If he truly wanted the baby, he would do the reversalš¤·āāļø
I would say be very grateful with what you have. If you want another child, how about fostering one???
Tell him if you can go through the pain of child birth he can handle a simple reversal.
My ex and I always talked about wanting to have a child together but he had had a vasectomy years prior when he and his ex wife had 2 kidsā¦ I had one child of mine own, and we just said IF after the 10yrs of his vasectomy we happened to be able to, we would be happy, but then he ended up cheating on me (after 6yrs together) with his ex wife, and boom- she popped up pregnantā¦ so- it IS possible, and I hope you guys get to have a new little bundle!
My brother and I are post reversal babies. My dad had it done a second time after my brother was born, he never had any issues
There are ways to get pregnant without a reversal. If you speak to a fertility MD, there are ways to retrieve the sperm. Also, my husband had a reversal and found it no more painful than the vasectomy itself.
My son had his vasectomy reversed, it isnāt as painful as your husband might think ā¦ heās had 3 more children
Itās very possible. Especially with older ones done
Iām a birth keeper. Over 80% of my clients have been V baby clients. It fails WAY more often than people want to admit.
There is the option of sperm aspiration. It can be done at a fertility clinic but would be on the pricey side. Sometimes I do get sad because we decided to have it done but I am grateful for our three beautiful children and the opportunity I was given to be their mother. 
His body, his choice. Women should learn to respect menās boundaries as much as she wants her boundaries respected. 
Stop with the āIf he really wanted another baby, heād get it.ā You better believe if she had gotten a tubal and he wanted another baby, everyone would be jumping his case saying āitās her body, and sheād have to undergo surgery and pain for a reversalā. Smh. Backwards world we live in.
I am surprised a doc let you get it done so young. Thatās why they donāt do tube ties so young. Bc you will most likely change your mind.
My 
rainbow baby is almost 18 mos after a vasectomy. So it happens more then youād think.
My neighbor down the street 12 years after her husband had the vasectomy got pregnant with twins he thought she was fooling around broke up with her only to find out through dna they were his damage was done. I would say you could hope and pray but be thankful for what you have already.
Oh boy. 
Here I thought Iād be safe after my husband got a vasectomy after our 3 and last pregnancy. Looks like Iāll be getting back on birth control after all.
Honestly Iād look into adoption or fostering. Or go to a doctor to see if he has any sperm count or what not.
They only fail when done wrong. Respect his decision.
How about becoming a foster parent, a lot of them lead to adoption
Mine had it done after my baby turned 3 months. I was disappointed. But he had 2 children already and we were taking care of his ex wifeās daughter also. So when I got mine he said nope done. Weāre 6 years past and no luck for me to have a second.
For the ones that say to adopt give them the money. Itās not cheap
Look into adoption through foster care. I had my tubes tied and instead of reversing that, I have adopted a sibling group of 4. The adoption didnāt cost me any money either, for 4 children.
My youngest son is a vasectomy baby. His dad had four older children all in their thirties and had a vasectomy after his youngest daughter was bornā¦I was 42 and about to go thru menopause . We were both surprised but God knew what we neededā¦also know people they had partial vasectomy and had a baby after reversal ā¦
Not alllll adoptions are costly 
not everyone is aware thereās adoption options that are fairly cheap or even free 
My husband had twins naturally 12 years after his vasectomy. It does happen.
My husband had a reversal after 14 years of a vasectomy. He is not one for pain at all, but he said it was not as bad as he was expecting. He spent one day after the surgery in bed recovering. We got pregnant 6 months after the reversal.
Adoption is a great option
If he wanted another one as much as you then he wouldnāt have a problem getting it reversed. To me it sounds like youāre pressuring him. Respect his decision. Foster care and adoption are always available.
Try fostering or adopting.
I knew a woman who had a tubal & her husband had a V after the birth of their 3rd son. 7yrs later she found out she was pg. Her husband claimed she lied about her tubal & cheated. The DNA test proved it was their child. So itās possible.
