I talked my kids into saying “what the flip”.
As far as the stage he’s in… I found that with my strong willed child that it helped to give lots of choices. (Like… when getting dressed in the morning. Do you want to wear this shirt or this shirt?… do you want to have this color cup or this color cup?)
Make sure noone uses that word in the home and tell him no every time he says it.
I have 4 year old twins. An it’s an issue I had as well. Kids hear things all the time from anyone they’re around. I explained repetitively that’s a bad word/naughty. It takes a while for them to understand but just be repetitive, they will learn. we also use funny words to replace bad words. Just try to give options, obviously if they’re using words to be descriptive or when they’re showing emotions tell them other words that could help that you use as well.
You’re a little late. He has LEARNED to talk that way. Shame on his parental teachers.
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I’m having this problem out of my 4yo calling every one mfrs and axx holes and many more we don’t cuss so I have talked to him and even did time outs ignoring it etc nothing helps
Explain to him that’s a word that cannot be used in public as it is inappropriate and may offend some people.
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My granddaughter when she got mad always said your a woodpecker. Said the f word once . Told her it was a naughty word. She cried and has no said it again
My 2 yr old is on the “shit” phase. Drop a hot wheel down the stairs? SHIT. Spill milk? SHIT! Draw a picture-hold it up- OH-SHIT! literally have to hide my laughter.
It is a phase most kids go through. Don’t pay it any attention, and it will pass. *I have 4 children. The 3rd was that way.
The first time he ever cussed u should have told him thats a badword, now its too late to even change his habit of cussing.
Don’t give the word any attention. Tell the daycare workers he has Tourette’s and stop eating the belugas they are beautiful, magical creatures.
Stop reacting to it. I’d just ignore him until he’s old enough for me to explain bad words vs good words.
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He’s 2… he’ll grow out of it probably
Try ignoring the words. The more you make a big deal out of it the more the child will say it
Where did he hear it from?
Maybe stop swearing around ur kid
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welp my 2yr old said b**** he got it from me on accident i told him he cant say mommy words and that is a mommy word then i told him when he wants to say mommy words wiggle his body and say peanut butter so now if i slip up and say a cuss word he giggles wiggles and says peanut butter… diverting their thoughts to something fun is a great way to redirect behavior.
Are admins on this page looking into these posts? Some of them are very harmful are serious! I am
Hoping so! Very upsetting
Omg this breaks my mind please never pinch your kid til they bleed thats horrible
I came for the Karens and I wasn’t disappointed
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Spank him. Take away toys and other privileges. Make him earn the toys back.
Frozen bergula whale meat I’d say fuck alot too
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My grandma put hot sauce in our mouths when we were saying bad words. It’s harmless but he won’t like it🤷🏻♀️
Teach him an alternate fun saying. Stupid as it sounds instead of saying the f word or other choice words. I yell out God bless America. So make up some funny saying when he says it like noodle fluger. Something off rhe wall but fun. Maybe that will catch on instead.
Substitute the word fuck for truck. Anytime he says fuck reinforce “Truck” you can say it multiple times. So long as you stay constant and do not giggle it will work. Truck, truck, truck, truck, truck.
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He is 2. Ignore it and he will forget it.
Don’t let him get a rise out of you. Take a favorite toy away each time. Don’t make a huge deal out of it.
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It’s not the end of the world, my girl swears from time to time and we just tell her that’s not nice and when she’s older she can say bad words just not now and if she’s a good girl she’ll get a treat and that’s worked for us
Tell him he can’t say that. But you can say fart or farts or oh fart. They love the word, keep reiterating he can’t say grown up words and correct with the fart or whatever silly word he will pick up on. Or let him choose his word that he can use for a grown up word. Hugs mama! You can do this!
Firetruck instead or fu*k
YOU stop swearing lol it all comes from who they are around
Watch your language. Other people need to watch there language around kid.
He had to learn it somewhere.
So you’re abusing him over a word? You reacting to it just makes him wanna say it more. Tf.
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A slap on the ass never hurt anyone
Sandy Bennett-Ward how did you stop one of your sons from cussing?
Problem is you. Thats child abuse. Sort out your own behaviour you bully
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First and foremost you have not failed as a mother. Things happen like this all the time and you can’t always stop it right away. This has no reflection on your skills as a mother don’t allow others to judge you on that and I hope you don’t judge others. Secondly it may be something that your child has to outgrow. Since the father uses it and obviously won’t stop you have to give them an alternate word every time that use it. When they say the effort just give them the word angry and let them know the feeling that they’re having is anger not the f word. It takes persistence and maybe sitting down with them and continuing to tell them that you don’t approve of it. I don’t know if I helped but I hope I have given some type of small insight.
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You pinched his lip till he bled? Wtf is wrong with you please don’t have anymore children
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And you’re pinching your child and making him bleed? For 1, how could you do that to your own child ??? And 2 I hope someone calls cps on you !
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maybe make the husband your ex husband when my now ex husband started showing signs of shit i didn’t want around my child i left him asap i’m 24 and divorced and proud of it i protected my daughter and i will till i die but it’s the husband we should really be discussing toddlers cuss maybe 90+% of toddlers have cussed due to one adult in their life or another it’s no big deal just re direct don’t make a big deal out of it and try to praise for something else without cuss words but the husband should respect you enough and himself to stop cussing around his kid or the kid is gonna grow up like him and if that thought scares you get out of there asap i would get the child into therapy (all kinds speech and psychological) and hopefully the toddlers issue of cussing will stop but the husband needs to change one way or another whether you sit down with him and tell him what’s up or you leave so he’s not negatively influencing your child bc sometimes parents who don’t care how they act and won’t change end up hurting children more esp if the mom commits neglect refusing to remove them from a. bad situation this could be a lot deeper than a child saying a bad word but i sincerely hope things get better for you god bless❤️
That’s your fault for cussing in front of your child in the first place !
