There is no safe zone you can miscarry at any time.
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They are common- BUT: Just because your cousin has lost a baby-. Donât expect that it will happen to you.
My mom didnât have any- that I know of. And my aunt had 14. Iâve had 4. 2-3 of them were caused by my oldest s father being abusive- But I have a 5 year old, a soon to be 2 year old and due with my third a week after my seconds birthday.
You will do fine with your baby. Your already doing better by worrying about who will be around and how you will do.
Donât worry about having them. Itâs different with every woman and how her body works. Make sure to take 2 prenatalâs, one for the baby, one for you. Only taking one gives baby nutrients, but the baby is also taking from you as well, so the extra pill or gummy helps. Gummies are better because if you have morning sickness and nausea, the gummies donât affect you as much as the pills will. Make sure to exercise. Not extensively, but like up until youâre 6 months, you can do all your normal activities and bike ride, etc. After 6 months, youâll get slower in your activities and it might be harder to walk but you wanna stay active, helps with birthing.
Iâm also not saying donât think about having a miscarriage, because itâs possible but low risk in most women. What I can tell you is that if you are worried, make an appt with an OBGYN. I have one who could probably take a look and see what your risk average is, if thatâs what you need. But overall, youâll be fine, youâll do great, no need to worry. Donât stress out. Everything is gonna be fine. 
I read somewhere that 60% of women suffer miscarriages. However, try not to stress too much. That is why it is best not to tell too many people till 15 weeks or so.
Miscarriages are quite common. I had 2 live births and one miscarriage months ago! Donât stress 
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Unfortunately miscarriages are very common. Even a healthy women can experience it. Your cousin may have underlying reasons for hers. Once you go in for your first scan it does help elevate some of the fear⌠but Iâm a worrier and just develop new fears with each phase as a mom 
1 in 4 pregnancies end up miscarrying. Iâve had 5 pregnancies and 2 of those were miscarriages
I had 5 or 6, I forget. I have 1 child.
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There really is no âsafe zoneâ. Miscarriages can happen at any point. Iâve had more than one miscarriage myself, including my youngest sonâs twin. That being said, you canât go there in your head, or youâll torture yourself the entire nine months. Be happy, plan as though itâs a done deal.
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You need stress alleviation, so here it goes. RELAX! Every woman is different and every pregnancy she has is different. The fact you are already worried proves youâre going to be an awesome mom! RELAX AND ENJOY.
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I canât answer on the statistics of miscarriage but I didnât let myself get super excited until 10 weeks with my first child. Then I thought because I had a healthy pregnancy and child, that Iâd be safe from miscarriage, WRONG. I then got pregnant 2 years after my first and I let myself get way too excited⌠we almost told our family right away but I ended up miscarrying on Christmas Day.
Iâm now 20 weeks pregnant and Iâm still super worried.
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My best advice
Please donât stress to much baby can feel everything you feel
And with the good mom
Part I grew up in a very very toxic environment
My mother is a pill and alcoholic
Mentally unstable to care for children
And my father is a dead beat dad
So I grew up in a very bad places
Tell this day my mother had not changed in fact stelling money from me and belongings
Recently I had to cut all ties with my mother and sister
Because of there toxic
Unloved cold hearts
My mom was so bad to me I didnât know until I was a adult and a mother my self
Realizing all the wrong my mother has done to me
My mother and sister think Iâm a bad mother and wonât raise my children right
Hereâs what I have to say
Iâm a wonderful mother
My child is growing up knowing what love is
What a worm heart and hugs are
He knows so much its crazy
Life is good now that iv left my toxic family behind
If it bugs that much worried you will Rais your kids like you mom did
This is our chance to do better to make our childrenâs life better then we ever had
Thatâs my goal is to make sure my child doesnât grow up the Way I did 
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I just had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago at 6 weeks after trying for 6 years to concieve. I had a normal first pregnancy with no issues except 9months of morning sickness. He was 8lbs 3oz at birth and was born 1 day before his due date. Iâve learned its very common and so many women around me have had miscarriages but a lot also had successful pregnancies after. Dont stress yourself out!
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Common unfortunately but donât dwell on the what if. I did and ruined my experience. Do what you need to do as far as rest and healthy choices and the rest is just not controllable
1 in 4 women will miscarry, but itâs honestly even more than that. A lot of early miscarriages happen before you could ever know or have a positive pregnancy test. Iâve had 8 miscarriages personally, all early 3-6weeks and within days of a positive pregnancy test.
While miscarriages are common, I wouldnât stress or expect it to happen⌠donât manifest that. Manifest a strong healthy pregnancy. Put that positive out there, you WILL have a strong and healthy pregnancy. A strong and healthy child.
