Were they loved up? Could just be innocent. Could be a work colleague. Mind your business 
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u tell your friend. Girl code xxx
Take a pic then send it to friend pictures says a 1000 word
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It’s none of your business.
You ain’t no friend of mine if you don’t…and watch out ladies cause 9/10 she would fuck him and 
#WatchTheCompanyYouKeep 
If that was me I would my my best friend to tell me
Would you want to know??
Would you want to know if it was you?
Keep your nose out of it
Stay the hell out of it
I personally would want to know
I’d send pics anonymously. Then it doesn’t fuck your friendship. But I’d want to know.
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Always approach with proof!
Take pictures to show evidence
Keep your nose out of it.
Tell him to tell her, or you will
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Sometimes it’s not worth to tell a friend there SO is cheating! I tried a couple times to tell a friend and it back fired on me, and I lost a friend, they slandered me on Facebook, and tried to set me up to be jumped when I was 7 months pregnant… some times it’s just best to forget what you saw!
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Why is this even a question? If she is a true friend of yours you should tell her.
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If she’s your friend, it’d be rude not to tell her, I feel.
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First of all, was he kissing said woman or were they having lunch? Could it have been his boss or a business partner or a co worker? I would tell her I saw him and ask if he works with or for a woman.
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She’d be more upset if you didn’t tell her and she found out you knew.
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I wouldn’t be able to keep my mouth shut if that was my friend. I would have caused a scene as soon as I saw him.
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I’d be chill about it. Oh hey, I saw your husband yesterday. Naturally they’re going to ask you where and you just say oh I saw them when I was out to lunch he was with someone, a friend maybe… and just keep it rolling. If She knows about it she’ll probably tell you who it was and if not you’ll get more questions about who you saw her husband with. This way no unecessary drama or accusations are thrown around. I don’t make assumptions unless I physically see something fishy, but I would naturally mention if I saw a friends husband in passing so I wouldn’t treat this any differently.
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I would say, in a friendly way to the husband, with his wife (my friend) present, “ hey, we saw you in (name of place) last week with a pretty lady, is she a co worker? We tried to stop and say hello, but we were in a hurry.”
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If you decide to tell her you better make sure of the situation, my hubby goes to lunch every day with a female coworker and people have thought there is more to it.
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Heck yeah I would tell her. I’d be taking pictures and sending them to her. Like, “Hey (friends name) I just ran into your husband and he had a lady with him. Don’t know if anythings going on. Could be innocent. I just felt the need to share with you just in case.” I would hope my friends would do the same for me
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Yes you tell her. Keep it simple and don’t lead the story (as in you think he may be cheating…because you don’t know) If it’s nothing - it will lead to nothing. If it’s something - this then gives your friend to power to pursue and figure stuff out.
Always talk about it
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It would be depending on what he was doing. It mat have been a coworker or a boss or something. And if you see said man again take pictures just in case & use your best judgment on the said subject. It may have been a sister , old family friend there’s many different people it may have been but as a person that has been cheated on in the past I’d want someone to tell me so I have the opportunity to pack my shit & get the hell out honestly !! If said friend gets mad for saying something about it then they weren’t your friend to begin with !
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Unless they was doing something that stood out to say he was cheating then keep your nose out, maybe dont just assume he was up to no good
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Well where did you see them? Could it have been a coworker?
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Honestly it depends on what they were doing. Just like how women and have male friends guys can have women friends. It could be a co- worker as well. I would have asked the friends husband what was going on when I saw them. I don’t suggest saying something until you know the facts. If my friend told me my husband was cheating and it caused a fight for me to find out that wasn’t what was going on I would be upset but also I would know she was trying to look out for me.
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You absolutely tell her. Wouldn’t you want her to do the same for you?
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I’d tell her. My friends and I are straight with everything especially if we see our spouses out doing something we know isn’t right or doesn’t sit right with us. They respect it and don’t take offense to it
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Don’t tell her. You don’t know all the facts. You may lose her friendship over something that was totally innocent.
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Definitely tell. Explain that you’re not sure if it was a coworker but still… you never know. I’d definitely tell!
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I’d want someone to tell me, my mamma, my sister, the Lord… Get the information to me ASAP. Text, video smoke signal sign language. Someone else may not want to know but I do. It maybe nothing but let me have the opportunity to know whatever it is or could be. Get me the info. Break glass if you have to lol
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Can you be certain he was ‘with’ said woman and she wasn’t a work colleague?
A life time friend you don’t know? Or his sister? Many questions here need answering before you go putting your nose in someone else business!
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Maybe it’s a college who he works with I think you should stay out of it unless you know for sure he is cheating even then stay out of it unless your friend comes to you with concerns .
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Stay out of it she probably already knows don.t hurt your friend ship because it will i know
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Tell her, but only what you saw and not what you thought. For instance I saw Mike in Hardeeseating breakfast. There was a lady sitting at the table eating too. Just provide information.
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It’s a sticky situation. You tell her and she may take his side and you lose a friend or she finds out that you knew all along and let it continue which will have the same result but if you tell her at least you know. You tried to protect her and be a friend. What she does with that information is up to her.
Could it be his boss or someone hes collaborating with on something
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Depends. Was it business lunch? Or were they touching?
If they were definitely TOGETHER, tell her asap.
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Same happened to my cousin. Although she didn’t believe me I still told her.
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STAY OUT OF IT! Truth be told, she won’t believe you. She needs to figure it out on her own.
