Hi girls - I just found p***star pics on my boyfriend’s phone and this isn’t the first time. He knows I’m not happy with my small breasts and to see these pics makes me sad. I don’t feel like I’m enough for him. He’s the only boyfriend I’ve had that I feel this way with. I don’t even want him touching me know. It’s hurtful…
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How can I move past what I found on my boyfriends phone? - Mamas Uncut
Straight up tell him how it makes you feel 
you need to have a conversation about it, and if he gets defensive or anything you know it’s time to move on
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Seriously leave him, if he know you don’t like it and he still doing it. Clearly he feels there are WAY hotter girls to get off to. That might hurt to read but it’s true. Leave bro leave now. He probably watches so much porn behind your back, you don’t want a man Cumming to another female. He don’t love you, you’re probably just easy for him to hold on to. Truth hurts.
Why did you feel the need to go through his phone? Sounds like you are in the wrong relationship.
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I’d tell him exactly how you feel. Establish those boundaries with your boyfriend. If he continues doing it after knowing how you feel and boundaries being established, he has proven that he isn’t worth your time
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Oh stop being inmature,no big deal it’s just pictures.Let him have his desires.
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Honestly why save them on his phone lmao he sounds like a geek. Go ahead and watch it but saving it on your phone is weird imo. 
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omg not pornstar pictures
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Has he said hes not happy with your small breasts? Or is that your insecurities talking? And if hes said that, you’re with him… why?
It’s not always about you maybe just maybe it has more to do with him being a guy
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I’d say if it’s a boundary for you then make sure he knows it and that he needs to respect it, HOWEVER, if it were me I would much rather find a pronstar’s pics than pics of a “real” person.
(I am not diminishing sex work at all, I’m meaning that she’s doing her literal job. At least it’s not pics of Karen from down the street, if that makes sense.)
How many times are you going to post this in one day?
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Make your screen saver a massive p0rnstar c**k
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better then a neighbors pics
Why do you feel you are not worth more!! Leave him! It’s better to to be by yourself then with someone who treats you bad
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Snooping isn’t any better.
You both need to have an honest adult conversation or every hurdle your relationship comes across is going to be a crisis
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I’ve dealt with this and that relationship has ended but advice I would give is to communicate exactly how that makes you feel and if it’s something you’d like him to stop. It’s important for both people to feel secure in the relationship so if that makes you insecure say that and whether or not you want him to stop doing that. It’s not controlling but rather stating your values that you want and need in a secure loving relationship. If you communicate that to him and he still does it then maybe it’s time to think if this is something you’re willing to let go or if it’s time to move on. Just be sure to communicate your REQUIREMENTS in a relationship not just expectations. Your requirements and if they do not meet that then in time you will find someone who will and understands. You deserve that I hope it goes good for you!
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Girl. . Just lay down YOUR law! Open up and tell him AGAIN why it bothers you, why he needs them and that it makes you feel like you’re not enough. If he agrees to delete those nasty pictures and not save any more pictures 
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How can I move past what I found on my boyfriends phone?
Leave him and find someone who appreciates your body. Don’t be ashamed of who you are and what you look like. Supermodels have tiny boobs too and they would give zero F’s about someone like your bf.
I have small breast as well and most to all my friends have boobs from boob jobs. But not to sound mean at all not my intent. Your problems with your body aren’t his problem. Self confidence is the single most attractive thing about a person. I’m sorry his actions made you feel bad. But a true partner and lover loves and cares for you for more than your boob size.
Have you talked with him? Men love porn stars but doesn’t mean that what he has isn’t enough. Is he missing work because of his porn obsession? Does he show you that you are what he needs, not just use words to say I love you baby you are enough? There are many ways that I imagine you are enough for him (and maybe not since I don’t know you two). But you two need to have an open conversation about why you feel hurt
Talk to him tell him how you feel if he respects your feelings he should stop doing it
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Stop staying in relationships that you don’t feel 100% in! 
Know your worth! Find your forever. It’s clearly not him.
