Completely ignoring how disgusting it is to not shower, if he literally FAKED one, then I’d put money on him having a serious psychological issue. Quite honestly, first decide if you’re willing to deal with that, if so, you have to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you’re not attacking or insulting him but you’ve noticed he avoids the shower and you want to know if there is a deeper reason. Maybe he’s afraid of water. Maybe he’s just a disgusting asshole. Never gonna find out if you don’t talk to him though.
Personally, I’d have thrown the whole man out, but you gotta make your own decisions honey.
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Wtf?! Sat on the toilet with the water running!!! This man is clearly dirty Harry! That’s disgusting, does he even brush his teeth? How do you kiss him or even touch him at this rate? How did you even fall for him to begin with? That just makes me nauseous, girl there ain’t no future with stinky…
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Tell him he smells and your no longer interested in going near him at all if he isnt going to have a proper hygiene routine. Cant imagine how his balls smell 
kudos to you for putting up with it
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Um, time.to ditch him and get a nice smelling man, if he doesnt take personal hygiene seriously why would you want to be with that,move on lovely and find a yum smelling man, pheromones and smell are a key componant in a relationship, if u smell him.and u dont get even a small amount of arousal from him, ditch the stinky bitch… yuck.you deserve better.
I don’t see how you can see a future with someone who lies about showering. Y’all need to have an open and honest conversation about why he’s not showering and how to remedy that. Sometimes, you have to put yourself first, so be ready for that.
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Desperation and loneliness are not a reason to stay with a person. If he can’t even manage proper hygiene I’m not sure what kind of future you’re seeing 
I don’t understand what kind of future you’re dreaming up without even the basics of hygiene.
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You need to re evaluate your taste in men if this is the kind of guy you can see a future with
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Be honest and straight up with him . Also…sleeping with him could potentially be hazardous to your vaginal health…so yeah, get him to properly clean himself, you don’t want dirty parts going in your lady parts
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Went through this with my husband. I finally told him whatever he’s doing in the shower ISN’T working. Rub the soap in better!! You stink!!
Idk when it started but he doesn’t stink anymore
there is no way around this. It’s a straight forward talk. Shower hygiene is a must especially if you’re having sex dirtiness will cause UTI throw your pH off… just talk don’t be awkward make it worse just straight to the point I’m concerned and this is how I feel I’m not attacking you with my feelings but we need to figure this out. If you don’t want to talk guess you could play kind games get him a bath basket of stuff then bitch when it doesn’t get used.
He could have some sort of trauma related to water😢. Do you know his upbringing? Was he abused? Did he almost drown in water?! These are all questions you should ask him if you claim you see a future with him instead of making judgements about someone you see a future with. If you see a future with this man then these things shouldn’t bother you. If it’s bothering you that much, how do you see a future with him!?
Hygiene is something that makes or breaks it w me! If I need to tell you to shower we cant be together! Take care of yourself first before you give yourself to someone! Thats just nasty and common courtesy to ur partner! AND you ALREADY hinted it to him so he def knows whats up!! Smh
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Are you 100% certain he is an adult male?? Sounds like a 12 year old with no skills. Course, ya could train him 
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Look…. If you want “shoot me between the eyes honesty…
Offer oral sex…. If lawnmower simulator is still on the tv past oral…. Leave.
Sounds shallow of me but id dump him im not teaching a grown man how to bathe and clean himself sorry but we too grown for that 
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Has he been tested for being a zombie?
If not, then most likely he has major depression (like the mental condition that should be treated by a professional, not just “being sad”, big fucking difference!) or possibly has an extreme type of ptsd type condition caused by an attempted drowning(s) when he was a child, making him deathly afraid of water… again, he needs mental professionals to help him.
If you want him to shower, maybe tell him you are sick of getting STIs so no more booty pass until he washes his sooty ass.
If he says “whatever…”, then it’s likely depression.
If he huddles into the fetal position clutching at your skirt crying, then it’s the shitty trauma from having parents/others who tried to teach him to swim using the “sink or sink harder” method, who also would wash his hair by holding his head under until the bubbles stopped. 
Finally, if he makes groaning sounds and tries to eat your brains, then congratulations! You’re a total cunt for posting such personal information on a world-wide forum instead of skipping the attention-seeking-behaviour and actually talking to the person you supposedly care about. Thanks, and don’t forget to fuck yourself!
