I am told I am being unreasonable. Short of the story. My boyfriend et our 3 year old to watch YouTube on his phone. He didn’t delete his Facebook messages. And one popped up where he was asking a woman for p***y pictures. Well according to my boyfriend our 3 year old must have sent that message. I want him out of my house. And yes rent is in my name… and all the bills are in my name because he moved in with me. Do I have the right to kick him out. And he has no job so all the bills are paid for by me.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Do I have a right to kick out my boyfriend?
Girl if Youn kick that man tf out then he’s a bad liar. No
Yeah he’s for the streets since he wants to act like a bum and ungrateful
Send him to the store and change your locks “he never lived here”
Tell him to hit the road. That’s awful. As if he is blaming the 3 year old
Yep… kick him to the curb. You deserve better.
without a doubt… He would be gone!
Yup kick him out no 3 year old is going to type that to a random female
Wait till he goes out and pack all his crap up chuck it outside and lock the door lol
You have every right to do that. Either way he doesn’t have the money to pay a lawyer
Depending on your state, if he refuses to leave & gets mail there, you might have to evict him
Yes because my 3 year old knows what a nude picture is
If you don’t kick him out imma
Come kick him out for
You. Fuck that
That baby didnt do that I promise my girls been on my iPad an phones an never had this happen he’s making excuses let him go. Sounds like this is the beginning of a cheater
What kind of question is this? Lol boy byeeeeeee
How this is even a question kick him to the curb ASAP
Kick him to the curb
No doubt girl! Don’t hesitate.
Yes. Obviously he isn’t on the lease or anything so you have every right to kick him out
Yes you do! Help him pack and get rid!
You might have to legally evict him but that’s just going down to the courthouse and filling out paperwork and he’ll be served
Yes you do…pack his shit and put it outside like i did with my ex!
Who the fuck blames a 3 year old. What a wanker. Kick him out and if he won’t leave a call the cops
You will have to give him notice move out. In writing. Check your state laws.
Wouldn’t have been the message that sent him out the door!
- NO JOB
- YOU PAY ALL THE BILLS
Yes but if he has been there awhile you have to have him legally evicted and give him 30 day notice depending on your state laws. I would kick him to the curb for sure
Absolutely. Kick him to the curb.
He’s blaming a 3 year old! Girl let him roam the streets like the dog he obviously is.
You have to legally evict him. File in court. Where I am it costs like $50 to file.
Get rid of this lying fool
If he’s not on the lease he sure can get out. If on it you can not make him leave.
But how gro0s to blame a child LOL
In my state, if someone is living with you for more than 90 days, you have to give them 30 days eviction notice. Whether they’re name is on the lease or not.
Call the cops they will remove h
I would have kicked him out for the no job even before this happened
So you have a man living rent free…has no job…you pay all the bills and is messaging other women. You want to know if you should kick him out?? Seriously?
Tooooo the streets he goes!!! Then going to blame the BABYYYY!!!
Ummm, yes! Asap! To blame it on a 3 year old?!?? What a man!! Lol
You would have kick his ass too
He’s blaming his child, lmfaooo get him out.
Shoulda never let him move in hell no! Never support a man that doesn’t support u back!!!
Goodbye don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out
He’s not even creative lol let him go
He’s got 30 days and you will have to legally evict him
Imagine blaming a child on sending a text about nudes😅 he’d be gone in a heartbeat…
Tell him go move in with that bitch lol
I mean honestly if I were you I’d immediately send him back to his mama. But if he had absolutely no where to stay… like mama wasn’t an option etc I may give him a month or two to get his affairs in order but that’s hard to do they try to weasel their way back in and you have to stay strong and firm. But I’d definitely end the relationship. He’s lying through his teeth.
I would have already kicked his a$$ right out the door.
Get rid of that loser
The fact that this is a thing makes me sad
You got adopted an adult child when you let a man with no job move in with you. Smh
If he has mail coming there he has squatters rights
If it were me and you’re positive you don’t want to be with this man, no ties , he’s not on the lease and pays no bills doesn’t contribute… I would have told him boy bye and changed all the locks already
Kick him to the curb. Throw the whole cheating man away. How dare he blame the child! Be glad you caught it now
Kick him out yesterday
Yeah fuck all that! Kick him out!
Not if he has legally established residency there you have to evict him.
Blaming the child?!?…SMMFH!! Kick his lying, cheating, no good a$$ to the CURB! Hopefully the door DOES hit him where the good lord split him….
Can’t stand men (or women) who are being “taken care of” and they think they have the right to do that sh!+ … Take care if it now or it will happen again
If he did it once he will do it again send him packing …
You can try to kick him out without a fight, but if he doesn’t want to go you will have to evict him to get him out. Him on the lease or not.
Yes! Like, yesterday!!!
Blaming a 3 year old for sending those messages omg. I’d be done with him too.
You’re not being unreasonable. He’s obviously a liar, 3 year olds can’t read let alone type.
Pack for him set it outside change your locks.
If hes like mine was, i owned it all but his items where in the dwelling. So according to the law i had to give him a 30 day eviction notice for it to be legal. Cops will not help.
If he brings nothing to the table then he can eat alone
What you been waiting on?
If he has been there longer rhan 30 days, has any personal belongings you will have to go through and evict him even if he’s not on anything
Hes cheating so yah end the relationship. Bye!
Kick him to the curb!
You have every right. Why doesn’t he have a job? No excuse to not have a job.
If he don’t get mail there kick his ass to the curb! Get your landlord involved. Bye!
Why is he even there?
Pfffft deuces peace
I pray you remove him permanently from your child’s life:pray:
I had a guy try to blame his 9 month old baby for DMing me at 3am. Like sure buddy, I bet you are the one that gets up with the kid in the middle of the night . If course wifey believes him
If he’s receiving mail no. But if he agrees to leave then you’ll be ok. Depends on the state
Legally you can’t if he gets mail there. But you have options !
Yes I’d be done, especially blaming my child!! Foh get rid of the mooch!!!
Throw his shit out and lock the doors !
Wow… I’m pretty sure “send n×des” is not in the auto messages my 2 yr old son likes to send the messages but they are usually just a bunch of letters
Your place, your rules. Kick him out!
Cheating and blaming an innocent child he’s got to go
Throw his ass to the curb and if he refuses to go get him legally evicted from your home
Yup, goner. Dont look back.
You can ask him to leave.
But if he gets mail there, you have to legally evict him and he would get 30 days to leave.
ABSOLUTELY!!! Let him Go
Why would anyone allow someone to live with them if they aren’t contributing to the household. He needs a job and to be paying his portion.
Go with your gut. Do what it tells you
Why haven’t you done that already? Of course you can kick him out .
Pay for eviction or get a protection order and they put him out free
Kick him to the curb honey!!!
I’m just laughing my a$$ off that he tried to blame the 3 year old:joy:
Kick him to the curb. Call and close the utilities and put them in your name, if you can. And talk to your landlord about updating the lease… Be professional and explain that he will be moving out and does not have a job to pay the lease. You will continue to pay, as you have done for X years. Call the landlord before the boyfriend does. Play your cards ahead of him and be very professional (with utilities etc).
He’s a leech and a terrible liar.
Yes get him out of there …
Is this even a question…girl if you don’t get that man out your house…lol
Yes kick his ass to the curb
Technically you have to give evict him. You can’t just kick hi in out.
BYE BOY! Kick that dude to the curb !
Kick him out! So what he doesn’t have a job, that’s his problem.