Heās definitely doing something. Gonna have to talk to him about it. The way he reacts will say it all.
I wont put up with this you deserve much better. Dont let this drama waste anymore time move on
If he locked his work phone and deletes everything I think you already know heās cheating. Leave
U already know girl. Question is what are you going to do about it?
Maybe heās having sex with a co-worker. I would pop up at his job but Iām crazy like that lmao
Cut up all his boxers lol
Red flags. I think you know the answer
Itching powder in his undies! And leave him!
Oh!!! Itās time to show him out & let door hit em hard!!!
Definitely sounds like a cheater
Locked phoneā¦cheating!!! Definitely!!!
Heās lying and hiding stuff because heās cheating.
Red flag 
leave him!
He leaks?! He needs to see a doctor stat! Thatās highly improbable 
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Yikes. Get outta there
You shouldnt even need opinions on this oneā¦cāmon now.
You just listed characteristics of a cheater.
Get out of that relationshipā¦he has already left it.
Sorry love 
Ref flags all over 
It happened with my ex, I grabbed his workphone and asked him for the pass code NOW or were done. He gave it to me. I found about a thousand pictures of different girls naked/ posing. Found many dating apps on which he talked to a bunch of different girls and call girls screen spotted off naughty websites. I packed my stuff and walked out. If he doesnāt let you into his phone before touching it first, Iād call it quits.
Just saying if you even THINK he is cheating. That is how you know
Re-read what you typed and the answer should come easily. Buh-bye, adios amigos! 
Be smart, let him do what he does. Your obviously seeing something is going on. Be still, be silent. It will all come to a head. In the meantime prepare yourself. Best advice I have to give. Good luck, Iāll pray for you
Time for some itch powder or better yet some icy hot 
FIRST YOU NEED TO BE CHECKED! these bitches nasty! Kick him tf out! Is he crazyā¦ You know damn wellā¦ Id fk his ass up. And he thinks your a dummyā¦ Girlā¦ 
Girl you already know .
Very suspicious. Even if heās ātaking care of himselfā, itās a big problem if he has to do that at work.
Dude heās cheating! Wtf is with these females?
Hes cheating or has an STD. Thatās it, thatās all.
Go with your gut! If you post pone this it will only hurt longer.
GPS tracker on his vehicle
Huge RED FLAG mama. Heās definitely cheating.
Iām pretty sure you already know the answer. Heās literally coming home with cum in his underwearā¦ you donāt just leak cum. He also locked his work phone and isnāt having any sexual relations with youā¦ girl run. You already have the confirmation you need. He will obviously never admit to it and you may not ever get the proof you want. For your sanity, run.
Pay attention to at least a few out of the dozen red flags 
Heās cheating 
I think you know the answerā¦
My husband said that the I just time he leaks is if he is really turned in and has a boner āpre cumā or after sex. But itās not something that should happen everyday for no reason. He said heās definitely cheating or taking care of himself at work with porn.
Does his employer pay for said phone?
If so, call them and tell them that he misusing the phone 
If youāre asking, you know. Iām sorry 
Go with your gut.
Heās cheating. Decide if you are going to ignore it and stay or if you will leave. No need to live in stress.
Pre-ejaculation is a red flag now!
in my experience trust your gut feelings x
How many red flags do you need
Oh honey 
Heās hiding SOMETHING. It could be straight up outright infidelity or something more in the gray area but either way yāall have to sit down and get some real answers. If he canāt be bothered to tell you the TRUTH, Iād honestly look at leaving. Life is too short to be unhappy. I genuinely wish you the best!!
Out the door i would say cheating
Oh heās doing something with someone. The hard part is believing & not being in denial, then leaving! After that, you will be so glad you did. Please do not sell yourself short! No one deserves to put up with that sh!t!!
I think you can do better than that.
I think you know the answerā¦
It sounds like he is cheating. My ex used to hide his phone changed his password his hygiene upped massively x
The signs are all thereā¦ heās definitely cheating. Heās hiding things from you by locking his phone and not allowing you to see whatās on it. Heās come home multiple times with his underwear having c*m in them. He isnāt giving you any attention or intimacy in the bedroom. What you should think about is sitting down and outright ask him if he is cheating, if he denies it but your gut says he is, then take the necessary steps to either leave him or see if you can find it within yourself to forgive and move on. Just keep in mind that if your gut says itās so, then go with your gut because that feeling is pretty accurate! Good luck!
