If she will steal money from your ATM, What other things has she took that you haven’t noticed. I would go straight away to the police, change my locks on the doors and fire her after I stopped your bank card. Once she knows you know there is no telling what she might do. I would work with a temp agency for get a replacement or maybe hire a teen til you get through finials. Sorry this gas happened to you.
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It sounds like you’re finding out too late that hiring her was not a good idea
Why does she have ur card and ur info?
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If she is on probation then don’t say a word. Get all the documentation and take it to the police. Depending on the amount it may be another felony. Let them get her. In the meantime cancel the cards and don’t allow her access. Give her cash for any needs and request receipts for “tax” purposes since you no longer will be using a card. Also, contact the bank as they might be fraud charges that you can get back via the bank.
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Wow next time set up alerts on your phone for card transactions…
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Don’t let her watch your children call the police
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Really at this point is your word against hers. You gave her your debit card and pin number willingly. She can easily say that you are just mad at her and trying to get her into trouble.
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Grow up. Fuckin get your proof call the cops report her damm I would of done beat her ass. Seriously u gave her too much access
You file a police report.
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Change ur pin number, cancel ur card, and show her the CCTV footage u have and just say “hey, let’s watch a movie” and then bam she’ll see what she did and that u know
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You take the information to the police and let them confront her. This is a no brainer. Don’t feel bad for her because she didn’t care about your feelings this entire time. The “friendship” was over the moment she shattered it by stealing from you
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Call the cops and turn her in
My daughter in law did the same
Let the police do it for you.
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No way she would be near my children. I’d go to the police and change my atm #.
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Press Charges against her
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Wait till your finals are over then confront her and if this is a hugh amount of money make the police arrest her. She is not a true friend.
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Uhhh NOW! How can u even fathom trusting someone with your child that you cannot trust with a debit card! No school, no clinical, & no test or job is worth the safety of your child! Your child comes first and if u have to fail a class/test to watch your own child do it!!! I’m in shock that you’d even consider leaving your child with someone you just called a felon! Get your nose out your book and put it into safe watching of your child!!! Plus you gave her the card.
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You said through an atm? Why did she have your card and pin? Friend or not this happened to me and I was shit out of luck because the person had the pin which is my responsibility to keep to myself for the protection of my account and funds I was out 1247$ when rent was due with 2 kids I would report it so there’s a record for her to be known to these types of behaviors BUT sadly it’s very likely you won’t ever see that money again nor will she be charged 
second thing is if you can’t trust her with a bank card how are you trusting her with your children… I’ve also cashed a cheque for a friend at the teller so they could get stuff for their kid because they didn’t have a bank account they reported the cheque stolen even though he and I were on camera him signing the cheque over to me I was on the hook for FRAUD because it was my account lost my child tax that month to pay it back…bottom line when shit Like this happens be thankful they showed their true colors and wash your hands of then because depending on the laws where you live its very unlikely anything will be done in regards to what she took from you
She have a drug problem? Crack?
Have her watch your kids for the week and then don’t pay her and tell her why when the time comes to pay. Then press charges on her.
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Don’t confront her until you have ALL of the proof in your hands. Then go to the police. She could take off in the meantime.
Definitely file charges with the police. Give them the video evidence. Report the theft to your home owners insurance.
Cancel her babysitting services. I wouldn’t confront her, I would ghost her.
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If she’s a thief, you don’t know what else she is capable of honestly, please go to the police, I don’t think you should confront her on your own
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I would tell her she could pay you back without going to police. if she won’t go to the cops
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Cancel the card & call the police, let them handle it for you.
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Figure out exactly how much she’s got you for. Don’t pay her that last $$ weekly check or two 
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She needs to go, if she can steal from you, what the hell is she doing to your kids, I’d have her there for another week, put secret house cameras up and put a lock on the bank so she cnt use it then see if she says anything to you about not getting money out of the bank, then once the week is over say you’ve already had your pay for this week and more, off you pop 
I would not leave my children in her care. Not for one more second!
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That is NOT a friend. No matter the situation a true friend would ask. How did she even get ahold of your bank card tho
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Go pick her up,take her to your place & tell her you have something for her to watch & watch her jaw drop
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Ask the bank about cameras…
Did you give her the card and pin number to use for the kids? Horrible idea. Should have just left cash. You can’t trust anyone anymore, even friends. Call the cops and have them escort her out of your home.