P.s. look up small chest confidence & don’t be ashamed of your body. Flaunt what you have regardless of size. 
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Maybe HE isn’t enough for YOU
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It’s not up to a man to make you happy with your body. So what, he looks at pictures. Until you love yourself and your small breasts you’ll never be happy with anyone else.
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then leave him, And as for small breasts, be happy with what you got because us larger breasted women would rather have smaller breast, or at least I would, especially now that I am older & things are shifting !!! LOL
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Tell him if he likes boobs so much to pay to have yours done instead of looking at others 
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Ok first of all of he’s the first to make you feel this way it’s time to leave. That’s one of the big red flags.
Secondly that is your insecurities popping up. There is an entire community of people that have breasts like yours in their phone. Never forget that, you are enough as you are. There’s nothing wrong with plastic surgery either. Until that day though please tell yourself your boobies are great to many out there, and you deserve for them to feel great for you too.
Thirdly I highly doubt this is the only thing making you feel this way. There are other things he’s doing to contribute. Just porn doesn’t cause this strong of a reaction from people usually. I cast a second vote for breaking up. There’s lots of people that won’t make you feel this way. Look for someone that doesn’t like porn, or maybe someone that loves small boobs.
In today’s society it is “normal” for guys to look at porn. Every relationship and person is different if another woman doesn’t have an issue with it and you find it hurtful it DOES NOT make it okay for your relationship. There is no right or wrong answer. I will say that if it’s really hurting you, he should stop. No man who would put having to see other women naked over your feelings Is worth it. Some people are okay with their partner going to the strip club. Some people are okay with an open relationship. You get to decide what you want in your relationship and no matter what people on here say there are men in the world that would be able to refrain from going outta their way to look up and stare at other naked women… if it’s “not a big deal” then it wouldn’t be a big deal to NOT do it eighter.
You will continue to receive the treatment you allow.
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I get so tired of reading posts tht talk about how women went through their man’s phone etc and found things that they didn’t like smh. LADIES YOUR PARTNERS, HUSBAND’S, BOYFRIENDS are not your children. IF you have to invade and violate their privacy by going through their phone etc. LEAVE AND END THE RELATIONSHIP. You obviously have NO trust ,communication or honesty in your relationship. And I’m a firm believer that when someone shows you who they are you should believe them. You feel slighted because of what you found on his phone he should feel slighted because you violated his privacy doesn’t matter what you found if you wouldn’t violated his privacy you wouldn’t have found it
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its a damn pornstar, least its not the neighbor 
I’am making over $196 an hour working online with 2 kids at home. I never thought I’d be able to do it but my best friend earns over $ 16942 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The potential with this is endless
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Go to counseling and heal yourself, for yourself.
And either explain you expect your boundaries to be respected or move on.
What you allow is what will continue.
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It’s easier said than done, I struggle myself with insecurities. However, loving yourself is what you really need. Like fully admiring who you are as a complete individual. So you have small breasts, what’s wrong with them? Nothing at all.
Just because she looks differently than you, doesn’t mean he may love you less.
Be confident in yourself, it will get you a very long way.
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I know it sucks that you aren’t happy with your small breasts; but it’s not your boyfriends job to make you comfortable with your body. That’s your job. You can’t compare yourself to everyone else out there and then wonder why you are down on yourself. How can you expect anyone to love you for you, when you don’t even love you for you? He’s your boyfriend, he enjoys being with you or he wouldn’t be with you. People are like food, just because you love cupcakes, doesn’t mean you don’t love cake too. I am not sure why you’d be invading the privacy of your boyfriend by going through his phone in the first place. What he find if he went through your phone? I think there’s a lot more going on that just pictures of pornstars on your BF’s phone. I think there’s a lack of respect, communication, and tirade of other things. It’s probably best you walk away and do some self reflecting and learn to love yourself before you go jump into another relationship or you are always going to end up with hurt feelings.
