Let her use tampons 
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Also, for those worried about toxic shock…while dangerous the occurrence is incredibly rare. In the late 70s / early 80s there was a specific brand and materials that increased the risk 6 to 8 times what was typical. Even since many people have had a heightened concern based on lack of accurate information. If you teach a child how to use tampons and assist with reminders to change them during the first few uses a 13 year old should be able to manage and the risk of TSS needn’t be a major concern.
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My daughter was 12 when she was using tampons.No issues and no toxic shock syndrome.She is 13 going to be 14 on July 27th.Just make sure she changes them .
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Would it really hurt for her to wear tampons just this once??? Most of us were wearing them all the time by her age, especially high school, we are just fine and healthy adults right now. And what the heck is a period app??!!
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And if you’re worried about tss then hello be a mom and teach her the correct way to use them. I can’t believe this is even a ?
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I just bought period panties for my daughter who just had her first period. They also have period bathing suits. There are several companies who sell these products online. (My daughter did not want to use tampons. It grossed her out. She has ADHD and some sensory issues.)
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Are you the only one uncomfortable with her using tampons? If so… That’s wrong. Educate her. Don’t scare the poor girl and make an uncomfortable situation worse. This post seems like it’s all about YOU an what makes YOU uncomfortable about your daughters period. SMH.
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I totally get it my 12 year old is terrified of tampons and cups and we had that problem a couple of months ago I did a little research and discovered this period swimsuits. They worked really well for my daughter https://www.rubylove.com/teen-period-swimwear?gclid=CjwKCAjwiLGGBhAqEiwAgq3q_r0_O2iyfMDb-1zmTDbykxBfY2cE95w7Iaw4msDnxDKCDILhqw3jIRoCp-IQAvD_BwE
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You could try a period safe bathing suit or get the leak proof underwear she can wear under her suit Or as bottoms! My daughter started her period at 10 and now at 13 is still terrified of tampons. To each their own people! Alot of young girls are not comfortable with tampons. These negative comments are ridiculous. Stop judging momma’s who have questions! Parenting is a learning experience!
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My daughter used them when she was 12 while we were on holiday, just get her to practice before you go. The ones that are in the plastic coating are easier to use than the ones in the paper coating. Im sure there called tampax compak. Theres nothing sexual about using tampax if thats what you find weird, it just means that they can go swimming without worrying. I always told my daughter when it was time to change it and she wore a pad at bedtime.
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Let her decide. Its her period.
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What about the “period panties” Thinx and there’s another one i can’t think of right now
If you’re willing to let her use a cup what’s the difference in tampons? Both are inserted in vagina…I would show her how and let her decide. It’s her body, give her the options and let her decide.
The cup is so much easier. They do make smaller ones for teens, if you go that route I’d suggest getting it now so she has time to get used to it. There is definitely a learning curve. But the cup is much more convenient to use. You do need to wash it out (if you can’t use your soap cause you’re not home, you can just use water until you get home) but I don’t think it’s gross? You deal with your period blood either way. It’s normal lol that being said, you do need to buy special soap, don’t just use hand soap on it because that can cause infections.
I wore tampons when I was 12 and up, I played hockey so it was the most feasible option to not make a mess during practice and games.
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You dont feel comfortable with her using tampons, not to sound rude but it’s not your body. I have a daughter, she wanted to go swimming with her friends at that age. She used a tampon and has never looked back. Just tell her all the warnings and what not. She is 13 right old enough to make her own choice.
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Her body, her choice. It’s not about you, rather her and what she is comfortable with.
Everyone throwing the “my body my choice” deal around need to realize that not all 13 year olds are mentally mature enough to know the severity of TTS if they don’t change a tampon often enough. As her mother, the OP is within her rights to say that she doesn’t feel comfortable with HER child using something. If you don’t know the whole situation then learn to not pass judgement. She asked for help WITHOUT tampons being an option, not for everyone to judge her for protecting her child by doing what she feels is best for her.
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Her body and maybe tampons work great for her. That’s why we have options because we are not all the same.
My doctor gave me tablets which delay the period…end of holiday I stopped taking them and period came back…
I’m from UK and over here we have tablets that you can take every day whilst on holiday that will stop your period until you get back from holiday and you stop taking the tablets. Do you have anything like that there
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Back in the day there were no pads or any fancey we used tore up sheets and had to wash them out for next time
There is a pill that your doctor can prescribe that can delay your period. I’m not sure the doctor would prescribe it somebody so young but could be worth a try to make for a more pleasant vacation. I’ve used it a couple times over the years because my period was expected at holiday time. As soon as you stop taking the pill your period comes back within a couole days. Good luck and enjoy your vacation!
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Ruby love period swim wear. My teenager loves it. Order the extra pad inserts. We didn’t when I ordered the swim bottoms and should have. Kinda pricey but just might save vacation
I dont use tampons, haven’t found one that doesn’t leave me irritated down there. When my daughter started hers we went to Google! Tampax has a “how to” video that is very good and very helpful as my 13 year old now uses them when she wants to do the things she can’t do with a pad. Her advice if u go this route is plastic applicators! Lol! Also if her period is really heavy and she’s extra crampy maybe consider talking with your doctor and putting her on the pill? We did it about 3 months ago now and it’s really helped her! It’s also helped clear up some of her acne!
First speak to her doctor so she could advice your daughter the best choice. They also sell tampons that are safe for her.
Get comfortable with tampons. It’s not about your comfort anyhow, it’s about your daughter’s. For the period pain, Advil gel caps and presto! The cervical caps are fine for mature women who know their bodies…but for a 13 year old, hmm…not the best idea. I wish MY mom had told me about advil. I had to suffer in pain.
Let her use tampons. My daughter did at that age with no problems. She just had to figure how to get them in. As I remember I wasn’t home and one of her friends told her what to do over the phone.
Mother to mother as I have a 16 year old daughter, teach her about pads, tampons, the cup, and the period panties. It’s not your decision or choice. It’s hers! She needs to be comfortable and she also needs the education and the facts, not what you want! It’s not about you, nor is it your body or choice. I understand where you are coming from. I didn’t want my daughter using tampons so early (she started her period at 9 years old), but it was my job to educate her on all her choices and let her make the decision on what was best for her. She used tampons while swimming or during softball practices and games, them showered and wore pads. Now, she uses whatever she wants. While I had a hysterectomy and don’t have periods, I still make sure to buy her pads, tampons and the cup. She has no interest in the period panties. I’m ok with it because I taught her to change often (hell maybe too often) and educated her in doing what’s best for her.
The key here is, “I don’t feel comfortable with her wearing a tampon.” How does she feel? Or does that not matter? This is a ridiculous question
Thats just life it’s going to happen for the next 40 years.
Give her some blue to drink it will change the date the period for a later date
She won’t enjoy it now that you put her personal business on Facebook
Get tablets of your go to stop her period for 2 weeks G P not go
I don’t think should be on Facebook. That’s kind of a personal problem.
What is wrong with my Facebook
Are we so pathetic, that we have to post stupid scenarios about someone’s hygiene on Facebook?? For fuck sake ! I’d prefer you post a picture of trump!
Don’t put this stuff online!!! It should be private!!!
Period cups sound nasty
Not interesting for FB