Let’s reword this… your friend caught your husband “on call” in a different state with a female, do you think she should tell you?
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Keep your nose out of it, I would’ve made sure he saw me and insisted that he introduced me to the young lady, most of the time that’s enough to make him tell on himself
Your loyalty with your friend or her husband? Just tell her what you saw. Don’t need to make assumptions. Just let her deal with it how she needs to.
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Tell her. If he saw you and gets caught later, he could say you knew and then your friendship will be ruined for hiding it. I would want to know.
I’d snap a pic if you see it again. Proof cant be denied. And it’s better for you when or if you decide to let her know. I would definitely want to know.
What did you see him doing? Was he having dinner? It could be a co worker…
Was he holding hands or kissing her? Was he going into a hotel room with her??
If so, then tell her! I know I would want to know. But if it was me, I would of taken a picture of them in case he tries to deny it.
I personally would tell my friend. If I were the friend who was being cheated on, I would want my friend who saw it to tell me.
You don’t have to imply anything. Just bring up he was with a woman and you wanted to run it by her. Or maybe tell him you saw him and give him the chance to own up to his dirty laundry
It’s not your business. If she doesn’t believe you you’ve lost a friend. Most likely she won’t believe you. I know a married man w a whole girlfriend and I keep my head down mouth shut not my business
Stay out of it. He’s out of State,not City. He’s being very respectable he’s not in Her face with it. Would you tell him about Her?
And where’s your Man?
Always ,always take pictures. That way they know who it was , proof and so on. Could just be nothing, depends on what you saw and who it was.
U r in a tough place but u have to tell her of course. U are her true friend I assume. Would u want to be told?
She Won’t be your friend anymore if she finds out you knew and didn’t tell her
If it was your husband and she saw it wouldn’t you want to know
I’m sorry… if she is your friend not an acquaintance you should say something you don’t have to say hey I think your husband is cheating you can just say I saw you husband having lunch
I sometimes think these questions are jokes lol would you want your friend to tell you if she seen your significant other with another woman?
Most definitely thats what friends do look out for each other
Keep your mouth shut. It may be a relative. Me t time go up and ask him to introduce het.
If it’s your friend why the hell would you ask a facebook group? Tell her. Why didn’t you approach and say hello. If your friends with her then you should know him.
Tell her what you saw, maybe it isn’t a big deal.
Put yourself in her shoes…. Wouldn’t you want to know?
Would you want her to tell you? That’s your answer
If they were together as a couple, you definitely need to say something. Don’t let her spend time whit a cheater.
Tell her especially if you have any proof like pictures or anything
I’d mind my business and stay in my lane.
He’ll hang himself eventually.
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A TRUE friend would mention it. Maybe just a co-worker or client. But I’d definitely tell MY friend I saw her husband.
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Tell her ! She has a right to know ether way.
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Tell her!!! It could just be a friend but I would still let her know.
Just state facts, not opinions or feelings. Let her figure it out
Get all the proof first then tell her
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Tell him if he don’t tell her you will
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Yall girls that say not to tell her, I definitely would not want u as my friend.
A lot of friendships have been destroyed by telling them a spouse is cheating. I’d leave it. Ask her how things are going with him working out of state and wait for her to say she suspects something
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Well, what were they doing when you saw him?? I
Yes. Been there. Take a picture for proof.
Tell her cuz if it was your husband you would want to know
I’d tell her and let her deal with him.
I’d tell her straight up
If your friend was you…would you wanna know? Of course you would! Tell her.
I mean it’s kinda a touchy situation… 1) you would want to know if it was you being done that . 2) most of the time the other person does not believe you . 3) it can ruin your friendship either way . 4) what if you are mistaken and it wasn’t him or he wasn’t actually cheating. 5) if she doesn’t leave him you definitely won’t be asked to come back around. It’s really a tough spot to be in .
I told a friend one time her fiance tried to sleep with me while they were together and he hit on me multiple times while she was pregnant. Well she didn’t believe me and married him anyway. Lost her friendship and in the end she lost the marriage too . I would definitely make sure you have proof
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Take a little trip with her to where you saw him with other woman. Make sure you both run into them.
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Wouldn’t you want someone to tell you if the situation were reversed! Tell her!
Yes yes yes…how would you feel!! Please tell her…I was 20 at home with two toddlers and my ex was running around ( working out if state) running around on me with multiple ppl…please tell her
Is this even a real question?! I’d have already taken pics AND told her.
You should of called her right there on the spot and gave him the phone. Period.
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Could be a coworker and completely innocent. Mind your business
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…but you don’t know anything happened.
You saw him with a woman…could have been a friend. Men are allowed friends. We don’t own them. Jsut like were allowed friends and we aren’t owned.
You don’t know anything actually happened you’re just assuming because you saw him without her.
Do you have any real proof besides “I saw him with another woman” ?
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I always put myself in somebody’s shoes when making decisions.
First ask a couple questions about business partners lol then if there are none, put it on her. It’ll hurt but that’s what friends do. Always the ones who travel!
Would you want her to tell you, if it were your SO?
Don’t be surprised if they shoot the messenger
I can’t believe it’s even a question
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Keep your nose out of it. It won’t end good for you
Sorry not sorry but I would tell my friend!! I would want my friend to tell me!! I tell my best friend everything so if I see her husband with another woman she gon know about!! #ISAIDWHATISAID