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I have 2 children and i had one miscarriage 2 years ago. Every person is different. Do not stress about it. Just relax and enjoy this experience
Just breathe love. Her miscarraiges dont mean you willâŚand any toxicity in your family doesnt pass down if you raise your baby different. Stress wont help you. Take care of yourself and live your life normally.
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Try not to worry. Enjoy this time and your developing baby. If a miscarriage happens, it is often because the little one was not healthy, so wasnât meant to be. Look back at the things you would have changed about your mother and resolve to do those things better for your child. Good luck, I hope all goes well for you.
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Donât think about and worry about a miscarriage. I know easier said than done but right now you should keep yourself healthy and stress free. Youâll be a great momma. Use your previous family life as your inspiration to be the best mom you can be. Congratulations! 
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the fact that youâre worrying about being a good mom and wanting whatâs best for your baby proves that you already are a good momma. Congratulations 
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Iâve had 2 miscarriages. 5 children. Try not to stress about it. I didnât tell anyone I was pregnant with my son until I was well past 12 weeks.
Very common. Some women have them so early and donât even know. Unfortunately.
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Miscarriages are 1 in 4. But more then likely higher bc a lot of miscarriages happen before you even know your pregnant. Donât stress yourself out about it. There is nothing you can do if thatâs whatâs going to happen. So stressing about something that may or may not happen is just putting stress on ur baby. Use ur past as a way to change ur future. Be that mom that you always wanted. You already are aware of ur family history and donât want to repeat it⌠thatâs the first step in being the best mommy you can be. Good luck to you.
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Try not to worry. Stress can cause miscarriages. Just make sure youâre eating right and staying healthy. Iâm sure baby will be fine
The fact that youâre asking and caring so much shows what a good mom you will be! Try so hard to relax and see your OB 
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Just breathe. Try not to worry.
I have had 3 boys. 4, 2, and 2 weeks. No major issues with any of them. But I had that fear every time. I just focused all my thoughts on the excitement, and then positive. You should see an OBGYN around 8 weeks, that will ease your mind a little. 
Sadly miscarriages are fairly common and thereâs nothing that can be done to prevent it however that being said itâs not always likely that someone will experience one I personally experienced a miscarriage after 12 weeks but I was also pregnant with triplets and my body couldnât handle it so I lost two of my babies
I had a miscarriage last year. I lost my baby at 6 weeks, due to tons of stress and my ex bf was physically abusive.
Just because your cousin had a miscarriage, doesnât mean you will. Donât stress about it and you will be okayâ:slightly_smiling_face:
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Every 1/4 women have one. Iâve had 2 and my mom had 2 and my aunt had some too.
While miscarriages are common, they arenât common for everyone if that makes sense. Itâs normal to worry though. Iâve had 3 pregnancies and never had a miscarriage (that I know of; chemical pregnancy is common and anyone can have one and not know it). Once you hear the heartbeat chances drop but it can happen anytime. Just donât stress about it unless you have a good reason to believe you could end up having one.
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Iâm an adoptive mom. Lots of worry too. Lots of what ifs. Plan but donât buy. Tell no one so there are no questions. Enjoy
You will do your best. You already know what not to do. Good touch and lots of love. Know no one is perfect. Do your best
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Ive had 2âŚbut i also have 4 healthy happy kids.idk how common they are but not enouph so to assume you are prone because of others.its very common to be fearful in the 1st trimester.
The fact that you are worried about being a good mom means you already are one!!
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Sadly 1 in 4 end up in miscarriage. But you shouldnât stress yourself about it & you have already proved your a good mum being so concerned xx all the best xx
The fact that youâre that concerned about being a good mom and aware of the family flaws youve observed is an excellent indicator that you are going to try very hard to be a good mom and thatâs all anyone could ask for.
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1 in 4 pregnancies end in a miscarriage.
Iâve had 4 pregnancies. 1 ended in a late miscarriage @ 16wks 4d. I dont believe there is a âsafe zoneâ.
Ive had a total of 10 miscarriages.
really should make an appointment to begin prenatal care so you can get vitamins and get checked out. theyâll tell you for sure how far along you are and provide your due date. its important for you and baby to start getting that care so you can minimize any issues that may come up later .
I donât know the exact number but years ago when I was pregnant my gyno had a sheet I filled out when I was pregnant and it asked what questions I had. One I asked was how common are miscarriages and my doctor told me they are common. I think everyone worries about them at least a little. But if it happens it happens, unfortunately not much you can do about it. Just try to think positively because worrying wont help.
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if you want what is best for your baby, if you truly are pregnant, then that is what you will do,
Iâve had eight miscarriages, one live birth, and currently pregnant.
