What is he doing there except you giving him a FREE roof over his head. Find someone who can be second half to make your life’s COMPLETE.NOW days it takes both CONTRIBUTING
Kick his behind to the curb
Kick his ass to the curb!
Why are you even with him I mean what does he actually contribute to this relationship?
Get rid & find someone who will be your equal in love, attention & contribution… Sounds like he’s taking & not giving, & that’s before he was found out on YouTube…it a non brainer 
xxx
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Your boyfriend is a Loser
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No reason to ask for permission…he’s no Bueno…and no, he won’t change…and yes…you deserve better. Let him sit down so you can see the real man for your life
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It’s your house and you want him gone… depending on the state and how long he’s lived there will determine what steps you have to take
Evict him lol there is no way your 3 yeR old sent that 
my 3 year old doesn’t even know how to spell yet
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What fucking idiot… and I hope to hell you don’t believe him…
Oh 100%. Fuck that guy.
Umm yea kick his ass out just for the fact he’s a bum lol his three year old sent it he says 
Boot his sorry ass out now!! If there is any kind of eviction notice needed, kick him out anyway. He would have to go to court to file papers to fight you and that costs filing fees. It sounds like he has no money to do that and if he does try to take you to court you can deal with it then. I would not mention evicting him. No need to give him any ideas about fighting you in court even if he doesn’t have the money. In the meantime, toss him out and change the locks. If you’ve been paying all the bills, utilities etc. and everything is in your name, you may even be able to have the police remove him as an “unwanted” person. He certainly isn’t a good role model for his son. You deserve better. As long as he’s freeloading off you, you’re never going to find the good guy you and your son deserve. Don’t waste another minute.
Get rid of him hun ! He blamed the baby 
what an 
Call the local police department for what the rule is in your state your gonna have to get papers and post them ro every door stating her has 30 days. Well those are the rules in ohio at least
Best of luck momma . You got this he’s dead weight you need Un burdened from
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Your a idiot for having him live with you as WELL
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If he gets mail and been living there awhile you’re suppose to evict him and give him 30 days to be out.
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That depends on if he gets mail in his name there if he does than he is a resident and you have to evict him but you definitely don’t have to share a bedroom with him anymore …take all his stuff and pack them up and put them in the living room…if he any kind of a man he would just leave …but then again if he was any kind of a man he wouldn’t let a woman completely support him …
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Legally u prob have to give him 30 days. My sis let a bum crash in her couch when he iver stayed his welcome he called the cops and they told her once u allow someone to stay there u have to give them 3o days. If he is on the lease u cant anyway
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I can’t imagine being dumb enough to think “the toddler did it” is a good excuse. I can’t. Kick his dumb ass out 
More than a right, an obligation.
Umm… Why wouldn’t you have the right to kick him out? Get him out of there.
Girl your no being unreasonable. Sounds like he is using you anyways don’t need that kind of influence around your kid anyways
he has no job so all the bills are paid for by you…?
He should not have been asked to move in …
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He won’t be there with no job on the first place n he’s cheating on you
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Of course you have the right! You don’t owe him anything
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Why would you get into a mess like that, I am not going to keep any sorry man sponge of me. Send him on his way!
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I’d kick him out because he obviously thought you were that stupid to believe that crock of s&$t!!
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First off….who says you’re being unreasonable? The bf? Of course he would say that.
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Is he on the lease?
Kick that boy out! Be single and then find yourself a man!
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Hell yea! Bye boy. I’d throw his stuff on the front lawn. Can’t believe he said the 3 year old sent those lol. What a loser.
If he lives there unfortunately you have to go through the eviction process
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Get him to leave for whatever reason and immediately change the locks. Pack his sh*! And set it outside. If everything is in your name you’d have to file to have him removed otherwise. Which will cost you. This is the advice I got from a judge for a very similar situation. Good luck
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He should’ve been gone long ago if you are paying for everything
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Girl kick him out even if u have to go the legal route. Ain’t no three year old capable of sending that type of message. Boi byeee!
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Yeah you can. As long as his name isn’t on the lease.
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Kick him out,no your not wrong.
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Over 30 days you have to go through the eviction process. Stop letting losers move in with you.
Wait till he leaves and change the locks if nothing else. Nicely set his items where thr weather can’t get them and 
been there
Those of you calling her dumb aren’t helping !
Bad influence on your child. Bad partner to say the least.
What are you getting? A bad situation that will only get worse with time. People who leech off others are scum and suck life out and financially I’m pretty sure you could use support, as I know I couldn’t raise my kids alone today.
Oh that’s a new one lol what a slob. Kick him out even if it takes 30 days
Girl, why are you supporting his ass? Get him out
I mean you can try but he doesn’t have to leave. You’d have to evict him.
Who cares what her problems are ?? Drama Queen! Maybe ask dear Abby what you should do. Lol
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Why’s this a question.
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Doesn’t seem like a question in my mind. If you’re otherwise good together MAYBE it bares some real talk between the two of you, but you’ll probably never trust him again. Besides you’re by no means obligated to grant that unless you yourself want it to go that way.
A relationship is a social contract, if your boyfriend has violated that contract he can start soliciting a couch to sleep on instead of nude photos. If the two of you don’t have an open relationship, which I judge is not the case by the wording of your question, you’re not being unreasonable at all.
