Do I tell my friend or hold my tongue?

Do you have any proof?

I’m the BRASH BITCH, I would have sprinted right over to SAY HI BUBBA who’s your Friend? Upon HER response would determine if I bid a good day and trot off, Or I’m explaining to a cop why I stood in a chair to slap that mother fucker in his eye. 2 birds one stone, the chic gonna figure out he’s married, AND he’s gonna have to explain to my friend why he got bitch slapped by her friend in a crowded restaurant

Please tell your friend, you would want to know if it was your husband

Obviously you tell your friend.

I personally was staying out of it, some friends does feel that you are jealous an want to break up their marriage

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TELL HER PLEASE. No one deserves that…no one.

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I was in a cheating relationship and many people knew. I had to find out myself. I wish someone had told me.

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If you are a real friend you would tell her, if you had a husband he was cheating on you you would want somebody to tell you as well. Whether they believe it or not at least you told her.

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Stephanie Soto this is about the guy cheating

Or let him know you saw him. See his reaction. That may determine your outlook.

Too bad you didn’t take pictures or a video

Yes I would. Because if it were reversed I would want to be told. Even if it hurt

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Do you care if he gives her HIV? How about herpes? If you care about her, tell her.

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Why is this even a question? Wouldn’t you want someone tell you if it was your husband?? :woman_facepalming:

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It depends - did it look like they were lovers? It could be a business meeting. Make sure you know before you tell his wife anything. She might even know the situation.

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It may not be what you think it is and if you say something, you better make damn sure of what you actually saw. Why didn’t you go up to him and be like, “Hey how’s the wife and kids?” :joy: If he’s not doing anything wrong, he won’t be upset.

Stay out of it; if you see this again, just approach them and say hello and leave😊he’ll tell his wife(made up story probably)but the wife will come to you so that way you aren’t interfering( she brought it up)win win

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as soon someone who’s friends have not tell her they saw her (ex) with other women let me tell you please tell her. And next time you see her husband with another woman confront him and ask “are you going tell your wife or am I”.

If it was reversed what would you want her to do

Please tell her. Speaking from experience it’s a devastating feeling to be loyal n love someone unconditionally while they’re out here makin u look stupid n havin people laugh at u n talk about u. Not to mention it’ll destroy your self esteem n damage u for the rest of your life so please tell her before she finds out u knew n didn’t tell her cause that’s gonna hurt her even more.

Sorry. Until you know the whole of it, don’t start a big fight.

That’s a tough one. I think it depends on how close friends you are. Had a friend do this and instead,the wife turned on her. Totally ended their friendship

It depends on what they were doing. It could have very well been a work meeting. But if not I would consider maybe saying something.

I would like to be told but were they doing something incriminating?

Keep your nose on your face

Since when can’t a man and a woman be in public without it being more than just friends or coworkers?! Idk, I trust my husband and he has friends that are girls and works with a couple girls. :woman_shrugging:t2:

If he’s dumb enough to be out where he can he be seen then telling is fair game. What a douche

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Could be a work associate, find out before saying anything.

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I would just bring it up casually… like hey does your hubby have family.out here bc I saw him with someone the other night and didn’t know he knew anyone out here?

I would go up to them and say hi if he is not guilty he will introduce her to you and that way he’ll know you will tell ur friend I decide :thinking::astonished::shushing_face:

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Id tell her but be transparent about it so she can decide herself what it is. Why do a cheater a favor? If hes cheating hes asking for it either way

If she is a true friend you need to tell her what you saw. A true friend is ALWAYS honest.

Lots of details missing here.