My mom miscarried her first baby. I had two older sisters that never had any problems, but I miscarried my first ⌠after years of trying to conceive. After the miscarriage, the Dr did a biopsy, and determined I was lacking progesterone, which is what helps the baby âstay putâ in the womb. He said I had probably had several miscarriages, due to my history of very heavy and irregular periods, and just didnât realize it. I had to take pregnancy tests every month, and as soon as I had a positive result, I had to go see my Dr and start taking progesterone shots. I now have 2 grown sons.
I would say to you that if you have concerns, talk with your Dr ⌠get checked as soon as you can, and talk to him about all of your concerns. There might be nothing to worry about ⌠but talking with him will certainly help ease your fears.
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Itâs up to you to make the change. If you were raised in a toxic family. Make your family is not raised that way but way better. You got this !!
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1 in 4 women so very common
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If you already worried about the health and safety of that baby, even if the worry is about you maybe not being good enough, then you already have the heart and mindset of a WONDERFUL mother and your child is lucky that you were picked to be his mom 
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The 1st 12 weeks of pregnancy are the most common for miscarriage but in actuality something can happen anytime during pregnancy. Just take care of yourself. If you have questions or concerns reach out to your doctor thatâs what they are paid for! Always be safe rather than sorry! Good luck!
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You can learn a lot from your family. How you want to be or how you donât want to be. You choose. Prayers on a safe and healthy pregnancy.
Worrying will only make it more likely. Relax⌠Meditate. Do whatever you need to to calm down. And having toxic family doesnât mean youâll be toxic yourself. But itâs never too late to get therapy to help guide yourself in the right direction just in case.
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Iâve had 2 miscarriages Its truly scary when you are in the waiting period. I have 2 n
Boys here on earth and the first 12 weeks had me worried the whole time. Stay positive baby dust to you
Superrr super common but usually in the first few weeks
I had 3 kids, then I had 2 miscarriages within 6 months of each other
Dont stress out first and foremost. Get yourself in to see an ob/gyn. Once you feel less nervous. Decide if cutting ties with certain family members is best. I cant tell you what to do but in my experience with a toxic mom, i had to do just that and my child is better bc of it.
In the end youll know what to do for your baby. Good luck.
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The safe zone is after 21 weeks
There is no safe zone in pregnancy⌠However its said 1 in 4 women will suffer a lossđ Iâve had 2 healthy pregnancy, 2 loses and now pregnant with twins.
There is no way of knowing what way a pregnancy will go, all you can do is look after yourself and how for the best
Good luck on your journey
You will be an amazing mother because of the family you have. You will try and do everything in your power to make your child feel loved and cared for. I know because youâre worried about it. Also, there is no perfect mother. Just do your best.
The first 12 weeks are so scary! Try not to worry about it and just love that child. Take care of your body and take your prenatal. Maybe buy some books to read up on pregnancy and the child growing inside of you to pass the time.
My first pregnancy was a miscarriage in 2015. In 2017 I found out i was pregnant again and my son is almost 3. I had another miscarriage 2 months ago.
You can be the one to break the family history.
My husbandâs parent were alcoholics (actually depressed and self medicating with alcohol).
My husband got mental health help, and has never followed his familyâs history
Put God first bind up miscarriage in the mighty name of jesus christ of Nazareth mother love baby love all is going to b well just eat right rest at night keep active read alot of inspirational books to keep ur mine at ease talk to God about the things ur not sure about we r all his children he never leaves nor forsake us keep the faith babygirl I will keep u in my prayersâŚmy mom was diabetic my big sister is my little sister have blood pressure n I denounce it from myself I donât need any baggage just read ur bible n talk to God he will carry u⌠throughâŚprayer works just relax and watch God work âŚmanners n respect nuff love u will have a healthy baby in jesus name
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I have 4 children and I come from a very large and toxic family. I parented my children very differently from the way I was raised. You will be just fineâŚremember just because they are your family doesnât mean that you are obligated to put up with their toxic ways. Always put your children first and above the toxic traits and you will be a successful parent.
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Donât worry about things like that you will be as good as a mom as you put the effort into
Be who YOU wanted your Mother to be for you. Be a Mamma.
I didnât have the greatest mom but I learned what NOT to do. I also had the most beautiful MOTHER-IN-LAW who never missed the chance to build me up and tell me many many times What a really good mom I am. She is gone now and I miss her so much. But as others said⌠since you are stressing about motherhood, It already is showing that you will be fine. You maybe didnât have a good example to learn from but you can still learn from how your mom was and you can do better. You go girl!!! You got this! You just do your best out of love for that baby, and If you need help just go somewhere or to somebody you can trust.
Having these concern now tells me that you are going to be an AMAZING mom! Relax! Eat well! Take prenatal vitamins! I wish you all the best!
