When she still believed I changed my mom to Mrs Claus in my phone to keep her in line 
it worked
Maybe don’t give as many presents.
Don’t take Santa & the magic away
Nope. I don’t manipulate my loved ones.
My sons bday is end of nov so he always get clothes for Christmas 
Santa has covid this year ?!?!?! 
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thats ridiculous. you’re killing their memories of Christmas over them being kids
Also depends on the age
You can be a respectful parent and hold boundaries without using threats and punishments. Here are 2 books which I would highly recommend to parents on here
So give your kid coal.
Were told all throughout childhood santa leaves coal for misbehaving kids…follow through with it, if you think it will work 
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Have Santa send them a letter. “I’ve been watching you all year, and although I know this year has been hard, I’m worried that you haven’t been on your best behavior. I’m writing to give you one last chance to straighten up, or I will have to take your presents back to the North Pole. Can you help Santa out and be on your best behavior?”
Or something like that. Then, if he doesn’t straighten up, give him coal.
Now, ‘I’ would STILL give him a box or two of coal anyway, but still give a few gifts. But, depending on behavior, you may want to change that.
Good Luck!!!
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I personally think it’s creepy to have a person, even Santa, watching you. What’s happening? The children have zero stimulation except for what we can give them. No trips to the store, playing at the park,school for most of them, I’M UPSET TOO. How can you refocus on more of a positive time with your child. When was the last time you asked how they are? How are you feeling. Can you run outside and play? Kick a ball? Inside, I had angry children kick a box. Then practice breathing. A lot of times remember breathing in through your nose, out through your mouth. Count to 10 slowly. Help them practice. That can stop things before they are out of control. This is a stupid year. Take care. 
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Kids do not understand choices have long term consequences. That is why they use weekly charts to try n teach this. Their brain doesn’t see past that moment or day until they are teens, even then it is that weekend. Do you really want your kid to be told he is “bad”? Because I can tell you it isnt going to make him be “better” its gonna make him say “well I’m already bad and no one loves me so im gonna be worse.” It sounds to me like you need to take it back, teach him actions have consequences but within his minds time frame such as no games for the day ect. No child is bad,they have moments that we didnt understand be ccx ause they can not fully process emotions yet.
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I might also add that the tradition of Santa can be devastating to kids whose parents are not able to shower them with gifts from him. They see what "Santa " has gotten for their friends and wonder why they didn’t get as many or any at all even though they are exceptionally well behaved and helpful. They begin to question if they are good. It can really wreak havoc on a child self esteem. Its really sad. #Santaisnotreal
Maybe just clothes and essentials in their stocking … no toys is a good idea
Santa Claus knows if a kid has been good or bad. Except, I firmly believe that there is no child that deserves being told that they are too bad for Santa Claus.
Find another message, an attitude of joy, charity, and hope to spread, and chances are that it is an attitude that is contagious.
If she wants to take away Santa that’s her choice. Idk if my sister ever took Santa away but she legit took a gift she was giving away because he opened it early or something. They went and put it in a giving box.
U could wrap empty gifts and toss in the trash so he knows u are willing to take things away for bad behavior.
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So dont take Santa away because that ruins the idea of Santa period. He knows when u been naughty or nice and when you’re naughty you get coal. It will definitely hurt his feelings but it will also be a great eye opener like “oh. My. God. Santa really does see everything.” And the presents he gets that isn’t coal would be little things like clothes underwear socks pants and shit some candy even maybe a couple small toys if u really feel bad but I think the coal and taking away any big presents that he doesnt “deserve.” Then if you already bought the stuff he doesnt deserve it can be a present or reward from YOU and not santa in the future.
My mother did this to me…when I was 16. I’m still pissed off about it 14 years later. That shit is traumatizing to a kid.
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wtf no. will traumatise them for life
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Punish him a different way.
sorry but that’s just cruel 
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No that’s just fucking cruel and that could scar your child for life.
Santa is staying in due to Covid. Let them call your bluff and break the news that you’re the Santa for your household this year and they’re not getting shit for Christmas lol But in all seriousness, I feel like making Santa the bad guy isn’t the best route in the long run because eventually they will know Santa isn’t real and you’ll have lost your bargaining chip. Reprimand them yourself and tell them you will personally tell Santa not to come by your house. I wouldn’t necessarily take Christmas away from them depending on their ages. Punishment should fit the crime. Kids are still kids and most behaviors are just part of growing up.
Why are you lying to your kid in the first place. Santa isn’t real, period. Tell him that and tell him the reason is getting no presents, or less presents, is the direct result of his behavior. I would suggest looking at your own behaviors and what you allow him to get away with though as well. Is he really “bad,” or are you lacking things in your parenting? Because that’s usually the case.
Wrap empty boxes and when they are bad throw it in the fire
It depends on the age really. I feel if he is just little you just give him the present(s). If he is like 10 with an attitude and lazy 24/7 then no I’d give him a stocking of stuff he needs. But in reality people way over due Christmas and it’s disgusting.
The only lessons my children have learned from are when they get sad or “hurt”. They kept slamming our heavy wooden doors, i told them to stop bc fingers can get broken… they did it for years and just recently they got their 2 year old cousins fingers slammed in the door… they stopped. My daughter abuses the TV privileges but didnt listen to my words but now that she doesn’t have a TV. She learned. Sometimes we do need to be tough on our children for them to learn.
This year has been tough for all, so it really depends on the actions of the child and the situation to determine that. Are they diagnosed with a behavioral issue or they just pushing boundaries and disrespectful? Are they stealing from you or just mouthy?
Please don’t do this to your child. It will mess Them up for a very long time.
My kids have been awful but they still get Christmas. Some are getting more than other based on their behaviors