Anonymous post: On Christmas Eve while taking pictures of my kids under there Christmas I used my husband phone for the pictures. I was heartbroken when I discovered he had an account on the website pornhub. I don’t know how it works and if been a member is free or what can someone informed about this? I talked about it with my husband and of course I was upset an heartbroken to discover this because I never expected this especially after I had our third baby a year ago. So that just me feel not so pretty. Well I thought we had moved passed that and I have found him again on this website! He says is because he is trying to spice things up. I don’t believe him. Two days ago we had sex and it was the same day he was on the website before we had sex. Now I just feel used and not loved. He is like a stranger to me because again I didn’t expected this. It worries me because we were separated in 2017 after he was supposedly talking to a female worker who was all just friendship but he hide all the conversations with her and told me he didn’t loved me even before I knew about her. So I am not sure what to think. I don’t even want to be intimate with him anymore after this. Please can somebody just helped me understand how this website works and if is possible for him to cheat on me with females on there? Also anyone had experienced this and what did you do? I am honestly thinking of just giving up with him. Thanks
Yes you have every right to be upset. You told him how it makes you feel and how it upsets you, you set the boundaries and he still continued to break those boundaries knowing how it makes you feel.