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That fact you are concerned and said what you just did speaks volumes to me. Just so you know. One day at a time Hun. You sound like you are well grounded and thank you for sharing this very lovely and personal chapter in your life.
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you need to relax. the stress isnt good for you. you will do great
Make sure you give him the best. You can regardless of family!!!
Eat well. Stay away from alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, etc. Walk and enjoy the sunshine. Spend time with people who are good for you.
Wanting to be a good Mom is a wonderful start. Your Mom is your Mom, she may surprise you. Your toxic family, youâll figure that out.
Best Wishesâ:two_hearts:
Sweetheart, youâre overthinking everything. Iâm sure everything will be fine, and the fact that youâre worried about being a good mom shows me that you will be.
If you just want whatâs best for your baby then you will be a great mum. So normal to have these feelings.
Donât worry your be perfect as a Mom
You will be fine when you see that beautiful face! Donât worry till you have something to worry about. Prayers and just enjoy
Youâre ok. Enjoy being pregnant. You canât live on what ifâs. Congratulations!!!
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Donât be too anxious, itâs not good for you or the baby! Breathe
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You donât have to be a perfect mom, just a good mom will do.
I miscarried with my first pregnancy, then had two healthy babies after that. If your family is toxic, then limit your visits with them. Youâre aware of your familyâs issues, and the effect it could have on your child already shows youâll be a caring and vigilant mom. If you want a child, go for it. And relax!!
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Stop stressing over what might happen and focus on your and your babyâs health. (Stress does no one any good). Every woman has a different experience with their pregnancy, and you can/will be a good mom because you want to be. Just look forward to your blessings.
The first thing you do and itâs not is to AVOID STRESS. Also the first trimester is when the babies brain is form make sure you eat alot of vegetables, fruits and good protein. Your life will forever change forever.
Read read asmuch as possible, a not the internet you can of course download books.
I was a very young mother and read everything about having a baby from A-Z.
Trust in God for everything.
Iâll be praying for you stay in touch.
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Every one is different. Go to doctor and discuss with him.
We are all nervous with our first pregnancy, just be the best you can be with your baby, and being aware of what has happened around you, will allow you to make the changes you need to do itâs not repeated. Just keep the faithâ:pray:
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I had 2 miscarriages over a period of 8 years with no other pregnancies. I refused to go through that again.
Go get a check up - now. Vitamins, etc. ONE CAN DIVORCE ones family if toxic. I DID. You cannot have a healthy conversation with toxic people. LIVE YOUR life.
Set up your first Dr appointment and go from there. I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy but then went on to have 3 healthy pregnancies, also some woman do have issues carrying a baby but they have health related issues. If your healthy good chance you will be fine. I have a friend who keels having miscarriages but I believe she has PCOS which makes it so much harder to have a baby. I wouldnât stress just stay calm and see when you can get in to see your dr.
1 in 4 pregnancy ends in miscarriage. Iâve had 2 miscarriages and 3 healthy babies. Unfortunately you have to have 3 miscarriages before the doctors will run test to figure out why and label you high risk. Try not to stress about it.
Miscarriages can happen at anytime. Not just at the beginning of pregnancy. Some will miscarry while others do not. Sad facts but itâs the truth.
Donât stress about a miscarriage it is just a sign that the baby was not completely formed and something was wrong. And I tell everyone that they should take parenting classes. You need classes and a license for everything else I think for something this important you should at least invest in parenting classes. Me and my husband did and I am so happy we did. And also got help along the way. So you can alway be assured you are a good mom. Make sure you get prenatal care that will help you also.
I was told 3/4 pregnancies were miscarried back in the back before instant knowledge. Just thought period was late.
Try not to think about that. I lost many , never gave up . I have a 29 year old son.
I always thought the safe zone was 16 weeks??? Just take it easy and dont do anything strenuous at all no lifting no stress!!! Doctors cant tell anything at 6 weeks its the size of a dime google what size is the fetus at 6 weeks it might say the size of an apple seed
no drinking, smoking, no junk foods. Drink lots of water, take prenatal vitamins with no dyes in them. Rest. You will be fine.
All I can say and I know that itâs hard to donât let the stress overcome you see a doctor find something that youâre interested on and try to get like a support group because they really do help good luck and I will have you in my prayers
donât worry about something that hasnât happened. go see your dr
U have the power to change the toxic cycle
As long as you feel that way,youâll make it.
You need to be taking vitamins.
Itâs time to go to the doctor Donât wait You need to start your prenatal care now
Do the opposite of mom and those around you.enjoy .worrying about everything can cause undo stress which can cause miscarriage
âI just want whatâs best for my babyâ says woman who hasnât had a prenatal check up and is using an app for medical statisticsâŚ
Go to your doctor. FB is not a free medical clinic!!
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