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The right one will love every single part of you. If he is searching what he wants in porn then clearly he isn’t the one
Oh Man I would just ask him not to save them on his personal phone lol a lot of men watch porn it has nothing to do with you unless you’re sex life has suffered because of it. I have small breast too but I know big breast are nice to look at it I like looking at them too
Leave him and work on yourself. Gain confidence, find support groups, learn to be happy with yourself and what you have without the influence of a man. Once you’re happy with yourself, you’ll stop trying to meet people half way and lowering your expectations. They either meet you all the way or not at all. You’re beautiful, do not waste your time convincing someone else of your worth and beauty.
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Soooo he’s basically looking at boob porn. Leave it alone. A lot of people do that. Let him fantasize. At least it wasn’t the neighbors boobs or a co-worker or the cashier at the gas station… thats when you worry. Your not happy with your boobs start a savings account for new ones so you feel better about you. Oh yeah and P.S. stop going through peoples phones that’s their personal space.
Awh babe it’s just porn, go get yourself some lingerie and wear it for yourself if not for anyone else. Learn to love your body, little titties are great too chick, I’m in the committee with you proudly 
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Love yourself and be happy with yourself.
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It’s a man thing, they all look at porn and naked girls… tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t respect you, leave
“How can I move past my girlfriend invading my privacy and going through my phone? How can I trust her in the future?”
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Idk boob job. Therapy so you likeypur body. Idk leave him if you’re not happy ???
Why are you going through his phone?
If you don’t trust him, why are you with him??
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Girl its a pornstar. Not a co-worker or a best friend
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Seriously leave him, if he know you don’t like it and he still doing it. Clearly he feels there are WAY hotter girls to get off to. That might hurt to read but it’s true. Leave bro leave now. He probably watches so much porn behind your back, you don’t want a man Cumming to another female. He don’t love you, you’re probably just easy for him to hold on to. Truth hurts.
Lmfao all these women tryna make their selfs feel better about their own husband’s “it’s just a pstar it’s just tits, he don’t even know her” yall sad. Real sad.
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You have a small breast, girl consider yourself lucky! You don’t need to wear a bra!!! (In this heat) not wearing a bra is a power. 
LOVE YOURseLF
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Wow common sense really isn’t a thing anymore is it.
First did you own image issues. Then get in a stable relationship.
Done…
You can’t change a man, he will change for you if he wants but since this isn’t the first time obviously that’s not happening.
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I’am making over $130 an hour working online with 2 kids at home. I never thought I’d be able to do it but my best friend earns over $ 18854 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The potential with this is endless
Chk This—>> https://AmazingJobs1204.pages.dev/
trust is earned. its going to take some time. let him know this is the last time. that this is a deal breaker for you. then commit to your deal.
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Majority of men look at women’s photos or porn. Not all but most. It bothers some women, and some arent bothered by it. If it makes you uncomfortable than have a discussion with him about it. Set the expectations of your boundaries and if those boundaries are crossed than I recommend moving on. Every person had their own set of boundaries etc. Your feeling insecure, some counseling for yourself and taking time for your own self care and reflection would also be a good step. Hopefully this helps.
Leave, he’s lied and will continue to lie. He doesn’t care about your feelings, he doesn’t deserve you.
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Why are we normalizing a mans unhealthy habits? It’s call boundaries and expectations people. No wonder why successful marriages are few and far between these days.
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Smaller the 
grapes sweeter the wine bet I like mine small
Leave him I have small boobs
Get out before he ruins your self image.
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I’m sorry baby girl I’ve been in those exact shoes and it hurts so bad 
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Don’t judge yourself because of someone else. Love yourself because of you!!!
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It’s a picture, big deal (no pun intended) it’s a damn picture. Stop breaking your own heart. Respect his privacy and learn to love yourself. If big boobs were a big deal he wouldn’t have given you a second look. Sounds like you’re having some pretty hurtful conversations in your own head and blaming him for it.
I completely understand what you’re saying and how you’re feeling. I’m small also and my ex would do the same and it would always be women with bigger boobs which yes had me also feeling like I wasn’t enough. Honey, don’t let him have you feel like that. My fiance has me feeling like I am enough. I am more happier with myself now than I have ever been. Some men do not realize what mental and emotional state they put us in and to be honest, women who doesn’t have that problem doesn’t understand it either. Dump his sorry rump and find someone who RESPECTS you!