If you really want a child foster adopt. That way youāre not playing roulette & youāre giving a good home to a child who otherwise doesnāt have 1. JMO
plenty of kids need a loving home have you considered adoption
The OP posted this to get stories relating to their situation, not to get bombarded by people telling them to adopt or foster.
My aunt was born when my Pawpawās vasectomy went unchecked by a dr years after he got it done so it is possible
My moms husband had one and she wasnāt supposed to be able to get pregnant due to her own issues. They got pregnant. I hope for the both of you, yall get pregnant 
Stop with the adoption stuffā¦ she didnāt ask about adoption she asked if it was possible and it is. Adoptions are extremely hard in the US thatās why sooo many people even rich people go overseas , itās also extremely expensive and stressful ā¦the United States needs to stop making it hard for children to find a forever home .:: itās all about money itās evil. Sheād rather have her own child I get itā¦ stick to the question at hand.
I have a friend that ended up pregnant with twins 8 years after her husbands vasectomyā¦ he was shocked thought she cheated lol doctor proved it just happens sometimes.
So, my dad had one and after the first snip. His swimmers were still swimming lol. So, he had to go back and have it redone I guess. It was hilarious because I guess him and the doctor didnāt have good chemistry. Well doctor comes in the room after seeing that his swimmers are still active and goes āWow you must be genetically superior!ā And my dad goes āNo! Youāre medically inferior.ā 
But it does happen. Sometimes the procedure is not successful. Honestly though. Sometimes they are absolutely effective and I would recommend a reversal for your best bet of getting pregnant. I would have a real heart to heart with your husband and go from there.
I totally understand my husband had one after our daughter was born last year and I sometimes find myself hoping that it would happen, but itās highly unlikely that would or will we decided we were done because pregnancy is very hard on me with health issues 
we have been talking about surrogacy in the next couple of years but ultimately we are happy with our 3 kiddos and it just comes up from time that I think about another baby, he is very sure heās done but has said itās something to think about and if in 2 or 3 years Iām still wanting another baby we will talk about it
My little brother was born after 2 vasectomies.
My youngest is a after vasectomy baby!
Listen if your husbands against it and things turn out that you end up with a child just make sure you get the DNA test done as I read some of the comments were people said theyāve gotten pregnant and people have gone for a divorce turns out the kid was theirs because they thought the spouse screwed around on them. Be thankful for the children you have even though you may want another one, talk to your husband maybe you could be a foster parent to children who need the foster, if youāre willing to give your love and support then do that, sometimes you can find a child who really needs love and attention and you might be their last resort for a family turns out you might be looking to end up adopting that child you just never know.
Well this scares the shit out of me !
I have 6 kids and my husband was snipped last year FML.
Even tested 0% at 3 months. Looks like my paranoia will now be sending him back again.
If he doesnāt want it reversed, then you arenāt getting another baby.
Pray for a child. All children come from Heaven. Talk to God have faith that He will do what is best for your family. Pray together if you both want it. I promise you He can give you a baby. We all need to talk to God more. Thank Him for all that we have.
My husband had one after our third two year ago, Iām currently 5 months pregnant with our fourth it could happen
I had my first child with my (now) husband when I was 18 and he was 22. He had a vasectomy after my son was born even though I didnāt agree with it because I wanted more children. But I got pregnant 7 years later with my daughter and then after my daughter was born I became pregnant again with my 2nd daughter. So it is definitely possible because I had 2 kids after my husband had a vasectomy!
A guy in my class in school was a vasectomy babyā¦3 or 4 years younger than his next older brother
Iāve read that they can sometimes naturally reverse around the 7 year mark. Go get his sperm tested and find out.
Heās not 100% on board then donāt be doing that.
Have his sperm tested. Thatās the fastest way to tell you if youāll get pregnant.
In the event it doesnāt fail, yes, you can consider adoption or fostering. Plenty of children need a home.