You don’t really have much of a choice but to be straight up honest! At first when you confront him be sensitive, just say you notice that he never ever showers and that it bothers you a little bit and you do notice his smell, ask if he is okay and if there is a reason he doesn’t shower, be encouraging and firm but also sensitive, come up with a solution , tell him he really needs to shower at least a few times a week or when he starts to smell bad, compromise with him….
If that doesn’t work and he still isn’t showering and is dirty/stinky then confront him again but in a more blunt way and let him know it’s a real problem that is very bothersome, say things more directly/harshly like how unattractive it is, how much of a turn off it is, or ask him how would he feel if you stopped taking care of your hygiene! If he doesn’t compromise or make a change with you confronting him sensitively first and bluntly the second time then I’m afraid it’s something way deeper that he needs to fix….
But I personally believe the only way to solve that issue, or really any issue in a relationship is to be up front and communicate, don’t be afraid of hurting feelings, be rational and sensitive yet firm and forward.
Honestly these kind of behaviors point to childhood sexual abuse. Or maybe some other kind of trauma, but something is certainly not right.
Say oi you stink. No, its difficult but you should say babe you don’t smell so good and it’s turning me off. I just tell my boyf he stinks and needs a shower. He only stinks cause he works hard and builds up a sweat xx
He might have trauma relating to bathing from his childhood. Could have been waterboarded by a family member or something else. Just a possibility.
Just talk 2 him!! There might b a reason u don’t kno about… like me I had 2 sponge do 2 a heel busting on my right foot so I could get any water near it… doesn’t mean I’m nasty dirty, I had a medical reason… Maybe there was a traumatic experience that u don’t kno about since it’s kinda early in a relationship… i bet there is a reason, don’t Chalk him off until he says “ I don’t shower cause I’m lazy”, then that’s an issue… u can’t fix stupid or lazy…
You’re just as nasty. How do you see a future with a man who doesn’t even care about himself or his own hygiene… weird
Ewwwww how do you see a future with a person who can’t manage not to stink? No sweetie Run! Now fast!
So many harsh comments on here 
He could be on the spectrum or have some kind of depression.
You could try a spa day or swimming
Could also try jumping in the shower with him.
You could offer to do his washing and cleaning for him.
Or you can just be upfront and honest with him and ask if there’s anything you can do to help him?
Or you end it, explain why and walk away.
I have read numerous strange stories that are pretty freaky from Nameless Network. Are these real or made up? 
some of these are purely ridiculous like this one!
Three jobs. That man is tired and probably depressed.
Not taking care of himself is a sign of depression.
Really you can’t find a better man than that if he doesn’t care to take care of himself what in hell makes you think he’s going to be a good mate
Eeew gross:nauseated_face: I would have left long ago
Does he walk around grunting or maybe saying things like “braains, braaains”?
Why this same question again? Didn’t like the answers the first time?
Nope, he’s FAKING hygiene. There is no future because he doesn’t even want to take care of himself. Cut your losses and leave.
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Tell him nothing gets you more attracted to a man than when he takes care of himself and looks and smells good
Maybe he’s on drugs I’ve known some people who won’t shower while on drugs
if u see a future with him, u might as well start skipping a few showers too
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Ph all messed up aint it ?
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I have told men that I cannot stand to be around them when they stink!
Ya no personal care is a sign of depression and self worth issues. Be up front now.
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That would be too much of a no for me lol personally I’d leave
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Um this is more than just he needs to shower. Leave girl he needs a mommy to hold his hand not a woman
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Omg. Tell him to grow the hell up and take a shower or you’re OUT! That smell would have been a non starter to me. 
Dump him that old and stinky he’s not going to bathe
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Shower with him and scrub his ass lbs
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He will give u thrush if have sex with him and he’s dirty …. Tell home to have a god damn shower or it over
You gotta leave his stinky ass! He ain’t changing love! What grown man sit’s in the bathroom pretending to shower!
Take showers with him… that’ll help
your ok with having sex knowing he doesn’t shower, ah nooooo.
Eeeww!!! Tell him to scrub the creepy crawlers from top to bottom!!! He stinks!! We all feel better AND more self-confident when we are clean. Hygiene is important!!!