A) if he makes you feel bad why are you with him?
B) if you’ve already discussed this boundary and he keeps breaking it why are you with him?
C) if you don’t trust him and need to search his phone why are you with him?
And finally:
D) WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?
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People that fuck up doing shit like that gives people reasons not to trust them. Duh. But whatever.
A) you’re insecure. You’re beautiful the way you are. Learn to be strong and love yourself for what you are. B) don’t feel pressured to fit society’s image of what is beautiful and C) guys like boobies. Guys look. You went through his phone… looking for trouble. If looking at boobies is the worst thing he does? Absolutely have a conversation, but you need to gain confidence in yourself rather than asking others to change for you. Good luck sweetie!
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If you’re not happy in your relationship…leave. Hes not going to change .
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He’s not going to change… more fish in the sea. Don’t waste time.
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Then just leave him dam 
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Dont make it about you
Boys like porn
Let’s not make it allllll about you
Find someone that makes you feel beautiful
.they’re out there
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Idk I think you may be over reacting. This is Comming from someone who has strange anxiety triggers . Like is he dating other women ? Cheating? Going through his phone and finding porn star pics should have showed you you can trust him the fact you think you can’t over it is strange to me. Men likeing something doesn’t mean they are looking to replace you. My husband loves pizza but if he is chowing down a burrito he isn’t thinking “this isn’t pizza I’m sad,” lol . I’m not a fan of going through phones generally shows there is no combination or trust but I also “get it” on occasion
I want to give advice but im not sure how old you guys are… if you are teens or if he is a young man (like early 20s) it could just be a phase… lots of younger men do this but some older men do too. None of this matters really though bc if it bothers you he should want to respect you
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I get crap for this… but… if it’s a porn star or movie star. Who cares. She ain’t gonna be knocking on his door for a bj… so let him.
What’s the difference in a lady watching 50 shades or broke back mountain but a guy can’t watch porn. Sit down and watch it with him.
If you don’t feel enough move on sis!!! In my experience all guys are gonna check girls out in some way shape or form. Even if we don’t see it first hand. My husband is a very big gentleman about things but let’s face it even the best of them look when their friends hit them and theirs some tail walking down the street or they get board and google boobs or some dumb shit for giggles.
I say work on being happy and more secure with yourself. Once I started feeling way way better about me I stopped giving a shit what anyone else looked at or did as long as I was treated right and appropriate that’s all that mattered . I also make it a habit to do my best to make sure he has the same all the things he needs 2 in the sexual rhelm. If I’m not taking care of him of course he’s gonna look and take care of himself
Please also stop looking for stuff to cause fights and issues with yourself. Know your worth and find your self and fix your crown.
Just going to say I personally think you should be alone and build your self confidence back up, go where your energy feels good.
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He shouldn’t be looking at other girls period it’s disrespectful and if your in a committed to there should be no secrets and hiding things and she can trust him all she wants doesn’t mean he will be truthful and not hide stuff. If a man truly loves someone and it’s the person your meant to be with he wouldn’t be gawking and lusting after other women period. It’s called honesty, being faithful, loyal and respectful . Have people forgotten morels these days. And when your married you don’t keep things private unless your being dishonest or it’s a surprise for your wife or husband like something you ordered. And people are probably going to disagree but to each there own . Porn and crap like that shouldn’t even exist because people shouldn’t be watching it if they are in a relationship. And people wonder why a lot of women like me and the original poster have insecurities and don’t feel good enough. And it still hurts her to see her guy lusting over someone else . It’s wrong. Your beautiful inside and out this is what I tell myself someone can be very beautiful on the outside and cold hearted and snooty stuck up rude snob on the inside that’s why to me appearances don’t matter if they going to judge you based off your appearance and not give you a time or day to know you than they aren’t worth your time and real man will see what’s inside first and love you for you not your looks but your soul and personality only man child or a boy aka man that needs to grow a pair act like dogs towards women and lust over other girls when they have a one already. And if this offends anyone oh well I’m not here to please others and sugar coat anything and for people on here leaving laughing emoji are you elementary or middle school age or are you grown women don’t laugh at others who come on here for help or advice it’s rude and bullying and making fun of her. Do you need to go back to kindergarten and learn be nice if you wouldn’t want others to say or do that to you than don’t do it to others this is real life not mean girls movie. That is all .