Oh the irony, he doesnāt want to go through the pain, what about the pain we women go through to have these children. Tell him to suck it up, itās quick and easy lol
If your partner doesnāt want one donāt try to make it happen. Thatās dĆÆsgusting
If he doesnāt want to get the reversal, just pray that itāll happen. Thatās really all you can do unless you want to go to a sperm bank and do IUI with donor sperm.
The only other options are adoption or fostering.
My husband had a vasectomy 14 yrs agoā¦ I got pregnant this past Februaryā¦ it was a total surprise as I wasnt on any birth control. I thought I didnāt have to be since he was fixed. But I went to the dr and yes ā¦ the vas deferens could reconnect after many yrs.
I had my tubes tied 10 years ago after giving birth to my second son. I was 20 and regret it so much!
It is very easy to qualify to Foster children. Right now there are thousands of children living in office buildings because there are not enough Foster parents or shelters to house them. Not only is it free to Foster but the state will pay you monthly for every child in your care. Please consider it, the classes are free and it only takes a few months to qualify.
My husbands sister was conceived about 7 years after his dad got a vasectomy!
We have 4 kids, 15, 14, 12, and 3ā¦. After 2 failed vasectomies!
He had the first surgery done shortly after our 3rd. We went back for his check and they told us it didnāt take. He went 6 months later to have it done again, and we were informed it still didnāt take. 8 years went by with nothingā¦. Then all of a sudden boom pregnant, huge surprise!!
Go to therapy to work through your feelings. Most likely you are not going to have a third baby with this man. And if you did conceive while he was relying on a vasectomy to prevent conception that would open a whole new can of worms. It sounds like you are struggling with the fact that your kids are growing up and you need to address that.
Yall stories are worrying me 
6 kids (blended) hubs had vas the day they found out with #3 so if we was to have another lol lucky #7 heād die Iām more of go with the flow and be like ok another baby but yall my baby is 7 and 8 I canāt be doing this again his surgery was 8 years ago and his cousin had one failed 20 years later, like another lady said pray for a baby my cousin did for many years but you canāt really put that on him he doesnāt want a baby ya kinda need to leave it be if it happens then ok like my be said heād be mad lol cause he donāt want no more but it takes 2 to tango and the child will still be loved
Can I just say, to all the mommas on here shaming anyone, shame on you. Women come to this site for advice and comfort from other moms and some of the comments I have read are nasty. If you donāt have advice thats nice or are super judgemental your comments are not necessaryā¦ They donāt need therapy, sheās simply asking about stories. Not just for this question but everyone I see. I say ban the ones who arenāt supportive and are just mean. #mommassupportingmommas #nojudgementzone
My husband got a vasectomy 14 yearās agoā¦I should not have read these stories. I would lose my mind.
currently calling my gynecologist for a tubal
Lots of children needing homes, foster care or adopt?
IVF is still an option after a vasectomy. Then he wouldnāt have to have the reversal. Honestly probably a cheaper option then the reversal as well.
I had my tube tied yes only one and regret it like a mfā¦was gonna get a reversal but then our kids started having kidsā¦lol ā¦nope
My cousin did years apart. Had two later had his 3girl.
Iāve actually heard of this happening a lot more often than people think it does. So I wouldnāt lose hope forsure. Maybe even try to eat things that increase fertility so youād have a higher chance.
My neighbor had a baby right after her husband 2nd Negative sperm test. Ill never trust itā¦ depo till Iām ready to tie my tubesā¦ plus Iām not trying for a 4th boyā¦ no thank you. Iām shocked sheās hoping it fails! so sad when women need it to work. we cant always be on birth control. Men need to be able to take some responsibility if its at least available.
My bestfriends partner had a vasectomy years ago and they have had 2 kids
Back in 1970 lol my dad had a vasectomy and 8 yrs later he unknowingly came undone and here I am. Wasnāt a good thing though as my parents were done raising kids, and the whole cheating thing came up apparently. I think it ended towards a lot of resentment towards me from my mother at least thatās the only thing I can figure why our relationship was so strained over the years.
Have you thought about fostering/adopting or a surrogate? I know adopting can take years but so could a failed vasectomy.
