Absolutely , it’s a video. Not ok with dating apps of course, like actually looking for other girls. But I think porn is fine ,as long as there’s not an unhealthy obsession.
I have no problem. I watch porn when he’s at work too 
I don’t think we own anyone. Ppl do as they like. You don’t like it, be done! 
Is he your child? Or animal? You let him?
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Porn isn’t a problem, live cam girls or only fan girls that would be a hard no.
Well first of all I don’t let him do anything, he isn’t my property to tell him what to do he has his own mind. As for the porn issue, it’s just a fantasy world it’s not real I’m real and I’m what he comes home to every night I’m secure enough in his love for me that fantasy don’t bother me. If he was out paying for lap dances or entertainment like that then yes I’d have a problem because he is having real interaction with them but really porn is just tv and to be honest lots of tv shows and films have xrated pornographic scenes.
Each to their own though and if it really bothers you that much tell him, he is not a mind reader. Can I ask have you considered maybe watching it with him, it could be fun.
In my experience it lets me explore sexual exploits my wife won’t let me explore with her. It stops me from wanting to cheat to find it. She even started watching with me now and then after I explained it. But with her I don’t like watching with her bc I don’t need it when being with her…if that makes sense
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I “let” him make his own decision. He’s an adult, if he wants to watch it idc.
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I don’t see anything wrong with it unless it’s to the point that he’s not being intimate with you anymore. It’s a totally healthy and natural thing if you ask me. Shoot, I’d even watch with him from time to time if he wanted🤷♀️
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sit down and turn it on and watch it with hiim ?
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what were u doing looking in the search history anyways lol
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Eh, I’m sure he does. I know I do. 
No biggie. We are secure in our relationship.
Why were you looking through his phone? I think that’s the bigger issue.
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I mean I don’t see an issue with it, I don’t like it when he saves loads to his phone and I’ve made that clear. But as far as watching it in the moment when he’s aroused and I’m either too tired or not there I don’t have a problem at all, when I want an early night and can’t be bothered I sometimes watch it because it’s just quicker. We still have a great sex life even so.
Are you 12?
That’s my go to question on here more than once now
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Lmao u let him are u his mommy or his wife grow up is he cheating on u? If he’s not leave dude alone and maybe give him a little bit
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Sounds like you are a carnival. Red flags everywhere
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Do you micromanage his whole life ?
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It’s not normal my husband won’t allow anything like that in our house
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Every woman has a boundary and it’s perfectly fine to dislike it. Even some men don’t like the idea of their significant other watching it. And sometimes, it can make you feel small. But to be fair, some people need help getting off and some don’t. Especially when the other isn’t around. Just talk to him and let him know your boundaries and if he doesn’t reciprocate then I guess feel free to leave or stay
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If I’m understanding correctly, there are two issues here: 1) He watches porn; and 2) He watched it at work.
Most men watch porn, but that doesn’t mean they should or that you should find it acceptable. That’s someone’s daughter, and I doubt your husband would want any daughter of his to pursue that career. Many people have no issue with it. That’s up to you two to decide.
HOWEVER, if he’s watching porn at work, on a company machine (even if he works remotely), THAT Indicates a problem. Viewing porn should not interfere with work. At many companies, it’s a terminable offense. It’s also a sign of addiction. If he’s viewing porn daily or if it’s interfering with his job, relationships, etc, then there’s a problem. Consider attending an S-Anon meeting. It’s for people affected by a loved one’s sex addiction.
I mean, during work might be questionable depending on his job but like… why does it really matter?
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My husband’s his own grown ass man, I’m not his mother. He can watch all the porn he wants, he just prefers ours
“Let” this is a human being that has his own thoughts and actions. You sound very controlling
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“Do you let your man watch p*rn?”
You aren’t his mother sorry. You’re not in charge of what he watches or doesn’t watch. If you don’t like him watching it cause of the girls than you got some insecurity issues going on within yourself. Why you going thru his search history anyways? You cannot be in a relationship and expect your partner to bow down and do everything you say honestly. What you’re doing is controlling him and I’ll tell you now that he won’t stick around much longer if you continue.
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It’s not normal. That’s messed up.
