Too much time together
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Testosterone replacement probably needed.
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A lot of males feel like less of a man when “it” doesn’t work and they have low T. It’s not you. That’s something you have to brush away really quickly. This isn’t something you can force him into fixing, either. He has to realize that it’s ok to experience this type of feeling and these bodily changes. He’s not 20, 30, or hell… even 40 anymore! Testosterone isn’t just going to help in the bedroom… it’s going to help a lot of places. It’s going to help him feel better. Sleep better. Bring some strength back. Provably lose some weight. I think sitting down and discussing it will help, but if you bombard him with it, it’ll push him away.
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Maybe he is embarrassed about it not working. But maybe sit down and talk to him about maybe seeing a doctor
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Make an appointment for a urologist.
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Is he taking medication for blood pressure or cholesterol? They can have a negative effect. It is also normal for men his age to have problems and he can go on medications or take herbs to help.
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I’m having the same issue with my fiance, except he lives two hours away and we only get to see each other on the weekends, if work permits. The only solution I can come up with is to become celibate. It will spare my fiance’s feelings, and hopefully help me get over and accept what life used to be. 
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Sounds like he is embarrassed and is not sure who or what kind of doctor to see. Start out with your family doctor and let them guide you on. ED is so common now a days. It could be as simple as a hormone imbalance. Go to the doctor together and be supportive. You are a couple so it is both your problems not just his. Let him know that. Good luck. I’ll be praying for you. 
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Damn he is 67. give him a break back off a little i have been married to husband gor 29 years .Im 8 yrs older than him we have a mutal understanding he has health problems so do he still works but we still enjoy each others company no sex neither of us are interested in it just each other
Aww bless him he might feel less of a man about it hopefully he will see a doctor about it and get some tests done there’s absolutely nothing to feel ashamed of there’s plenty of people that are dealing with that problem he’s not alone hopefully in time your sex life will eventually be back to how it once was
Hear me out…maybe he has some secret fantasy or lifestyle that hes afraid to bring up? I’ve seen it before. Maybe you guys could see a counselor before he goes and gets pricked and prodded 
In the case that I saw, it was 12 years into a relationship before the man told his wife he wanted them to bring people into the bedroom and start swinging and just jump into the lifestyle. His penis wasnt broken, he just wanted more/different than what he had.
He definitely needs some testosterone. Nothing to be ashamed of. Happens with age. Make a Dr appointment for him.
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Cut back on time together, that way it’s more cherished when you are together. No offense to you but he could be burnt out. Couples burn out happens more often than spoke about, where the time you spend together can be to much and get old
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Maybe it doesn’t work and maybe he doesn’t want to fix it because maybe he has a lot of internal emotions about it. And maybe that’s why he won’t touch you. Maybe he feels embarrassed. Or like his manhood is gone. Men are taught to hide their feelings so often times they do things out of emotions and we never know they even had the emotions to begin with.
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I’m 57 he’s 64. Married 17 years. Same. No sex for over a year. “It doesn’t work anymore” - yes there is some truth to that. But he has gotten back in to sex once a month. Works fine. I’d rather no sex at all. For me it hurts. Lubed and all. Hurts and very uncomfortable every single time. I don’t even like the one a month. I dread it.
Because it f#%*n Hurts 
I think you two are together too much… I love my fella but I couldn’t be with him 24/7…
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Well… could be a medical issue, could be an emotional issue… and wow 24 hours a day… that’s a lot… sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder… you have to create an environment for desire, and seems a bit lacking …
Also, maybe just a down and dirty , heart to heart talk… pick a night - talk about sex…likes, dislikes, fantasies… find that connection again…
He is only 67, too young to not have sex. If he doesnt want to take the pill there are alternatives.
Maybe he’s just hit “meh” stage and just isn’t feeling it
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You are spending too much time together and are suffering from relationship burnout. Take a break every now and then and you will look at each other differently.
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I had to go to my husbands doctor with him and tell what is going on because he wouldn’t. After I did that he was able to talk to them. Didn’t help much. They gave him viagra. Prostrate problem getting worse.
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Does he have diabetes? He needs to see a doctor!
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Many men develop Prostate problemsat that age. Sometimes fixable, sometimes goes to cancer. Best to have it checked, and soon.
Does he have a secret porn addiction? That sometimes causes issues. Especially if at first things seemed fine. You have to do a process of elimination.
He probably has tried… alone… encourage him to see Dr.
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I would just have a long talk with him and tell him how much you love and want him still and that if he’s willing, you guys can see about options together. I would assure him that’s it’s nothing to be embarrassed about and no fault of his own, just something that happens to some men as they age. I really wish you guys the best and I hope everything works out for the two of you 
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Some men r real nutters if something happens to it.
An no y’all don’t spend too much time together that’s your husband for crying out loud … he probably needs to see a doctor but also tell him how you feel most importantly and also be supportive of him cause it’s normally embarrassing for men.
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Low Testosterone needs to see a doctor
Testosterone shots for him
Id have him see a dr if he thinks it doesn’t work
At 67 it doesn’t work unless he gets pills…for most anyway
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