Shes probably doing it with him darling. Thats the unfortunate truth. She may be hiding it from you. So youre supporting this every time you support her. 
Yup, don’t do it anymore. She will figure out the struggle of that relationship. Might wake her up a little bit.
Stop enabling the behaviour. Tell your daughter to grow up. Stop complaining if she’s not going to do anything about it to get away from him.
you can take classes so you know how not to enable
Tough love. Stop enabling them. It’s not ur job to buy him drugs and booze. Once the free ride stops, he will suddenly find fault in her and move on to the next free ride. Tell her God is looking out for her and now she is free to find the right guy. Keep ur line of communication open and support her through her sad. Good luck momma 
Don’t fed the problem!!
Cut her off. Your are enabler for them both. Will never learn either one if you dont.
Perhaps take her to an Al-Anon meeting
The more you give her money the more he’s going to continue asking her for it. Set limits because takers never do.
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Stop giving her actual money, help her by buying what she needs. And just love her through it. She has to see it for herself.
Explain that her asking you for money isn’t right. Her giving him money isn’t right. She knows what she’s doing isn’t right. You will no longer be a part of the enablers. She needs to be stronger with him. Just as you need strength.
You have to stop giving her money. I know you want to make sure her needs are taken care of, but what your really doing is enabling her to stay on this bad relationship and not have any consequences for it. I struggled with this for years with my child as well. Finally I stopped being the money tree and started being the parent. We all make choices, if she chooses to stay in a bad relationship then she needs to learn from those consequences. Good luck with whatever you do.
She knows that what he is doing is wrong. As long as you keep giving her money she will keep giving it to him. She is helping him to keep on being addicted and using her. Quit helping him with his habits by giving her money. Cut off the money and he will leave to find another victim that he can manipulate.
Check to make certain she is not also on drugs.
She’ll haul ass with him as soon as you cut em off, save your money for yourself and go on a cruise!
Stop giving her money. Stop criticizing her boyfriend.
Stop ! You’re being an enabler … and until she sees this for herself . Stop being an enabler !
I think you know what to do, ,just do it now !!!
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Yeah, you gotta stop supporting that mess. As much as you love her, by default, you may have “someone”, just taking advantage of you.
You are enabling her and him by supporting his habit.
Fuck that bum. It’s time for your daughter to move on. It’s not the moms responsibility to support him
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