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Personally, I could care less if he watches it. I watch porn sometimes too. I mean it’s not like he’s actually screwing around with those girls. It’s ok to have a little fantasy as long as he doesn’t act on it. He’s married, not dead.
Wtf… Ok… No issue with him watching it, like at all… My issue is… Why the eff is he watching it AT WORK??? it sounds like he may need some help… Who watches that shit at work??? He can lose his job acting like that… That would be my issue
“Let” are you his momma?
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Let?
And if you’re saying your husband doesnt watch. It’s because he’s watching 0rn at work too!
Shheesh. Imagine him being so uncomfortable at home that he results to doing that at work?
I feel bad for him
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I use to be ok with it till I realize my bf got an addiction to it.he stays up all night watches it 6 hrs while I work till I get home bad. I use to watch it myself but I’m so uncomfortable with it now. Everytime he goes to bathroom he takes 3 screens to watch porn. I now feel like I’ll never be enough
Well it’s his body and he can do what he wants. We don’t control others. I’m also not sure why you were going through his possessions. You do not own him so you don’t need to bring it up at all.
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He’s an adult , he can watch what he wants …
Don’t bring it up. You had no business going through his search history. What’s a marriage without trust? What even prompted you to go through his search history?
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Let word let??? He is a grown ass man. You can let him know you don’t like it, but you can’t control if he watches or not.
“Let” lol
It’s human nature, and he’s an adult 
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Tell his boss what he does.
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Mine watches it at home sometimes on our tv I’m right beside him . What are they going to do if it’s on tv not like there touching another woman or anything .
How ( LET) you’re husband are you his boss/Mom or what he’s an adult
Only way it should be a problem is if it’s something illegal that he’s watching, or he’s neglecting your sexual needs while watching it and only satisfying his own. Other than that, there is no problem. It’s just a video. He’s not out sleeping around. Pick your fights.
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What prompted you to look through his search history? You don’t “let” him? What is he a child that you have control over?
I have no issue with it and watch it with him most times. Its human nature.
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Sounds like since you don’t let. him he has to do it behind your back…
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My man is an adult and is free to make his own decisions. Honestly I watch it with him while doing adult activities and it’s brought us closer together.
I don’t get jealous and I’m not insecure though, so I guess it depends on that too.
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I personally don’t care if my husband watches it or not. As long as it’s not interfering with the sex life he has with you I don’t see the problem.
I would rather my husband do it with me. I would get upset if he is doing it at work. Because that’s work and he should be working. Sexual things are to be done with the spouse. So mine doesn’t watch it unless it’s with me. And to me that’s how it should be.
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Let? More like try and stop, but why would you seems kinda extreme
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Nothing wrong with watching/making porn. If you do not like it then communicate and express your feeling on the matter but in don’t see how this should effect a woman. Your insecurities just create problems. Why would you check his phone history anyway? 
I could see being mad about it if he doesn’t ever touch you at all. But this sounds like a mother who caught her kid watching it. Let that man be.
He will get fired if he is watching at work. Sounds like he has a problem
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There would be hell loose in my house.
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Does he have a porn addiction? Then its an issue. My ex had an addiction to it so bad i cant even begin to go into how bad it was. He couldnt survive without porn playing constantly. My husband? He watches it here and there but he doesnt make it known known and he only watches it as needed like if im not feeling up to doing something etc. Porn can be an issue but if its not affecting your day to day life then it shouldnt be a big issue
I mean he’s a grown man so I’m not going to tell him what he can or can’t watch… He’s going to watch it no matter what you say
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Where did you get the idea that it is your place to control his body? Bodily autonomy is a thing. That’s so basic I’m surprised you managed to find someone to date in the first place. Most people have standards.
Try learning about things like respect, privacy and emotional independence. I’m sure your individual therapist can help you unravel your control and codependency issues. Hopefully this guy gets far the fuck away from you.
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Man, I watch it. My husband watches it. Sometimes we both watch it together. Sometimes I look at him and tell him it ain’t happening tonight and he can take care of himself, sometimes he tells me the same thing. Sometimes he wants to enjoy himself and I do too and we’re both cool with that. As long as both of our needs are being met, we’re both fine with it. He’s a grown adult who can chose what to do, just like I am.
I think the only reason I could see you being so upset is because he was watching it at work. He should be focused on work, not sex.
