have justifications. But discussion might have a better outcome. Or stock up on what you need ~ pregnant people need food!
I wouldn’t cook his meals or offer anything to him. The door swings both ways.
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Honey you are not being hormonal, and for him to be consider it is not too much to ask. If anything he should be overly considerate and overly helpful because you are pregnant. If you want to make a statement next time he comes home and has a bag of food in his hand just walk up and grab it and say oh thanks honey I was starving I appreciate you thinking about me me and the baby were craving this and eat his damn food. Then he can see what inconsiderate is when he’s walking to the refrigerator to make himself a bologna sandwich
Id definitely me voicing my concerns…be Like, “where the fks my food?! Im hungry too…ill just starve.” Maybe he will offer to get you some next time too.
Food is the way to my heart…i would cry too lol
That is sooooo wrong. He is just selfish and thinks of nobody but himself.
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So??? have you tried asking him to bring you something? Men aren’t mind readers. If he gets home late he is probably thinking you’ve eaten. This seems like a non issue that could be solved by communication.
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Michael Jones if you came home without checkers for me but some for yourself we’d have problems but no seriously girl I’m 38 weeks pregnant I would be annoyed too that’s rude not like he did it once or
Twice he does it all the time but some people aren’t raised to be thoughtful or to have manners so maybe he’s just inconsiderate but that’s like asking for it to bring fast food into a prego ladies house
He is rude and selfish!
Totally rude and he’s a butt head. You should say something.