Maybe not give access to your account 
Why does she have the power to withdraw money from your bank card I’m assuming? That’s just asking for trouble. Yes you SHOULD be able to trust your friend. But DO NOT give people anyone your bank card. And if she will steal from you shes stealing from your KIDS! Fire her immediately and get a knew nanny. If shes lying to you about this what else is she lying about?!?!?!
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Call the cops, that’s not your friend. If she is stealing from you, don’t trust her to care for your children
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Call the cops &give them the footage & all the proof " what a low person 
She can’t withdraw funds from your account without your card ! Did you give it to her ?? She can be charged with a felony or felonies with your evidence. If you DONT press charges you are doing her a big injustice !! She broke your trust & no telling what else she’s done to you. I’d check my house for missing items !!
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Too many questions but number one, how does she have access to your card and pin???
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If u really need her get your stuff done but secure your account. Fire her as soon as Possible
File charges. There’s her confrontation
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You gave her access to your card so technically you’re at fault
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Dude, spill the juice! How did it go!! How’d you confront her??
Don’t. Dispute the charges and let the bank file the charges against her.
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Why hire a felon to watch the kids? Please explain because I can’t understand this.
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i would call the cops too. You see and hear too much crazy things that the guilty will do. Do not let her back in your house and call the cops now.
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Pffffft call the police and press charges for stealing — let her go to damn jail —- I wouldn’t waste my time “confronting” her—- byyyeree bisshhh
I would go press charges and let them confront her .
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I straight up go to the police. Try to act normal towards her she doesn’t know exactly what are doing. Don’t confront her. Even if you do you know she will probably lie about. Let the police handle it all.
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Ain’t nothing worse than a thief. You’ve got your evidence. Present it to her and cut all ties. No one should ever stoop as low to steal. Vile
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How does she have your card and PIN?
I’m just curious.
Cancel the card, report her. Get a new nanny.
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If she’s stealing from you I don’t think I’d trust her with my children! Just my opinion
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Umm my first question is why does she have your card and know you pin??
From the way this reads you already knew she was a criminal before you had her watch your kids. So leaving the card with her even to use for the kids was a big no no!
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Calculate how much has been stolen, cancel your cards, give her cash for anything the children may need, make her work a week and let her know that she will be repaying you with her weekly wage and you will be contacting the police. You won’t hear from her again. Find a new nanny that doesn’t steal.
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Pick her up and take her to the police station
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Call her probation office. She don’t appreciate what you are doing for her. She’s
disrespecting your friendship. Have her fitted for that orange jumpsuits down at the county
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Y’all saying she should make her pay you back. If she had enough money she wouldn’t have stolen it (that’s what the gif is for). Call the cops on that lowlife. Find someone else to take care of your kid. If you’re in NJ I’ll take care of your kid. Do not waste your time with an opportunist and backstabbing type of person like that. They are not your friend.
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But how did she get the pin to your card?
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Point blank. NO hints, beatin’ around the bush, etc. Sit 'em down, explain the evidence 1st, (so there’s no ‘wiggle-room’) & state JUST THE FACTS & what Ur FIRM, NON-waivering decision regarding the issue is. STICK TO Ur DECISION! No matter how hard.
Good luck!
I’m not sure if u can charge her since you’re at fault for giving all your info to her! She’ll just say it was her pay or to care for your kids
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I would confront her. If she lies, WHIP THAT ASS.
After reading some comments i honestly feel the same. Its pretty much a she said…well in this case another she said. Honestly the police wont do anything about it because you willingly gave her a card thats accessed to your account instead of a prepaid she could get her payment on. Its not a class c felony idk what “class 5” is no clue. But in this case its a nothing felony because of the fact that YOU gave her access to your card. This wouldnt even go to court because of the facts. Think about it in a legal perspective and all the circumstances and what evidence. Theres not a judge or jury that would convict her because again you gave her a card. Sorry but facts are facts. You screwed up
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How does she even have your card?
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Cancel that card NOW! Go file charges against her and find someone new to be your nanny asap!