Kicks him to the curb!!!
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Oh yeh your THREE YEAR OLD asked some chick for noodies wow in the history of lying that’s gotta be one of the worst… plus no job? Girl. Do better.
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Uhm yeah get rid of him lmao
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Yes kick him out girl
Unless he leaves willingly, you will have to file an eviction with the court to legally remove him.
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Yep, and kick his ass out fast and change the locks.
Before the suspect text you should have thrown the whole man away… no job, you pay all the bills ( 
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This has nothing to do with being a parent.
Are you holding back! Surely you must know you can kick em out.
You can ask him to leave, however in some states you can’t evict him because you let him in.
Kick him out!! He does absolutely nothing for you or your life goals. Buy a vibrator!
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You may have to legally give him a notice but I’d give him a verbal one now. “Get out and if you don’t want to now, I’ll go to the court house”
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Kick him out or wait until he leaves willingly and never let him back in. And if anything comes of it legally let them know he gave you verbal notice of his intent to move out by however many days are required in your state/province.
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It depends on your states law. However, I would definitely try to kick him out by yourself first before you go through the trouble of the court system. Honestly, he sounds like a bum & usually bums won’t go through the legal trouble to fight you about it because they are usually lazy & broke. If he does threaten to take you to court, tell him fine, you’ll see him there! Wait to see if he even makes a legal move to petition you. Coming from my personal experience, most bums will make false threats to try to intimidate you. In the meantime, try to get him to text about everything wrong that he did associated with that situation. Just in case he does decide to take you to court, you’ll have evidence of his behavior.
It depends on your state/ city laws. You may have to file eviction and give him 30 days.
Go to a JP in your County Courthouse.
No job, no help, kick him out
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He has no job??? He’s gotta go like yesterday girl!
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Does he receive mail in his name at address or use that address with any state or federal organization? If not…then no legal occupancy should be established. We states only require witnesses to the fact that he was there for x amount of time so check for your state.
Yes you do. Especially if he’s not on anything. I hope you find someone that meets your standards
Kick him to the kurb love your better than that!
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If he’s been there for 30 days or more/receives mail you’ll have to get a court order to make him leave
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Your 3 year old?? Really?
So not only does he disrespect your relationship but he’s also trying to treat you like you’re dumb??
KICK HIM OUT.
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In some states, if he is receiving mail at that address, you have to go to court and serve him an eviction notice.
Just say you was snooping through his messages love, its ok. Dump him NOW though
Your 3 year old sent someone a message asking for nudies? 
wtf lol … you’re not being unreasonable.
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Kick him to the curb!
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You still probably have to legally do it since it’s his legal residence
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Absolutely!!! Get rid of him. You do not need a man and certainly not one who isn’t contributing.
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No job would have done it for me
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Dang he blamed the baby
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Send him packing! He is a player and a bomb!
How red does the flag have to be? Yes of course get out think about your child 
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If person is abusive they can be removed no eviction needed
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You really don’t need to ask that question, absolutely boot him out
Baby is 3yr. Old. Yes you have grounds to kick him out. That was funny to read
Why are you asking it’s your place kick him out
Really, the baby did it??? Boy, the door. 
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Yes and with good reason if what you say is true then kick him out call the police to help you if he refuses
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I’m wondering what she was thinking allowing him IN in the first place.
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Unfortunately he is established in your home. Meaning he’s got his things there and lives there day in and day out. You have to go get an eviction notice and serve him with it. Then he will have 30 days to get out. I just dealt with a situation similar not to long ago. The police officer told me that what I had to do. Of course it might differ some depending on state. TN here. I would definitely go get one and get him out sis!!
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Yes, you can. Depending on your area and state, you may have to have him legally evicted with papers served. Since you have a child together and if has been at the residence longer than 30 days with mail attached to the residence or it listed on his driver’s license, legally he has to be served papers after you file through the county you reside in. It would be the same for a roommate, other family members or friends. Even if the bills and property are in your name.
You can ask him to leave first, or find out your options. If they’re doing anything illegal, dangerous, or get violent then usually they can be removed waiving an eviction notice/notice to vacate. Drugs, assault and battery, protective orders usually get a notice waived.
Have had to go through this a few times in a few states. It’s no fun. If you broke up the smart thing to do on his end is just go. If he tries to dig his heels in and refuses, you can get papers served. You need to do custody paperwork as well and make sure you’re the custodial parent.
Just put his stuff out on the porch and change the locks.
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See ya! Hell yeah kick him out it’s your place
Your ex boyfriend what?
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Unless he’s on the lease, you should be able to kick him out. If he’s on the lease, he might have legal rights to stay. Not a lawyer, but I’m sure someone here is.
Nope, you’ll have to legally evict him
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Kick him to the curb now!
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Abolutely he is bored and looking for some excitement
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Pretty sure you will have to give hime a written 30 day notice. Once someone is in, it’s tough to get the law to help.
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If his mail goes there you have to give him at least a 7 day notice.
Nope !! You need to marry this guy !!
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What is he for because sex is available everywhere for free? Out with the dead weight.
Kick him to the curb!! Feels soooo good
And I 
will move in
You have to evict him