Oh naaa, tell him to wash cuz he stink!!! , omg have you slept with this guy??? Please say no!!! This is just teewwww much
This is very easy. Leave the dude, explanation brah you stink you nasty kid.
Lol how do you still see a future with mr. trifling , says a lot about you
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Ask him to shower with you??
Thay dick must be good to over look the smell … damn
Ask him to join you in the shower when you take a shower.
sweetie…He is dirty…He does not shower…He does not bathe…He does not wash his clothes…I had a son like this…He did not drive…so I refused to take him anywhere till he shaved, showered and put on clean clothes…He lost one job at a fantastic place because he smelled of cat pee (at that time they had cats…)…People who smell do not smell it…They are used to it…and so it does not smell bad to them. They do not realize that they are very offensive to others…That you want to open the windows or stick your head out the window…Now if he can’t take the hint …you are going to have to make a choice…or move on…Some people won’t learn or take a hint…Approach the issue…you are going to have to be BLUNT…tell it like it is…that he stinks…his clothes are dirty…and that he needs to bathe every day…shower…buy him some real shampoo or body soap…get him a back brush or sponge or loofa or whatever you think might inspire him to get with it…and refuse to go anywhere with him unless he is clean and neat…and if he does not shape up…then say Adios…and find a new guy one who loves soap and water…
I would make him…tell him he must shower and wash hsir before bed or wash the sheets and pillowcases evrery morning !
Straight up tell him ,shower with him
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Stop seeing any future with such a man
Girl he’s nasty I would not date anyone with those unsanitary habits.
Try getting him to take a shower with you? Wash each other’s hair and bodies. Get out just before him and gather up the clothes, throw them in the washer so he has no chance of putting back on dirty clothes. But seriously, talk to him. Maybe he’s going through a depressive episode and can’t bring himself to do it. & if none of that works, throw the whole dude out. He smells like a dumpster anyway
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I would just straight forward tell him how you feel but as nicely as possible. Like do you guys have sex and he doesn’t wash for days?? I hope you don’t go down there with day old crust.
CALL THE WOLFE!
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Take a shower together and wash his ass
He’s an ADULT. There’s no excuse for such filthiness. If he’s too “depressed” for basic hygiene, then you’re going to have even worse problems down the line. Please tell me you don’t sleep with his nasty, musty, crusty, poop-caked, no-shower-taking butt. I’m surprised he’s not crawling with skin infections. Girl, l’m sorry to say this but he has no respect for you, anyone else around him or himself. I’d kick him to the curb.
Oh, No shower, no sex, tell him he needs wash that junk, if he wants to get freaky
Tell pig pen to get his nasty smelling ass cleaned up or your gone for good
Callum Price is this post about you 
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He’s not going to change…
Dperession? Speak open to him.
Dean Skelton did Leone write this in about you?? Clint Millar 
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You might get an infection. Over & over with no cleaning. Disgusting
Your BF is a filthy wook, burn it with fire.
Damn I hope this story is fake
Taleisha Govic must be hard dealing with Tane Cotter habits like this. Don’t u reckon guys Dillon Pote Ben Jurkovic
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Scott Mathiske
Brendan Mathiske
What are your thoughts here
Tarsh Harrop heaven help you🤣
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Jerid Walsh get to the soap
You have to be real nasty yourself so u sexing a man with sweaty balls… u letting that dutty crutch lay on top of you … why do u have to tell a grown man to bath? I telling them on the spot they smelling go bath …
Janelle Connors has Ray got a new Mrs?
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Leoquiz Motha come read this
Dumb him. I don’t have time to babysit wether you washed your ass or not
(I can have more kids if I want to do all that)
Take a shower with him. Give him insensitive:busts_in_silhouette:
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Tell him it’s time to wash
Definate mental illness…RUN!
You really like him and see a future with him? Why? He sounds disgusting
Shaylyn R Adams I’m cryingggg dude read the post and the comments.
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Bethh Newton sort your boyfriend out xxx
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Assuming you are intimate, initiate showering together. Or communicate no nookie until he bathes. 
Or just communicate. Maybe he has some mental issues or depression. If you really like him and see a future like you say, make sure he feels the same or you’re wasting your time. 
