Get yourself a new man for Christmas cause this pos is NOT it
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How u shouldâve gotten rid of him on Xmas eve 
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Make next Christmas much better by dumping his
a$$. Clearly heâs too attached to his ex and her family to even think or care about your feelings.
#goodriddance
You matter and all these behaviours are narcissistic. They are crazy making and will never change. If you are going to stay read up on narcissistic personality disorder because that is what you are living with. When you are ready to realize you donât want your child to think this is normal and that you donât want them to grow up thinking that it is you will leave! Best thing I have ever done! Trust me every single Christmas for ten years was an issue and all about him and his family. The only way to find peace and something be about yourself is to go unfortunately or learn to live that way.
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Honey throw the whole man away.
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Give yourself the best Christmas gift ever and dump this loser. He has already shown you who he is will never change will only get worse and youâve already shown him what kind of nonsense youâll tolerate. every holiday and special day will always have some drama caused by him⌠I hope you can wise up and move on. Your future self will thank you.
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He doesnât do gifts. Or needs a detailed list and or go with him.
He wonât change. You decide if you can live with it. Tantrums cause he didnât , thatâs childish and should be in his shoulders
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Are you serious? Why are you still there He is HURTING your daughter with his terrible attitude and that is on you You know what to do so just do it
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Leave him there is no respect for you
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YOU arenât responsible for buying his ex anything and HE isnât responsible for buying his exâs mom anything, his ex is. If heâs not making you a priority Iâd leave.
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If he can take the time and money to buying his ex mother n law and his ex wife something but not you sorry that tells me where his priorities are.I get that he does it from the kids but to leave you out is just wrongâŚYou and all the kids should come first at all timesâŚ
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I feel like nobody can just speak to their partners anymore. 
Itâs not that hard! He says âOmg I need to get my ex-MIL something!â And you say âHow about you donât make the same mistake you made last year, and worry about getting you CURRENT gf something first.â Ooooor just donât give him anything 
My husband and I usually donât exchange gifts and thereâs no hurt feelings because we TALKED about it first.
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Why is his ex, above you? You should be first now!
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See I get you trying for yourself but him failing your child is a big red flag and he should be gone. The balls on him to say he will be mad again 
so u traded dating men t dating a man child?
My 12 year old daughter gets me gifts instead of my partner. She asked for a limit and she gets me amazing things. Her dad just isnât a gift giver never has been in 15 years. It really sucks. But I either get myself something or my beautiful wee lady does her magic.
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Maybe he should move in with his ex mother in law
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Tell him and tell him what you would enjoy having. Tell him quit pouting just get out and get everyone something and you arenât doing it for him anymore!
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Buy urself something and open it in front of him.
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Leave him while you can. Why do you want a man who doesnât respect or care for your feelings???
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If you stay get used to it,tears and hurt will continue the rest of your life with him.You are not a priority,been there
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Itâs not a big deal if he doesnât get gifts. But him saying heâs going to get mad again because he didnât get you anything? That makes no sense. If heâs going to get mad he should just get you somethingâŚotherwise he needs to STFU and not say anything. And then you can let him know how you feel.
I agree. Speak your mind openly. When he said that I would have said âwait, what about me? You didnât get me nothing?â Then if just walk away and let him think about it.
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My husband never gets me anything for any holiday lol welcome to the club!! Weâve been together 8 years and nothing has changed
You need to realize that you deserve more respect than you are getting.
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Give him the gift of freedom!
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It wouldnât be about the gifts or receiving things for me, itâs what heâs doing instead. If it wasnât for the fact that he gets his ex and ex MIL flowers/gifts, Iâd say he just isnât a gift giver - but this seems like he just isnât considering you or your feelings at all. Does he get flowers for YOUR mother? You need to have a talk with him and he needs to stop having little temper tantrums especially when itâs his own fault. Either he starts including you and your feelings, or he stops gifting them. Good luck x
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Wow itâs going to say write a note to remind him a head of time cause men are dumb about that kind of stuff and even give him 3 ideas what to get but I wonder why heâs afraid to miss a mother in law but not you somthing is missing in this story is this away to stay in his exes life Or does the ex mother in law make him feel guilty for forgetting her
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Iâm sorry but i only read to him not getting you a gift again this year and heâs already said heâs going to be upset about it- bc heâs either super stupid or heâs bsing all of this bc youâll buy it.
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If you are getting him something, donât do it. Let him see what it is like.
Why is it everyoneâs first go to is to tell a woman to leave the man 
donât yâall have something better to say?
It wonât change, at least not for these better. Donât walk awayâŚRUN. there are better ones out there who will eat you right
Put him to the curve.
A man will only do to you what you allow 
he knows you are and have been ok with it this long! What you allow will continue plain and simple demand better or move on life is too short to be unhappy
Run donât walk out of this marriage!! Oh and make him leave the house! He can go live with his ex wife or ex MILđĄyou deserve much better!
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