First of all, if you feel you have to sneak into your boyfriend’s phone to snoop on him, you have trust issues or he has infidelity issues or you both have relationship security issues and if that is the case, neither of you should even be in a relationship until you do a bit of self worth work on yourselfs. Lack of trust or the need to sneak around looking for ways to catch him doing something wrong is a terrible way to live. If he’s proven to you that you can’t trust him in the past and you’re still finding things that upset you, he’s not the guy for you. Just remember these kind of issues follow you so either stay alone or find someone you can have confidence in. Jealous and lack of trust are relationship killers 
you set standards for yourself and if those aren’t your standards for a man…Run
If he doesn’t want to change or fix the issues you have, he ain’t the one
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If he can’t respect how you feel, boy bye. Fk what these doormats have to say
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If you’ve had this talk w him and he still refuses to respect you then it’s time to go. You don’t deserve to feel this way. Real love trusts and respects the other.
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How is it disrespecting you? Men like to look. He isn’t plastering the pictures up over your bed. Let it go.
It’s porn , it’s not a nudes of a girl he’s chatting to . It’s unfair for you to control what your man’s allowed to like because of your insecurities
y’all that are laughing are ridiculous.
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Put picks of guys with big dicks on your phone for him to find. Taste of his own medicine 
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Men look at other women …all do not just yours… Send him a sexy pic of yourself.
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Leave…it’s about more than the porn
Leave then. Your wasting his and your time.
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I have small breast. They look like mosquito bites. It’s hasn’t changed since jr high school, except when I gain weight. The point is I see my man’s phone. He lets me borrow when my phone dies. I like to take pictures of myself so he can have me on his phone. I do see some pornstars and I know because he showed me and we google. I do tell him how I feel. He said “baby don’t get surgery, I love you for who you are!” You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. Yes. It gave me confidence but I tell myself I need to take care of my body and love my body. Take a bubble bath. Put lotion. Light a candle. Write your goals and affirmations. Try to work out! I even looked up some information on breast pumps but that’s down the line maybe. Some are $600, can you believe that? I don’t have that money. However it’s better spending 1000 dollars on boob job and what if my body can’t handle? What am I telling myself? Nothing against boob jobs. To each their own. If you are in a budget, work out for breast. I hear the have massages too. All I’m saying is take care of yourself. Love yourself. You mention you talked to your man how you feel. Have you told him what makes you feel comfortable or not when he touches you? Men are not mind readers. I’m just saying. For example I like when my man twist or bites my nips. When he puts his whole hand there’s a lot of space when he thought he can curve his hands, you might as well give ‘‘em a hot five! 
. I’m not saying your feelings aren’t valid. Men are going to look. They think differently than females.
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get a new boyfriend 
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There are lotions out there that can help
Well just know men are visual creatures and kind of dumb and porn doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be with you. If he is still interested in you than he’s into you. Tell him how you feel about what he’s doing.
If it bothers you, trust me it won’t stop. It’ll just have you building resentment. Insecurities we all have them, and learn to accept them and love them. But just know it’ll always be in your mind, if you can live with that then continue the relationship. If not, let it go
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Leaveeeee. He obviously doesn’t care about your feelings.
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He’s not responsible for your insecurities… that said if he has previously agreed to stop then this is an issue of the masses. If he told you he would stop and didn’t he has zero respect for you and that needs to be fixed! 
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If your enough and its true love he wouldn’t be looking elsewhere. Should be right in front of him.
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Put some pics of ripped men on your phone. See if that bothers him. 2 can play that game.
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