Do you “let” 
Yeah. He can watch it, so can I. I have no issues with the meat being beat to strangers making money on the internet
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You don’t mind your business. IMO.
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Only real men twist one off in a porta-john in 100° weather. Lol
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I watch porn videos with my husband. He knows I rather have me with him so he wont get stupid But if your hubby is doing and watching this at work he can be fired for that and plus you will be very insecure about it it’s best to talk to him about it and see if instead of watching it at work watch it at home with you
I would probably leave you for going through my personal belongings because ‘respect’ and wouldn’t care if you ALLOWED me to watch porn.
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Can I say a couple things… I get it I do… you probably feel insecure about something or whatever but in this case he isn’t cheating he isn’t hurting anyone he’s just getting a little extra that he has most likelytried to pick up from you… watching porn is no different than seeing a sex scene on TV… it is scripted acting it is for entertainment. And if every woman didn’t LET thier partner watch what they wanted to on TV the world would be a sad sad place.he is a grown man and it sounds like you might need to work on yourself before checking in on your husband. As I believe if anything checking his phone indicates you have the issue.
It will ruin your marriage. He needs help. His interest in you will stop and it will be his only desire. It rewires their brain. Run.
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As soon as you say stuff like let something do something it’s over
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There are two red flags on you.
1- the fact that you’re wondering if other women “let” their man.
2) you went through his phone behind his back.
If a man did those 2 things, people on here would go crazy on him. He needs to be told what you did and it’s possible that he won’t want to continue the relationship. You’re upset thinking he did something behind your back, but you found out by doing something behind his back.
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If you have a problem with it, he should respect you enough not it watch.
Second you can’t control him.
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The bothersome part is what led you to snoop in his phone? I get doing that in the beginning of a relationship out of curiosity, but obviously there is something else that led you to search through his phone.
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He doesn’t but I wouldn’t give to shits if he did. Porn doesn’t bother me. But “let” your man watch porn? I don’t control him nor does he control me so that’s not even a thing in our relationship. You don’t try to control your SO. Also, what made you decide to go through his phone? That’s what I’m more interested in knowing. The why. My SO doesn’t go through mine and I don’t go through his. We know each others lock codes on our phones (we have three kids between the two of us and the youngest is 3, hence the lock codes). I’ve never gone through his and he’s never gone through mine. Neither of us has ever felt a need to do so.
I’m sorry, are you his mother? Is he a child? I’m confused.
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He’s a grown man and can watch porn. It only becomes an issue when his constantly watching and would rather watch porn then be intimate with you. Watch with him and spice it up a little bit.
Oh the ol classic “my man watches porn and I don’t like it.” Is it because you are insecure? I am willing to bet that is the case. “Let” is a controlling word. Are you all being intimate? And another thing, you went through his phone! Once the trust is gone there is no relationship. It’s porn, not cheating. He could be out sleeping with other women, but instead he is sleeping with his hand. He will NEVER have a chance with anyone in porn. 
Talk to him about it. If it’s hurting you he should respect you enough to stop, but definitely make sure you’re putting out 
. He is a man, and there are a lot of women who have issues with and a lot that don’t. Honestly I think most grown men have an addiction. It’s normal to notice women and its normal to catch yourself checking out someone attractive of the opposite sex, but I don’t think it’s healthy to have unlimited access to absolutely any type of women naked doing absolutely anything you can type in a google search bar at any given time. You don’t have to “let” him but you can set your own personal boundaries at what you think is acceptable in a relationship and if he doesn’t respect them. Find someone who does.
My man and I watch it together… shrug.
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If he ain’t doing anything with anyone outside your relationship I wouldn’t worry he might be getting ideas for u guys. My guy has occasionally watched
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1st…I’m not my mans mother I do not tell him what he can and can not do. 2nd…i have enough self confidence and self love to not give a dam about porn!
What do you mean “let him”? You only get to control yourself. You don’t get to control your husband
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2 key things in your wording- “let him” well one he is a fully grown man, “went through his search history” whhhhyyy?! He is a grown ass man that you’ve made a commitment to. If you’re searching through his history you all have other issues aside from the porn… TRUST! Nothing works without trust… would it be upsetting, probably? But I guess that depends on the history… what history is making you upset he is watching porn? There is another root to this issue and I don’t believe it’s the porn.
