Honestly if you have to ask yourself these questions it’s time to end the relationship and move on…
Screw that getting over it crap. Get the heck out of that relationship. If he cheats when you are delivering his child he will cheat again. And do not take the baby out in the heat. For him to even expect you to shows what an idiot he is. It’s hard to start over but you can do it. Just lean on family and friends until you are on your feet. It will make you stronger and you will feel so much better about yourself.
I’m sorry but a man who’s gonna cheat on you right after you went through a Trumatic event to deliver a baby is not a man who loves and treasures you… I would run so fast. And never look back.
You can’t trust him again, especially when you caught him cheating when did. Screw the fact he works! If you’re going to stay (although I suggest you run) DEMAND that he helps with HIS child. I once was in a relationship where every mistake he made was somehow a result of a mistake I made. It never gets better. Best of luck to you and your child.
He was talking to another woman on the phone and you considered that cheating?
Did you hear the conversation?
Is he cheating when he talks to ANY other woman? Like the Walmart cashier? The waitress? Talking is one thing, physical activity is another.
Since we don’t know the other side of the story, I call that insecurities.
He’s trying. He’s making an effort.
I think the problem lies within you, not him.
Leopards don’t change their spots - neither do cheaters. Get out while you can.
rekindle and make a baby in a hurry
TALKING to ‘other girls’?!! what are you- in Jr. High?!! You’re a MOTHER now- act like one! Fuck “fishing” ~
Once A Cheat Always A Cheat
Sorry……he’s a loser …….you giving birth and he’s talking to another girl……you got the cards laid out in front of you already.
You didnt say if youre married so it’s hard to give advice. I’ll just say it happened in our family right after my grandson was born. They made amends and worked very hard through it. It can be done; however, it all depends on if both parties are willing.
I knew a man once who bought a strawberry farm. Not too long after moving into the farmhouse, he discovered that he was allergic to strawberries. Being around strawberries made him physically and, eventually, mentally uncomfortable, they were bad for him. No matter how much good work and attention he gave to his farm, the strawberries made him unhealthy and unhappy. Each time that he went to visit friends or family or went into town to shop, he felt a little better, but as soon as he got back to the farm, he felt worse. Eventually, he sold the farm and got away from the strawberries. Okay, I confess, I never knew a man who bought a strawberry farm and found out he was allergic to strawberries, but you get my point. If you find yourself in a similar situation, ditch the farm, get away from your strawberries, and start to live your life in a way that is not permanently unhappy.