My mom and dad are quite older my dad is 10 years older than my mom and had my brothers when she was in her 20s and my brothers are about 15 years older than me my dad got a vasectomy and then did a reversal and thatās when me and my sister came I donāt think it happened without the reversal but I donāt think the reversal was very painful either because when it comes to paying my dad is quite a baby so if he could do it your husband could probably do it!
My father in law had a vasectomy after he and my mother in law had 2 children. Their son that came after the reversal is now my fiance 
and we have two children. All wouldnāt have been possible if father in law didnāt have that procedure x
Itās rare but it can happen
Iād say if the vasectomy hasnāt failed in 8yrs it will be reversal if possible the only option, ye were extremely young to make that decision!! Hope it works out for ye 
A lot of kids are waiting to be adopted, if this is an option you are open to.
Stop waiting & give a child a life they dream of
I had my tubes done w a device called essure and my ex husband also had a vasectomy and we ended up pregnant unfortunately I cou)couldnāt carry the baby because it wouldāve killed me but it does happen
Way too young to make that choice, eeek!
Do Ivf!
And to everyone saying to ājust adoptā thatās not even an option for most people 
where we live it takes YEARS , a billion hoops and a minimum of $35,000! You canāt just say āhey I want to adoptā & they send you a kid lol adoption is our goal eventually, but we have to build up to it. For now we landed on ivf, which isnāt for the faint of heart, but is waaaaay more achievable.
āAdopt!ā
Yall realize how expensive that is right? Not a ton of people have that kind of money.
Same boat lol
We decided to get him fixed after our son and Iād love to have one more 
Heās also against the reversal for the same reasons
If you havenāt had a tubal yet there is a procedure that can be done at the fertility clinic called TESA. And then you could be artificially inseminated with the retrieved sperm, its probably more affordable than going all in on an IVF cycle ( we had to do that for our son and 
). May be worth looking into .
My dad had one and here I am lmao!
I feel like you were to young to make that decision. Iām even shocked a doctor would do it. A vasectomy is painful on a man and a friend of ours husband had a reversal, if he doesnāt want to do it donāt force the topic. Her husband hated it. If you both decide you still really want a child. You can look into adoption.
My husband also had a vasectomy before we were together and unfortunately his is not reversible wish it was cuz we have no kids together nor do I have any of my own but I do have a beautiful step daughter but she is grown now
Okay, vasectomies are painful. Reversals are too.
But having a friggin baby isnāt???
Just some perspective, but itās definitely not a one way street on pain. To me, if heād want you to sacrifice your body, he should be willing to do the same. š
Curse him for taking part in a form of birth control! Whoās he to make a choice about his body
Yes i know a family the dad and mom had 4 girls ā¦back to back ā¦the dad got a vasectomy ,when the youngest daughter was 8yrs old ā¦the suprise baby came ā¦and it was another girl !!!
Cheat on him, and just tell him itās his ? Iām totally kidding.
My dad had one after my mom had me and 18 months later here comes my baby brother
My friend got her tubes tied and got pregnant. Pray over it, God does the impossible every day!
A vasectomy has a greater chance of being reversed. A failed vasectomy is a dream.
So my partner has a reversal and the pain wasnāt too bad. The worst part was sitting and icing for 2 days
My cousin ended up pregnant after her husband had a vasectomy 5 years before- he had to have two more after that bc he still had swimmers!
Canāt you go through a procedure where they syringe (live sperm) from the ball area, and connect with your egg?
For all you saying adopt through foster careā¦shame on you. Foster children in care the goal is usually reunification. If you go in with the mindset that you just want to adopt you should not be foster parents unless in the beginning you specifically say you only want ālegally free to adoptā children.
My husband had a vasectomy in his first marriage and we did IVF to have our little boy.
I had my tubes cut and tied and I had a baby 3 yrs after my surgery! Anything is possible! Good luck!
My son was concieved 8 years after his dads vasectomy and just 5 months after my daughter was born and my cycle hadnāt returned yet, it was a crazy miracle, although Iām learning that itās way more common than I realised lol