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Try and get him to go with “frog bologna”
You abused your child! This is disgusting… Wtf did I just read
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Im laughing so hard at this post.
Kenzie Henley girl do you see this shit where she’s saying she pinched his lip but stopped doing it cause she made it bleed?!?! WTF!!!
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Correct the word. If he’s saying the F word, give him another word to say. Make it a nonchalant correction and he won’t know the difference. We say words like fudge, darn. Correct him instantly with the new word, but redirecting will be the winner. Give it time. Anger will teach him to use that word constantly.
For one, never ever hurt your child till he bleeds. That’s abuse.
1st thing I would do is pray to God to help you and your son. I promise you if you do all you can in any given situation, God will help you through the rest.
I would also have your husband live video talk with him. He needs to tell that baby he is wrong when he says it and it’s wrong when his child says it. Let him know we all make mistakes and that most can be corrected.
I believe in taking away toys until they are earned. My 2 boys only had 1 experience with no toys and what they were doing wrong they never did again. My boys are grown now with wives and kids and their an asset to this world and their respected adults and are happy with their lives.
Love conquers so much. So no matter if your son is being bad or good always reassure them that you love them.
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Don’t react when he says it. I found this is the easiest way to break them. I raise my 4 year old niece and she had a bad, bad habit of saying it. Once I stopped reacting to her she finally stopped cussing.
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Kids are not stupid even at 2. They can and will learn but you have to make them. I good swat on his behind, it doesn’t have to be really hard just enough to get his attention, and tell him that is a bad word and don’t say it anymore. I never had any problem with my kids saying bad words because if they did say them then I started teaching them not to say it. Kids can learn so much more than people give them credit for
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How about you to put him in a room and leave him there for let’s say 15 minutes when he curses and after “locking him up” ask him what he think was the reason you did that and start a conversation - make him understand that it is never okay to say ill words and reprimand your husband too. He should set a good example for your kid to follow
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AND SIDE NOTE IF YOU LIVE IN US OF A THAT IS CALLED CHILD ABUSE! No matter where you are from
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how are you gonna pinch your child hard enough to make him bleed wtf… just ignore him, rather than reacting & he will stop. for future reference, maybe not swearing in front of your kids will do the trick if you don’t want them picking up on it.
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Monkey see monkey do
When you get mad yell out a word making it funny sounding
Cover your mouth really quick and say oops mommy said a no no word I’m sorry and giggle a bit
Try to get daddy to do it too
If daddy doesn’t
keep them apart as much as possible for a week.
It’s how I got my daughter to stop that word after she heard daddy say it
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He’s 2 and you made him bleed?! Okay well that’s definitely abuse. It’s just a word. Doesn’t make you a bad mom just let him say it. If it bothers you talk to him. Tell him it’s not a nice word. But don’t lay hands on a fucking 2 year old!
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He’s only a baby someone obviously thought him the word. Poor child don’t know what he’s getting punished for. Pinching a baby on the lip and making him bleed wtf😠
People amaze me . Setting an Example is Almost Gone … THE I GENERATION :: I CAN LIVE MY LIFE IM THE ADULT IF I CHOOSE TO BRING A PARADE OF PEOPLE IN AND OUT OF MY BED ROOM ITS OK IF I USE FILTHY LANGUAGE IM AN ADULT . WHERE ARE YOUR CHILDREN WHAT ARE THEY SEEING AND HEARING. DONT BE TO SHOCKED OF THE OUTCOME. YES TAKE YOUR ACTIONS AWAY FROM YOUNG EYES.
I got my daughter to stop using bad words by either popping her in the mouth or using hot sauce and i only ever had to do it once and she didnt say those bad words again
And when i say pop i dont mean a slap or anything theres never any blood. Only a lil redness
Stop swearing! the child only repeats what they hear
I’m curious what was the frozen buelga meat used for?
He’s two, do you even know what he is saying?
Pinched him til he bleed?! What the hell. Ignore the behavior he’s doing it bc you react.
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What they hear they REPEAT!! OLD SAYING DONT DO AS I DO ( DO AS I SAY ) DOESNT WORK THAT WAY .WHAT YOU SAY OR DO IS PROBABLY WHAT OUR CHILDREN WILL .
I pop my children in the mouth of they cuss or bite. Or spank their bottoms
Have we tried bar soap yet?
I put dawn dish soap in my daughter mouth one time
He’s found a way to express his anger/frustration that elicits a huge reaction, and boy did he get a reaction. Your challenge is to manage your response and not react beyond telling him that he’s not to use that word and offer him alternatives that are acceptable. It took time for him to pick it up from his father and it’ll take time to unlearn the behavior. You also need to have a long hard talk with his father about his vocabulary around your son. Timeout is not appropriate for frustration, in my opinion and physically hurting a child to the point of bleeding is also never appropriate and I’m very glad you recognized that and stopped pinching his lip. He is only 2, and has no understanding of why it’s and issue, afterall his father uses it to express his anger and/or frustration. It’s up to you to teach him better not punish him.