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I would stage her set her up and confront her in the act and then get the cops involved that may you can be like really it was you huh you wouldn’t do it well it looks just like you boo that’s just mean
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Depends if you’re going to cut her some slack…
How does she have access to your atm???
If you have the footage why wouldn’t you just show her when she lied?
After u are Done with ur finals less stress for u the better
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I absolutely wouldn’t confront her myself. Let the authorities do so. You really never know what people will turn to in a moment of confrontation. Especially when its in regards to theft. If she’s bold enough to steal from you you really don’t know what else she could do. But absolutely do not allow her in your home again.
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ASAP. SHES THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HER SELF, guess she doesn’t think your smart enough to catch her.
If you give someone your card and your pin there’s nothing police or anyone can do because YOU gave her access she didn’t have to steel the pin or card of you. I’m sorry you’ve lost so much but there’s nothing that can be done about except kick her to the curb when your finished with her and tell her how low it is doing stuff like that .
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When you give someone access to your money why would you not keep track with receipts of their spending.? Why were you not matching these receipts to transactions on your account? What is truly confusing is neither you or your spouse check your bank statements on a regular basis?
Now all that being said I wouldn’t let her back in your house.
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First put a block on your account
Cancel your bank account and make a new one. Get a new card and only you have access to it.
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These are the worst kind of “friends.” Those that look you dead in the eye and tell you how much you mean to them then try and tear your world apart when your back is turned. I hope you get justice!! I may have to just live vicariously through you if you do😂
Play dumb for awhile, tell her the atm store says they will get you footage, and your waiting to hear from them. That will make her scared and maybe she will come clean
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AFTER FINALS BUT GET SOMEONE ELSE TO WATCH YOUR KIDS! They may be next 
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Cancel the card immediately. As soon as you finish your courses, find a new nanny, with a clean background check. Let her go, and tell her why. Cut all ties with her, and her mother. She is not a friend.
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Call the police. They will tell you how to handle that. She might be dangerous when you confront her
Better safe than sorry.
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You confront her when you go to pick her up… then you don’t pick her up. You fire her and end your “friendship” because she is NOT a friend at all. You could take it further and file a police report. The issue with that is, did you give her your bank card and PIN or did she steal it? If she stole it, I would definitely file a police report. She is NOT your friend.
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Why on earth does she have access to your card? I don’t get that at all. It’s your fault to the authorities. Banks will blame you for giving your info to another person. You’re 100% not allowed to do that. Good luck though, that woman is trash and I wouldn’t want that anywhere near my children.
Let the police handle it. Give them the CCTV footage, name of the store, her name, etc… also, if she has a key to your house, change the locks.
Maybe have your evidence and your husband with you. Decide what you’d like to do first. Good luck.
I’d change my pin number & show her the footage! I’d be pissed if she ssid that to my face & not being honest about it. Definitely not a friend.
First thing to do is change your password so she cant take out money. Then tell her after you finish school and don’t need her anymore
Ok…get thru finals. Get new ATM card obviously.
Tell her someone has been hacking your account, but they can’t tell you who it is😒 Finish your LAST final come home, show her all your evidence. Lie say you installed surveillance in your home because your guy was so freaked out.
Because you are her " Friend" you wanted to give her the courtesy of a heads up the whole house is now being taped because of who ever did the ATM shit.
Reason being, you got finals and you don’t want her stealing from the house.
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It’s people close to.you.
As soon as you knew you should of been searching new sitter/nanny & pressed charges on that thief & liar ! That’s no friend 
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I’d confront her ass next time at the ATM with the police. 
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Why would you give her your card? pretty stupid on your part.
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Press charges and sue for lost money too.
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My friend had given her son if your number to get into her account and the police told her that they know what they did is wrong and there’s a way that they can arrest them
I agree that the police should be involved because in the event she ends up doing something dangerous then you have proof and also protection, etc. I would find someone else to be with your kids.
Do not confront her, hand everything to the police and find someone else to look after the kids.
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Confront her with the police. Done.
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Why has she have your debit card to start with, and i would have already fired her, you are the boss say and do what you wan’t.
If she will steal from you what else is she capable of? I would no longer trust her with my children. And why did she have your bank card to begin with?
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If you don’t want to press charges… Just don’t pick her up, cut times and change your pin.
You don’t. Call the police and have her arrested
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