Yeah I let him. Because if not he gonna wanna film me… nope
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Porn affects the brain and literally re wires it.
Not to mention it basically promotes child pornography “young teen sucks huge c*ck”
Etc all promoting young girls who look like children.
Research says it’s an addiction bc of how it affects the brain in such a negative way (watching it for an extended period of time- it takes more and more depraved things to be able to get off and causes men, at a certain point, to become impotent with actual women and they’re only able to get off with porn.
I’ve done tons of research into it. There are a lot of studies on porn. I’d say normalizing it in our society is the problem “he’s gonna watch it anyways” is toxic af.
Do your research ladies!
What do you mean do I let him? Just because we are together does not mean I am his keeper and can dictate what he can and can’t do. But I no I don’t care if he were to watch it I’m not sure if he ever does but the first few years we were together we used to watch it together which we both enjoyed.
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I don’t have to dictate him. He doesn’t want to. I don’t think it should be normalized either because it has too many negative effects that it outweighs the positive. I follow this page, they’ll explain alot: Fight the New Drug
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Let him …?
Sounds controlling to me.
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He’s an adult no? He’s not your child or your property… at least he’s watching porn and not out cheating…
I’m surprised at the comments. If it makes you uncomfortable, it matters. Just strike up a conversation about porn as it relates to your relationship and see what he says. You don’t have to come out the gates saying you went through his phone.
I have no.problem with my man looking at po*n if he wants to, Im not the jealous type.
He’s grown, let the man be
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It depends on your relationship. Everybody is different. Every relationship is different. Do you have insecurities? Do you have reasons not to trust which lead to you looking in his phone? Have you guys ever talked about this? If it will affect your relationship then you need to talk to him. Try to find compromise. It absolutely can ruin your relationship, IF YOU AND HIM LET IT.
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To look at someone’s search history is taking it pretty far. If you have insecurities within yourself, then that’s something you need to work on. It’s porn. It’s literally there for a reason.
“Let him”?? Is he your child or your man? Get over yourself. If the worst thing he ever does is watch a little porn, consider yourself lucky.
I don’t care about my man watching porn. I enjoy reading my… adult novels there is absolutely no difference. I don’t understand this need for control some women have.
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I am not his mother I don’t let or not let him do anything.
However we have both expressed that we don’t like the idea of each other watching it and our feelings are mutually respected.
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" Am I the only one?" 
You can’t let him do or not do anything he’s an adult. Not property. If he wants to watch it he’s going to watch it. It’s his choice. The most you can do is ask him to delete his history so you don’t see it. Why we’re you going through his history?
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I’d watch with him if he did
Let? Sounds controlling
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Let? First he can do what he wants and it doesn’t bother me.
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Why are you looking at his search history though?
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I’ll say this, I’m not a woman that trips out over porn…. But there is such a thing as porn addiction & porn Jading a person to regular sex. As long as it is not negatively affecting my life, or my partners life… idc.
You sound like his mother…every man watches porn 
I literally don’t care
It’s normal. It would only be a problem if he neglects my/our intimate life for it. But watching at work is kind weird. Like just knock one out before work lol.
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It’s ridiculous how many women in these comments just get on here to point out how insecure the OP is, like it’s just so uncommon to be insecure or such a bad thing. We’ve all been insecure a time or two about something. You literally just have to work with yourself. Yal are so inconsiderate. In my opinion, relationships are to each their own. Some people don’t mind their partner watching it, some couples watch it together and for others it may make them uncomfortable. That’s why you set boundaries for YOUR relationship. Don’t worry about the next person’s relationship and what they do. Talk to him about what you found and how it made you feel. Don’t go try to find things out behind his back because your already creating a toxic environment for your relationship. If you get a feeling you can’t shake then just talk to him. If you do come across something that makes you uncomfortable then just talk to him about it. Set boundaries and just be open with each other and communicate so yal can work through it. I mean at the end of the day it’s your choice to stay or leave.
The fact that so many women got on here just to say “oh you’re so insecure, I don’t have those problems” is pathetic. If you can’t be nice or try to give some helpful advice then don’t even comment.
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