Kerry M. Ortiz she basically just answered all her questions herself 
he reliefs himself while at work? thatās odd
Soā¦ if it is bad enough you feel like you need to go through his phoneā¦it is a red flagā¦I would walk away before checking the phone. But if it is to the point you are checking his underwearā¦ why are you wasting time asking the internet instead of throwing his chit in the front yard?
It seems to me like youāre answering your own questions. Iām sorry.
You know the answer. You donāt need further validation from strangers online babe. Leave him!
Rather there is cheating or not, if you have discussed openly with him this bothers you girl this is highly disrespectful
You know what to do- you donāt need the validation from others.
You either put up with this or you leave.
If you leave you will be happy.
U should know the answer to thisā¦
The answer is staring you in the face
āLeakingā is a thing. All us who are commenting donāt have penises, so we canāt speak on experiences about that department, but ask any man about it, it happens; doesnāt mean heās cheating. Men, jacking off at work? Hell yeah, you touch their shoulders and theyāll Pre-cum in their gitch. Not EVERYTHING we donāt understand means heās cheating 
Is you seriously in here asking us this question? Like a lot of yāall women just be putting yāall self through anything
You look in your husbands underwear
The minute you started checking his underwear is the minute youāve scooped so damn low that itās time to leave
That man is cheating.
How many red flags do you need?If you have a bad feeling trust it hun Iāve been there and done it.Trust your gut.
Girl, if he sounds like a cheaterā¦ Chances are heās a cheaterā¦
Honest faithful people donāt add codes to their phone and hide stuff and etc ya knowā¦ The question is, do you know your worth or are you going to settle for his bullshit?
WTH kind of work does he do?? Thatās just creepy!
Red flags all over this !!
Whateverās happening is to much and you have to make a decision to accept it or reject it.
Respect yourself and leave
I think the fact that heās hiding things and you donāt trust him means itās time to head on out of this relationship. Good luck and gets tested!
Only thing I can recommend is a divorce.
Iām kinda disturbed that you are examining his underwear.
Iām not sure if youāre asking about this just for reassurance or if youāre asking because you genuinely donāt know.
You can drive yourself insane with the āwhat ifsā, but I think you already know whatās going on.
Were you examining his undies ever so closely to find said c**?
Red flags all over This post 
cheating or not there is no trust there. Why are u looking though Hes underwear sorry but that 
This is all ā¦ weird. Like crazy behavior. I donāt examine my manās underwearā¦ Iām not sure which of you sound more toxic, honestly.
So first of all the code on work phone could be a new requirement by his employer. We are strictly enforcing that with our employees because their kids would get ahold of their phones and rack up data charges. Also depending on his line of work there could be estimates, secure pricing etc that is to be private. Nobody has the right to go through an employer granted phone period.
He is a cheating POS. Respect yourself and divorce him
He is cheating. There is no other reason for that behavior
Hmmmm. Sounds lil swishy washy to meā¦
Umm u know what that means !! RUNNNNN
Youāre gonna drive yourself crazy and find out some stuff you Dont wanna know but just secretly follow him if you really wanna know.
Sounds to me like heās cheating
Why you checking his underpants for 
could be a UTI it can cause discharge. His work phone is none of your business that pays the bills. Pleasing himself and not coming to you can mean heās cheating or he knows he has something and wonāt get checked and doesnāt want to give it to you.
babe it sounds like you already know.
Maybe itās jizz, maybe itās gonorrhea leakage. You really want to stick around and find out?
Donāt go through his clothes, donāt go through his phone, just pick up what little pride you have left and Start fresh.
If youāre at the point of needing to snoop through allllll of his stuff, the relationship is already done.
Sounds like you know the answeršŖ
Ur stupid! Leave his dumbass
Why r you putting this in Facebook???grow some Balls in handle ot yourself!!!
Super cheating just leave
What kind of weirdo checks their husbandās underwear?
Clone his phone my daughter can do that so I imagine itās out there in the web somewhere. But I would say leave you can do better or make him move out.
A lot of my problems stopped when I stopped looking just sayingā¦
There could be many reasons to their behavior- Itās not unbelievable. However, I recommend a moment of self-reflection to both people in the relationship. Is something lacking? Communicating, deep conversation or concern could open up topics youāve never explored. Otherwise, explore whatās making him āgoā 
tell him what you want, stand up for yourself. itās not fair heās āgoingā everyday in his pants and then he gets to rub it in your face when youāre doing his laundry More red flags and gaslighting are what Iād look for if youāre concerned.
Love how everyone jumps to the conclusion heās cheating , could be a number of reasons as to why he has sperm in his undies! Good God
Sorry u going throw this 